Most guys just don’t realize how important that first kiss is to woman. Well, this should give you an idea: When you kiss a woman for the first time, she decides right then and there if she ever wants to kiss you again. Use these 10 tips to be sure you always leave her begging for more.
10. Do it in private
Privacy is key. A big mistake that too many guys make is going for a kiss in the wrong situation. Women want that first kiss to be special, and they’d prefer to share the moment with you and you alone. So if you’re out somewhere social and you feel like the time is right, take her to a back room or, even better, to a completely different, more personal location.
9. Know when to pull out
There’s no better way to let her know that you’re a catch than by being the first to call it quits. Most guys go for the gold on the first kiss… and they rarely end up getting it. By being the one to slow down, you’ll show her that you’re in control… and most importantly, you’ll leave her dying for more.
8. Feel her out
When you feel the moment is right, reach over and touch her hair while you’re talking and make a comment about it. Say, “Your hair looks so soft,” and lightly touch the tips of it. If she smiles, reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time shift your glance between her lips and her eyes a couple of times. If she lets you keep touching her hair, you know that she’s ready to be kissed.
7. Be a tease
News flash: There’s nothing that women love more than to be teased, so let her know who’s in control by driving her crazy with your lips. Go in like you’re going to kiss her, then at the very last second, pull away and flash her a mischievous grin. Use this sparingly to keep her turned on and on her toes.
6. Ease into it
Still feeling a little nervous about going in for the kill? Ease into it by leaning in and smelling her neck. Take a big sniff and say, “Mmm… you smell good.” Then slowly brush your nose and cheek along hers as you pull your head back to make eye contact with her. When your eyes lock, close them and go for it.
5. Show some passion
Every woman longs to be ravished, so why not make her fantasy come true? As you’re kissing her, reach back behind her and pull her head back by gently grabbing the hair right above her neck. Slowly kiss your way down her neck and give her a playful bite, then pull back slightly and breathe heavily on her neck and in her ear. Make sure your pants are securely fastened, because at this point she’ll be trying her hardest to take them off!
4. ip her down
If the mood is right, add some sensuality and chivalry to your first kiss by gently dipping her down, ballroom-style. There’s no better way to make her feel like she’s with a powerful and confident man. Do it right, and she’ll never forget the moment.
3. Use your hands
Women love to be caressed, especially while they’re being kissed. Starting above her ear, run your fingers through her hair, down to her neck and all the way down her back. Then slowly slide your hand back up again. Use both hands, and alternate between using your whole hand and just the tips of your fingers to give her an experience she won’t soon forget.
2. Spice it up
Once initial contact has been made, spice it up a bit with some variety. Move from short, soft kisses into longer, deeper ones, then back again… and don’t use your tongue any more than she does. Change the angle by moving your head to the other side, and alternate between sucking on her lower and upper lip. Be sure to stop to breathe after every few kisses. These little moves will let her know that you know exactly what you’re doing.
1. Explore her body
When you’re ready to really turn up the heat, kiss her on her neck and move your lips slowly up to her earlobes and give a light nibble. Don’t be surprised when she starts breathing heavily.
ivillage
MEN Reveal Their TOP Kissing TIPS added by on
View all posts by →
Pwa hahhhaahahahaha
Ba tumfweko. Anyway have learnt something n have started right now as I will be following the steps.
imwe bafikala batuyeko teku nyenga uko muletutwala tukambe ukupela amafumo mukasunga abana ba swine mwaba pamputi
??????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mmm hehehe i felt as tho it was hapening 4 real whilest reading ayi. Ths 1 ni dwn, washomba wa loba. Y’all dnt even think of pontaling ati ths aint news afta all u’v saved the page lyk i did lol 4 future use when i meet that special lady
Ine nobwamba apa bwaima. I miss my ex who used to get horny in less than a minute when I kiss her neck while stroking her ass.
Foreplay and kissing in particular is overrated!!
Bwaima nomba ine.
Sum of these things come natural no need 4 this article.pa last u’ll get get aroused….twapapapa ubuchende bwafula plizzzzzz!!!!!!how any r we goin sleep with?macopolo fulu na standing?awe this article lacks…mwalaleka nabaupa bambe ukufwaya first kiss else where.no more sin,no more sin,no more!!!!!
@Kasambilisha lol! Ine naumfwa ZESCO apa so nomba. All I want buchende so.
Malabishi batufweko
BA TUMFWEKO right now am from doing what u are teaching piople na nyenga sana lelo na chila tombela ukwipaya apo tunyenga pashala pink not red nine mutomba pamozi.
Iam 13 yrs to where after this data? Nowonder men of these days have chronic flue, kutemwa fwa ku myAanga myanga.. .
