Dear readers,
I met a girl after my graduation in 2013, but then she wasn’t working, we met and started dating. Two months to our relationship she got a job and has being supporting me financially because am still yet to get a job.
She rented an apartment for me and even furnished it, she pays all my bills, including feeding and clothing me. But all she wants in return is to get married to me.
The thing is, we are age mates. I don’t think it’s wife for me to marry a girl that’s my age mate just because she has been helping me… I’m confused!
From a male reader.
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Mr man..its not because she is your age mate, its because you have enjoyed everything with her and seem not to have anything to look forward to…You are selfish becoz you v known from the word go that a lady cannot go to such lengths if not marriage….STOP…enjoying her things and be MAN enough and face your troubles…even ladies…you cant buy love…
Uletasha swine
Stupid, what has the age to do with it? If you are in love with her like she does you wouldnt be saying am confused. Just be a man, you seem to be just a parasite and a player who is likely to dump her for another host who you can go suck nutrients from. My advice, age aside and marry her, if you are age-mates was her vagina rejecting yours all along? If not where is the age coming in if both have been having sex without the age being an issue?
ala ulitole pushi !
Uliimbwaaahh.renting an apartment for you buying tissue washinda.buying food akupangila amafi..then u say age.glow up kolwe.most women r parasites ,you find a supportive one,umwana wafundwa naiwe fonyonyo fonyonyo.stop being an idiot.I feel like slapping you pwele
Most bloggers above have weird grey matter!This parasite of a man is not interested in this stupid dull woman!Marriage is for life & not for jokers or parasites.The literature in the article is so simple & straight forward,no jargon involved,the bottom line is that this parasite of a man does not love this stupid dull woman,you can not pretend to love someone,not in marriage,never!its just the economic mayhems that he’s keeping in touch with her,wait he gets a job,this stupid dull woman will get her shocker of her life!
Age ain’t nothing but a number. Why go to such lengths and get confused now? If can she do all the things you’ve mentioned then can comfortably say she sees a husband in you. Otherwise your relationship would have been history by now. In she can love when you’re broke then in all conditions. Grow up!
Marry her chikala ndekulepula umusula stayoko.
Well spoken “The Civilised Sam.”
After wadya then ukane?
Mukwatile aftero nivozivunila.
I feel like kicking your mouth. You said that you were dating, and now you are talking of age. what type of a pest are you? You are the type of men that make some women hate men. Return everything and refund her. You upcoming satanist.
Wewe pumbafu saana. Demu anakununulia chakula ana lipa nyumba ana kupa nachakula bila kumwambiya umupendi ungemwambiya mara yakwanze angepata jama mwingine ume muchukulia muda na vitu nakumwambia kwamba nimkubwa kwako auna akili utamukumbuka
Did Fall In Luv Or On Her Money
Idiot, the time u had her pants down didn’t u know that she is ur age mate?? Marry her swine!! And learn to appreciate ba guy!!!
kope noko kanshi
Some guys are married to women older than them.You have a lovely future wife in her. But I see promiscuity in you Guy through your level of thinking about age difference after being looked after so well. Think twice my dear
you are being very unfair to the woman. All along you saw where it was leading to but did not object to all the things she has been doing for you. You are very selfish.
She did all those things because you showed her that you loved and cared for her and yet deep down your heart, you were saying that she will regret one day.
You are being very unfair to her.You might bring a curse against yourself.
Go to a man of God you respect and explain the situation because some of these things are spiritual.
You man! you are just scared of responsibility and forever you will be irresponsible, grow up!
empty article can do better
These guys are already married only that he doesn’t know that.parents of the woman let the guy pay ifilefwakwa. He already knows what married people do.
ULI CHIPUBA CHI MAN.BUZY EATING HER MONEY BUT TAULEFWAYA MARRIAGE.U ARE A SELFISH IDIOT.LEAVE HER HER NOW THAN WASTE HER TIME.
U ARE A FOOL.U ARE ENJOYING THE LADY’S MONEY AND BODY,YET U SAY AS YOUR AGEMATE SHE IS TOO OLD FOR U?MANY MEN HAVE MARRIED OLDER WOMEN OUT OF LOVE,SO LEAVE HER ALONE FOR A MAN WHO WILL LOVE HER FOR WHO SHE IS NOT FOR WHAT SHE IS.
IWE CHIKALA NIWEBO MARIO U SPEND HER MONEY,YOU F@@K HER,AND YOU SAY SHE IS YOUR AGEMATE. YOU ARE AN ID!OT. AND IF YOU LEAVE HER GOD WILL PUNISH YOU FOREVER YOU WILL NEVER MARRY.
Wabe bolo
You are too selfish and u will never find happiness ,nkandile
@ nez wat has pf got to do with theis artcle. Its a sign u are scared of pf,u re the only one who has mentione pf here.insoni e buntu.
Id!ot! Why are you accepting her money if you just want to use her? To the girl, you are also an id!ot. When a woman sponsors a man, desperation is written all over her face. They are a lot of single men out there who are ready to love you and look after you financially. Why are you stuck to this cimbwi no plan like a tick?
The Man Is Just Okey To Ask For Advice It Easy To Break A Relationship Not Marreage,he Is Just Fond Of Her Thy Have Not Been Darting,u Cant Marry Coz Somebody Buy A,b,c,d And Pay Rent No, It Must Be Total Pure Love With Conviction Not Out Of Infactution.Marrege It Until Death Parts U Compony The Man Serious About This Business
Sody Loved A Girl Some Much, Even His Mother Loved This Girl So Much, Such That The Mans Mother Sucrificed Her Heart, For Heart Tranplant When The Girl Had Heart Problem And The Mans Mother Died, Upon Geting Better The Girl Met A Gentlman She Loved So Much But Was Out The Country For Some Time, The Gud Samarity Was Left Coz She Had To Go For Her Love, Nothing Can Buy True Its God Given.
Lies mukwai although she is desperate teifi.
y do some pipo turn to bring in silly excuses, afta waistng someone’s tme, resources n energy. wat has age to do here? my friend just marry this woman n be hapy together. n u NEZ, u sound intelligent bt the problem z u politisize everythng. ths makes me wonder.
I have never seen a dull person like NEZ. Does it mean when one is Upnd the brain stops functioning.
NEZ..!mpeni UPN nt D y do u always blame the goverment wen matters rise of ths kind..does it mean ur party cn cater all ths mess out hapenin!