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I Don’t Know Why My Booty Attracts Media Attention
I POST a little revealing picture on Instagram and my ‘booty’ is on the front pages on a Monday morning; Jesus, there are better things to talk about, says Iris Kaingu.
And Iris says she intends to join active politics once she acquires her masters’ degree.
Speaking to Radio Phoenix presenter, Luchi during a talk show yesterday, Iris said she does not understand why her body attracts so much media attention.
“Well, the thing is I post maybe a little bit revealing; I mostly post pictures on my Instagram and that’s my private page with my private friends, so I consider it very rude for someone to take my picture and publicise it in a negative way. I mean, we all go to the beach, we all go out to the club, we all go where we have a good social life.
I’m just a person just like everyone else who has a social life, so I consider it very hypocritical where you take somebody’s picture and put it on to The Post newspaper or the Times or whatever media it is and say something negative,” she said.
Iris on the left With DJ Roxy
“For example, that Dubai picture and well, my booty was on the front page on a Monday morning. I mean there are better things to talk about, Jesus! How many things are happening in Zambia that people could talk about? But then I figured, probably it’s just people being people and hating so…”
Iris said she always ‘blows people out of the water’ when she walks into a room.
“Most of the time (when I walk into a room full of people), it’s mixed feelings and I hear that people judge me before they can know me and the first thing you see when you walk into a room is ‘Oh my God, it’s her, it’s her’ and you see people poking each other but in an excited way. So that gives me a challenge to say ‘let me blow them out of the water’, and I usually do,” she said.
Iris said she felt bad about the fact that she was the only one prosecuted when she had made the video with her boyfriend.
“The police claimed that they didn’t find him in this little controversy. I think they might have just lost his address or something. When I think about it now, I am glad that we were not joint in that little thing. At the time it was happening, I thought ‘why is it just me? There was a second person’. But I realised that he has just faded into oblivion and I have this stage you know, after the rain has fallen, the thunder has gone, I am still me and I feel like I am very privileged to have a large social media following and too many people want to be in my business,” Iris said.
She narrated that her stint in prison was sad and she would wish to help prisoners.
“The first cause which I want to do in charity work is to help prisoners, prison welfare, as a person who has been to prison. I feel that they are just human beings like us and their only right that is supposed to be taken away from them is the right to freedom,” Iris said.
She further advised young people to desist from recording themselves while having sex because it was supposed to be private.
“I would say that, well, no matter how many times you can say to someone, people tend to do whatever it is they want to do but I would like to show myself as an example as to what could happen if something like that landed in the wrong hands and I would say that they should not record themselves having sex, I guess? These things are meant to be private and even my own privacy has been taken away from me so much that I feel that’s not the way I intended it to happen,” she said.
Meanwhile, the education minister’s daughter said she would like to join active politics after school.
“And in three years’ time, I will be 27, gosh! And I hope that by then, I would have finished my masters career, which I am doing right now and fully plunge myself into politics,” she said.
Iris was condemned when she, together with her unidentified college boyfriend, produced a sex video which was leaked and led to her expulsion from the Zambia Centre for Accountancy Studies.
The 24-year-old was convicted by magistrate Prince Mwiinga and fined K10,000 for the obscene video, a judgement which some critics said was not harsh enough.
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str8life
July 31, 2015 at 9:31 am
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July 31, 2015 at 8:05 am
Quoting…Repressed Homosexuality By Debra Sutton
Repressed Homosexuality can lead to abuse when a gay man targets and marries a straight woman. The gay husband suffers from shame, denial, and repression of his true sexual identity. Most gay men who marry will never admit they are gay. Repression can lead to impotence with women. You may find yourself in therapy, marriage counseling, and your husband is having his testosterone levels checked. It is common for closeted gay husbands to suffer from guilt and self loathing, as his same-sex attractions continue. They are angry and resentful. You will never be able to do anything right in their eyes. You are confused. You tried to help as they suffer from depression,alcoholism, or both. The doctor changes or adjusts their antidepressants. Nothing works. They may have legal problems due to alcohol and drugs, this leads to more depression. The wife will also start to suffer from depression. Her psychiatrist will prescribe antidepressants and maybe some tranquilizers. Her confusion continues as she tries to make sense of this marriage. The women who marry these men are the most giving, and forgiving women. They have the biggest hearts.
