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Rare Confession: Help Me! I Am Pregnant For My Daughter’s Lover – Mother

I’m at a loss as to how things happen so fast these days. I had a crazy sex on cool night with a young man for just about ten minutes and the next thing I see myself pregnant. How can this happen to me? Why should I find myself in such a shameful situation? Am I the first woman to have sex with a young boy?

The thing that bothers me most is this sex machine (he’s very good) is my daughter’s boyfriend.
Right now I wish to have him all to myself. But how am going to handle my daughter is the problem. She claims they are in love with with each other but her lover couldn’t say no when I ask him to sleep with me. It was as if he wanted me more than I wanted him.

My daughter is just 21 and my age is double of hers cos I was almost 21 when I gave birth to her. Her father is gone and the responsibility of taking care of her was all mine. I gave her a good life as much as my income could carry and she’s ok.

My headache is this pregnancy. Her boyfriend didn’t know am pregnant for him and my daughter has no idea we are seeing each other. The only man in my life right now is married with wife and three kids.

I know I’ve made mistakes but I’ve read other people’s stories on Tumfweko and I felt I could get some help here that’s why am asking for help.

What is the best option for me bevause abortion is not an option?
Should I take this sweet boy from my daughter and ask her to let go since am her mother? Afterall she can get another young guy to date. Or I should give the pregnancy to the married man am dating?

But I don’t think I want to leave this sweet boy for my small girl.

 

 

 Chileya M

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187 Responses to Rare Confession: Help Me! I Am Pregnant For My Daughter’s Lover – Mother

  1. Pretty

    August 14, 2012 at 9:39 pm

    Act your age! What where you thinking?? You knew the outcome of sexual encounters – hiv infection, STI or preganancy. You know what to do….

  2. mr brown.

    August 14, 2012 at 9:40 pm

    U re insane and very selfish. U daught will not leave u to get her man.u are useless

  3. Movie lover

    August 14, 2012 at 9:44 pm

    The truth shall set you free let the bomb explode tell yo young lover the situation and let your daughter know too. It will hurt but thats the only way to find peace inside yo heart.As much as you are an embarrasment it has oredy happened.look forward shame on you for having had sex with yo son in-law to be.you have caused serious problems btn yo daughter and HIM. I only hope you will be forgiving. Again let them know.peace

  4. mambo varamba

    August 14, 2012 at 9:44 pm

    Abortion is the option. Better get rid of that foetus and stop sleeping with your daughter’s lover. What where you trying to prove? Foolish woman

  5. 1 Culture

    August 14, 2012 at 9:44 pm

    Bane how could u? This deserves some serious thinking, I will get back.

  6. anonymous

    August 14, 2012 at 9:46 pm

    the world is surely cuming to an end, wat type of mother r u? i wish yo daughter slaps u, then burns yo face then sues u and then neva cosiderz u as ha mum

  7. Cha

    August 14, 2012 at 9:49 pm

    U r a dissapointment,leave the young boy alone,y do u want to ruin him?let him enjoy his youth.

  8. the spy who loved me

    August 14, 2012 at 10:11 pm

    wena musali tune usanganu,u enjoyed alone and now u want the whole world to worry with u?! come on get a life

  9. TimZ

    August 14, 2012 at 10:13 pm

    U ‘re shameless woman. Where do get the courage 2 even seek frm such website? Madam go to hell with yo selfish motives, I ‘ve no advice to waste.

  10. Danderous Mind

    August 14, 2012 at 10:50 pm

    Ba tumfweko, this aint a true story.My advice therfore shifts to you(TUMFWEKO). Pease stop bringing Nigerian Movies on this site. we need news!!!!!!

  11. BK

    August 14, 2012 at 10:50 pm

    Mama,1-too much of anything is poison,hence there is nothing you can do just accept the mistake you made
    2-There are only two things to do,tell the young man about the pregnancy,coz if it is true,its his,and that’s his blood wether you hide or not God is aware about it.Apologise to your daughter that you mistakenly had sex with her boyfriend,anyway by the way its had but you cant run away from it.you were just too careless.Ask God and your daughter to forgive you and change for the better.

  12. DR. BEATON SICHULA

    August 14, 2012 at 11:05 pm

    IF HE IS INTERESTED IN YOU AND QUIET RESPONSIBLE LET HIM TAKE RESPONSIBILITY OF EITHER YOU WITH THE BABY OR THE BABY. TELL THE YOUNG MAN FIRST AND TOGETHER IF HE ACCEPTS YOU PLAN HOW OR WHO SHOULD TELL YOUR DAUGHTER. DOES YOUR DAUGHTER KNOW THAT YOU ARE UP? IF NOT YOU HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO TELL HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. ALL IN ALL MAKE A DECISION LOOKING AT THE FUTURE OF THAT UNBORN BABY. THE BABY MUST HAVE A FATHER UNLIKE YOUR DAUGHTER WHO GREW WITHOUT ONE.

