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WOMEN AND INFIDELITY: 5 Reasons Why Women Cheat
Everything on this earth has a reason and every question has an answer. Similarly women infidelity has not one but a number of reasons. Situations, husbands, boyfriends, revenge, pleasure, dissatisfaction, insecurity, and many other such reasons can get women to cheat.
1. Loneliness is one big reason
Most of the women are taken for granted. If a woman leaves her job and sits at home for her husband and her kids it is her responsibility, which is not appreciated by anyone. No word of love or appreciation makes the woman feel she is taken for granted and this taken for granted feeling created differences between a couple and gives birth to loneliness. This loneliness can create attraction and feelings for another man, leading to infidelity.
2. Physically and emotionally not satisfied
Studies have proven that comparatively to men more women fall into an extramarital affair, when not physically satisfied by their partners. The above statement means women have more tendencies of falling into an extramarital relationship, if not physically satisfied with their married life. Like a men even women have sexual desires that need to be fulfilled. And hence when a few women are not happy with the physical part of their married life they do fall into extramarital affairs.
3. Feel of excitement
Some women like thrill and excitement. If you might have notices a new relationship brings the teenage excitement back. Not just a few women but every woman wants to live in the fairytale world of love. Fairytale love is not possible when it comes to reality. Most of the women except the truth and live with it, whereas some keep hunting for the fairytale love of their life to keep the excitement on.
4. Need of love and romance
With passing years in a relationship there are a number of responsibilities that erupt. And as a couple or as family members we end up fulfilling these responsibilities. This is when the love and romance between couples die or fade away. As years pass love has to grow stronger and not fade away.
5. Crumpling of self respect
In a male dominating world, everything has to work according to the man. At such places a woman is nothing but a puppet. Day in and day out her self-respect is thrashed. In such a society the man forgets that the woman in his house is his wife, mother of his kids and an individual. The designation of an individual human being is forgotten by her husband and her kids. In such cases if she comes across a man who respects her individuality, it is natural for her to develop feelings for him.
If given the right love and respect a few women will never ever think about cheating on their boyfriends or their husbands. However if cheating is only for excitement and thrill, it is difficult to stop cheating. You can still look at the above tips and correct the flaws in your relationship. A few rectifications can enhance love and understanding between couples.
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Ohms
October 7, 2012 at 5:08 pm
Reason or no reason, cheating is cheating. No excuse for cheating.
Thief Justice
October 8, 2012 at 7:33 am
Iyi yena walasa mambala iwe
gibz
October 7, 2012 at 5:11 pm
lie = sin = hell.
gibz
October 7, 2012 at 5:12 pm
o, i 4got am de first one 2 comment!
mosquito
October 7, 2012 at 5:25 pm
just publish
Wanu Ngwee
October 7, 2012 at 5:45 pm
After Ohms’ comment above, there shouldn’t be anything left to be said!
taliban
October 7, 2012 at 6:29 pm
lack of orgasms..hahaha
Katwa
October 7, 2012 at 6:43 pm
These are not the reasons. It is the devil and the devil alone. This philosophy is misleading and unfortunate.
condom
October 7, 2012 at 8:23 pm
Cheap analysis by an amature writer
Holy
October 7, 2012 at 8:56 pm
Cheating is a sin and there is no logic to a sin. Sin can not be analysed. Women are cheating not bcoz of these 5 reasons. Its only bcoz they’re lacking modesty. There’re women who go out with men who hav much less qualities than their (womens’) husbands. That refutes logic.
Barotse diaspora
October 7, 2012 at 9:32 pm
Men with möney cheat and women without money cheat
Kaesha
October 7, 2012 at 9:48 pm
@Katwa which devil? Its Gods life and its your choice now where does the stupid devil come in? Ala mwilamubepesa efyo lesa amipelela the spirit of decernment efyo? Cheating is upto you not kasatana.
Katwa
October 7, 2012 at 11:18 pm
You are also right and correct.
juice manure
October 7, 2012 at 11:02 pm
Women naturally love change & variety! Just at the mention the Congo men have the biggest items, Janet C & crew are busy planning going there!
Infidelity in marriages have made most family tree look as if they’ve been struck by lightning; one resembles a neighbour or a man from Congo!