Thanks Tumfweko. You really made me laugh. i was all sulky after manutd lost to liverfool but after this cracker of a joke, i actually feel great. my chick is visiting tomorrow so i will memorize these steps tonight. or maybe a should print this out and will be reading as i am putting your advice into practice
mudode gelo afta reading this article.ubwamba bufikepo
Thanks Tumfweko. You really made me laugh. i was all sulky after manutd lost to liverfool but after this cracker of a joke, i actually feel great. my chick is visiting tomorrow so i will memorize these steps tonight. or maybe a should print this out and will be reading as i am putting your advice into practice. by the way, no way am i dipping my fingers into that greasy hair, so thanks for nothing
Too much heavy language here guys wats up?
mufule umulye
Mini siketi ya ya mini siketi yaya! Ehe, muzibelengako. Chifukwa imwe benangu mu chaya mukombwe still. Kufikira cabe kugenamo mwayenda no yenda. Na gelo amafuna kumvera bwino, kuyaka na eve!
Lero ni weekend, chenjerani! No mabvumo!
I meant “mukombwe style”
That advice kind of makes sense.. ill try it out.
hmmmh, nkalani che pa last muzaluma mwana wabene. just do what already turns her on.
haha ati your hair looks soft. pwekekeke. this is africa. what soft hair?
elo ati run your fingaz thru her hair. Piece of advise – NEVER EVER DO THAT! African gurls do not like their hair to be disturbed. They put in alot just fr t to look a certain standard. Pa last your fingers will get caught up in her weave & that’s very VERY embarassing, a real turn off actually. If u want just pat it pamwamba & pay a compliment.
Some ladies nolonger wait,they will see the mood and if there is privacy before you do all that she will be allover you till you say relax girl…i need a condom or no tomba.
first nkaseve ka page
thanks ba tumfweko hope many guys have read this one..i wz once kissed by a guy who was using his tongue only no lips..it was so disgusting i neva want to c him again..& abale pontela article m sure ur the worst kisses
Kissing is time wasting and leads to loose of b/ness. As long as you have cash go for it straight away.
After taking Chibuku and Kachasu then you think of kissing, you end up vomiting your lungs. Bafikala balanuka mukanwa.
yaaaaaaaaaa……….obvious bafikala namunfwa..
@WATOMBANA NA kASABI
Ulishilu mulumendo….. Ati pashala pink, not red. pesa…??
guyz guyz you hav cracked my libs.gelo ni 90 so that she knows that the game is no.
chapwa basumwa abana babene ati mumukoshi ayi?….
Ni Manuel ? Ifwe balamba tatwishiba ifichitika but it always ends up muntwenu in 90 percent of situations.
Next time ku tufunda paku tomba….yawama saaaaaaaaaaaana leson iyo ba tumfweko,tho next word nshapwishe bafika****
Kiss nizi.
Ba Tumfweko, ifimwatampa efilenga umuntu ukufwaya ukumfwikisha ka?
Ka village chicken ungaka kising’e ? kazakufunsa ati Nanga suonapo ? chaya chaba niyende ine.
………………bafikala mind wat u say, mwaba imusula…
Yea.i love z.i jst hope my dam boyfrnd haz read z.
Who do you think has time for all that?
But guys muli bakali just reading ze story bwaima,wat mo inga waimona.
chiputa kuipa
AM SURE NEXT TIME TUMFWEKO WILL BRING SEX POSITIONS.NSHAKAPAPE SANA
Touch her hair, grab her hair, shani shani hair, now suppose she’s bold headed?
My man is always asking for my kisses which have overtaken his mind. Now he always wants to overtake my g-string, imagine……
pls zed men read this article in detail. kissing is not about vigorousky sticking your tongue into our mouths….eish
simuvela guyz nice one lol!!
lmaorotfapm mamamamamamama ala this article has made my day kekekeke *wipping tear away* *sigh* yaba. Guys s0me girls d0 N0T actualy fancy being breathd on. And the ‘pull her hair’ thing? Ying yang twin, david banner or trey s0ngs that ish fina get you slappd i beg. Jus be a gentleman and youre set!
lamba women would ask a guy and say findo mukopampata nimwe ba learner
Natemwa sana utuma soft bites pamukoshi,i lyk da way she breathes wen i do dat.thnx 4 da additional info…so first we do ama friendly practice match on our concubines,then we go for da final match kuli ba official madam
TUMFWEKO please isn’t there a way of siffing out the comments from people that just insult. You are supposed to uphold good values please. Freedom of speech doesn’t mean allowing even nonsense to be all over the media. CONSIDER!!!
kula tuta fye