I am a 24 year old man from Kitwe, I have had this problem for a long time. Since I was 18 years, I have been dating elderly women, some as old as my mother and I was enjoying it. Some of them would start a relationship, pay me a lot of money for sleeping with them, some of them were married women as they admired what they call handsome in me.
For the past 6 months I have been chasing after this beautiful woman from another town on the Copperbelt, I saw her when she came for a wedding at our neighbours place, she is 51 years old. She has money, she has everything but she does not have a man. She has been warning me not to be stupid by starting something I cannot finish, she told me that she cannot undress before me as it was wrong traditionally and that she is like my mother.
I disagreed with her looking at the number of elderly women I have slept with in the past and all of them, talked highly of my expertise in bed. I continued bothering this woman, every day bombarding her with love phone calls and SMS but she kept on saying that I am too young for her and that she cannot feel anything. After putting so much pressure on her, she gave in and a month ago we went out.
People I was embarrassed, we started by kissing and touched each other a lot. When the time came for me to insert my manhood inside, it could not rise or erect. I tried everything and she also tried to make it erect but it could not.
By this time the woman was completely wet and wanting S*X. The woman was upset with me, she started insulting me, “ Did I not tell you that you are a boy, my child, foolish, stupid boy,” she then started beating me like a child, she slapped , and spat on me saying I should not eat meat for elders. She said it is wrong to eat food prepared for my father.
People, I will never forget what I went throw and I will never date an elderly woman. At the moment I have even taken a break from any relationship.
What I have failed to understand is why did my manhood could not erect or rise because hours after that incident it erected but by then I was nursing wounds and crying alone in a room. Could it be that she did some juju on me or what?
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love
October 12, 2012 at 11:28 am
repent 4 the kingdom is here……hope u are not positive,,,,,foooorrrrrrrrrrrrriiiiisssssshhh boy
NCC
October 12, 2012 at 11:40 am
FOOLISH BOY!!!!!!!
Elder Chilufya
October 12, 2012 at 11:52 am
Walapila chikamba chobe wikabwekeshapo. Go and seen nomore.
If truly your confession is coming from the depth of your heart, never ever go back to your vomit again, and pray for the power of the holy spirit to strengthen your faith.
Grace and peace be with you.
Meswin
October 12, 2012 at 11:54 am
You are fool, ****** *****!!!
Prince of Zamunda
October 12, 2012 at 12:01 pm
Limbi ni lesa saving your @$$ and you say you cant understand why it didnt get up. Go and Sin No More
shoes
October 12, 2012 at 12:16 pm
Very foolish boy.You need counciling coz this may affect your marriage when that time comes. Repeat, Go loves you.
Exposed viewer
October 12, 2012 at 12:18 pm
Ukafwa iwe! You were actually saved from quick and expedited death, foolish boy, no manners.
Chocolate na banana
October 12, 2012 at 12:20 pm
Watasha..honestly boi have respect were did you get the guts to even do that abominable thing.
Most Selfish
October 12, 2012 at 12:34 pm
Vabakulu ni vabakulu,never try that again coz next time ukapya akalufyono *****.
NDIYO ZO PULAMA
October 12, 2012 at 12:45 pm
Alemona kwati ali chenjele
ANGEL
October 12, 2012 at 12:59 pm
repent my brother
Vutiwe
October 12, 2012 at 1:29 pm
****** Men and Boys indeed!!! No morals nowadays. I had a similar experience which led me to teaching a certain man a lesson. A married man persited to have an affair with me and I would refuse based on my moral and christian background despite being a spinister at 38. I was tired of telling him the same thing, so I asked him to divorce his wife and plan for our wedding. Fortunately, I never slept with him. He finalised his divorse and did or wedding preparations all by his money. When the wedding was approaching, I left for the United Kingdom. It is something I enjoyed, but at times I do feel guilty.
Tiza
October 12, 2012 at 1:40 pm
@Vutiwe you re mean….
danny
October 12, 2012 at 2:05 pm
**** u so you think you all that you luck that dude never killed you
Sobongo
October 12, 2012 at 1:33 pm
Get a life my man, this is bad! She has helped you rethink…………..choose
Tiza
October 12, 2012 at 1:37 pm
Kwena chikala uyu tatina 51, so help me understand when you touched her body were u not ashamed? Sure believe me you need deliverance…/…
The Prophet
October 12, 2012 at 2:15 pm
Should I bother commenting? Let me live it to those that are extremely bored…next story please!!
kakolwe
October 12, 2012 at 2:39 pm
The Hunter hunted. Next time, scorched dick or fu*ked into satanism
MJ ~Royal son
October 12, 2012 at 2:56 pm
ssssssssssssssshhhh stop it you relax and surely repent.
Pwete
October 12, 2012 at 3:04 pm
Pwete iwe!Very stiopet boy,and u have the nerve 2 even bring ths rubbish 2 our attention?föetsek man!
