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‘My Husband Cheated With My Sister And Wants Her To Live With Us’
I have been married to my husband for 10 years now and we have 2 children and four gas stations together.
Two years ago when my half sister was 14 she came to live with us because she had been getting into problems at home and school so I agreed to home school her. I also home school my 2 children. My sister is now 16 and about a month ago I woke up in the middle of the night and my husband was missing.
I went straight into my sisters room and there he was. Both were naked and she on top of him. Later she told me it has been going on for about a year and when I asked her if she felt bad about what she did to me or if she felt ashamed she said no. After about 3 weeks of fighting with him everyday I called her mom to come get her but I never told anyone what happened.
Its been 2 weeks and every day she calls him several times when she knows im not around. He talks to her for at least 2 hours every day. I know because I check his phone when hes sleeping. For about a week now hes been begging me to bring her back to live with us, promising that it will never happen again.
When it first happened I talked to her and she told me that she would move back with her mom but she was in love with my husband and she would never leave him or stop calling him. True to her word she still calls him every day.
He swears to Allah and his mother that he only wants her back because he feels like he ruined her life and and any time shes 18 he wants to find some one to marry her. He promised me if I let her back I will never have any problems with her or him again.
I feel as if she ruined my life and I dont want to forgive her for what she did to me. He is now threatening me that if I dont let her come back he will sell the stores , divorce me and take the kids to Pakistan. I agreed to let her come back but its killing me.
aswireless
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on May 2, 2012. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
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Dora Siliya
May 2, 2012 at 3:22 pm
he will continue to bone her behind ur back….wat gurate do u hav that he is not sleepn her til nw…
Trik Trik
May 2, 2012 at 3:24 pm
Big mistake bringing her back
Dora Siliya Rupia
May 2, 2012 at 3:27 pm
Try to improve in bed my friend, otherwise you will end up a looser.
Mwansa
May 2, 2012 at 3:28 pm
When shez 18 his the one whoz gona marry her
jubebull
May 2, 2012 at 3:31 pm
Now this is really hard news. The point however is that by allowing her to come back, you are accepting polygamy .But this is not what is troubling me much.My problem is the kind of polygamy! ‘two sisters’ and one husband. I have never head that. I can see you people killing each other. The girl has said she will always love him and that is why i say her coming is a marriage.
One more thing troubling me is why this man is not in jail or police cells.I say so coz it has been confirmed that he started having this canal knoledge with this girl when she was minor.
chilu04
May 2, 2012 at 3:33 pm
a wife is to blame,she should have known the impact of inviting her half-sister in the first place…..
party girl
May 2, 2012 at 3:37 pm
Mwamoneni mwefi baume efyo mwaba????If youre not fucking with the maid,then its a mulamu or the nearest and easiest ,defiling a kid.Grow up and be monogomous in yr relationships!
SUICIDE LOVER
May 2, 2012 at 3:37 pm
biting the finger that is feeding her..wives please be careful with your so called nieces
modester
May 2, 2012 at 3:40 pm
Mwamoneni mwefi baume efyo mwaba??If youre not sleeping with the house maid,then its a mulamu or the easiest and nearest,defiling a child.Grow up and be in monogomous relationships!
umu bemba nkonko
May 2, 2012 at 3:43 pm
Batila! ICHI KUPEMPULA ECHIKULYA!!!!!
mpezeni.
May 2, 2012 at 3:47 pm
Wakake saleka azadya nafuti uyo!!!!
Asamunda
May 2, 2012 at 3:54 pm
Nonsense! Give us real issues bafikala imwe!
CHUX SNR
May 2, 2012 at 4:03 pm
obviuosly kalikwata itanta zoona.. ba wife improve mu ma services yenu. u l end up seling chikanda mu street. pantu utuma kiosk tukaba twakwa half sis wenu
Spectator
May 2, 2012 at 4:15 pm
I feel for you my sister, that sister you have allowed back is a time bomb awaiting explosion in your house. Sorry maningi!
ck
May 2, 2012 at 4:16 pm
Big mistake sis
POLITICAL OBSERVER
May 2, 2012 at 4:22 pm
SWEET 16 GIVE GOOD SEX, TRY EATING OLIVE FRUITS FOR TIGHTENING IT, ONLY THEN WILL HE……
sangwapozed12
May 2, 2012 at 4:23 pm
Munyanya kukonda ndalama!!!! That is why you compromised and allowed him to bring her back wechipubawe!!!! A Zambian cultured man cannot bonk your half sister unless he is bonkers!!!! Muleupwa ku ma Zambian banenu nangu tapali fyuma. Uyo mwenye akalakushitila imyotoka but my friend that bonking of your sister is the small price you will pay for the shops and cars ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha….
simz
May 2, 2012 at 4:24 pm
This ka sweet 16 knows how to make a man forget his wafe.kanamupasa yonse.She is now you mai nini(small wafe) let her come and be a good friend to her and she will come back to normal and leave your husband for you. If you try fighting her, you will lose.
