Is She A Gold Digger? She Asked Me To Buy Her New Shoes On Our First Date

Is She A Gold Digger? She Asked Me To Buy Her New Shoes On Our First Date

I met this girl some two weeks ago when I was with my brother,I  got her number and I asked her to go and catch a movie at Arcades on Friday, 16th, March..

When we were at the counter about to buy tickets, I got K100 Kwacha( in two 50 pin notes since two tickets were going at K60 on Friday) from my wallet. I gave the salesman and he handed me the change but to my surprise and embarrassment the new girl quickly grabbed  the change that the sales man handed back to me.

The movie was to start in 30 minutes and so we sat to chill for the movie. She said she wanted to check out something in a boutique so we went in the boutique and worse still she picked a pair of shoes and told me she loved them and she wanted me to buy her the shoes that very moment.

I don’t know who if she’s a gold digger, but how can I describe this kind of a person? That was the first time we went out together on a date…. I didn’t buy her shoes though I felt kind of  guilty for not doing so.

what do you think about this kind of a person fellow readers?

TC, From Lusaka

299 Responses to "Is She A Gold Digger? She Asked Me To Buy Her New Shoes On Our First Date"

  1. mk   March 21, 2012 at 10:08 pm

    Dump the parasite before it grows on you! She showed the typical characteristic of a whore, who is interested in money only and nothing else.

  2. PANO CHALO   March 22, 2012 at 8:09 am

    pipo dot insult th girl, wu knws wat they discussed b4 goin for a date, after all men are th real gold diggers…..

  3. Sweet m   March 22, 2012 at 1:08 pm

    I know the gal she was at kabulonga last year.4got the name.

  4. Mbwe!   March 22, 2012 at 1:54 pm

    She is just okay, all women are like that, she is just a little bit upfront thats all. SEX was never meant to be free for a man it is GOD’S grand design just buy her the shoes. Married men pay rent, but mealie meal, pay school fees just for sex its nature.

  5. Zebb Mpinganjira   March 22, 2012 at 2:39 pm

    She is just naive and stupuid, otherwise all women are Gold Diggers, except mature women will pretend they are not interested in the money but only you, until you realise you have actually been paying!!!

    By the way, I love and respect wommwn but I have an operational manual to understand them, all of them will want your cash, its just the payment mode and approach which will vary.

    Ditch her, though, she is likely to be a bith!!!

  6. ALEJAM   March 22, 2012 at 3:03 pm

    some inoformation is missing…this is an edited version of the story..

  7. January Johns   March 22, 2012 at 3:17 pm

    You are Lucky that this time around she asked you to buy her a pair of shoes, Next time she will ask you to buy her a car or a house. There after she may also ask you to buy her a farm. The list is endless. Keep away from this parasite before she sucks all your blood.

  8. Mutakila   March 22, 2012 at 4:00 pm

    You also be in a hurry and give her a fuck. You can also dig some gold. Is she the one in the picture. Looks sexy and probly tasty too.

  9. indigenous tonga   March 22, 2012 at 5:42 pm

    i can’t understand this story,did they just meet at the entrance or they came together?if they came together then K 100 000 was not enough for them to get in because tickets were going at K60 000 and now the change issue.then if they just met at entrance then it wasn’t a this story isn’t worthy publishing.

  10. Chamuleta   March 22, 2012 at 7:24 pm

    Gal she is rite boi you started knowing each other she was just trying to know you she does not even do that nika sucurity fye ba guy never shud you repeat this just share with your friends you have rally disappointed the gal and US guyz learn from this mistake.

  11. DIZO   March 23, 2012 at 1:19 pm

    lihule fye!!!

  12. Dr.Amossy   March 24, 2012 at 7:50 pm

    kaliule ako fye!

  13. nana   March 25, 2012 at 12:53 pm

    the girl is a whore… honestly who does that on the first date. she is a n embarrsment to us ladies. forget about her. who knows wat she will ask for next time you met her.

  14. chilumba   March 26, 2012 at 10:28 am


  15. lovecoache   March 26, 2012 at 1:54 pm

    love is not blind my brother love is a principle,hence no need to worry as what you did a’nt wrong at all. if the girl is truthful she need to win your heart first,not what she did.the fact that u didn’t buy for her see how she will behave, then you can conclude,but be on the lookout.

  16. Ichikalipa Chunfwa Imwene   March 26, 2012 at 3:21 pm

    Ba guy this girls is a a bitch.The fact that she can ask for that on your first date is proof enough that her goal is different from yours. There is a Bemba saying that if you visit your in laws and is given a meal with chicken and you munch on the bones, it means where you come from you swallow whole bones. The girl swallows whole bones.She will swallow you. Ditch the bitch. About all women being gold diggers, this is true.They are the worst gold diggers. men be wary. If it is love you are looking for you need to probe more. If it is sex do it fast before she thinks of eating you up.

  17. Swagger   March 26, 2012 at 7:30 pm

    Dude damp her. And after you do that, give me her number. Sounds like no vibes needed. she knows what she wants and she knows what men want… win win situation…

  18. Lady L   March 27, 2012 at 10:00 am

    my dear bro,no decent lady will behave like that she is just a prostitute.and know what arcade has now became a common place for prostitution.leave that girl she is no good.
    good lucky…….

  19. kandilicious   March 27, 2012 at 1:15 pm

    Oh noooooooo!!! When a lady doesnt like a man its one of the signs! plis guys take note.

  20. Bang kimoon   March 30, 2012 at 11:09 am

    You must have bosted to her before she asked for that,is she mad?

