I Slept With My Best Friend’s Boyfriend!

Luapula womanDear Readers,
I have this best friend I absolutely can’t do without and share everything with her, but now a secret that I have kept from her is bothering me so much that I have lost my sleep over it! I met her boyfriend at a party and we sort of hung out together that night, but unfortunately we ended up in bed and now I don’t know how to break the news to my friend.
Though her boyfriend and I haven’t got in touch after that embarrassing night, it’s absolutely killing me. Please tell me how I break this news to my bestie?

30 Responses to "I Slept With My Best Friend’s Boyfriend!"

  1. js   August 29, 2015 at 11:56 am

    both u and the so called boyfriend ar fools and betrayers.tel her the truth bcoz the bible says the truth shall set u free.put yoself in her shoes.hw wud you feel? u need serious delivrnce.

  2. Jony Tony   August 29, 2015 at 12:04 pm

    Breaking the news will blow the situation you will not handle. Keeping quiet and leaving him for your friend would eventually solve the problem. Especially when you find yours. Remember to be born again.

    • BBC   August 29, 2015 at 7:49 pm

      GREAT TEACHING, SHE IS THE JUST THE GIRL FRIEND. THE BEST IS TO BECOME BORN AGAIN. GREAT ONE YOU ARE JONY TONY

  3. cooj   August 29, 2015 at 12:04 pm

    iyo mulimbwa the two of you. Bushe ninsuna yashani mwaumfwile?

  4. tutu   August 29, 2015 at 12:21 pm

    u ended up in bed 2getha,so w@? u wer jst in bed 2getha tautwebele ngakwali umutombelo..anyway ngakwali umutombelo jst continue with umutombelo,m sure the guy wud like d@,infact u shud suggest 2 him if u cn ave a 3some includin yr best friend..it’s evry guys fantasy ukutomba bestie wa gelo!! lucky bastard realising his fantasies!!!

  5. pato   August 29, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    tell your boyfriend first before telling your bestie

  6. benard mofya   August 29, 2015 at 12:53 pm

    Its gud dat u’ve realised yo mistakes,de same corouge u had 4 u 2 pst dis on public,u shud use de same 1 2 her.

  7. Liyah   August 29, 2015 at 1:29 pm

    Ehya!!! Sad my fwend, brk t bt ts gona prty hurt m telln u nd ya frndshp cn brk 4gud *only God cn rsto t*. Indeed cursed b a man who puts his trust n another, thts y I love evrybody buh I dnt trust ny1 nd only Jesus is my bestfrnd.

  8. caleb   August 29, 2015 at 1:47 pm

    repent and forget otherwise it happenes.their are not in marriage,stop waisting your time by worrying.it was very nice. he can be yours my dear,noy until that day

  9. Lol   August 29, 2015 at 4:03 pm

    Mukashana iwe niwe njoka how can you do that to your friend sure? Anyway Zambians are like that kukunyengela nabalumebobe.

  10. kakolwe   August 29, 2015 at 4:12 pm

    Walemuminina fye amate, cilya akubyala ati we ended up in bed. The boy is a drinking cinangwa while you, you are a plucking b!tch whose heat period never ends. Make yourself busy and ‘end up in bed’ with the next available dik.

  11. Chief of Grief   August 29, 2015 at 4:23 pm

    iwe naiwe just kip yo mouth shut n let the gud times roll.!and mo ovr those two dim wits aint maried,shino inshiku shakutombanafye nokuponokwa,so just kip on sharin that d!ck,who evr wants out is at librty,weh hule lyakantu.

  12. Kape   August 29, 2015 at 4:24 pm

    Mayo iwe change yo ways & stop 4nication, its a sin b4 mariage. Icindike. Thankyou.

  13. SANKS DIVISION   August 29, 2015 at 4:36 pm

    They are not married. U cud be the best btwn two of yu. U can get married if the guy has liked u. It happens even in families.

  14. chile1   August 29, 2015 at 5:22 pm

    Iwe what r u goin to solve by tellin em? Weshilu we,jus cm to me naine ndetombapo

  15. Easy p   August 29, 2015 at 5:50 pm

    Even if u spit it out it won’t change a thing. Some things are better sorted out by keeping quite

  16. redlinso   August 29, 2015 at 6:29 pm

    Just continue it appears you are e joying your selves o wonder you cant keep it to your seft

  17. Bryd   August 29, 2015 at 6:41 pm

    Sad that u did that but pliz u beta kep it to yrself, dot unfold it 2 her it wil jst part u. i knw w@ u fel though u r being condemd by many. jst pray 2 God 4 fogivenes.
    Wish u the best in yr lyf and let not that bring disgrace on u.

  18. MKK   August 29, 2015 at 7:19 pm

    I can sense danger that you enjoyed sex with the guy and no wonder you want to disturb your friend by trying to separate them through informing him what has happen between the two of you. Your intention is to grab him from her. Even if you won’t tell her, the highest possibilities are that you will continue having sex with him in secret since you have already started. You sound to be dangerous in your story. Why and how did you decide to be the two of you, sneaking your friend? The fact remains that you cannot be trusted and I wonder if she is the best friend as you have put it. I can just describe you as you destroyer with no morals. However, if you are sincere enough, your realisation of what you did is punishment enough and what is needed is to say sorry to self and avoid the incident not to happen again. Try to save the relationship of your friend, and never, never be a snatch of your best friend’s sweetness. I hope your intention is not to inform her so that you can him since he did well and you enjoyed it such you have failed to forget about it doing it with other men. Is it the best act in your life? There are other men out there in this society who can do it in all angles and sides even better him.

  19. Clarence   August 29, 2015 at 7:42 pm

    There is no problem, you did not plan it, just forget about it.

  20. kasnini   August 29, 2015 at 7:51 pm

    musula obe stiopeti,repent your sins

  21. BBC   August 29, 2015 at 7:52 pm

    THAT IS THE OUT COME OF PARTIES WITH SAVANNA, CASTLE NAKA MOSI

  22. redlinso   August 29, 2015 at 8:28 pm

    Just you enjoyed period no wonder you can not forget about it its still ringing in your ma rotten head stupid Idiot

  23. Nana politics   August 30, 2015 at 2:22 am

    Alitemwa ukumutomba umukashana uyu kuti walala nomunankwe wakwa boyfriend obe. Ni sex yashani aumfwile. Imagine this new drug ” viagra” for women (sexual enhancement) uyu mukashana ekesha ukulanwa

  24. gwamo   August 30, 2015 at 8:38 am

    by complaining on this media with your picture published you have exposed your stupid deeds.
    how else do you want to be advised?

  25. katoto   August 30, 2015 at 12:09 pm

    You are her worst enemy! Waumfwa.

  26. The Spartacus   August 31, 2015 at 12:48 am

    Out of confusion she wants to take advantage of th situation by running to th same man crying seeking attention. Out of pity th man wil again shaggy her..amaule nibakabwalala sana..

  27. JASON NYIRENDA   August 31, 2015 at 8:37 am

    Yesterday I slept with my wife’s best friend

    • New Educated Zambia©❤√   August 31, 2015 at 11:50 am

      You fool hope u used protection

  28. sambman   August 31, 2015 at 11:31 am

    Just tell her ati boyi nalikutombela umwaume, simple! who knows she might even suggest a 3some