Hakehe
May 2, 2012 at 4:24 pm
Its heart breaking indeedYou women GBVs advocates where are you rescue your fellow woman from the jaws of this vicious sisterAlso women learn to do it better on bed otherwise these girls are proving sweeter by the day. watch out
sangwapozed12
May 2, 2012 at 4:25 pm
Ask your friends who are married kuma Senegalese, they will tell you worse yarns my dear….
Octopus
May 2, 2012 at 4:25 pm
Women shud also try hard to perform miracles in bed! learn to be innovative, and try to be spontaneous and magical! Not that i support the silly arangement in this story; but please, please, our women…twapapata, be GOOD in bed!
sangwapozed12
May 2, 2012 at 4:30 pm
Lesson One: Happiness in marriage is not based on mundane wealth!!!! It is inter-human spiritual, physical and mental communication… I can explain this if you ask. Gud Luck my dear….
sangwapozed12
May 2, 2012 at 4:33 pm
You are right Octopus, they need to be enterprising down there…and please forget the bull about being too formal ati kuti bakusula that is what men are looking for…challenge their vanity in bed iwe shaaa…
REX
May 2, 2012 at 4:50 pm
iwe why westing time CHOP OF his dick..ask zed woman they will show you how to do it.
MAYABA
May 2, 2012 at 4:52 pm
My Sisy,
MY DEAR SISY DAYS AGONE WHEN MEN USED TO TREAT US LIKE THAT STAND UP YOU CANT LIVE WITH A RIVAL IN THE SAME HOUSE, WHAT IS YOUR FEAR YOU ARE NOT WORKING OR DOING ANYTHING YOUR HUB WAS SUPPOSED TO BE ARRESTED KEEPING SECRET LIKE THAT IS NOT GOOD.
WAKE UP! YOU CANT LEAVE ON THREATS EVERYDAY AFTER ALL YOUR HUBBY DOES NOT LOVE YOU BUT YOUR SISTER, TREAT THAT MAN HE IS NOT YOUR GOD, ACT THIS IS YOUR TIME MAYBE YOUR HUBBY HAS SEEN THAT YOU LEAN TO HIM LIKE YOUR SECOND GOD THAT IS WHY HE IS TREATING YOU LIKE. THAT IS RUBBISH MARRIAGE YOUR FELLOW WOMEN ARE BUSY SELLING AT THE MARKET TAKING CARE OF THEMSELVES AND THEIR CHILDREN.
THAT IS UN ACCEPTABLE AND TOTALY MADNESS, WAKE UP HE IS NOT THE ONLY MAN WITH MR JOHN. EVEN WHEN YOU FORCE YOURSELF YOU ARE STILL NOT HAPPY WAKE UP WAKE LEAVE THAT MAN. THAT IS RUBBISH
doc b
May 2, 2012 at 4:52 pm
ma your young sister on top of your hubby,maybe its the best style he likes and you have never offered it to him.women be unique in bed like ama hule.
jigga1
May 2, 2012 at 4:53 pm
ubwamba na bumufulunganya umwaiche,aposa namabuku panse.Send her to boarding school in sesheke and buy umuti so that next time nga baleichita ubwamba buka pate.
MARY
May 2, 2012 at 5:01 pm
ICHUPO NINSANSA.ALA IMWE WHAT MIRACLS DO YOU WANT US TO PERFORM IN BED??ALA IMWE DID YOU PICK ME OFF THE STREET TO PERFORM MIRACLES???I BELIEVE IN ONE POSITION ONLY.MISSIONARY POSITION CHABE FYE.JUST DO YR BUSINESS AND GO TO SLEEP,MAILO IM DRIVING THE BENZ AND LIVING IN A MANSION!
jigga1
May 2, 2012 at 5:04 pm
awe ba mary mwau mfwika muli ba chekulu(abakote)
Iye Tata
May 2, 2012 at 5:04 pm
Doesn’t he have a brother whose shoulder you can cry on?Insansa kuchinjana!
