Rare Confession: Help Me! I Am Pregnant For My Daughter’s Lover – Mother

Rare Confession: Help Me! I Am Pregnant For My Daughter’s Lover – Mother

I’m at a loss as to how things happen so fast these days. I had a crazy sex on cool night with a young man for just about ten minutes and the next thing I see myself pregnant. How can this happen to me? Why should I find myself in such a shameful situation? Am I the first woman to have sex with a young boy?

The thing that bothers me most is this sex machine (he’s very good) is my daughter’s boyfriend.
Right now I wish to have him all to myself. But how am going to handle my daughter is the problem. She claims they are in love with with each other but her lover couldn’t say no when I ask him to sleep with me. It was as if he wanted me more than I wanted him.

My daughter is just 21 and my age is double of hers cos I was almost 21 when I gave birth to her. Her father is gone and the responsibility of taking care of her was all mine. I gave her a good life as much as my income could carry and she’s ok.

My headache is this pregnancy. Her boyfriend didn’t know am pregnant for him and my daughter has no idea we are seeing each other. The only man in my life right now is married with wife and three kids.

I know I’ve made mistakes but I’ve read other people’s stories on Tumfweko and I felt I could get some help here that’s why am asking for help.

What is the best option for me bevause abortion is not an option?
Should I take this sweet boy from my daughter and ask her to let go since am her mother? Afterall she can get another young guy to date. Or I should give the pregnancy to the married man am dating?

But I don’t think I want to leave this sweet boy for my small girl.



 Chileya M

187 Responses to "Rare Confession: Help Me! I Am Pregnant For My Daughter’s Lover – Mother"

  1. kasaka   October 18, 2012 at 6:47 pm

    wembwa we ulicipuba

  2. Forum for AGE Justice International   October 20, 2012 at 9:47 am

    You only need both RNR and GLM models for treatment and rehabilitation. Blaming you is not going to reduce your recidivism. There is a need to work on your criminogenic needs in order to reduce or remove the re-offending.

  3. I am disgusted by your immorality! didi you ever under go instructions either traditional or Christian ( if you are)? You have destroyed your daughters love life, how can you entice a young man like that, if he was my brothers son I would have beaten the   October 20, 2012 at 10:49 am

    You are a devil and capable of murdering your daughter. Spiritually your daughter has been killed, where is she going to learn good morals if YOU are so immoral. I wonder who bana Chimbusa was, did ever had a grand mother! Shame on you

  4. MOJO   October 20, 2012 at 10:59 am

    Since u still want him all by urself,Face it wekolwe we,tel ur dota about it and let the poor boy continue with u,kabili ucili ulefwaya akutombe.mwenamamwe!

  5. joel chibs   October 21, 2012 at 4:11 pm

    buty syaumfwapo ine fyaifi,ok muli bapuba imwe wanamoyo,honestly speaking how do u sleep with ur daughters boyfriend i am sure u ar such a beach i dn’t thnk ur husband is the father to ur daughter maybe nibenango beba nadyapo.wekolwe.

  6. GUNMETAL   October 22, 2012 at 12:29 pm


  7. may   October 23, 2012 at 12:05 pm

    thez nothing u cn do mama js kip it

  8. mixmaxmoz   October 23, 2012 at 1:41 pm

    you both have no morals. repent and get born again. how do you kiss the man who kisses your daughter. it appears to me that u can even sleep with your own son. repent the both of you.

  9. Brichm   October 23, 2012 at 7:40 pm

    Dnt u knw th out com of wht u wer doing?u devil. Go 2 hell.

  10. king barabah   October 26, 2012 at 9:21 am

    mayo mulishilu mwilatwipushako may God have mercy on your soul

  11. hummer.   October 26, 2012 at 9:58 am

    twafweni mayo wandi chashupa nichani?

  12. judy   October 26, 2012 at 1:14 pm

    what a mother

  13. prince joseph   October 29, 2012 at 9:50 am

    woman,such a very big woman lyk you,you have courage of killing yo own dota.its a pity you cant contral yo sexual apetite.

