— USED AND LEFT TO FACE THE CONSEQUENCES ALONE

— USED AND LEFT TO FACE THE CONSEQUENCES ALONE

I am a young lady from NIPA. I once found myself in a sexual relationship which I am living to regret. I was very young and little did I know that this man was just after using me and infecting me.

 

Mutale chisenga lumbwe broke my virginity after which I was damped .

This man has moved on and is now seeing several other innocent girls. Mutale Chisengalumbwe and his brother Ben Mulenga are both married and are renting a house in kalundu which has been turned into a brothel. Ben used to go out with my friend who later introduced me to Mutale. My friend has also been infected.

These people are using this house to ruin other people’s children. Am sure they have children and they would not want to see the same happen to their flesh and blood.

I sometimes wonder what kind of sexual appetite they have ? What role are their wives playing? I am very bitter because this man has infected me and my life looks like it has come to an end. I don’t know how to break the news to my fiance who doesn’t know I’m HIV positive.

I am urging girls out there to look out for these men who pretend to find love in the name of helping with school fees.

PS: NOTE THE PICTURE ABOVE DOES NOT IN ANYWAY REPRESENT THE PERSON WHO WROTE THE STORY.

234 Responses to "— USED AND LEFT TO FACE THE CONSEQUENCES ALONE"

  1. BARCELONA   March 22, 2012 at 2:47 pm

    BARCELONA IS WINING BOTH UEFA AND SPAINISH LEAGUE.

  2. The detector   March 22, 2012 at 2:48 pm

    in february, this site posted a story that the prophet TB Joshua had prophesized that an african president is going to die on 16th feb. my query is,has any president died? or am i the only one behind? ba tumfweko help me.

  3. $$afakata$$   March 22, 2012 at 2:49 pm

    College o universting gals r like gold diggers ther o the sm so mama this is wat u wntd so 2 hell wit ur stori.
    Kachinyo o chichinyo lyashi loybe elyo…!!!

  4. Saint   March 22, 2012 at 2:51 pm

    Where exactly does this mulenga man stays in kalundu??? Nid to beat the hell out of em!!!!!!!
    Nevertheless, cant blame the man.You gals beta watch out…Dere r so many single nice lukn guys like Banks, Homeboi who r hopn 2 ve chiks frm nipa.

  5. POWER OF GOD   March 22, 2012 at 2:53 pm

    DNT WORY GOD WILL HEAL YOU.CALL ME AT +2600973888939

  6. Chikalabwamba   March 22, 2012 at 2:55 pm

    @ The Jackal_ mwafwapo kanga?
    @ Pulamasaka_ who make girls get they have not sweated for? is it not you?
    @ wise guy_ ati tupeleniko real news. walilyapo webo bull s.h.i.t?
    @ Mbwe!_ ati wages of sin is death. the girl is still alive and may live longer than you anticipate.
    @ Malundi Gondwe_ ulekwatako uluse. nomba ngacaliniwebo atemwa sister obe kuti watenwa?

  7. mwiche   March 22, 2012 at 2:55 pm

    if u did it once i was going to sympathise with u but since it went on and on, u reaping what you had sown.

  8. Half Petticoat   March 22, 2012 at 2:58 pm

    Do not take off your full petticoat anyhow.

  9. kokokoko   March 22, 2012 at 3:12 pm

    the wages of sin is death. and when you were giving pussy before finishing school you thot yo were clever. please leave your fiance now so that you can die alone from you prostitution.

  10. gross   March 22, 2012 at 3:15 pm

    please spare mutale chisengalumbwe.he has a funeral.he just lost his brother.please,pleae.

  11. Exhaust Blown Diffuser   March 22, 2012 at 3:31 pm

    Gold digger fist things first start taking ARVs, secondly tell your fiancée about your HIV status then alert you fellow gals about such dudes coz there are many out there its not only them…. Have a pleasant life in future

  12. FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH   March 22, 2012 at 3:38 pm

    THIS MUST BE A LEASON 2 ALL THOSE WHO THINK THEY CAN KIP THERE VAGINAS CLOSED

  13. GUN   March 22, 2012 at 3:41 pm

    Gals plz wise up,things of the world are shortlived,listen when parents advise and live longer,what you shud know is its easier for a female organ to get the virus coz its like a pocket,condmise still.

  14. Mojo wapa getto   March 22, 2012 at 3:49 pm

    so u have a fiance after all…..

  15. christian   March 22, 2012 at 3:51 pm

    let nt any one jage u,cn any of them tel u since thy were born thy liv a pure lif,my friend u ned jesus nd i cn help u bt face 2 face jst let me knw if u diced dnt b cheated by religous pipo God lovs u he cam 4 u nd me. Tak care.