These men who hate themselves, have nothing to offer in this fraudulent marriage. The wife becomes the target of all of his anger. My gay ex told me I was the closest one to him. He told me this is why I was on the receiving end of his anger, Lucky me! He lacks empathy, because he is so full of his own pain. He simply does not have room to care for you. He will intentionally cause you pain, he also seems to take some pleasure in this. This is because he resents you. His fear and shame prevent him from living an authentic life. He feels pressure to appear straight, what he feels the norms of society expects, this is why he marries. There is more to this, something in his core is disgusted by what he is. He is not comfortable in his own skin. He grows to resent the marriage. He wants to be free after many years of denying his true self. These men move on so easily after the marriage ends. They may have feelings for you like a friend or family member, but they were never in love with you. They feel relief when the marriage ends. The wife did not know her husband is gay, she was in love with her husband. She wanted her marriage to work. She is devastated.
The wife of a closeted gay husband goes through so much to put her life back together after the marriage ends. Many of these women suffer from post traumatic stress disorder. She blames herself for not knowing, and for the abuse she put up with. She thinks something is wrong with her. She has been stripped to the core by a gay man who never loved her. She feels used. She cannot trust her own judgment, or anyone for that matter. Her emotions and sexual feelings shut down, and she wonders if they will ever return. Sadly these men have told their wives, they are crazy. They have been gas-lighting their wives for years, in an attempt to throw her off the trail of truth. Many women find out by accident
abakali bakaliReply
July 31, 2015 at 7:38 am
Quoting…Repressed Homosexuality By Debra Sutton
They find gay p o r n on the computer, or receive a strange phone call, or text message. The gay husband will blame the wife, or the children. If he is caught red-handed, he will only admit to what you know. He will say he never acted on his same-sex attraction. He was just curious. These gay/straight marriages become sexless. The closeted gay husband has been actively seeking sex with men throughout the marriage. As he ages it becomes harder and harder for him to deny his same-sex attraction. The gay husband wants, needs, and craves a man. He needs this connection that you his wife cannot give him. While the wife shuts down sexually, the gay husband never denied himself sex with men. Some gay husbands may admit to being gay, or bisexual after being caught, only to take it back later, or deny ever saying this in the first place. It can take many years for the closeted gay husband to come to terms with his sexuality. Some never do. They use the fact they are married to a woman, or have children to tell themselves they cannot be gay.
Tim
Works both ways- the husband of a repressed lesbian goes through the exact same emotional trauma. I know, I am one. And I’m not alone. Visit the Straight Spouse Network for more information.
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Debra S.
Tim you were married forty years? I know how devastating this is. I know you have been through a lot of pain. It is hard moving on when you have spent so much of your life with this person. Then realizing you never really knew them. It is so devastating. These marriages are so destructive to the straight spouse. Soul Shattering.
Tim
No Debra, I was married for 30 at discovery. My wife, though, had these “intense emotional relationships” starting at age 13. It w a s n ’ t until she was 54, when I asked her if she was a repressed lesbian based on some of her more eggregious recent actions, that she recognized that she had a SSA. How someone could live and not know for over 40 years is beyond me. She had 5 of these relationships by age 30, but they all lasted two years or less. This one has been going on for more than five years. That’s why, for the first time in my life, I started therapy. That and the folks from SSN saved my sanity and put me on a road to doing for me. My therapist, without ever meeting my wife, figured her out after one session. And it’s that understanding, along with the support from other people in the same situation, that has brought me back from the brink.
Shaka Zulu
July 31, 2015 at 10:59 am
Iwe chikala this is not a place for posting pamphlets. Make your comments brief.
chiliis
July 31, 2015 at 12:32 pm
Cacine .Fishi alelandapo. I cant understand him rubish. posting.
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 9:05 pm
nafuma mukutamba porn yakwa iris, ici mwaice ici chalikwata iyikalamba sana pizda!!!
nato
August 1, 2015 at 12:59 pm
mwalandako ne chi russian kabili , na tumwishiba
str8life
July 31, 2015 at 9:32 am
[…] Repressed Homosexuality By Debra Sutton. […]
Dear …,
….. I do understand completely. I’ve been divorced 3 years now. It does take time to heal from the shock of it all. I was married 22 years, he suddenly wanted out of our marriage to go find himself he said. He told his mother he was not in love with me. The next thing I knew I was on a plane leaving my home and all my belongings behind. I was not given the time I needed to get my belongings. Once I got to my home state. we were still talking on the phone, when I heard he made sexual advances to a man I know. When I questioned him he broke all contact with me. Of course I had other reasons to know he is gay, one being the gay p o rn I found on the computer. When he made sexual advances to the man I know I just w as n ’ t able to deny it anymore as much as I did not want to believe it. Judy I am 59 years old and I know it’s not easy starting over at our age, but we can do this. Take all the time you need to grieve there is no time limit. I know family does not always understand. I’m glad you are part of the straight spouse network. I do believe therapy will help you too. The grief can get so bad at times it feels like it gets worse instead of better, just know that with each passing day it is a step forward. I read about the stages of grief this helped me know where I was in the healing and recovery process. I want to offer you hope in knowing that it does get better.
