Dear Readers,
I recently got to know that my sister is dating my ex-husband, who I divorced almost two years ago. The fact that my sister was throughout with me during the course of our divorce and even supported me is now pricking me. I fear that both of them were secretly dating each other even before we got divorced. Now, I don’t know how to deal with this as they both are also interested in getting married.Please what do I do?
THE MAN IS NO MO URS LEAVE THEM AND FIND UR OWN MAN THAX.
Iwe naiwe ala!Wat caused the devorce?How do u xpect us 2 help,wat if u were to blame & yo sistr saw the weakspot in u & dcided up her game!Y,r u jealous?From my analysis walechinga umulume wobe ukulyapo & yo sis was wilin to xtend a helpin hand & yes u r ryt kale baleyitomba abo babili,so my advice to u is LET’EM BE!Mov on,there’s a bunch of horny niggaz like me out there & o u gats to do is let us INN……if u knw wat i mean.
you already divorced him, move on…..
U n yo Sr ar different,
he may b bad to u bt gud to yo Sr..
Let her go on since ure divorced.why jelas wen u kno he’s yo ex.
Muntu wandi mulangefye nkashi obe kalya walemutombeshapo umulume obe akabunany’ani bunany’ani nankwe tafyako kole ninshi mwaba nomba 50 50.
He was no good to u but he good to ur sister
Talk to your Sister and let her know your feelings about it. If possible involve elders from your Church or family.
If she sees no wrong let her be.
It is the bitter pill to swallow i feel for u. Move on with ur life.dnt. hate ur sister to the waste extent. Fwe baume tatwiikuta no matter how!
Dear Lady, the fact that you and this man are divorced is a sure sign that , you need to move on. Otherwise, you will not be happy. If your sister is the cause of the divorce, then she will pay for her deeds. But try to do your part in loving her regardless, even though its going to be hard and pain full. I advice that you should not bring her close if you have another man. Surrender her and the pain she caused you to God and he will heal you as well as direct you.
Ba tumfweko, ban shorthand here….especially that written in capital letters! Do people learn anything in school nowadays??
It is very sad about the situation since you have been divorced two years ago forget about your marriage ended after you divorced your husband unless you are telling us that you still want to go back to your husband ,my dear forget.
@kachana banda,good advise. my sister this is bad and I know exactly how you feel these young ones pretend a lot in such issues that’s why it’s not too good to trust anyone.am sure they were dating behind yo back and I think she even contributed to your divorce.let them get married you will see that she will never be happy.try to accept it and move on,.
GK mulamu mulamu, aziba kuinaya
Sister we uli soka. Never trust those sisters and so called cousins they can grab your man.
My take is, possibly your sister just liked your ex-Husband as a mulamu genuinely, but when you decided to divorce that doesnt mean all your family members needed to divorce him too, this happens even in relationships, your sister possibly started to fall in love with him from a simple date or meeting they had, and wonder what on earth were you thinking to throw away this good man. Actually, if they marry it wont take long because they already know each other, nothing you can do if they love each other – its life just support her though hard.
Judge Joe Bidden, you speak as though you peeked in my past life. I was in a serious relationship with this lady. All her family treated me as a prince charming. When we parted & she got married to a man they thought was mean, the younger sister threw herself at me as beautiful as she was. My conscious could Not allow me to go beyond the 1st kiss. We are still friends.
@kakolwe I have been there my friend I talked from experience but with me I slept with my “former sister inlaw” she genuinely loved me as a brother in law (not in marriage) we were so close had fun even when I went out with her sister after end of relationship us continued as friends… on day ….
I meant one day….
Yesterday!
Walilyakale.
Ayo malabishi ukalwala bp chikashana move on
Unapwalala my dear,time for you is over.akachili khufuna mufamili yanu.
Get Kaizer to shoot your sister urgently
IF You can remember very wel why you dvosed him……You hve zero rigts to be jelous.
but you stil sound like you stil LOVE your Xman.
As for your stranded IDIOT sister..its sad how dsperat your story & sista sounds..foget her.
Now pick your fallen pieces & open a new episode of your LIFE..You stil got enagh LIFE left in you…..you are better than you think.GUDluck
Hei My sister you said you have already divorced your so called EX so just move on leave your sister to see what you saw and what pain you went through it wont last on that I can assure you 100% any children with your EX if yes the children wont accept her as there mother period!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! move on my sister life is too short thank you
God bless you
Sad indeed, mov on buh ya sis sure is a snake too. Let thm b,smtymz we v no power to contro ctain thngs but jus leav t fo God coz onc God is nvolvd uelse is nvolvd dznt matter. May God c u thru
SAD BUT MOVE ON
Sorry. Your Ex-Hubby hasn’t have a free young brother whom you can also fall in love.
U made a Mistak y divorce and regret, forget, it was ur wish 4get ur man
From point of view your sister she is wicked and she has no respect for your feelings becuz if she insist on maryin that man i thnk that maried wont be prove to the entire family member cause that is totaly unxepteble situation