  21. Mcluf   March 30, 2012 at 11:24 am

    shez just being her self. Nothing wrong with that, would you have prefered she pretended? Grow up!

  22. Elijah   March 30, 2012 at 5:06 pm

    My man, you must pay for everything in this world one way or the other!There is nothing free except the grace of God…….

  23. Barotse 1964   April 2, 2012 at 11:15 am

    She ain’t different from a bed bug, she will suck u up till u become anemic….dump her ass!!

  24. teza   April 2, 2012 at 12:36 pm

    shes a whore!!!!shez combonic…she daznt hav pride n standards…

  25. cmb   April 2, 2012 at 6:04 pm

    In Bemba we say Umweni talisha munsoli ninshi eko afuma ni ngomba. At the same time Umweni takokota mafupa nishi eko afuma amina ayatuntulu. This is the impression given by this girl meaning i think she is something elso. Name the pro… slut…

  26. MARVIN MULILO LWIPA   April 3, 2012 at 1:01 pm

    Please, man say away from that woman.She is not serious . thank you!

  27. edna   April 3, 2012 at 4:06 pm

    what a thirty gold digger. mwaice y degrade yourself and even ask about this girl just move on and get another gal

  28. Someone bothered by this   April 3, 2012 at 9:20 pm

    She probably didn’t like you.And dude this is just so wrong to do.

  29. d   April 4, 2012 at 8:26 am

    giv her a good shag u hav spnt aread so kukashita fye

  30. ROBERT   April 4, 2012 at 4:27 pm

    Nawemwine chenjela

  31. Amy   April 4, 2012 at 7:38 pm

    Everybody is insulting this poor girl! People have respect and who published this poor girls photo. This is defemation of character….. This girl should sue.

    Matthew 7:3-5

    New International Version (NIV)

    3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.

  32. vernon   April 4, 2012 at 9:39 pm

    Nomba is their need for this picture? She might be a whore but am not saying shez one, for you to even publish her photo it means you have already decided what to do with her.

  33. john   April 5, 2012 at 9:10 pm

    Deguzman Adzigude Kaminjolo read an article.
    Malawi president unconscious after heart attack
    Malawi’s President Bingu wa Mutharika, 78, was unconscious in hospital after suffering a heart attack Thursday, amid mounting discontent with his leadership and demands for his resignation.

  34. sosa   April 7, 2012 at 9:29 am

    Mundala forget about that girl before she leads you mutuko. watch out!

  35. uwandi bukulu   April 9, 2012 at 9:29 am

    Iwe chikala you meet a girl in a night club and expect fi romance

  36. ba wiso   April 10, 2012 at 12:05 pm

    is she the one in the picture?

  37. Baushi Mwana   April 10, 2012 at 10:55 pm

    Not a future wife material, forget about her!!!! Move on to another serious woman. Probably, try in churches not in discos or just along mare streets.

    Lets know the progress please.

  38. kiki   April 11, 2012 at 9:07 pm

    you are just a broke ass nigger.I would sue you if i were her.kwati palipo na change bamipokele,yali yafitumbuwa

  39. froza   April 12, 2012 at 4:59 pm

    aliche, mayb da guy was too boastful, we were all absent at tht moment. goooooo gal, dig his pocket nxt tym

  40. pri   April 14, 2012 at 11:11 am

    1.Awakaso kumumwena pakutapa! The gale was trying to see if you were worth sacrificing for.
    2.Who knows maybe where you came from you had sex and never paid her what you agreed before.
    3.If you were the first one she bought something for, would you have complained?
    4.stop embarrassing the gale. Wamutendekefye, in one week you ask her out for a movie what were you xpecting from her? more over what type of movie was it?

  41. pri   April 14, 2012 at 11:20 am

    Ngawanshi wafwaile? and what if she doesn’t have shoes and she wanted you to buy for her, what did you expect? pantu niwebo walinankwe! you wanted her to tell someone else?

  42. D   April 14, 2012 at 11:54 am

    She’s just a kid who lucks skill and strategy. She does’t know how to hold on to a Man. You must be a kid also how can you surely complain about a K 100,000. Both of you are too young to be a relationship. STOP IT!!!

  43. GROVE   April 16, 2012 at 5:02 pm


  44. vic-malloy   April 17, 2012 at 10:01 am

    She was just too fast to pool a trigger. I think she’s a serious Gold Digger. Think twice my bro. What more if she is gives it to you. Then it will be worse of gold digging

  45. samz   April 17, 2012 at 1:31 pm


  46. SJ one!   April 19, 2012 at 10:30 pm

    she is an extrovert….out going and not organised. but since you now friends u might be a best to assist her by doing some counselling on how to a bit human and moral. because she may mess up things in life and full into a pit of nver coming back.

  47. SJ one!   April 19, 2012 at 10:39 pm

    And also my friend.. wat do have in mind that u think is the best way to go about the issue…? do u think she is really a gold-digger as the way u have labelled her. why not giving a second thought to your labelling her as “golddigger”.. did u analize the situation…? the way u presented your self the young lady matters too!!! give it a SECOND THOUGHT MAN!

  48. bricks   April 20, 2012 at 9:48 am

    she is okay

  49. rain   April 22, 2012 at 3:59 pm

    just buy her two pairs to sustain her poverty coz she migtht become a prostitute.i can see she has some qualities to become

  50. Chikalawamba   May 4, 2012 at 4:31 pm

    lihule…. cut to the chase, u be smart en trade the shoes for her Pu**y en make it worth the shoes