  13. ABAKONZI

    August 14, 2012 at 11:17 pm

    I agree with Dangerous Mind this didn’t happen,rather its a concept for one of the same old story Nigerian movies.Tumfweko with the popularity U have,oneday you’ll think of having a print newspaper like The Post,Mirror etc but tell me is this the kind of news reporting we should expect in your future newspaper?Even if it comes on lifestyle,this is a waste of time

  14. Eddie

    August 14, 2012 at 11:21 pm

    You need proper councelling and your daughter and the young man must be talked too. Otherwise its a mess you need to clean up your self. The bible calls it abomination and indeed it is

  15. kakolwe

    August 15, 2012 at 12:01 am

    The final outcome is a permanent rift shall linger bttwn you & yo daughter. The boy involved shall never be yours or the girl’s. All this will happen after you talk with your girl. For the other man, you shall still be his ATM with a child. For the one you sre carrying, it shall be a constant reminder to your weak mindedness. Remember abortion is MURDER!

  16. puta

    August 15, 2012 at 2:46 am

    Fya bufi ifi bafikala batumfweko!

  17. Captain Morgan

    August 15, 2012 at 4:28 am

    Ba tumfweko,i hope this is true bafikala,foolish woman if it is,if it isnt then its indeed a foolish site ths one!!

  18. Lord farah

    August 15, 2012 at 5:18 am

    Iwe kwena banamayo aba liule! Ukutombesha akanyo kabo kumu pongoshi wabo! Ni nyele yabwanji iyi kansi? Y didnt u find a big man for yoself like randy RB noku nyengeshako as opposed 2 laying yo son in law? Makaka iwe!

  19. Candela

    August 15, 2012 at 5:42 am

    Am doubtin if its a true story..if it is, u lady is useless..hw can u be taliad by yo dota’s boyfrnd! kanyo kobe.

  20. normy ranx

    August 15, 2012 at 5:46 am

    hule iwe, hu r u o wat r going 2 advise yo daughter wen she comes crying dat her hubby has un affair with sum woman if they get married ? stupid. think b 4 act woman

  21. jb

    August 15, 2012 at 5:51 am

    No difference with a dog

  22. REAL FACTS

    August 15, 2012 at 6:17 am

    maloza

  23. LEEJEE

    August 15, 2012 at 6:25 am

    ‘DA TRUTH’S WOUNDS HEAL FASTER DAN LIE’S’
    JUST TEL DEM DA TRUTH.

  24. Mu Arab

    August 15, 2012 at 6:59 am

    If it happened u need to be stoned to death according to sharia law. Tumfweko bring real news.

  25. Drewman

    August 15, 2012 at 7:12 am

    So some morons believe this story?! Shame indeed.

  26. KGS

    August 15, 2012 at 7:28 am

    This nonsese mothers in the homes take your responsibility of these problems happening around our mother zambia.

  27. KGS

    August 15, 2012 at 7:31 am

    Its really sad news to have pregnant to your in so in law to be shameful story.

  28. YES

    August 15, 2012 at 8:23 am

    i really cant understand whats happening nowadays.o i no is this world is coming to an end.

  29. chris

    August 15, 2012 at 8:23 am

    Foolish woman live the young man for your daughter. Shameless woman, why can’t you find ichikulu chinobe. ulichipuba sana.

  30. Noreen the doc

    August 15, 2012 at 8:26 am

    i really feel for your dota you are so heartless wat a shame, jst leave the young lovers alone get some one of your age, you ought to be ashamed

  31. QUEEN

    August 15, 2012 at 8:35 am

    NONSENSE BA TUMFWEKO
    1) How can she be sure d young man is responsible wen she’ s double deeping
    2) My advice is for d daughter……run,run,run. This woman is EVIL. Now is ur boyfriend, 2morrow ur husband, mazo ur son. Run!
    3) Shame on you witch n may u die in labour coz u ve no shame n u continue sleeping wit him n call him ‘sex machine’!
    4) It is written….Evil will Slay d wicked. Shame on u!

  32. Fault Finder

    August 15, 2012 at 8:38 am

    This may not be a true story but it can happen. The fault is bringing it to Tumfweko.

  33. Rubbish

    August 15, 2012 at 8:41 am

    I lyk your imagination. You are so creative. Pls share it with your friends on facebook as a topic 4 discusion just 2 keep you busy. This is nt newz coz the story is a hoax

  34. mpopolyongo

    August 15, 2012 at 8:46 am

    Ilyahsi lyakutomba nakabili, katombeshe kuwamwana before icilifumo tacilakula ukamwebe ati eukupel. Kuti watwalilila ukutombesha kumwaice but make your daughter doesnt come to pantu akalumendo bakakatula amabolo elyo naiwe bakakupopa icela mucinyo ukalapile nokulapila.