  14. Koswe Banda   October 30, 2012 at 11:46 am

    Kwena Moyo nangu muntweno mulababwa. U can’t do such nonsense bitch. U at a killer. I can advise u permanently put a stick in yo pussy.

  15. SHARLIN   October 30, 2012 at 2:34 pm

    kwani wavulana wameishaaa yawaaa

  16. amosmpundu@gmail.com   October 31, 2012 at 2:36 pm

    dats gud u can keep it to yourself
    i love it.

  17. RN   November 10, 2012 at 5:15 am

    You re a shame to womanhood, do u really have a heart? thats yo dota ure talking abt yo own flesh and blood all becoz of SEX it is a shame u really need Jesus in yo miserable life.

  18. new yorker   November 12, 2012 at 8:19 am

    Iwe mayo ulichipuba saana?kuti watombesha kuli boy friend wa mwana oobe?umupongoshi?oke ukese nkese kutomba iine nkamuchila,alekufwenafye umulumendo.

  19. mahuwa   November 13, 2012 at 1:33 pm

    foolish mother

  20. mulemfwe   November 14, 2012 at 5:17 pm

    This young man should leave both you and your daughter.

    Keep the baby and let your daughter find another morally up right young man.

    Repent and the Lord will give you a man of your age.

  21. The Bishop   November 16, 2012 at 9:31 am

    keep it bt u need to seek the face of God.

  22. CHANDA   November 16, 2012 at 12:47 pm


  23. bravo   November 19, 2012 at 7:10 pm

    u needs deliverance u lady in jesus name

  24. kabwela   November 23, 2012 at 4:59 pm

    may you repent and seek God’s presence. for your daughter, let her find someone who is morally upright

  25. Poleni   November 28, 2012 at 12:36 pm

    Your daughter might commit suicide if you told her the truth. Keep it to yourself and start avoiding the young boy. Who knows, he might just dump you after all and you end up losing both your daughter and the boy.

  26. veve   December 4, 2012 at 10:34 am

    you are a devil and capable of murdering your daughts.
    foolish mother ,pls keep it to your self.

  27. Chanda   December 4, 2012 at 11:40 am

    you need to be delivered my sister and trust in the lord

  28. Karen   December 5, 2012 at 10:29 am

    we often blame men with things they do BUT women are equally doing worse things. Mother! what happened? your daughters boyfriend and u stil want him? do u really love your daughter i wonder?

  29. Chrispine   December 6, 2012 at 10:08 am


  30. michelle   December 7, 2012 at 6:39 pm

    iye imwe this guy is disgusting..why leave a 21 year old for an old woman..thats why this story is boza !!!!this is not nigéria

  31. Titus Mulenga   December 13, 2012 at 7:52 am

    Wembwa we kolwe!i thnk walipaya na umwana pantu limbi walilwala.so,stay away from yo dot,idiot!

  32. kandolo nikunyansi   December 24, 2012 at 11:27 am

    sex ilibe nzelu walya kake aliye mulandu. you woman leave that boy and advice your daughter and your boy to quit. keep the baby

  33. Kamz17   December 25, 2012 at 7:43 pm

    2 hell with yo useless lover/inlaw

  34. luapula bize   December 26, 2012 at 1:00 pm

    This story is fake!!! It must have been altered in one way or the other. No sane woman would love to share this kind of drama on Tumfweko bcoz she knows the kind of verbal abuse she would receive.

  35. Leviathan   December 26, 2012 at 11:21 pm

    you guyz, this story is a fabrication. there is no such a human being.

  36. m.j   December 26, 2012 at 11:57 pm

    its okey,muletombana fye.your private parts are not registered.i mean the boy hasnt married yo dougter.so you are free to louch your vagina.but i wonder how u looks when undressd before your boy.mwandi ulimbwa.

  37. GILDA   January 8, 2013 at 1:13 pm

    Mother u are a big disgrace to woman hood,how cld u stood so low and cheap to sleep with ur own daughters guy and u are proud to say it?