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7 SIGNS Men Want To HAVE SEX
Most guys are not shy about letting a woman know when they’re ready for action. But men tell us all the time that there are few things hotter than a woman who initiates a hookup. So, learn to read his in-the-mood signals (in some cases, before he even realizes it), with the help of Janine Driver, author of You Say More Than You Think, and beat him to the punch.
He gets an “eye erection.”
His pupils dilate, making the black part of the eye go from small to larger, something that happens when arousal spikes.
He hooks his thumbs in his belt loops.
It’s an attempt to highlight the crotchal region and get you thinking about his junk.
He touches his nose a lot.
Unless he has a cold, this could be a sign since the Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine recently reported that the nerves in a guy’s nose and his erectile tissue are linked.
He speaks more deeply than usual.
A 2010 study found that people lower the pitch of their voice when they’re turned on.
He cups or rubs your shoulder.
This is often a subconscious simulation of grabbing some tata.
He goes in for a hug and rests his hands low on your back.
It may not feel sexual, but if he lingers just above your ass, he could be craving, well, ass.
He bites his lower lip and shakes his head.
Dudes who do this when they’re talking to you may be feeling frisky.
Cosmopolitan
Posted by Editor
on January 21, 2012. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
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Cycle Sid
January 21, 2012 at 9:34 am
Crazy stuff out here…lol
Fifty85
January 21, 2012 at 9:37 am
e boomu nyc info
Rude bwoy
January 21, 2012 at 9:40 am
Non of the above is applicable 2 me. I jst cry wen am aroused.
Pussy hater
January 21, 2012 at 9:41 am
I only do 1 thng among th thngs u ve mentioned..kutomba gelo
conman
January 21, 2012 at 9:41 am
you are over by one sign. ive counted eight. but anyway that aside the ninth sign is that suddenly the man starts farting. it is a way of oiling the assss if the couple is gay,
da15
January 21, 2012 at 9:43 am
thts all about men ka.wat abt women
the virus
January 21, 2012 at 9:54 am
si vinthu…
Tamanga 101
January 21, 2012 at 10:00 am
Why waste yo tym making all thoz gestures wen u cn jst start 4rm smootching then to shaging thn wastn tym.
Pimp$lim
January 21, 2012 at 10:16 am
Bullshhhh
GUN.
January 21, 2012 at 10:20 am
Tell me about women because they’re few in Zed who can openly say, `Baby come we fuck’.
Isa kuno
January 21, 2012 at 10:23 am
Why waste my time, i just start masturbating
ONETIME RELOADED
January 21, 2012 at 10:28 am
is it true..ayii janet c.
Pinegar
January 21, 2012 at 10:31 am
This is kids’ corner.
Shameless
January 21, 2012 at 10:46 am
Who needs the signs when men can use their mouths to ask for sex. Give us signs for women because they are the ones who are shy to ask. Also, to make the guys know when to ask.
Men are never out of the mood.
munzi kubotu
January 21, 2012 at 10:48 am
this is nonsense just throw her on the bed and start….
GUN.
January 21, 2012 at 10:50 am
Kids corner for sure,tafilembele na home work but bize bize na intnet.
Profi
January 21, 2012 at 10:58 am
Stiff dik!
Unknown
January 21, 2012 at 11:04 am
U jst tll da girl dat “namvela nyele ati shani kaili”
bana m
January 21, 2012 at 11:43 am
Lol.. Finshi efi.. Kids corner 4 real.. Which mature man has tyme to lick hs lip?
Sulphur
January 21, 2012 at 11:45 am
Tumfweko,dn’t fight with God fight the devil or you’re devil yoself.Preachers speaks against immorality,you’re teaching immorality.Evrytime is sexual and sexual scandal stories,ah! Kids try to learn Gods way.
Chipubachandi
January 21, 2012 at 11:46 am
Fyabasungu ifi. Bamene bamabendelelana monga kiti na khoswe kuyopa milandu. Mange ife ikayaka ya yaka kaili, gelo ati shani. Ya balansa kaili…. eyaaaa! Noti kusebelesana monga tubana.
I did her
January 21, 2012 at 12:05 pm
Wat a borin sign,4 me i start wth a kiss,finger da nxt tin i jst finds its inside,nt nefyo
Me
January 21, 2012 at 12:13 pm
This is Tomba stone university.You’all having Tomba lectures here.
avatar roku
January 21, 2012 at 12:38 pm
awe dats nt tym wastin. Dats wat i cal da art of seduction. Its sad dat sum pipo think its tym wastin dats y ther z no passion n dat burnin fire in most relationships. Women lyk men who ar vry seductiv. I enjoy makin luv mor than havn sex. Its gud my girl z turnd on by em signalz
tefyo
January 21, 2012 at 12:54 pm
@ conman, you’re disgusting. yukk!
staying longer
January 21, 2012 at 12:57 pm
Whats the secret to staying longer on top of a woman.some woman has invited me to screw her this afternoon,am scared she might demand for too many rounds.
Zebige
January 21, 2012 at 1:47 pm
Here is my passord : Seduce her with eye contact,Slowly stroke here hair and then proceed to kiss here on the neck then mouth while hands continue doing the work.Feeeling here all over.If her breathing changes continue and slowly put your hands in her panties.If she is wet high time to remove it.Then kapu ready for action.You can never go wrong with this.