  35. kajinta

    August 15, 2012 at 8:47 am

    if it is a real story, you woman who are hopeless and up to no good. to start with your had your daughter without a father now you want to have a grand child without a dad too….what a matrix…go to hell with your uncultured behaviour…shame shame shame

  36. innocent

    August 15, 2012 at 8:53 am

    Stupid and useless woman who does not even deserve life. Why ukutemwana ubuchende so.shetani!buluzi!shonongo!kabwa!mbuzi plus webetiketi!

  37. scorpion

    August 15, 2012 at 8:59 am

    Yaba sex ilawama mwe. the ka boyfreind starts sleeping with an old woman. yaba!!! inzuna nkani mwe

  38. Posh

    August 15, 2012 at 9:12 am

    That woman is devilish,I dnt think ha daaughter wil 4gve her,ati am going out with a married man shame on u a million tymz.Hw dare u do dat 2 ur daughter,hw cud u lt some1 u cal ur in-law c ur pathetic body,yo dota’s BF is stupid as wel.Think b4 u act promicous woman u dnt dersev 2b called a mother at all.

  39. DR.SAM SIMATE

    August 15, 2012 at 9:45 am

    WOMAN,BE STRONG TO KEEP THAT FATHERLESS CHILD ON YOUR OWN.I CALL IT FATHERLESS BECA– USE IT WONT BE FAIR FOR YOU TO GIVE THAT CHILD TO YOUR FAITHFULL BUT MARRIED MAN BECA– USE ITS NOT HIS & IT WILL BE WORSE IF YOU GAVE THE SAME CHILD TO YOUR 10 MINUTES SEX PARTNER (THE ACTUAL FATHER OF THE CHILD) BECA– USE OF THE BOND HE HAS WITH YOUR DAUGHTER.
    TIMELY WARNING…..WOMAN IF YOU WANT TO LOOSE YOUR DAUGHTER THROUGH SUICIDE IN LESS THAN THE 10 MINUTES YOU HAD SEX WITH HER BOY FRIEND,.,.GO AHEAD TO TELL HER YOUR PREDICAMENT & SNATCH HER BOY FRIEND AND YOU WILL REMEMBER MY ADVICE.SO BE BOLD,KEEP THE FATHERLESS CHILD TO SAVE LIFE AND SHAME.BRING UP THAT CHILD THE SAME WAY YOU BROUGHT UP YOUR DOTA WHO NEVER HAD SUPPORT FROM THE FATHER.MUZUHE HANDE

  40. RB

    August 15, 2012 at 9:51 am

    JB I agree with you,no difference with a dog,even if I have starved from sex for 30years I would sleep with the mother to my woman,she is my mother… Shame to you old stupid woman!

  41. JAMES

    August 15, 2012 at 9:54 am

    THE BIGGEST PROBLEM IS THAT U STIL WANT TO CONTINUE UR RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS BOY.IF U DECEDE TO BREAK OFF THEN U CAN PRETEND THE PREGNANCY IS FOR THE MARRIED MAN AND ONLY U WIL KNOW WHO THE FATHER IS.WHO KNOWS THE CHILD MAY NOT EVEN BE BORN OR THAT BOY’S LOVE AFFAIR WITH UR DAUGHTER MAY NOT LAST.BUT LEARN ONE LESSION ,NEVER SLEEP AROUND WITH PIPO CLOSE TO THOSE U KNOW OR RELATED.BUT ONE DAY THE TRUTH WILL HAVE TO COME OUT.

  42. nicola

    August 15, 2012 at 9:55 am

    contact me so that i give a good advice, when we are just two.
    so that i help that boy to make your pregnance to grow.

  43. Bwana Phiri

    August 15, 2012 at 9:57 am

    Ubu Ebupuba at its highest level. Surely Nensokoshi ( Condoms) are there then walya umwana live.

  44. lucious

    August 15, 2012 at 10:00 am

    that was so foolish of u!!!!! think b4 u act man!!!! u need GOD’s intevention nothing more nothing less bcoz on yo own u will not manage!!!!!!!!!!

  45. shimwana

    August 15, 2012 at 10:12 am

    Sick!

  46. kabs

    August 15, 2012 at 10:23 am

    this is just a myth. too much grapevine ba tumfweko

  47. Geo

    August 15, 2012 at 10:26 am

    Repent and find forgiveness from God.

  48. beatrice m

    August 15, 2012 at 10:42 am

    from your confession, one can know that you need Jesus in your life. in addition, you need deliverance whether you know it or not because you have introduced a generational curse in you family for generations to come. ask God to help you. Humans cant manage. it is an embarrassing and emotionally raking scenario. i pity you. its a lesson for everyone. Self control is a virtue.Good luck!

  49. mks4

    August 15, 2012 at 10:44 am

    This aint a true story. fuck you!

  50. Jinko

    August 15, 2012 at 12:04 pm

    Foolish