Is She A Gold Digger? She Asked Me To Buy Her New Shoes On Our First Date

Is She A Gold Digger? She Asked Me To Buy Her New Shoes On Our First Date

I met this girl some two weeks ago when I was with my brother,I  got her number and I asked her to go and catch a movie at Arcades on Friday, 16th, March..

When we were at the counter about to buy tickets, I got K100 Kwacha( in two 50 pin notes since two tickets were going at K60 on Friday) from my wallet. I gave the salesman and he handed me the change but to my surprise and embarrassment the new girl quickly grabbed  the change that the sales man handed back to me.

The movie was to start in 30 minutes and so we sat to chill for the movie. She said she wanted to check out something in a boutique so we went in the boutique and worse still she picked a pair of shoes and told me she loved them and she wanted me to buy her the shoes that very moment.

I don’t know who if she’s a gold digger, but how can I describe this kind of a person? That was the first time we went out together on a date…. I didn’t buy her shoes though I felt kind of  guilty for not doing so.

what do you think about this kind of a person fellow readers?

TC, From Lusaka

299 Responses to "Is She A Gold Digger? She Asked Me To Buy Her New Shoes On Our First Date"

  1. big Dhara   May 7, 2012 at 12:09 pm

    School boy why are yopu complaning about your own decision to take a girl out and footing the bill?? if you didnt have the money why ask her out on a first time basis_ what did you think was going to happen?? Get free sex..No small boy!! Grow up and smell the coffee, you pay before you get laid!!Nxa!!

  2. Slim   May 8, 2012 at 4:18 pm

    Find somethiging interesting to right about what do you take bloggers on this blog grow up

  3. dutty   May 10, 2012 at 10:00 am

    That’s not right even if its being real or if you pay it will show, that chick has to now how to get independent and not depend on guys, that just shows what type of a family she comes from.

  4. barotse meeeeeeeee   May 10, 2012 at 10:27 am

    u would have just bought ha shows…she is a prosistute….at idigenous TONGA u are stupid az well….wen last did u go to arcades???u cant even read n undastand

  5. Peso   May 11, 2012 at 11:09 am

    Dull boy! You spent K70pin on a prostitute who didnt open leggs for you. Do you know that K70pin can buy u a bag of cement and mupene? Do prostitutes have time for watching movies in cenama halls? Come for lessons my boy!

  6. Better believe it   May 11, 2012 at 12:44 pm

    Any girl who behaves like that is not worth spending money on in the first place.

  7. sylvester miles   May 14, 2012 at 11:48 pm

    hahahahahahaha,,,cant stop laughing!

  8. jigga1   May 19, 2012 at 8:41 am

    silly boy you picked up a hooker!Taba fishiba ifya ma movie pa arcades baishiba fye-fula,bushe yaingila,wapwisha.

  9. shark_kapenta   May 20, 2012 at 4:12 pm

    butchhh kwena uli chikopo, kuti wafilwa ukwishiba izoba…..its a lesson to kids..elo maybe she just a spoilt kid,buh either way nga walimulilamofye.

  10. Ernesto   May 24, 2012 at 3:07 pm

    boi ,run run away for your bucks !!!!!!!

  11. hhhh   May 29, 2012 at 12:19 pm

    boy she will mikk u dry hahhaaaaa

  12. malawa   May 30, 2012 at 3:16 pm

    so wat if shez a gold digger…ain they all in some way

  13. elnathan   May 31, 2012 at 10:25 pm

    in exchnge 4a nyt i wuld she hott…bt ba guy u did da rity thin man

  14. Picanine   June 1, 2012 at 5:55 am

    Sometimes that is the cost of doing business. If she has moral character, she will pay you back, by treating you right. I am not talking about giving it up either. Treating you right while being a lady.

  15. thandiwedaniels   June 12, 2012 at 3:46 pm


  16. Suck it real hard   June 12, 2012 at 4:03 pm

    …pussy is expensive my boy u gotta pay b4 u get laid.

  17. biggie smalls   June 13, 2012 at 12:05 pm

    Gold diggers are smooth and play their cards right. they will string you along and make you comfortable before they start milking you. They make you so comfortable you begin to believe you cant do without them then they milk you for every cent you have for as long as they can. This girl is just a fluzzy who has been way too broke her whole life a movie and shoes seems like heaven. By her pop corn, promise her three pairs of shoes, bang her and delete her number. When she calls laugh into the phone and say you are aganist first date or even second date sex so it cant work out she must just 4get you.

