Dear Editor,
I would really appreciate if you could publish my story so that I can get some advice from you readers.
I am a 27yr old lady who resides in Ng’ombe compound. I’ve been married for four years now yet I have been masturbating for the last 3 years . My husband has been sick for three years now and we can’t have sex but the urge it just too much for me. I am also childless.
Please help what can I do?
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Counsellors please help her!
i left my bubby after discovering that he was cheating on me with another woman and that was in 2008. but have stayed a normal life and am still staying without masterbating. so my sister what’s wrong with you.just feed your mind that you can stay without sex thats all.
‘For better for worse till death do us apart’ is what the bible says.what do you have in defence now.
God heal yo husband 1day masturbtin is nt yo thin… u wl av sex wit yo husband soon.
@ Bamwine – that is your business if you have stayed with out s**x. This woman here is clearly starved and is failing to cope! That is why she has resorted to masturbation!!! Let her also enjoy – let her find a toyboy – if she was sick do you honestly think her husband would stay without s**x for 3 years – get real!!!
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Lord have mercy upon my sister i know it’s not easily to stay without sex but may the Lord deliver your husband in Jesus’s name. marriage without sex is nothing and why we get married.
@ janet c- did u just say “toyboy” ?? am relating it to DEFILEMENT- shade more light. To the lady your hubby will be well & u will be happy together again.Make the book of life (Bible)your best friend & u will neva thnk abt that again.
continue masturbating…not a big deal…..especially if it makes you pussy feel good.
This is the most difficult issue one can advise. It’s really difficult. But to God everything is possible. From my human point of view, it’s tricky. I just hope and pray that God will intervene in your husband’s situation.
stay with him my dear sister, it was stated by you that you would be with him for better for worse. God has got your back, the wrong thing u will do now imagin it was your husband doin it to you. i mean cheating.
stop masturbating. it z bad!!
life goes on
Please lady i know the problem you have and i have dealt with alot of clients with the same problem. Its unfortunate that distance can not allow mw to come and see me but i can send you all the necessary material that can help you overcome your problem. Contact me on ([email protected])
iwe chi ‘so called breeze’ how can u call an innocent woman a bitch natuma wrong spelling twako.yo name sounds like chishupu in CHINESE LANGUAGE.if she was a BITCH,she would definately not have shared her situation.my humble plea 2 u breeze is that when u go 2the toilet,leave your BOGO there & not your senses ok! sister HIV is real,hold on,yo husband will be ok soon jst believe
iwe chi ‘so called breeze’ how can u call an innocent woman a bitch natuma wrong spelling twako.yo name sounds like chishupu in CHINESE LANGUAGE.if she was a BITCH,she would definately not have shared her situation.my humble plea 2 u breeze is that when u go 2the toilet,leave your BOGO there & not your senses ok!
Very difficult situation ,but tell your mind off abaut sex as for now so that the devil can not use for other sin, play hard and beleive GOD nothing impossible to him
get my number i will help and sutisfy you. 0978 599304.
SAD SITUATION. ITS A TRYING MOMENT AM SHURE
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Its a very dificult situation my dear sister but i have nothing much to say.I will simply use the exact words that my guy sylvester daka has used for both breeze and you.God bless
Too bad lady. But what you and your husband need is deliverance.Please see one of the TRUE servant of God for this. Your husband needs to be delivered from that sickness and you need to be delivered from that bondage for you to enjoy life and marriage.may the Lord help and deliver you through His mercy.
i really recommend you for even staying that long. you are really a dream wife to that man, i hope and pray that he is going to appreciate you one day. but masturbation is not wrong as long as you are not imagining some one else. And hope that when your husband is well again, he will bed you so well to reach point that you reach when you masturbate, because if he won’t then you will resort to that again and now that won’t be good.. but the advise i can give you is please pray to God to make you strong, and also to quicken your husbands recovery.
be prayerful my sister so that you be able to control your feeling its not you wish ,its just the situation you come across.pray foregiveness