Dear Editor
Here is my story too, I hope I will get positive advice from you readers.
I traveled to Lusaka to buy clothes for my shop about four months ago and had to spend a few days in my sister’s place. I called her but her number wasn’t going so when I got to Lusaka I contacted her husband who told me that she went to Kabwe central province on official assignment.
He agreed that I should come over and do my transaction from their house.
It was raining when I got there so I got socked, especially while trying to get their keys from a neighbor. They live in a one-bedroom apartment, so I had to go inside the room to change. I was really cold and was already wishing I had a man I could visit in Lusaka when the unexpected happened.
Due to the rain my sister’s husband came in through a back door from the kitchen straight into the bedroom and I was completely nude; I couldn’t even bend down to pick my clothes. I was just standing there motionless until he grabbed me and, yes, we did it.
We didn’t feel any guilt, just laughed about it and I prepared food. We both ate, slept together and had sex all night with each other. The sequence continued for the three days I spent in Lusaka but after the first time we agreed he shouldn’t release his sperm inside me.
Am now back to Kafue where I do my business, but unfortunately I’m pregnant. No man friend, no boyfriend, no sex mate…. So who will I give this pregnancy to? My sister’s marriage is less than a year and I just cant mention this to her husband.
The options I’ve thought of is either to kill myself or have an abortion. Is there any other way out of this mess I’ve gotten myself into?
Please I need help, and I need it fast!
I Mistakenly Got Pregnant For My Younger Sister’s Husband added by on
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repent and tell your bro-in-law you are pregnant bcoz soon or later the truth will come out
u fool thts idiotic of both u nd th husband….mwefipubamwe
there is something very wrong between you and the husband to your sister..it looks like you have been wanting euch other for a long time..all i can say is that you are both sick in the head
Nice one.
SIS YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO ABORT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE,COZ YOU MAY END UP LOOSING YOUR SISTER WHO CAN DEFINATELY COMMIT SUICIDE ESPECIALLY THAT THEY JUST WEDDED.PLIZ QUICKLY DO THAT.
Iwe DR SAM why advising that Idiot to abort…let her just keep the pregnancy and face the shameful consquences…Life is simple and straight “YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW” so if you abort expect to reap on sowing in abortion.
Ohhh….from kafue? We know how most Kafue girls behave. You agreed that he should not release inside you? You are a foolish imoral woman and I hope you did not give that foolish man HIV.
— USELESS GIRL and MULAMU!!!!!!!!
foolish girl,jst kill urself.idiot
crazy indeed
tell him, marry him & be mainini to your sis…
useless just like your leader HH senior
Mulamu wako ni ndiyo… lol
Just repent.tell the truth with remorse and stop sinng as an old habit.if u abort you wil contnue n yo sins with tht sinful man,also abortn is murder so dnt add sin to sin.also, killing yo self is a murder.dnt add sin to sin again.just repent and sin no more.
Your sis n husband live in a one bedroomed apartmt, why spend a nite there you cud ve booked a lodge(brothel) styopeti hule big sis
U should neither kill yo self nor abort God 4bid. U ar saying after being soaked by rains, u wanted a man & u became happy after he fucked u. After u prepared fud u entered his bedrum & u enjoyd each other for 3 dayz then u ar caling it a mistake?. Do u kno the meaning of the word mistake?. Those ar the results of yo enjoyment & not a mistake. U’ve cozed harm 2 yo sister’s marriage.Pray to God 4 4givnes.
okey just know that HIV and AIDS is present in the two of you. useless stupid idiots, infact i know how kafue women behave. u planned it.
Surely there is nothing to advise. You should have thought about that mess before you got into it. And you sound casual as though its not very serious. SHAME ON YOU.
Its like you are threatening us by saying you thought of killing your self. Plz kill your self. You knew what you were doing.
I wish this b!tch can just kill herself
SORRY MY DEAR BUT WAS IT SWEET?REST IN PEACE AS YOU KILL YIURSELF.YOU WHERE AFTER HE ALL ALONG IDIOT.
Just kill yourself pleased cause you are very styopet and useless you fool
Ever heard of condoms iwe stiopet?ni nyele ya kuti mulinayo ba mbuzi imwe?In fact ba Kafue u r an embarassment futi…
YOU PLANNED TO SLEEP WITH HIM.YOU KNEW HE WAS ALONE.YOU KNEW HE WAS COMING HOME ANY TIME BUT YOU DECIDED TO REMAIN NUDE AND YOU KNEW HE WAS IN A ONE BEDROOM HO– USE BUT YOU DECIDED TO SPEND A NITE AT HIS RESIDENCE.ALL I WILL SAY IS YOU AB– USED THE YOUNGMAN SO KILL YOURSELF ZAMBIA IS BECOMING OVER POPULATED IF YOU GO SPACE MAYBE CREATED.ALL THE BEST.
y destroy 2 innocent souls wen u new exactly what u were doing.pray to God to forgive your sins and spare that child .
naunfwa if you have ears…….start using yo head to think before acting instead of using your down****** to act before thinking..