Zebige
January 21, 2012 at 1:49 pm
Here is my passord : Seduce her with eye contact,Slowly stroke her hair and then proceed to kiss her on the neck then mouth while hands continue doing the work.Feeeling her all over.If her breathing changes continue and slowly put your hands in her panties.If she is wet high time to remove it.Then kapu ready for action.You can never go wrong with this.
Ma pipe
January 21, 2012 at 2:37 pm
Why go through all that trouble.me i just kiss & start shaging.that way john stil has power for round two.
TK
January 21, 2012 at 2:52 pm
I think there is alot to publish than talking about sex always.
i know it all
January 21, 2012 at 2:54 pm
am learning
Smilling assasin
January 21, 2012 at 3:43 pm
To all ma ladies out there, not o da info there is acurate… So, dnt b mislead. Nywe, if its sex, myb it is coz making love is a whole difrent story…
bola bolz
January 21, 2012 at 4:49 pm
tha routine will hav u embarassed especially ngamuli babili elyo naumona umubili…tha hooker will tell u ‘ninshi mulelola ba brother’
TCM
January 21, 2012 at 5:02 pm
Tell the poeple the seven sings for them to know that they are very far from god.
tontekapo
January 21, 2012 at 5:07 pm
jazo is a process best dictated kumwine uule palamba inkeche…ask dollar, will tell ‘just touch the stinking bumz and start live bullets…NO TIME WASTERS, erections are on 20/9
TM
January 21, 2012 at 5:23 pm
Y doin al dat wen i cn tel her 2 suck my dick.
Failure Kalusha
January 21, 2012 at 6:25 pm
Useless stuff
immortal
January 21, 2012 at 6:32 pm
pure rubbish article get real life stuff retards….
Ghost User
January 21, 2012 at 6:45 pm
Very unreal crappy article! Get real news not junk
akasusunya bushe nimputi
January 21, 2012 at 8:10 pm
Ifyo fyama hule,that staff is 4 one night stand chabe.a real Niggas dont do shit ,n that shit don’t apply to zed ladys gtfoh
Mpopo yapa zed
January 21, 2012 at 9:53 pm
You all tomba and get tombwad.
Kwena ee!
January 21, 2012 at 10:10 pm
From some of the comments here, you can see there are a lot of kids here who are yet to gain experience although they are already indulging. Kids who are yet to learn that there’s a difference between having sex and making love. For those of you experienced grown ups who think this is kid stuff, remember, others are learning something, from the article, and useful contributions like those of Zebige and avator roku.
It’s small wonder that a woman/girl will go to someone who will treat her with respect and consideration! Love her and don’t make her feel used!
@ munzi kubotu: Ati just throw her on the bed and start! Is she an object? Sounds more like rape!
@ unknown: ati nanvela nyele, shani kaili! Bushe chimbusu cha kunyelamo, where you just go and shit when you want to? Be subtle
@ ma pipe: For whose benefit is round 2, yours or hers? Ngati wamunyaula paka kumapeto there’ll be no need for round 2, and she’ll lie in your arms completely content! If she wants round 2 it could be a sign you fell short!
@ bola bolz: the routine is for a special woman, not a hooker! A hooker is on duty and does not care about all that, she does not mix business with pleasure and touch touching is just making her lose time to accommodate more clients!
While the aim of the article is not clear,(is it a warning to women to run when they see these signs and they are not prepared to indulge?), the fact that some individuals think it’s just a matter of shoving it in depicts the magnitude of ignorance in the art of making love. If your woman means something to you, make love to her – not sex, romance her, be considerate and endevour to satisfy her as well, not just yourself.
Complicated! Yes, it should, it’s for real men! Vabakulu ni vabakulu!
Mesha
January 22, 2012 at 2:46 am
@ Kwena ee! Great contribution. Thanks!!!
mwangala
January 22, 2012 at 5:35 am
I now want a man in my bed.
cshooderry
January 22, 2012 at 6:32 am
Bbwe!bbwe! bututufye nobupuba. Bushe nimu cinema tafibomba.
Gaddafi
January 22, 2012 at 8:41 am
Some crazy stuff going on here…
SEX & MAKING LOVE.
Yep therez romancin whn makin love.. Nomba 7 signs yena useless…
Remember pipo are diffrnt..when am hungry i jst kip quiete nomba sum pips will look as if they’ve bin beaten.
SEX… Ni I ve 70 pin cn I…
Yes lets go..
Here ! Chucku chuku !!
Munene
January 22, 2012 at 9:15 am
Ok gud article its gud to learn for those who not married wait for you time if not use a condom AIDS is real. Let us all involved basa
Misty ice
January 22, 2012 at 10:46 am
lol!!!! kwena ee you are a true gentleman! and for you people busy bringing christianity into this ,first I wonder who told you sex is immoral when you are doing it with the right person and second I hope you are virgins not just critisizing coz u think u know the bible! 3rd what the hell are you doing reading through this if u think its immoral! dirty minded chaps! sha!
Zimbolo
January 22, 2012 at 11:48 am
twakulile ku mushi ifwe 7 signs na banani, kumweba fye ati nabwima chapwa wayambapo pa last walombako na ya kumbuyo
Kasoka Kaipombe Kalyabantu
January 22, 2012 at 11:52 am
Imwe bantu ilyashi lya ntyonkola busuma lyakukati. There is no starring kubanakashi. sometimes you win some times you loose. The shyness or boldness in a man will dictate his behavior around the woman. Shy guys are found to be the waste rapists. Surely you are two and fail to make the other party aware that you need intyonkola busuma.Hahahahahahaha bafikala using sign language kwati ni bachibulu. Gelo noikata na line.