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‘My Husband Cheated With My Sister And Wants Her To Live With Us’
I have been married to my husband for 10 years now and we have 2 children and four gas stations together.
Two years ago when my half sister was 14 she came to live with us because she had been getting into problems at home and school so I agreed to home school her. I also home school my 2 children. My sister is now 16 and about a month ago I woke up in the middle of the night and my husband was missing.
I went straight into my sisters room and there he was. Both were naked and she on top of him. Later she told me it has been going on for about a year and when I asked her if she felt bad about what she did to me or if she felt ashamed she said no. After about 3 weeks of fighting with him everyday I called her mom to come get her but I never told anyone what happened.
Its been 2 weeks and every day she calls him several times when she knows im not around. He talks to her for at least 2 hours every day. I know because I check his phone when hes sleeping. For about a week now hes been begging me to bring her back to live with us, promising that it will never happen again.
When it first happened I talked to her and she told me that she would move back with her mom but she was in love with my husband and she would never leave him or stop calling him. True to her word she still calls him every day.
He swears to Allah and his mother that he only wants her back because he feels like he ruined her life and and any time shes 18 he wants to find some one to marry her. He promised me if I let her back I will never have any problems with her or him again.
I feel as if she ruined my life and I dont want to forgive her for what she did to me. He is now threatening me that if I dont let her come back he will sell the stores , divorce me and take the kids to Pakistan. I agreed to let her come back but its killing me.
aswireless
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on May 2, 2012. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
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Henrique
May 2, 2012 at 10:41 pm
You guys , do you write these stories after drinking tujilijili ?!!
jmuti
May 2, 2012 at 10:56 pm
Why complaining of things that you know your religion of Islam has clearly taught? My dear lady, in Islam a man can marry as many women as he likes. He can even marry the whole family of sisters. In Islam women are properties without any rights. Your husband is only practsing his beliefs. MULETEKANYA BAKASHANA UKUTEMWA IFYUMA!! Ask abt the xperiences of one Zambian female broadcaster who got married to a Bangladesh man! She learnt it the harder way.
mr tombisto
May 2, 2012 at 11:04 pm
Iwe muzimai ulichipuba,next time bakaku tombela nonko,aka mwaice kakuchimfya?akakabikile sepe pakanyo ukamone efo umulume ubwamba bukaba,leka first akatombeko kaili obviously imwe yalyuma binyo.
Dorika
May 2, 2012 at 11:26 pm
Efyaba ifyupo fya kutoolana fye mu musebo ifyabula na marriage certificate. Kulapapatila fye akaume ati nga kaya ninshi tapali icandi. Ifyabupuba fye, ataa! Can’t never.
mambepa
May 3, 2012 at 12:31 am
Women suprises me, they love men who trumps on their heads and perhaps there was a gentleman who wanted to marry her, but bena ati babombeko nowa ku Pakistani, those people kuno ku UK are nonontitys, why would a woman lay down down her life to deploy herself below her half sister? Wanko tauchinda bwino mu bed, kakudabwisha akaiche wakasanga pa mulu, nomba next time ukakasanga kaleonka! After that ukakasange nabakasenamika, Hahahaha
kakolwe
May 3, 2012 at 4:14 am
Woman. Get out, seek. Legal settlement of devorce. Uyo alilya ‘umuntasondwa’ & will never let her go. Balimisha chalipwa. If you try to to give him yonse he will feel your artificial move. In fact his mind will be doing her while his Dick is in you.
Am speaking from experience. That’s how ubucende destroys marriagesm. Eventually you will part or you will kill someone.
Dome
May 3, 2012 at 5:59 am
Lyashi lyobe ilyo boi.
leon
May 3, 2012 at 7:48 am
REPORT YOUR HUSBANT TO THE VICTIM SUPPORT SO HE IS JAILED,BY THE TIME HE IS OUT,YOUR STEP SISTER WIL BE MARRIED COZ SHE CAN NOT STAY WITHOUT SEX AND IF ANY THING YOUR MAN WIL BE DEALING WITH THE HUSBAND TO YOUR STEP SISTER
Lee
May 3, 2012 at 8:03 am
In the first place,when you wr marrying,was there no witnesses or elders ? Y dnt you approch them or tell the mother of your half sister ?
