My Daughter-In-Law Instigates My Son Against Me

My Daughter-In-Law Instigates My Son Against Me

Question: My son recently got married to his longtime girlfriend. We had no problem with their relationship and everything was fine until marriage. But things have drastically changed now. My son has started ignoring me and even argues with me in front of her even for the smallest matter. They go out for dinner and movies, and […]

I Kissed My brother-In-Law And I Don’t Know If I Should Stay With My Husband Any Longer. Please Help!

I Kissed My brother-In-Law And I Don’t Know If I Should Stay With My Husband Any Longer. Please Help!

Question: I am a 32-year-old married woman. I can say there is an emotional distance between me and my husband. Although we have been married for three years, I am losing affection for him. After my marriage, I became friends with my younger brother-in-law and we share a good chemistry because we have many common interests. I have even […]

My Father Blames Me For My Mother’s Extramarital Affair

My Father Blames Me For My Mother’s Extramarital Affair

Question: I am a 23-year-old student and live with my mother in Lusaka. She is having an extramarital affair with her workmate since last year. My father lives abroad and comes to Zambia only twice in a year to visit us. Since the time my father knew about this affair, he is blaming me for supporting her in going around […]

My Husband Made Love To Me 5 Times Before Going For Work & After Work But Denied Responsibility For My Pregnancy

My Husband Made Love To Me 5 Times Before Going For Work & After Work But Denied Responsibility For My Pregnancy

A woman testified that her husband made love five times before going for work and after work but denied responsibility for her pregnancy. This is in a case in which Anna Chisha, 28, of Soweto compound sued her husband, Mathews Chisha, 35, a tailor of Zingalume compound for reconciliation after separating for six months. However, […]

Girlfriend Wins Praise Over Love Making Syles

Girlfriend Wins Praise Over Love Making Syles

A HOUSEWIFE testified that she overheard her husband telling his girlfriend on phone that she dances well in bed when making love unlike her who just sleeps like a log. This is in a case in which Charity Chikwanda, 20, of Kanyama compound sued her husband, Sebastian Chisaka, 28, for divorce. The two got married […]

How Do I Avoid An Extra Marital Affair

How Do I Avoid An Extra Marital Affair

I am married and have a daughter. I am working  and my relationship with my husband has not been good since the very beginning. But we stay with each other for the sake of our daughter. We do not want her to suffer because of our differences. Recently in my office, I bumped into a […]

I Slept With My Boss. How Should I Deal With This?

I Slept With My Boss. How Should I Deal With This?

Question: I am a 26-year-old woman working with a reputed company in Lusaka. A couple of months ago, I went for the company offsite meeting and had a sexual encounter with my boss. Now, I don’t want to take this further, but he seems interested. I don’t want to lose my job or put my reputation at stake, how […]