Comments on: I’m Pregnant For My Married Boyfriend, He Doesn’t Know I’m Also HIV+

By: Guidance Counsellor

Guidance Counsellor — Sun, 14 Oct 2012 14:05:49 +0000

girl, there’s nothing to be confused about, for that man to be picking even prostitutes from the streets, he was sowing, so let him reap what he was sowing,who knows the man might even be on ARVs, i just wish the wife could be told immediately she arrives to prevent her from contracting the virus.

please take care of youself so that
your unborn child doesn’t get infected too.

possibly start thinking about going back to school. all the best

By: keith

keith — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 10:19:50 +0000

I believe they both infected each other ,who knows how many prostitutes he has been sleeping around with in his capacity as an accountant-its poverty on the side of the girl that contributed to her status.
Poor wife who might just get infected without knowing.God protects the innocent anyway.

By: Onga

Onga — Sat, 13 Oct 2012 08:29:42 +0000

@Kay, i agree with u, hiv is just a combination of diseases & is manageable. So lady, dot be confused, just tell your man about your status and move on. Im sure hes also hiv+

By: abudabi

abudabi — Fri, 12 Oct 2012 20:07:40 +0000

its possible that its the man who could have infected the lady.so the lady stop crying now,so many people have survived with such a status for so many years.

By: wasp

wasp — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 13:37:31 +0000

who knows, maybe it is the man who transimited the virus.

By: CC

CC — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 13:03:57 +0000

its bad manners for a man to do such a disgusting thing.let your part time husband know wats on b4 its too late.SHAME

By: chisapi

chisapi — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 11:10:18 +0000

@Sweety. You are missing the point. My morals are not the issue. Shameful or not is a point of view. In some cultures a man can give a visitor his wife for the night as part of hospitality and it is considered normal. But for me I make my own rules. We are in different world’s. Let us accept that.

The physical reality is that even in marriages there are discordant couples (one positive, the other negative) who have been sleeping without protection for years. The HIV virus is one of the hardest to transmit, the conditions have to be near perfect for transmission to take place e.g broken skin, high viral load in the infected partner etc. So in short the guy could be still negative.

By: J J

J J — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 10:29:58 +0000

True, that man is now your husband too. The Bible says when a man sleeps with a prostitute then the two become one. Tell him your situation and allow him make some decisions before his first wife returns.

By: Jubby

Jubby — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 08:07:14 +0000

Guyz it aint easy. if it was meant to be that your destiny will be you dying of HIV then thats it. its not that everyone who is infected wanted to be… No. even you pipo commenting negatively have girlfriends and you think you are perfect. the best advise is help these goyz cope and let the wife seek a divorce if she is not infected and the two live together and look after the unborn. By the way TUMFWEKO do yu have rights to the pictures you put on this site. someone may sue just using that picture…

By: sweety

sweety — Thu, 11 Oct 2012 08:05:15 +0000

May God have marcy on both of u . u are hiv and his as well because they is no way he can be negative because u do ur shameful thing without any protection . i pity the wife who does not know anything . shame on uo both with ur ****** lover.