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Married Yet Masturb.ating

Dear Editor,

I would really appreciate if you could publish my story so that I can get some advice from you readers.

I am a 27yr old lady who resides in Ng’ombe compound. I’ve been married for four years now yet I have been masturbating for the last 3 years . My husband has been sick for three years now and we can’t have sex but the urge it just too much for me. I am also childless.

Please help what can I do?

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77 Responses to Married Yet Masturb.ating

  1. Aggy

    October 3, 2012 at 12:43 pm

    Counsellors please help her!

  2. Bamwine

    October 3, 2012 at 12:45 pm

    i left my bubby after discovering that he was cheating on me with another woman and that was in 2008. but have stayed a normal life and am still staying without masterbating. so my sister what’s wrong with you.just feed your mind that you can stay without sex thats all.

  3. Nyuma Ng'oma

    October 3, 2012 at 1:04 pm

    ‘For better for worse till death do us apart’ is what the bible says.what do you have in defence now.

  4. chuncha

    October 3, 2012 at 1:45 pm

    God heal yo husband 1day masturbtin is nt yo thin… u wl av sex wit yo husband soon.

  5. Janet c

    October 3, 2012 at 1:58 pm

    @ Bamwine – that is your business if you have stayed with out s**x. This woman here is clearly starved and is failing to cope! That is why she has resorted to masturbation!!! Let her also enjoy – let her find a toyboy – if she was sick do you honestly think her husband would stay without s**x for 3 years – get real!!!

  6. BREEZE

    October 3, 2012 at 2:00 pm

    Come and let me give it to you. My number 0999999999.
    Bittch.

  7. cehnbo

    October 3, 2012 at 2:12 pm

    send sms to this number i will provided free concelling. do not call

  8. cehnbo

    October 3, 2012 at 2:17 pm

    0972429329

  9. truth2

    October 3, 2012 at 2:40 pm

    call 0975876655,we try to our best

  10. kamwala

    October 3, 2012 at 2:54 pm

    Lord have mercy upon my sister i know it’s not easily to stay without sex but may the Lord deliver your husband in Jesus’s name. marriage without sex is nothing and why we get married.

  11. GO FOR CIRCUMCISSION

    October 3, 2012 at 3:05 pm

    @ janet c- did u just say “toyboy” ?? am relating it to DEFILEMENT- shade more light. To the lady your hubby will be well & u will be happy together again.Make the book of life (Bible)your best friend & u will neva thnk abt that again.

  12. am a serious PF DIE HARD.

    October 3, 2012 at 3:12 pm

    continue masturbating…not a big deal…..especially if it makes you pussy feel good.

  13. Geofrrey

    October 3, 2012 at 4:28 pm

    This is the most difficult issue one can advise. It’s really difficult. But to God everything is possible. From my human point of view, it’s tricky. I just hope and pray that God will intervene in your husband’s situation.

  14. barny wizzie

    October 3, 2012 at 5:14 pm

    stay with him my dear sister, it was stated by you that you would be with him for better for worse. God has got your back, the wrong thing u will do now imagin it was your husband doin it to you. i mean cheating.

  15. advisor

    October 3, 2012 at 6:15 pm

    stop masturbating. it z bad!!

  16. nathan

    October 3, 2012 at 7:03 pm

    life goes on

  17. Joseph

    October 3, 2012 at 10:45 pm

    Please lady i know the problem you have and i have dealt with alot of clients with the same problem. Its unfortunate that distance can not allow mw to come and see me but i can send you all the necessary material that can help you overcome your problem. Contact me on (niarjoseph@hotmail.com)

  18. sylvester daka

    October 3, 2012 at 10:54 pm

    iwe chi ‘so called breeze’ how can u call an innocent woman a bitch natuma wrong spelling twako.yo name sounds like chishupu in CHINESE LANGUAGE.if she was a BITCH,she would definately not have shared her situation.my humble plea 2 u breeze is that when u go 2the toilet,leave your BOGO there & not your senses ok! sister HIV is real,hold on,yo husband will be ok soon jst believe

  19. sylvester daka

    October 3, 2012 at 10:57 pm

    iwe chi ‘so called breeze’ how can u call an innocent woman a bitch natuma wrong spelling twako.yo name sounds like chishupu in CHINESE LANGUAGE.if she was a BITCH,she would definately not have shared her situation.my humble plea 2 u breeze is that when u go 2the toilet,leave your BOGO there & not your senses ok!

  20. NGOMA ..ITEZHI-TEZHI

    October 4, 2012 at 6:48 am

    Very difficult situation ,but tell your mind off abaut sex as for now so that the devil can not use for other sin, play hard and beleive GOD nothing impossible to him

  21. Nicola

    October 4, 2012 at 9:50 am

    get my number i will help and sutisfy you. 0978 599304.

  22. THAT IS THE WAY

    October 4, 2012 at 11:09 am

    SAD SITUATION. ITS A TRYING MOMENT AM SHURE

  23. BED SITTERS

    October 4, 2012 at 11:56 am

    Ndeloleshafye

  24. valentine

    October 4, 2012 at 12:35 pm

    Its a very dificult situation my dear sister but i have nothing much to say.I will simply use the exact words that my guy sylvester daka has used for both breeze and you.God bless

  25. BryD

    October 4, 2012 at 7:57 pm

    Too bad lady. But what you and your husband need is deliverance.Please see one of the TRUE servant of God for this. Your husband needs to be delivered from that sickness and you need to be delivered from that bondage for you to enjoy life and marriage.may the Lord help and deliver you through His mercy.

  26. BrainiaC

    October 5, 2012 at 2:50 pm

    i really recommend you for even staying that long. you are really a dream wife to that man, i hope and pray that he is going to appreciate you one day. but masturbation is not wrong as long as you are not imagining some one else. And hope that when your husband is well again, he will bed you so well to reach point that you reach when you masturbate, because if he won’t then you will resort to that again and now that won’t be good.. but the advise i can give you is please pray to God to make you strong, and also to quicken your husbands recovery.

  27. joyce

    October 11, 2012 at 4:50 pm

    be prayerful my sister so that you be able to control your feeling its not you wish ,its just the situation you come across.pray foregiveness