  16. ALEJAM   March 22, 2012 at 3:52 pm

    uku, kutumpa… this little gal wanted to use her P… to get money and she get infected… now she cries “MUTULE”.. wee mbushi wee…i hope she has not passed it on tho the so called fiance…

  17. alinani kabifya   March 22, 2012 at 4:07 pm

    now dat u have learnt a lesson,i advise u 2 consider getting ready 4 jesus nd live a clean life.God will forgive u but u will live 2 suffer da painful consequences of ur choice.better 2 die in jesus

  18. Honest woman   March 22, 2012 at 4:27 pm

    In all honesty you made a mistake, great that you do acknowledge that, so the way forward is to try and live a positive life and ensure you do not infect others, ok, especially your fiance. Stop crying over spilt milk forthwith and stop licking your wounds. Join a support group, wish you the best!

  19. GUN   March 22, 2012 at 4:27 pm

    People are preaching about HIV and lifestyle day and night,but people are not changing together with the same people preaching,it is at the same workshops they fuck without protection.

  20. GUN   March 22, 2012 at 4:29 pm

    People are preaching about HIV and lifestyle day and night,but people are not changing together with the same people preaching,it is at the same workshops they fuck without protection..

  21. MCP   March 22, 2012 at 4:29 pm

    I really feel sorry for you, it is an unfortunate situation indeed. However, I hope your remorse is not because you got infected but because you realise that your decisions in the first were wrong. You acted selfishly and I thing the fact that you were young does not hold water, you were in college for crying out loud. Thats old enough to know the consequences of your actions. I agree with theone that says you need Jesus, coz that is exactly where you can get redemption and a peace of mind.

  22. RealTalk   March 22, 2012 at 4:32 pm

    I CONQUER WIT ALEJAM- WEE MBUSHI WEE!!

  23. Jerabo   March 22, 2012 at 4:43 pm

    Ukutemwa impiya.The girls in these Colleges love too much money.These are the consiquences.

  24. Big ben   March 22, 2012 at 4:43 pm

    Mutale chisenga lumbwe naiwe ilibwa sana stop making young girls infected.

  25. TRUTHY!   March 22, 2012 at 4:52 pm

    SHAME!

  26. sitizen namba wan   March 22, 2012 at 4:57 pm

    Which Mutale Chisengalumbwe is this?

  27. abton   March 22, 2012 at 5:01 pm

    u hv scond chance b real gal

  28. Liseli   March 22, 2012 at 5:03 pm

    Does Ben drive a ka RAV 4?anyways seek forgiveness from God and believe that by the stripes of Jesus you are healed.Life goes on

  29. mich   March 22, 2012 at 5:05 pm

    so u were decvng yo man 2b. i think u deserve it

  30. citizen   March 22, 2012 at 5:07 pm

    why didnt u use a condom first?ehhhh those things are even free….mulebako serious.obvious his a big man.when a big man fwayas u u’re not the first mama.u were irresponsible

  31. Muzezwa   March 22, 2012 at 5:07 pm

    SEMBE UNANVELELA,SEMBE SUNADWALE,LIFE IS HORRIBLE WHEN YOU REALISE THAT IT JUST TOOK THAT SHORT TIME AND YOU LOOK AT THE FUTURE AHEAD OF YOU.KUKONDA PIPE BAFANA MWAYAMBA KUYENDA CHODANGANA….MUZASILA CHAIPA

  32. lox kim   March 22, 2012 at 5:15 pm

    <******You have No Power To Reverse The Past*******
    Given a chance you would never live positive !
    NOW LISTEN:-PUT YOURSELF IN YOUR FIANCE'S SHOE'S.
    Suppose u were him and u 're negative,for sure u wouldn't want to be infected,do unto others what u would want them do unto you.(Try to find out also the status of ur fiance)
    If you 're still alive believe me,it is never too late and never think of suicide NEVER!
    If u can make efforts to know me,"I may help"you before u start ARVs!
    NOTE:Positive or Negative God still loves you,and more than you ever imagined.

  33. JANE   March 22, 2012 at 5:23 pm

    I FEEL SORRY FOR U. THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO REVERSE THE INFECTION BUT U JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT IT AND MAKE SURE YOU TELL YOUR FIANCE COZ U R NOT BEING FAIR TO HIM.TAKE ALL TO THE LORD.

  34. Danny fan   March 22, 2012 at 5:26 pm

    Ati:’pa tv matiuza lyonse ati osayesa kuchita vupusa chilibe condom but sitimamvela…olo penikamba so manje nawina azadya live lelo, wina azadya live mailo nawina anadya live mazoo!!!’

  35. 'copper bullets' mum is a shaved monkey fcuked by a dog   March 22, 2012 at 5:26 pm

    ………those blaming the girl are simply idiots.

  36. JONSTON   March 22, 2012 at 5:29 pm

    i wond a y u hav 2 demoniz him lik tht coz u r actualy wors than him. in the 1st plac u wer cheatini yur guy 4a marid man bcoz of yur luv 4 money. 2ndly u havnt tod the poor guy. i hop u dnt open yur legs 4 him 2 go in liv coz u apear 2b very genoras if only can gv a marid man. wachisanga icho walefwaya.

  37. Chief Bungwe   March 22, 2012 at 5:56 pm

    Problem naimwe baiche…too much experiments and live sex,sex and more sex…sex is for adults, lyonse tulamyeba…elyo nga niba USAID na Ministry of Health, lyonse balakomaila starting at 18:45 until 19hrs news is confirmed over.You ripp what you sow, plus you are lying, you were not a virgin at the time you contracted.