Ichiselema chansele
October 7, 2012 at 11:44 pm
The writer’s english is very pedestrian. Nothing grammatically wrong, but very weak execution. Its like am reading my grade 8 niece’s english composition. U can tell that the writer doesnt write much or read much 4 that matter.
Myself
October 8, 2012 at 8:44 am
@ Ichiselema chansele. The issue here is not good / bad english, its story content bwana. Anyway, whatever reason for cheating, it still remains sin and wrong.
oxmos
October 8, 2012 at 12:09 am
i like the writer though has left other reasons like meeting the ex and if she lives in fear with her man
pasi patentha
October 8, 2012 at 5:34 am
As I have always said, there can be no sexual marital affair, incest, adulterey or fornication if the woman is able to say NO.
Cases of rape (forced sex) of course are an exception.
STEALTH
October 8, 2012 at 5:43 am
the worst reason ever given in human history
katema
October 8, 2012 at 7:11 am
Ubucende people fail to control their brain sex starts in the mind where is self control pppppppppp ubupuba sex is a need idiot idea which came from hopeless philosophers
Mistry Lady friend to Janet C
October 8, 2012 at 7:19 am
@ pasi pate…. Much as it is up to woman to say NO man should not cheat let alone think about it, why should it be okey for man to do it and hope woman says NO,even men should say NO square. Men are not any superior than women
Cheaters
October 8, 2012 at 7:36 am
He cheats on me I also cheat on him period 50-50 no two ways!
Closer
October 8, 2012 at 7:45 am
@ pasi you sound like a male chauvinist why can’t man say NO to his promiscous mind,when you had marital affair,incest, adultery, and fornication why didnt you think of say NO??? Foolish
Queen
October 8, 2012 at 7:46 am
Stupid, foolish, rubbish artical.
Ati, EVEN women has sexual desires.
What do you mean by ‘EVEN’.
So you thought women were created as your
Masturbation tool.
Plz give us some sensible articals.
Happiness
October 8, 2012 at 7:47 am
Men should also learn to say NO before marital affair, incest, aduldtery and fornication, why only woman say no
a
October 8, 2012 at 8:04 am
why are you all arguin? we can always ask nawakwi. she seems to be an expert in these matter. her experiences range from way back, with key.lessons drawn from the chiluba era. pliz try her.
eng
October 8, 2012 at 8:21 am
there is very little you can do to stop infidelity.just enjoy yo beer.no matter hw much effort u put in, there’s always a flaw somewhere.anyway avoid distant relationships.if yo wife wants to go out of town to visit by all means try to accompany her.
temitop
October 8, 2012 at 10:47 am
some women are just natural cheats. no matter one you do you can never please them.one might even think they just inherit prostitution.
Janet c
October 8, 2012 at 12:09 pm
zambian men fail to satisfy their women – no foreplay, no romance, no kisses in public, no holding hands in public, no roses, etc – and you have the audacity to ask why women cheat
Hand to Mouth Investments Ltd
October 9, 2012 at 9:16 am
Can a man manage foreplay when he just gets minimum wage?
ek
October 8, 2012 at 1:40 pm
Foolish Talk.. What do you gain from Cheating anyway?..
Plz give me just ONE Answer!
Hand to Mouth Investments Ltd
October 9, 2012 at 9:31 am
What you get from cheating is a Temporal Satisfaction that you have achieved something in secrecy etc. In reality, you hurt inside for cheating anyway. How many men feel very bad in the morning after sleeping with a hule? All of them do.
kalo chisata
October 8, 2012 at 4:04 pm
i cheat coz am cheated on. period
Pretty
October 8, 2012 at 6:33 pm
My hubby cheated on me I didn’t react and just ignored, I cheated on him he didn’t react and just ignored and life has been smooth and goes on well no problems now we r faithful to each each
Hand to Mouth Investments Ltd
October 9, 2012 at 9:27 am
People cheat simply because they have week morals. They can go over hills and valleys to justify the cheating, but it is simply down to one’s internal controls. WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR VALUES IN LIFE, MAKING DECISIONS IS A SIMPLE TASK.
Hand to Mouth Investments Ltd
October 9, 2012 at 9:27 am
Amend that “week” to weak!
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