  18. SPICY   June 15, 2012 at 8:12 am

    SHE ASKED FOR A LITTLE TOO MUCH 4 A FIRST DASTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>>>>0_0

  19. SPICY   June 15, 2012 at 8:13 am

    SHE ASKED FOR A LITTLE TOO MUCH 4 A FIRST DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>>>>0_0

  20. MARK   June 20, 2012 at 2:35 pm


  21. Thief Justice   June 21, 2012 at 9:09 am

    Do not start things you cant finish!!

  22. henry balase   June 21, 2012 at 11:13 am

    I asked for sex on a first date from some gal, and DID. So why cant a gal ask for shoes on the first date. Just give her and ask her to open up in return. Ifintu nomba ni 50-50

  23. Dre   June 22, 2012 at 10:23 am

    Lil Boy!! You Gave Her The Impression not to worry bout your finances by taking her out to an expensive place what do you expect..? Of course it was a Lil too much but you flashed out cash in the first instance…so get her what she wanted Mr Big spender..coz yo 1st approach was “I’m money”…

  24. maguys   June 27, 2012 at 11:50 pm

    hmmm bring real issues to this fora not ma gong gong please

  25. mupopo   June 28, 2012 at 9:55 am

    ngoli wakaso ninshi uli wakaso. What is wrong in asking for shoes on a first date? men also do ask for sex on the first date.

  26. kabuchende   July 9, 2012 at 3:28 pm

    buy her the shoe ,then open her.thats the way we get by.

  27. Balesa BaKulu   July 12, 2012 at 10:28 pm

    In life every thing you do you pay for it. Love is expensive, the bible says for God so love the world so that He gave. so giving and love can not be divrced to each other if you love her Give whatever she asked. walira mvula walira Matope. be strong young Man this is love.

  28. DIANA   July 13, 2012 at 1:07 pm

    too soon.that is not love, but what you can give her good luck.

  29. tomas samuel   July 14, 2012 at 9:42 pm

    why didnt you let her buy her own ticket. You invited her and you are supposed to buy her a car and a house!

  30. Jex   July 20, 2012 at 6:58 pm

    What would you do if she asked for your services in bed on the first date?Am sure you wouldn’t deny.

  31. KAYS   July 21, 2012 at 4:18 pm


  32. Lucius   July 22, 2012 at 1:43 am

    man gmme her number im go buy her the whole entire botiq. damn she beautiful but aint cool.qiuk, im waiting!

  33. Cathy   July 24, 2012 at 2:17 pm

    Y complain,a pair of shoes only and you are complaining, shame on you boy, grow, mwajaila vamahala,love na njala siviyendelana man.No wonder I spend on myself ad keep my pussy.Man wants free things,shame shame shamemmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

  34. sammy   July 26, 2012 at 9:02 pm


  35. sam316   July 31, 2012 at 12:12 pm

    thats crezy my guy,hookers are up to know good,keep yr pocket change for yr jigiz and loli pops and stay away from arcades and manda hill,take her to plaza 3 in town

  36. sam316   July 31, 2012 at 12:19 pm

    thats sad my guy,these hookers are up to no good,save yr pocket change for yr jigiz and loli pops and please stay away from arcades and mandahill,next time take her to plaza 3 in town its dead cheap,5pin

  37. xyzee member   August 6, 2012 at 4:41 pm

    boy you are too young for that staff complaning about 40pin the one she got, you are crazy post something

  38. chateba   August 8, 2012 at 3:34 pm

    fuck that bitch up..

  39. maps   August 24, 2012 at 10:26 am


  40. BOSS   September 5, 2012 at 2:35 pm

    promise her that you will buy her shoes tomorrow, but fuck her today

  41. ROYAL   September 6, 2012 at 11:15 am

    Mwaiche, ama hule pa street na mu disco with that 100 pin you’ld have had a nice time….!! But in this case, spreed her legs first before getting them Pradas.

  42. JUDGE CHIKOPA   October 10, 2012 at 9:01 am


  43. eezzy   October 26, 2012 at 8:54 pm

    just shoes n u think shes a gold digger,.if ur so chip y ddnt you take her ku kamwala instead of arccades?!!

  44. nay ohms   November 1, 2012 at 2:05 pm

    on the first place,why did you ask are out,then late on you judge her.

  45. tu bamuna twanjala,tu konda complaining   November 8, 2012 at 10:29 pm

    go girl! chew his money b4 he chews u

  46. monk   November 20, 2012 at 2:43 pm

    Go on school boy,do her hard and pregnant her she will stop asking for shoes but baby!s dippers and S26

  47. Karen   December 5, 2012 at 10:45 am

    stay away from her. no normal gal does that get it from me.

  48. grove   January 15, 2013 at 5:59 pm

    u should hav bot and fuked her same day.

  49. rose samiselo   May 2, 2014 at 11:46 am

    gals n wanting things