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July 31, 2015 at 8:19 am
Signs of a Gay Husband is based on real life events describing closeted gay husband behaviors. The book covers anger, abuse, and deception in marriages.
-Paperback- May 22, 2015
Amano
July 31, 2015 at 2:49 pm
Thanks for sharing this but sorry about your experience. This will some of us to understand why some guys are just angry with the world. It’s difficult for a man in our country to admit to being gay but there are many out there who are pretending to be straight. How i wish we could stop discriminating against these people.
imibinde
July 31, 2015 at 9:46 am
I dress like I d o n t give a rat’s ass about clothes, but only because I d o n t give a rat’s ass about clothes.
Beautiful Moma
July 31, 2015 at 9:58 am
Iwe Kunda, you are the one posting these long comments. When some of us try to post even just one liners, we are blocked. Wabepuli mukutwi ala.
Shaka Zulu
July 31, 2015 at 10:56 am
Are you relly a moma or a disguised monk?
Telemundo
July 31, 2015 at 11:50 am
I wanted to ask the same bcoz that language is not feminine
Onyx power @vampiro
July 31, 2015 at 3:38 pm
Kikikiki live my @moma alone. It’s only me who understands him better. By the way where is @liyah.
Beautiful Moma
July 31, 2015 at 5:33 pm
Shaka, you are free to decide. You sound very feminine yourself.
Sorry ladies for the late reply. I was waxing myself. I hope you do the same,the hot season is upon us.
One UPND
July 31, 2015 at 10:07 am
@ str8life, ever wonder why you gays are in the closet in the first place? Keep your gay crap to yourself and keep in in the closet.
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 10:08 am
Iris, is that your wonder? Then you are dull!!! Yours in the only Zambian booty that has been seen stretched & pounded by a Zambian d!ck. Funny though, your mouth looks better sucking d!ck than it looks in the pic!
Judge Joe Bidden
July 31, 2015 at 4:27 pm
Hmnnnnn imi ponto! If she appeared in your room pa hotel kuti bwaima in 2 seconds! 10 minutes later you will be whispering yes baby in her ears.
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 6:57 pm
Whispering in her ears As her mouth does what?
Judge Joe Bidden
July 31, 2015 at 7:57 pm
The mouth would have just arrived from down south!
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 9:20 pm
I get the drift! Man!
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 8:37 pm
chi iris, wabe itole chikala. get out of here, we shall get an aboriginee australian ukukunyenga mumatwi!!!
Fuseki, but unfortunately you might be right about becoming a politician. zambians are foolish, they will vote for such mediocrity in large numbers!!!
major chileshe
July 31, 2015 at 10:16 am
Mmmmm 24? U look 30,atishani ba iris ok mulebasuma nomba teti ndyepo naine zoona?
Shaka Zulu
July 31, 2015 at 11:23 am
True ichimwaice ichi cilamoneka bwino.Imagine the two of you in a dimlit room fondling.Kulaponyafye ifilulenda bakalamba.
Beautiful Moma
July 31, 2015 at 5:39 pm
You should have continued posting as “JAY JAY” just like on L.T. I really liked your avatar, a box head. That was creative.
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 8:41 pm
iwe chi moma, its not just a box head. thats tweeterbell from the brown hornet squad. if you watched fat albert, you would understand.
Beautiful Moma
July 31, 2015 at 9:00 pm
Iwe Kakolwe the second, I didn’t like fat Albert. I liked Sheira get out. Fat Albert was meant for you and shaka.
Beautiful Moma
July 31, 2015 at 9:03 pm
Kakolwe, Shaka knows which box head am referring to. No need to correct me.
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 9:10 pm
moma walasemuka nomba. tutu aleisa nomba line. iwe, so waletamba shera ifyama lesbian lesbian instead of black power cartoons. it explains alot.
Beautiful Moma
July 31, 2015 at 9:21 pm
Kakolwe you pervert. Come and eat mine like peaches. Kalale. Ichimutwe.