Janet c
October 12, 2012 at 3:18 pm
Yet another demonstration that men are the weaker sex. Whereas a young female can handle a man 50 years her senior, this foolish young man fails to handle an older woman. And do not even think about swinging the opposite direction by molesting some young girl – foolish little boy – clearly you are now man enough
Lol
October 12, 2012 at 3:43 pm
@Janet C, we live for ur comments. What world do you come from? Ur logic is ever so peculiar.
SIMON MWEEMBA
October 12, 2012 at 3:30 pm
you ****** asshole of all the women you choose to **** elderly women,what kind of insect are you.You are are completely black assholes hule chikala.your matole are deformed puti yourbe
Malchi
October 12, 2012 at 3:43 pm
Demon-possessed
lenny
October 12, 2012 at 4:27 pm
stupit fooolish boy,hw do u slip wt ur own qoeen its gud unapia
mupopo
October 12, 2012 at 4:30 pm
why going out with abakote? please young men refrain from this habbit.
GUN
October 12, 2012 at 4:48 pm
Shame to all the women who undressed before this baby,including the last one who was embrassed because if she wanted to teach a lesson wouldnt have gotten wet,shame..bit.ching at your age big mama!
advent b
October 12, 2012 at 6:40 pm
****** boy.u are a fool.
Tom Bar Know Call Cheekalah
October 12, 2012 at 6:50 pm
Try chi Dora.But why erection was possible between RB and Thandiwe ngati vabakulu ni vabakulu?
Abakonzi
October 12, 2012 at 7:17 pm
Madam 51yr old from ndola,are u upset with this boy because he is young or because u wanted sexx and the boy failed u.The bigger iddiot is this old woman and any other old person who sleeps with very younger partners whether male or female.Ati meat for elders,foollish woman after u undressed yoself for this boy kapulikobe iwe,uleshikula umwana fye obe.Atase ifyabupubafye
Genaro the Analyst
October 12, 2012 at 7:17 pm
she did not use juju on you, but she delivered you from your stupidity. Analyse
Chali!
October 12, 2012 at 8:07 pm
Ths is vry shamefu, 4 the boy & the so called woman busy embaransing motherhood. May God deliver both of u
shakz
October 12, 2012 at 10:02 pm
It is called ‘infatuation’. A situation where you feel ‘lelo ni lelo’, kanshi the whole attraction thing is in your head, not in your loins. When she undressed he was shocked to see that the present was diiferent from the packaging. Vimacitika, mwana. Stick to your sexy age mates and you wont suffer embarrasment. Have you ever heard of a man going to his concubine, fails to petform, then claims that his wife had ‘tied’ him? Ukali under 5!
kabs int'nl
October 12, 2012 at 10:49 pm
Saved by the bell. I pray this will be yo turning point.
tuntatunta
October 13, 2012 at 12:13 am
efilya balanda ati abakulu balocha emulilo ulya wine
Slim
October 13, 2012 at 5:19 am
I hope this last encounter will culminate in your repentance, otherwise you are on the highway to hell. Turn from such behaviour and God will receive you. John 6v37
Mosquito
October 13, 2012 at 6:08 am
Ka chikala tautina, kuti walafula shani ba noko? Why dating widows and you are busy saying she has money, do you know the sources of their money u *****. Go for VCT and change your ways for the better walishama kakala kobe.
Onga
October 13, 2012 at 8:42 am
****** boy! Ulelandanokulanda, this is a lesson to u and all of u boys who enjoy pussies for old women.
zende
October 13, 2012 at 10:08 am
give me her number i show her wat a man can do
Chairman Mao
October 13, 2012 at 10:08 am
Repeat, it is not normal for a young to start going out with older women.The devil is destroying your future, your life, your youth.
It’s not too late for you Jesus, loves you and he died for your sin and my sin. I, pray may the mercy and graces of our loving God, be upon you, cover all your sins in Jesus name.
UWAMANO
October 13, 2012 at 11:23 am
Either the whole story is a fiction, OR;
This young man had jst masturbated b4 meetin this old lady (we all know wat happens wen a man WANKS);
pavel
October 13, 2012 at 11:56 am
Even those old ladies are fools!!!!may God forgive them.
Mwanamfumu
October 13, 2012 at 1:20 pm
Lesa abe nobe mwaiche! Long live my brother,save your God now.
king
October 13, 2012 at 3:52 pm
infactuation is the reason u did not erect but ur story is disastrous…….repent
Hip Hop
October 22, 2012 at 2:43 pm
you ****** idoit, how do you get attracted to a 5o year old ulimbwa chikala size yaba noko!
advisor
November 12, 2012 at 5:46 pm
iwe katomba noko ulimbwa.ure even proud ati almost the age of my mother?kuti waumfwa shani ukukutombela noko
mr muso
November 14, 2012 at 2:17 pm
ASK YOURSELF ONE QUESTION. ARE YOU CLOSE WITH YOUR MOTHER? IT COULD BE THE SOURCE OF YOUR FETISH…