By Pst Hamlet Mwanza
I know the girl code says no secrets but you should understand that there are certain things about your relationship you shouldn’t discuss with friends, but only to your marriage counselors.
1. QUALITY OF SEX
Never ever tell your friends about the quality of sex you get from your husband. It’s never okay and it could cause problems for you. If you tell your friends how good your husband is, they might want to have a piece of him and if you tell them how bad he is, they might mock him. Play safe, avoid discussing the quality of sex you get with your friends.
2. HIS ERRORS
Never discuss his errors and past mistakes with friends. Do you really think your husband would be okay with it if he finds out? If you want your friends to value and respect your husband, don’t discuss his errors with your friends.
3. HIS POOR FINANCES
Some women share this information with friends and it’s really wrong. Discussing his poor financial state with your friends makes him look incompetent.
4. HIS NASTY HABITS
Maybe you find his nasty habits annoying but discussing it with friends doesn’t solve the problem but you instead embarrass your husband among your friends. Help him overcome the nasty habit instead of announcing it to the world.
When you have a misunderstanding with your husband, work it out together. It’s your relationship and not a public relationship where every friend get to know about every argument you have with your husband. Discussing your misunderstandings with your friends would make them have less respect for your husband as they only get to hear your side of the story.