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 9:28 pm
Eat yours, naaah am not gay mdala. Ifwe tulya indofu noti ubukala!!!!!
kakolwe
July 31, 2015 at 9:37 pm
anyway kalaleni ba moma, ifwe tatulala, twalisamba pa nyika shaku bangweulu.
Israeli
July 31, 2015 at 10:22 am
U attract attention coz. as a dota of cabinet minister u NT suppose to live such a loose life with no bit of morality.ur style sucks
KABASO
July 31, 2015 at 10:40 am
IRIS I will tell you this:
1) Cut down on hydroquinone, it is too much my dear. You may end falling in the ditch of Cancer of the skin.
2) Yes, you can join politics because in Zambia politics is for dull and immoral guys such as GBM, Dora Silia, your father etc… So, go join them
3) Stop thinking too much about yourself my dear. You are not beautiful. You are just too immoral and decayed.
4) Why do you look 30 than the purported 24 years of age? I am just wondering!!!
Control Tower
July 31, 2015 at 7:18 pm
@KABASO, what is your problem? Are you the righteous few in Zambia? If you have never sinned cast the first stone!
Judge Joe Bidden
July 31, 2015 at 8:00 pm
Oh I posted a comment for him 5 hrs ago it failed. Yes Kabaso has issues He should just accept he can’t have her.
watchman
July 31, 2015 at 10:50 am
Akanyo kobe twalikamwene pa video.
Shi Mwana
July 31, 2015 at 11:12 am
Ok ulya cikala alikabomfeshe akanyo aka mwee!
Oscar Pistorius
July 31, 2015 at 11:25 am
Infact ichinyo not akanyo, bulya ubukala bwali bukalamba sana. Obviously nomba chalidinsimuka, elyo chifunyafye amenshi. Koma ifwe, TIGHHT & DRY.
J. CHiiiKALI!
July 31, 2015 at 11:47 am
Ba iris. K, the Sex Blander has made u Recognised so tone down a bit on social media and posting, the First pic U look gud and big like sme1 in late20s, the 2nd yo dj has med u look cheap IoI in Conclusion your Body is better than yo Face, in yo bikny display u look nice and sexy…masters elyo kabili politics a game of evry standard Rich, poor, drunkard, confused, tokativ etc. Plan for somthing coz wit Politics u wil completly Lose yo Privacy – Takwaba iyo @ bikini ninshi Camera yili mupepi-ask yo father!
Stany Kayuka
July 31, 2015 at 11:47 am
leave my baby alone
charity tengeleko
July 31, 2015 at 12:15 pm
damn u buger daugter of wizard
sambman
July 31, 2015 at 12:53 pm
Iris id love to myanga your malepe, lick your kobolyo and drink up your pu*s*y juices. Bafikala bonse hating on her munyenga ifinyo ifinunka uluche, mulekeni umwaiche…fwebambi tulafwaya ukutombako.
Ndine
July 31, 2015 at 12:56 pm
Radio Phoenix should not have called such a person to a radio talk. The whole talk was full of childish laughter. Next they will call armed robbers and rapists. Glorifying wrong doers I guess.
Common Man
July 31, 2015 at 1:28 pm
I just wonder why waste precious time on this Lady called Iris.What shes engulfed in is not much different from what is prevailing in our communities,moral decay has take over most of our youth and its time we tackled the root causes holistically.
John kabengele
July 31, 2015 at 1:56 pm
She will also have 2 husbands, his father has 2 wives, uko , what a family, join politics and will bring out these pictures again
Judge Joe Bidden
July 31, 2015 at 4:33 pm
Her father not his father naiwe.
ha
July 31, 2015 at 1:56 pm
Mwebantu pls stop ukutukana
Foloko
July 31, 2015 at 2:08 pm
Guys you can insult.somebody can tell me is this the platform for insults?
Ghetto
July 31, 2015 at 2:11 pm
B.o.o.ty B.o.o.ty balange beshibe.
Good Guy
July 31, 2015 at 2:46 pm
Theres no privacy for u now iris,we ve already seen wat was hidden.Why re u even complaining? That guy even spared u,if u wnt a hardcore one give a holla,,,kuno tabangasha.Kwendela kumaboko.If u understand wat am sayin?!
muntu
July 31, 2015 at 2:47 pm
Going to club or wat ever doesn’t mean u must b naked this, there so main pipo who usually go clubbing but y u alone reported badly ask yourself nd answer urself using bible
Good Guy
July 31, 2015 at 2:48 pm
Yuk iris.Thats why fye abasuma bwafya.