Hitlers cousin
May 3, 2012 at 8:40 am
Chop his penis.hahahahahhaha.lol
eng
May 3, 2012 at 9:03 am
jst 4get abt it.there z no perfect man.everywhere u go there r nasty stories my dear.u r even lucky yo man z not srewing the dirty dead prostitutes in the streets.hope yo ka sista z still fresh.if u leave that man u il never find another one with even one gas station.just do a feasibility study.boinking yo sis z no big deal.just respect yo man not bcoz hes rich but his habits r not too bad.kwaliba ifwaume kachakolwa bad breath, smelly feet and smelly dick frm other prostitutes elyo chilefwaya ukutomba.
HH & COBRA
May 3, 2012 at 9:24 am
kukonda ba mwenye na ndalama u will pay
Monk
May 3, 2012 at 9:33 am
Mwamona mwefyanakashi efyo mwaba,umwaume wamuletela umunani mu n’ganda asoboloko,mwatwala ilyashi pa mwela.ni mwibala mwakwe.
sniper
May 3, 2012 at 10:01 am
My dear lady, learn 2 share th little u have
Mukadzi odala
May 3, 2012 at 10:29 am
Esineya!!!!
vayola
May 3, 2012 at 10:33 am
may the good lord be with you .pray god.and stay blessed .
buntu ni buntu
May 3, 2012 at 10:50 am
she must be damn dull. if she sues for divorce the court will split the wealth almost evenly then she can start afresh with someone else. i can give her my number at least i will be screwing her sister from guest houses and not in her house
Chanda
May 3, 2012 at 11:30 am
Lessons to learn : 1.Gold Digger, woman thats the price you pay for being one. 2. You must be too proud for nothing, learn from your young sister. 3. She told you she regrets nothing in sleeping with you hubby, he doesn’t love you and he has assured her of bigger things than you know, she also has no respect for you. Conclusion: 1.Give Caesar what belongs to Caesar, take him to court for defilement. 2. Sue for divorce, get your share, find a fellow Zambian man and please improve in bed. All the best
Mojo wapa getto
May 3, 2012 at 11:54 am
did u say u have four gas stations together? whats the point there?…..
lisa
May 3, 2012 at 12:23 pm
its a pity that pipo wud make such comments on a sentive matter like this. woman if u fil u can forgive, forgive no one shud tel u to liv yo husband bt yoself coz u no him beta than anyone readin yo problem. if u fil u cnt take it divorce dis man. its so sad that our competitors have be come our own sisters nd relatives no more kipin families wen u maried just to serve yo marrige. advise to all u married woman gon are the days of kip gals pa nganda men have bcum animals b4 u no it is dealing u both.
sdcd
May 3, 2012 at 1:04 pm
tumfweko please check your English
mj
May 3, 2012 at 1:20 pm
do yu cook fo yo husband leasons to learn sex starts in sitting room or dinning room but if its yo sister cooking then thats the answer am sure u ladies are tod wat to do fo husbands nobusungu mwapyana daily out kumakichen party bapoka bedroom keep up girl u seem to know how to satisfy a man umukalamba alaba ati ali namadam kuzwengela katiny honey pot
Tondolo musuma
May 3, 2012 at 2:32 pm
Ala ifyaume fimo fichita behav. ngembwa a dog does nt chose who to hav sex with be it abana or brother or sister period.
genius
May 3, 2012 at 2:36 pm
imwe ba tumfweko atase, eh news iyee sure,pakistan is not our business. Emulomo uyu report about Zambia….
Ms X
May 3, 2012 at 2:42 pm
sorry my dear fellow woman. pity on u. these men u never know. I think u can do beta than be with him.
y.k
May 3, 2012 at 2:48 pm
he is not a husband,he does not even love you.just sue for divorce and you will share the things,coz once your sister comes back in your house,you will have no say,next you will find your self on the streets.leave the man as soon as you can dear.
nkamu
May 3, 2012 at 2:48 pm
Iwe ulicikopo sana,he is swearing to u that he is going to marry her when she is 18 years of age.