Mwenya mwaume
May 2, 2012 at 5:05 pm
The so called morden women are just too lazy in bed!so aka akamwaice kalimupela iyamaka no wonder alifulungana ciikala!
igwala gwala
May 2, 2012 at 5:06 pm
the man does’nt love you already so why should you be afraid of the divorce,even if he swears that he will never hammer the ka girl it’s a lie what do they still talk about pa fon for 2 gud hours? you made a big mistake bringing her back those guys will just change the stratege and not quiting their affair it’s a lie
Chintu Masako
May 2, 2012 at 5:06 pm
Bafikala efyo mufwila,ukutemwa amaule!!
jigga1
May 2, 2012 at 5:09 pm
kick the buggar out of the house.(your husband and sister)
Umupandapwiti
May 2, 2012 at 5:15 pm
Ati she was on top and only 16years old.mmmmmmmh she must be so experienced, nakumbwa!
igwala gwala
May 2, 2012 at 5:21 pm
@MARRYtwatesha ba mayo kanshi nimwe mwaishibisha eti?
Ju
May 2, 2012 at 5:21 pm
Divorce the man and get yo share thru court. And start yo life from there. God allows such divorce.
e'normal,actually I used to do my wife's cousin sister but,all the sudden she became disrespectful to my wife.and my wife sent her for the holiday and that was all.
May 2, 2012 at 5:25 pm
I still want her back coz her vagina was so tight and she was just 17.
ashiii!
chola
May 2, 2012 at 5:26 pm
it is the wast thing you are going to do of bring your sister back home. I know its not easy for you to let your husband go but am assuring you he will never stop boning her. if you are not careful you fined that you are married to one man you and your sister, tell her mother about it, let your family know what is happing. Be strong to go through such a situation dear
chola
May 2, 2012 at 5:28 pm
shame to them
MARY
May 2, 2012 at 5:34 pm
FINSHI NDE CHULILA,NALIKWATA KALE PENSION YANDI IN FORM OF THE HOUSES AND MY CARS!WHY SHOULD I SIT ON TOP OF YOU,TO PROOVE WHAT,TETI WAKONTOLA UMUSANA.IFUNDE LYA KANA EFYO FYENA.ENJOY MY LOVE MAKING AND REMEMBER IM THE DRIVER BOTH IN BED AND AROUND THE HOUSEHOLD.AMANO KULI DRIVER!!!
Kabs int'nl
May 2, 2012 at 7:41 pm
Yes divorce is allowed wen cot cmtng adultery. Seek for a divorce and get yo shares kwasila and then move on with yo life. By the way, r u wapa ZED?
jigga1
May 2, 2012 at 7:48 pm
uummmh awe ba mary mwachita over,limbi mwali tamanga sana fya chima ni ku chima(all shapes and sizes and you are now on size XXXXXXL).ifi fintu fi fwaika satisfaction my dear.not nga uli mu bed mule bomba inchito uli fye kwati lukuni.ufwile ule shana make it nice and interesting so that you safeguard your household.Nangu banga mu kumbwisha bambi teti ayeko pantu ula mu pela yonse,alekuta kwashala nembasela.
melody
May 2, 2012 at 8:03 pm
@jigga1 walipena kekekekekekekekekekekekekeke ala wandepula ati nembasela!!kekekekekeke
Kanitundila kamutotototo
May 2, 2012 at 9:00 pm
the other issue is that your young sister must have been sucking his dick…hence him falling for her..try it before you loose the four gas stations which are on your mind foolish woman. too much ifibulungu mumusana but no amasha in bed….
Rango
May 2, 2012 at 9:06 pm
Hang them both
top kat
May 2, 2012 at 9:38 pm
theres a clear case of defilement here,you foolish woman why ddnt u report to the police wen it happend.women you are your own enemies!!
dw
May 2, 2012 at 10:01 pm
lady pliz get ur share and move on dnt you know ur writes why do u want to live in a loveless marriage?ulichikopo sana.ba mary missionary only is dangerous give ur man all that he nids otherwise mukalila nombaline.
Hitlers cousin
May 2, 2012 at 10:11 pm
Most beautiful women are the worst in bed.try gong’a akupasa vimanzombwe.ukumfwa kwati walanya
luchi boo!
May 2, 2012 at 10:20 pm
its not a sin