  38. muf 7s   March 22, 2012 at 6:08 pm

    When u go to skool knw the reason y u re there too bad ka sister,chicken and chips yapwa imisepela mu lusaka

  39. teacher   March 22, 2012 at 6:11 pm

    Its OKEY dear. Just pull yourself togather. Try to concentrate on your school work now coz you need it evermore now to better your future.

    I will pray for you.

  40. dksibande   March 22, 2012 at 6:18 pm

    U are shding tears before u start crying(Wakunta ifilamba ilyo taulalila.u like undressing before elders WAONA manje.Umukulu mukulu alishana amasha no kufenekesha.

  41. kokokoko   March 22, 2012 at 6:20 pm

    ba tumfweko why put a picture for someone who is not connected to the story…you should have put the picture for the bit.ch who write this sh.it letter so that innocent men will not make a mistake of wanting to marry the idiot.these are the idiots finishing innocent men when they want to settle down because of there sh.it past. cursed is she who does not listen to her parents counsel, for the wages shall be misery and gnashing of teeth.pls die fast before you infest the innocent fiance… these are the gals who not listen everyday HIV is on the news and you do the same sh.it. even a dog takes heed when the owner tells it what is wrong…this gal is equivalent to a sloth…pls dies fast for this is what you wanted, condoms are free everywhere and you give pussy without protection as though you are not at college…stupid idiot.

  42. Rikki Tarr   March 22, 2012 at 6:34 pm

    Zambian’s. These animals preyed on little girls probably who have just got to college, away from home for the first time. They were vulnerable and innocent and probably lacking the exposure of older girls who would know how to handle crooks like this. Only an uncivilized society would condemn the girls for falling for the approaches of these devils. Have you never heard of grooming? Even in UK some Pakistani men made underage girls think they were in a relationship and turned them into sex slaves. Has this country got no conscience? Do people really feel it is right to blame the victims of these men who are old enough to be their fathers?
    Your own sisters and daughters would have fallen victim under the same circumstances so you had better think before you readily celebrate the ruining of the lives of these young girls by beasts who have chosen to use these girl to satisfy their lust despite knowing their status.

  43. Live Counsel   March 22, 2012 at 6:43 pm

    Our dotas! With all yo buuties,,,, preserve it for yo Mr.Rite. He can only giv u miningfu sponsaship to u afta MARRYING him & not before…..plz…anything that comes b4 R4M is pure lust & futureless romps. avoid livesex B4 marriage. Ask Hon.Namugala, Dora, Cherise & Iris…..

  44. Alice Lenshina Reloaded   March 22, 2012 at 7:14 pm

    The biggest issue here is that you knew what you were getting into. He was dating your friend and you knew they were running a brothel in Kalundu but you still took yourself. If it happened once we could have let it pass but since it went on and on it means you knew what you were doing (unfortunately and probably knew the outcome of your actions. So what do you do? Number one go and make peace with God and yourself, second; have your CD4 checked to determine if you can start ART, see a trained counsellor, join a support group and start living positively and continue to pursue your dreams. This is not the end of the world you can live. Regretting what happened is not going to change what has happened. Thanks for sharing though. The men in question will just walk away with a slap on the hand as usual but thanks for sharing. I wish you gave out your name so thta we pray for you as well. All the best!

  45. Psychosipo   March 22, 2012 at 7:52 pm

    So why did put a picture of a random girl and if someone recognizes her wat do you thinkin will happen to her. You are an idiot and you were probably aftr the money you saw. And congratulations on testin positve you must be proud of your self.

  46. MF   March 22, 2012 at 8:00 pm

    Sad story indeed, hope and trust just one soul wil be saved from these men. Thanks for sharing. May the Lord God give u strength and courage to overcome this situation.

  47. sinene   March 22, 2012 at 8:08 pm

    Bafana kukonda ka high life when u a not even workin. Unazinama weka manje uli kuti. Wabunkisa. College university gals learn a lesson chicken nd chips I ma sila

  48. Bwafya   March 22, 2012 at 8:50 pm

    These guys r upto a mission of destroying young souls,niba SATANA.
    And you girls mwilatemwa utwalowa.Pantu pa last ba fyashi bachulilamo.Pliz Pliz ka COndom CHAbe.

  49. Wanu Ngwee   March 22, 2012 at 10:33 pm

    This is a police case and human rights issue baiche. Have you reported it to police? But naimwe bene today’s girls you’re also just too materialistic & are letting yourselves prey to such men coz of your insatiable appetite for goodies such as STILETTOES, FLASHY HAIR STYLES, ETC. Students are students and should just remain as such. Your time to buy yourselves the things you admire will come when you start earning your own salaries. Those of who accepted our status as students and concentrated on our studies were not fools – now we are reaping what we sowed decently.

  50. alinani kabifya   March 22, 2012 at 11:15 pm

    u must face da consequences of ur wrong choices