- Stay Connected
Socialize
7 Ways A FIGHT In A Relationship Can Be HEALTHY
Fights in a Relationship isn’t always a bad thing. In fact, fights in a relationship is super healthy and can let you get out a lot of pent up feelings you might have! Face it ladies, being a relationship isn’t always all peaches and cream. You get annoyed with each other and sometimes, you gotta release that! Below, I’ve got the top 7 reasons a fight in a relationship is healthy and perfectly normal!
1. Gets Frustration Out
As I mentioned above, a fight in a relationship can help you and your partner to get all of your frustration out! When you’re in a relationship, you get on each others nerves. It’s going to happen and fighting allows you to release all of those pent up rages that you might have with one another! Remember though, a fight should not be mean, but rather more of a discussion where you are both taking each others feelings into consideration.
2. It Can Be Fun
Not all fighting can be fun, but those fights that you get into about who’s turn it is to take out the trash can be funny. The Better Half and I get in a ton of little fights that end up with us laughing it all out. For those fights that aren’t always fun, make sure remember the fun fights and maybe, you’ll be able to turn those un-fun fights into a fun one!
3. Allows You to Release Anger
Not only does a fight in a relationship allow you to release all of that frustration, but you can get mad. I’ve gotten in plenty of fights that were caused because I just needed to express some pent up anger. If you and your partner have been together for a while, just know that everything will be okay, sometimes you just gotta be angry!
4. Makes Your Relationship Stronger
When you first start dating someone, even if you don’t agree with something that they do or say, you probably just push it down right? It’s because you don’t want to cause any conflict right? Well ladies, if you get the first fight out of the way early on, it’ll test the waters and see if this is a guy you wanna stay with. If he can’t be with you because you have one fight, he might not be worth all of the other fights you’ll have later on.
5. Keep The Fight Fair
One important fact to keep in mind whenever you are dealing with a fight in a relationship, is that you want to keep the fighting fair. In any fight, you never want to keep bringing up the past. Never name call and always just keep it at a discussion level of conversation. There’s no need to yell and scream at one another!
6. Makeup Sex
What’s fighting without makeup sex? Seriously – what is it? Makeup sex is one of the reasons to fight! After you get all of that aggression and frustration out, sex is a great way to smooth things over and reconnect with your partner!
7. Stress Reliever
Let’s say you are stressed out about work, school or even just drama with your friends. Fighting it out with your partner is a great stress reliever! Who knows, maybe a fight in relationship would be good for him too, after all, guys get stressed too right?
Although some of the fights in a relationship aren’t fun, these are the top 7 reasons why it is necessary to fight. It’s not always going to be rainbows and sunshine, sometimes, a fight in a relationship needs to happen.
By Heather from allwomenstalk
Posted by Admin
on February 4, 2012. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0.
Both comments and pings are currently closed.
Nasty dude
February 4, 2012 at 9:56 am
Wht? Awe ba ponokwa abana babene,so kuponona elo wanyenga? Ati make up!
tekere
February 4, 2012 at 10:55 am
Ahahaa I just hit my wife last evening and later in the night she gave me the best sex escapade ever since we were married.make up sex zoonaaa..
Nyochezya
February 4, 2012 at 11:09 am
Kumupanta muchinyo palast nokutombapo futi awe women are suffering
Air Mukwai_
February 4, 2012 at 12:12 pm
be it physical, verbal or common parlance of bonking prelude to a peaceable relation. but if a lady works and the hubby does baby sitting, the man is tortured to extremes that he can not even eat the fruit. he is driven away from having intimacy and can only gets comfort from outside. this works when a man is a provider and not a helper..
nomy
February 4, 2012 at 1:59 pm
oh God as if dis person knew wht is n wht has bin happng to me..nway nyc topic ba tumfweko..
conman
February 4, 2012 at 2:06 pm
am confused. is this white alangizi talking about fighting the way zambians know it or he is talking about quarreling. if its the real fight its not allowed here in zambia and there is no bail for it according to IG Malama. we all quarel often but fists are not allowed. but men should once in a while slap their wives as it makes them look beautiful.
El maginifico
February 4, 2012 at 3:08 pm
@nomy you are right as if this person lives wit us.
Zebige
February 4, 2012 at 4:06 pm
Shit me i am prone to this.The only part i like about the whole thing is the make up sex.It is always exciting.Me i just let her do the work while i lie there i just tell her” Baby nomba ntombako ilya wuntombako”.Fighting brings out the freak in my girl.
w
February 4, 2012 at 4:52 pm
This is ridiculous!!
new-b
February 4, 2012 at 5:10 pm
Ba tumfweko u want me to kil my gal? I cnt beat my future wife.
bazamukag
February 5, 2012 at 9:39 am
What kind of fight r u talking about-I bet its just quarrelling. If it’s good why call it ‘fighting’? and what sample was your research to conclude that way? it’s just personal opinion or what happens to the relationship of the writer.
GUN
February 5, 2012 at 10:02 am
Know the limits,nomba nga wamutula ilinso ena akukontola ifimeno mwakula moneka shani?
CHAINSAW
February 5, 2012 at 1:12 pm
this article is not talking about physical fights. Its talking bout verbal fights. No normal person would ever advocate for physical fight. Do not go and fight with your spouse its foolish.
mulenga bwalya
February 6, 2012 at 2:50 pm
one out of seven,, number six alone
makanika
February 7, 2012 at 1:29 am
The all issue is about verbal fighting. Please do not beat your better half otherwise you will be reported to victim support unit for rape and abuse(wife battering).
umutwe wa zambia
February 20, 2012 at 7:44 pm
crazy shit
Gaurdianer
February 23, 2012 at 4:36 pm
It depends,talking is the best when things go wrong but if she has ingulu kushipantamo!