He is playing a clean game;ati allow her to come back naco cile moneka icasumina and stranded,akamwaice kalekutunga ne rude ata:alikupima nokumona ubukopo bobe.
please live that man,its better ulecula but happy,than muli money,but no insansa.are you telling me that iwe ukalalala utulo ngawabwesha akaliswau ako?
sitcho
May 3, 2012 at 3:59 pm
MR PEFECTO
kes
May 3, 2012 at 4:06 pm
Too bad.The problem is marrying these people with strange religions for the sake of money. Have u ever heard a zambian man dating a hindu, mwenye or whatever u call them?? But you ladies u are busy following them. Money can buy anyithing but not happiness. Christian view of marriage is different from other religions. You get her back and next time h will tell you he is marrying her and for the sake of money you will accept it and then die of heart attack/depression
Wtah the.
May 3, 2012 at 4:33 pm
eee ati Gas stove nangula gas station eeemba yacita nshi….? Kaya
Mobutu married twins and both lived happily there after…
rex
May 3, 2012 at 4:39 pm
Bat you can stell **** his brothers to make it 50/50 but why complain?
Big V
May 3, 2012 at 4:47 pm
Just sue him divorce and let the court share you the properties.or u dot wana to leav him bcoz of money? money kills
YOUNG AND SWEET
May 3, 2012 at 4:54 pm
You say she was riding on top. She must have been giving him the best ride. Hey come on young girl show your elder sister that ukupwa kuli bafikala bamwisa ababule ntambi malibu yakuilombela. Nombaline akatampa uku nyenga utubana tobe kabili walemona kwati pa Zed tapaba amakala ayalowa.
BarotseLander
May 3, 2012 at 5:54 pm
I THOT IT WAS A GENUINE PERSON COMPLAINING,KANSHI CHI MU ARAB.MULEITOMBAFYE FIKALAFYENU.
Kaya
May 3, 2012 at 7:17 pm
I said it and am saying again,our own blacks are better than these bazungu twatemwa.. lernt it the hard way,just leave that guy and move on wit yo life dear..
Pulamasaka
May 3, 2012 at 7:56 pm
this is fiction..you guys should grow up!
maloza
May 3, 2012 at 8:32 pm
obvious kali lowa sana ka mwaiche naine wine kuti naka tombe dog style!
umu zedian
May 3, 2012 at 8:41 pm
What is the title of this Nigerian movie?
umu zedian
May 3, 2012 at 8:41 pm
What is the title of this Nigerian movie? Remember to give us titles to some of these movies, not just the summary.
Museluselu choir song leader
May 4, 2012 at 4:23 pm
The problem u luk sleepin coz thats the tym to be on top,iwe ulefoloma ba kalakukwelela wanya….
kiki
May 16, 2012 at 2:47 pm
lady, why not seek legal advice, so that the matter can be sorted out nicely. one thing you re not suppose to 4get is that, yo husband religion allows to marry more than one woman. i cant not say divorce him but u re the right person to make a decision. wake up woman, only God can come to your rescue.
shark_kapenta
May 20, 2012 at 7:19 pm
awe kwena swit 16 akuletelela, y cnt u jst sort both of them, anyway your husband has seen your weakness,i think you have got a soft heart, coz nga fyamu komboni nga fyalika dealinga…
eric
June 13, 2012 at 1:00 pm
the gal is 16 nd its illegal for he 2hv sex wit her in d 1st place,threatn the fool dat if he sells d shop nd dcides 2leave u or bring her back,you wil get him arrested
Brian Daniel Munda
June 13, 2012 at 7:53 pm
Iwe, how cud u accept to receive are back? The fact that alyumfwapo pali nkashi yobe takaleke, NO MATTER THE ASSURRANCE.
David
August 15, 2012 at 8:53 am
Take it or leave it, this relation has justn taken phase two with your blessings. If your happiness means alot more than titles and wealth to you, Leave this “new couple” and find your own peace and joy.
Acceptor take a divorce , share the property and move own.
You ve got only one life to live, no broom fro misery.
chileya lungu
August 21, 2012 at 2:55 pm
Give your life to God and will find real fulfilment in life
ck
October 10, 2012 at 5:19 pm
Sort out the young lady from your marriage first and then seek legal advice. She has no respect for you.
bazo
January 17, 2013 at 12:38 pm
panyo pako muzimai. is that man zambian?? why a kamba vaku pakistan? ni mweenye ka?? ala bonse muli fi puba! GET OUT. SORT URSELF OUST!