St. Sweet Anus
July 31, 2015 at 2:54 pm
Okay Iris, let me confess- ninyengeko?
Famous idiot!...
July 31, 2015 at 3:06 pm
Okay lris walenga ubwamba bwandi bwatampa ukutunta nemishipa shafuma. Mwamoneni shilekufwaila ulubi.
Clarence
July 31, 2015 at 3:41 pm
It is not fair that Iris is being demonized, she did not do anything out of this world. she must be left alone.
The Spartacus
July 31, 2015 at 4:00 pm
Iris u ar a disgrace to yo family mwaiche.. Just reflect on th shame yo had put yo father thru, one wud not even imagin u to start smearing yo stinking rotten shit to innocent people..there ar alot of children born frm rich families, beautiful well educated en not atumasambilo twakupisha uto musambila en u even start bragging they ar well behaved tabatwala ifinyo fyabo pabwelu..just recently yo father was humiliated by some prostitutes when he tried to give advice on some cultural dance in schools all bcoz of u.. Elo walishuka sana ichibwamba cha kwa Bob tachakwata amaka kuti nakulepule icinyo mwaiche nganinebo fo two days uleikalafye muli salt na ice..
pastor
July 31, 2015 at 6:56 pm
guyz do nt insult hell is real.i wil pray 4 her she has got a demon so,jst help hr in prayers.may da lord forgve those who insult.
Famous idiot!...
July 31, 2015 at 7:12 pm
Umuntu litako.
club zero
July 31, 2015 at 8:19 pm
Oh no sinifuna nakulanga
mujuku
July 31, 2015 at 8:34 pm
Cipuba ici sex before marriage is sin ninshi utombesha everyday?
Shi ali
July 31, 2015 at 9:41 pm
It atracts dere atention bcoz u r a disgrace 2 our culture nd de media wil continue capturin ur stupidness & foolishness nd ur dulness,,,ndaba ayo nima rubbish!!!!!!!!!!
Nikambeko
July 31, 2015 at 10:37 pm
@Pastor you are right. Iris needs prayers. May God deliver her.
pj
July 31, 2015 at 11:20 pm
iliche
mb
August 1, 2015 at 1:46 am
Lawyers advise iris that the constitution doesn’t allow ex convicts to be public servants
Big one
August 1, 2015 at 5:46 am
No insults bane
Memphis Shew
August 1, 2015 at 6:04 am
Wow! It’s breathtaking worth, no wonder you attract so much attention – beauty! From this pic I see a worth following figure, you’re beautiful in looks and maybe not in acts, the more reason why….
jabi
August 1, 2015 at 6:14 am
Uyu mwaiche abamo nemputi batini?mmm kuti wapondoka pa nganda pamulandu wakulya iris ka!
SCAW
August 1, 2015 at 8:05 am
iris go to church
Hello Haters
August 1, 2015 at 8:10 am
Whose’s daughter is this? She looks familiar, is she not that ZCAS porn actor and sh is wondering why so much interest in her when everyone has seen her sex video, they get so excited because they finally have seen the girl who was been hammered in that video, very dull creature indeed.
Ferrari
August 1, 2015 at 8:49 am
Get a life loser!!
Famous idiot!...
August 1, 2015 at 8:56 am
Anyone with the video? I need to see that booty in action.
Bright Wabune
August 1, 2015 at 6:07 pm
Just Google Zambia iris kaingu o
Porn
Zinalibwanji
August 1, 2015 at 10:29 am
What a Monthly Bleeding Mammal-I.R.I.S.
Amake Mwana
August 1, 2015 at 10:47 am
This girl is too horny for her own liking. I think she needs more than one man to help her find what she is looking for.
real african
August 1, 2015 at 12:38 pm
Take a look at Lerato Mbele before you consider this lousy piece of meat
Hello Haters
August 1, 2015 at 8:40 pm
Damn, this fella @Ferrari is so so upset, well boy go get ya gyrating porn p.u.s.s.y she all yours, like i care, after all there is 4 billion plus females on planet earth, umodzi gelo atuteke infine that’s a big NO.
Felix
August 1, 2015 at 9:16 pm
#ok iris go nd meet boby he will tell u what to do.
chipota chipya
August 1, 2015 at 10:26 pm
Am told there is a linear relationship between the size of the mouth and the Ntweno. Looking at IRIS, I can only wonder. How I wished this relationship was for the brain size. At least IRIS would have had morals and manners. What a waste!!
Sikiza
August 2, 2015 at 5:22 pm
She has vry big and long pipe of vagina very hot