
According to ezmmagazine sources close to Dambisas fiance and his family members have come out and said that they are not pleased about her career and lifestyle as a musican now that she is engaged and they want her to stop and start doing something else.
The magazine earlier reported that Dambisa the young Diva had gotten engaged to her longtime boyfriend Chanda Brian Mulenga, a Multichoice dude and who publicly proposed to her at Manda Hill Centre.
The Magazine further reports that the family only came out about their dislikes of her career and

lifestyle when actually Dambisa and her fiancee have been dating for three years and have a kid together.
i dnt see y she cnt sing jus coz shes getn married,,she can continue but maybe keep it clean and decent and he can be her manager to protect her..the industry sure has some dirrrty minded pipo..also try to select gigs tht wnt interfere with her duties as a wife so much…the family will hav to compromise and undersatand jus a lil bit.then again its her choice to make..between the two loves of her life..music and man..nobody said life will be fair.hope she finds a way to hav both
its amazing how this has been turned into an engish lesson forum..lol.yaba..seriously get a life
I hope she realises that she is throwing her life away and the same in-laws will make her unhappy and control her life. she will wish she never got married.
I hope she realises that she is throwing her life away.
LOVE IS BTWEEN DAMBISA AND THE GUY WATS WRONG WITH HA SINGING ISSUE WEN THAT MAN WAS PROPOSING AM SURE HE KNEW WAT DAMBISA IS DOING SO PLIZ MWEBA PONGOSHI NAMA INLAWS BALEKENI ABANA U WILL BE THE SAME PIPO WHO WILL BE ON HA WITH DAT ISSUE ATI ITS MY SONS HO– USE AND MY BROTHERS HO– USE AWEMWANDI DAMBISA DONT LISTEN TO YO INLAWS UNLESS KULI FIMBI INE NAKANA COZ AM AMARRIED WOMAN AND KNOWS WAT INLAWS DO WEN A WIFE ISNT DOING ANYTHING IF DATS THE CASE BFORE SHE STOPS LET THEM FIND HA WAT TO DO NOT TO MAKE HA STAY HOME AWE NAKANA
Leave her alone! Just why does society still think they should still dictate to someone about the to-do & donts just cause she is getting married? She is an adult, a career woman & responsible.
The family is being stupid, they should have advised their silly child to stop seeing dambisa before things got to this stage, so if you want her to stop doing what she has identified as a source of income for her livelihood then tell you stupid boy to back off, these tuma boys are tuma playboys and any time he can decide to leave her, then what next. back off you useless in-lwas.
Multichoic dude my ass, useless womaniser grow up you pimp.
Mwe ma in laws, ibwelenimofye. Kukanwa. Dambisa is a pretty woman and you cannot just come out 2day and say she should do away with her career. Come on gal, lets do this. Kaduka Chain……
she shud get a man from w/p. pipo from that part of zzambia are civilized. they dont interfere.
fyabupuba ifyo bain law balebosa
for sure you are a diva,your inlaws are really old fashioned,do they know that you make a living out of your music?do what you do best girl and forget about them.your ka boyfriend even pretending to give you a ka cheap ring in public?to hell with him.
the inlaws knew she was a musician, why didnt they discourage their son before they had a child together, why noy? they are the same ones who, if she listens to them and decides to quit, they will be the first ones to make her life a living hell, my advice is that stick to what you do best
I would side with the inlaws.nowonder society is in ths pain its because we think parents are “outdadated” to advise us on matters that concern our so-called hearts.f**k us all coz we are doomed!!i strongly believe there are other more decent and lucrative proffesions other than being a celebrity that would suit a married person.can you all open up your eyes and see the wisdom in the inlaws.perhaps they have seen more sunrises than most of us.think outside the box!!
hahahahahaaa, you guys can always find something to say against someone. I only hope someone here isn’t jeolouse of Dambisa’s fiance…
Girl, that is your career, marriage can end, but you will keep on singing. Your inlaws should mind they own business.
Continue singing the bugger will leave u and he will destroy your future.keep on singing sweetheart no one to tell u what to do
Remember that no one gets in a family tie while planning to divorce. Sometimes shit happens along the way. However, we r not wishing u bad but r merely expressing our views since Tumfweko has asked for public comment. Think about this carefully. By the way, u r a gifted singer Dambisa. What if the Kaduka Chain does not get mended? lol
is yhis wen they r kwn dat u r a musician?y dint they say so b4 u gt engagd?ur carer is mre important.
my child hood friend chanda words of advice no hard feelings though they is nothing wrong for her to sing but if she is singinging gospel then why not but if she is singing circular music then ill advice her to stop look at sister d and miko zulu they are both married and singers at the same time so tell yr relatives to back of what if she becomes a chef and works at a hotel are going to stop her especially she starts nocking of late due to shifts mwana think twice about it.
Get your facts right Mukmo,this boy has no child with this woman.I wonder, whether she knows the father of her child. This is one very good reason, I support the in- laws.
screw her inlaws she has a life to live and no ones gonna stop her !!!!!!!!! do yo thang coz u rock zed muzik
sometymz our parent contribute to da brokage of our relationships and not all parents build.so basiyeni bazi-onele chikondi nibabili.
MARRIAGE IS FOR TWO,YOU & HUBBY,THAT IS Y THE TWO OF YOU ARE LEAVING YO PARENTS HO– USE.IN LAWS STOP MENDING IN YOUR CHILDREN’S MARRIAGES.AS ZAMBIAN WOMAN WE ARE SICK N TIRED OF IT.COS SOON YOU LL FIGHTING FOR MONEY SAYING KATANI,KANLIMULISHA,KATWALAFWE ULUPYA KU CHANAKASHI.LET THE WOMAN MAKE MONEY TO HELP HER HUSBBY.GOD GAVE THAT DUTY TO A WOMAN AND GAVE HER A SINGLING TALENT.
I knw that chap from DK ! he f*cks whateva moves on two legs even chickens !
my friend,music is a gift from God himself and i believe that even king David himself,a servant of God used to sing even after marriage so am just wondering why your in-laws wants you to stop using the gift that God gave you as a tool in order for you to be raising funds for survival.mwa kulalya echupo????