Most guys are not shy about letting a woman know when they’re ready for action. But men tell us all the time that there are few things hotter than a woman who initiates a hookup. So, learn to read his in-the-mood signals (in some cases, before he even realizes it), with the help of Janine Driver, author of You Say More Than You Think, and beat him to the punch.

He gets an “eye erection.”
His pupils dilate, making the black part of the eye go from small to larger, something that happens when arousal spikes.

He hooks his thumbs in his belt loops.
It’s an attempt to highlight the crotchal region and get you thinking about his junk.

He touches his nose a lot.
Unless he has a cold, this could be a sign since the Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine recently reported that the nerves in a guy’s nose and his erectile tissue are linked.

He speaks more deeply than usual.
A 2010 study found that people lower the pitch of their voice when they’re turned on.

He cups or rubs your shoulder.
This is often a subconscious simulation of grabbing some tata.

He goes in for a hug and rests his hands low on your back.

It may not feel sexual, but if he lingers just above your ass, he could be craving, well, ass.

He bites his lower lip and shakes his head.
Dudes who do this when they’re talking to you may be feeling frisky.


76 Responses to "7 SIGNS Men Want To HAVE SEX"

  1. chakaka   January 22, 2012 at 12:39 pm

    No cultural context of this trash! It does apply to most zambian men; maybe for lesbians.

  2. Mkv   January 22, 2012 at 2:57 pm

    hmmm! ifintu fimo?

  3. Yvvie   January 22, 2012 at 5:23 pm

    atase, ma rubbish! you’re just encouraging immorality & spread of hiv. i hav neva seen ba tumfweko encouraging abstinence or safe sex yet most articles are about sex! yashani???

  4. Big Chilolo   January 22, 2012 at 6:45 pm

    @Misty ice,nice contribution mfetu Why do some people expose their ignorance like this? They want to criticize everything, mixing stuff with God.I can’t agree wth u more. Good topic for our women readers.@Kweena ee,your comments are appreciated.

  5. Youngest DJ   January 22, 2012 at 8:49 pm

    Ma rabbit.

  6. akaputi   January 22, 2012 at 9:39 pm

    y ar som idiots agains some articles,busy blamin tumfweko.dont opn da aticle f u c ts rubish,bt dare u ar buzy comentin.stop readin da article f nt intrested,no wonder u ar ****ed up.@ kwena ee! Nic coment lyk t.let me read yoz again u wil c..swinez

  7. slim rick   January 22, 2012 at 10:15 pm

    our ladies learn 4rm tht plz dnt zjst say u knw it all.

  8. Misty ice   January 23, 2012 at 12:24 am

    @big chilolo awe they are over doing it mfetu,why read and show off your dullness on the net surely guys be for real! Article didn’t specify whethr its for the married or not but there are these dirty minds filling in the blanks and besides immorality is a personal decision and has nothing to do with tumfeko please.
    @akaputi tell them please!!!!!! I’ll help you.

  9. Kim   January 23, 2012 at 12:50 am

    thats not necessary with me

  10. Kim   January 23, 2012 at 12:52 am

    isa apa tuku nyenge

  11. RKO   January 23, 2012 at 7:37 am

    atase…fwabufi ifi naiwe ka tunfweko. why touch yo stupid nose if you feel high?

  12. SLD   January 23, 2012 at 9:57 am

    There’s only one sign: He breathes

  13. sadi   January 23, 2012 at 10:30 am

    Eye contact says it all for both men and women.

  14. UMUNTU   January 23, 2012 at 10:35 am

    What madness is this batufweko.This is crazy bafikala both a guy and girl when its time.Not this BULLSHIT.

  15. mbuli   January 23, 2012 at 10:41 am

    signs ar thr bt tekulolela.ngayaisa yaisa kuti wasansa na panshi

  16. Phebby Chiwama SA   January 23, 2012 at 10:47 am

    hahahaha 7 signs doesn’t work when you are married why should i feel shy he is my husband ngatulefwaya ukutombana kulandafye.
    @Misty ice,well said some of you bastards who are complaining about this article why can’t you read other things you IDIOTS their other things you can read stop complaining you waste sinners

  17. staying longer   January 23, 2012 at 12:24 pm

    Abena phebby, tell me the secret i should adopt if i mean to stay longer on fucking a woman because us release fast.may be i just miss the tactics.help coz my woman complains unsatisfaction

  18. SEGULA GIGO!!!!   January 23, 2012 at 12:30 pm


  19. Mungelie...   January 23, 2012 at 1:44 pm

    Kwena ee yo wordz tachd me! I wish most guys thot lyk u!

  20. joinmwa   January 23, 2012 at 2:21 pm

    madness,are running out news ,sodoma and gomora is now here.

  21. satanist   June 18, 2012 at 10:53 am

    these findings are boza

  22. cute   June 19, 2012 at 1:06 pm

    Ba tumfweko please write someting educative not ifyama rubbish ifi

  23. john the best cook   June 19, 2012 at 1:13 pm


  24. Tajel   July 12, 2012 at 4:23 pm

    If i want a shag its just to tell ma woman that i want some chapwa y should i start tapping her ass or biting ma lower lip like a bitch….

  25. doyo   July 23, 2012 at 12:38 pm


  26. hakainde   August 3, 2012 at 10:09 pm