You must confess and tell your husband what happened?Thereafter,continue with life as you have created a life and not destroyed one.Those telling you to abort are sick and crippled in the head.Otherwise never enter into your brother in law’s room.
iwe chimukazi nikuziba,uzaona!!!go to hell motherfuker.надеюсь, что вы скоро умрет.
KILL YOURSELF !
U thnk we r kidz? U planned this whole thing. U knew very well tht ur sis ws nt there & tht they sleep in a roomed apartmnt, why didnt u book some lodge?
or go back to kafue…after all it is just 30 mins away!
Cont’d………………….. Evn if it were a 2-bedroomed apartmnt, U were nt supposed 2 go there!!! Shameless lady!!!
I have heard of women who have lived with kids whose fathers names they have never disclosed. I see your name added to those statistics.
U planned iwe catile cobe weci bwa we
Cont’d……Bare the consequences of ur actions.
Where is Janet c kanshi. I am looking 4ward to her comment…
Looks like it was a planned move to me. You cant say you mistakenly got pregnant. You slept with the man without guilty for 3 solid days and nights. What did you expect? Its like you lusted for your sisters husband even b4 what happenned. It is very difficult to advise you. I will try anyway; please face the consequences of your actions. Repent too. Confess your sins.
commit yourself in the safe hard of God. He will guide you the right way to take.
YOU IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!!, WHATS WRONG WITH YOU GALS FROM KAFUE, SOME LADY I KNOW THERE LAST YEAR SLEPT
WITH THE GROOM ON HER BEST FRIENDS WEDDING DAY, AND TO ADD INSULT, SHE WAS EVEN BOASTING HOW SWEET
HE WAS. GO KILL YOSELF IDIOT. IS EVERY GIRL IN KAFUE A BITCH, CAN SOMEONE ANSWER ME PLIZ.
you must be a very stupid girl, how can u despise ur sister in such a way? Make sure u confess to your sister for Jehovah God to forgive you
Contact me on 0979 386 789 for advice.
You must tell him and your sister too cause this man will keep on sleeping around with his wife’s relatives. And looks planned how can you go on doing it for three days with no sense of guilty. Anyway, do the right thing and let him know and your sister too.
This business of blaming the woman for this is just nonsense – are you telling me your sister’s husband could not control himself? Just because one accidentally finds another nude does not equal intercourse. For example, that naked mad man on cairo road whoused to come to car windows with his D888 in your face, how come us women didn’t rape him? Zambian men – grow up, because this world and the law is slowly closing down on your stupid mentalities of oppressing women and blaming them for your own foolishness and weakness. Ignore my advice at your own peril. That man is nothing but a lying cheat who would sleep with his own daughter just because he found her naked by accident. The sooner your sister leaves him the better!
My dear sister should go for a safe abortion before she clocks 3 months – clearly this child is not wanted and was borne under dodgy circumstances. Plse also learn to use protection next time
I agree with you Janet C, its always an excuse for men to have illicit sex and blame the woman ati she shud hve said NO, people NO is two sided why cant men control their willies in the toloshiz for hells sake, I’m glad I’m a woman with senses 5 of them straight not useless men with one sense below the naval atase
atase-e-e……
U deserve death bi stoning. How can u do tht 2 yor blood sister? U can even kill her! Hopeless woman! Just tell the world that you are weaked, idiot! I wish sharia law could come 2 Zambia 2 deal with such idiots!
You ejoyed it cinyo cobe,and y cant u tell him about his preg?Just tell everyone koz uv already grabbed ur little sis’s Hubby go on and mary him.Let ur innocent sis out of this drama.Mwaimbwa imwe.
You are a shameless woman who knew exactly what you were doing..How dare you even tell us that you agreed that he shouldn’t release inside you as if you have never heard of HIV.Understand that the wages of sin is death..
@ Big Joe and Mojo – a man will only be ‘grabbed’ if he is willing. Why is no one condemning the man kanshi – what the hell is wrong with you people, what planet do you live on!!!!! This man is treacherous and evil – how could he do that to his wife
Ukutemwa ukulowa baiche, just keep that innocent child and go aheard to tell your sister what transpired for you to sleep with him, he’s doing it in the same family so i see no problem there maybe that’s what he ‘s tribe discribes the best, even me i can ****** her when am pressed and horny just have to do it but not making it a habit at all.
……..I was really cold and was already wishing I had a man I could visit in Lusaka when the unexpected happened.
You were already wishing it happened. this is unfortunate.
lts a shame and disgrace to woman wood,you new and planned this dirty thing you are indeed evill.l cant advice you but dance to the music you are playing. l feel for your innocent sister,you have broken the family apart and her life will never be the same again.pliz lets resist such animalism
what do you mean “mistakenly” you liked it, wanted it and did it repeatedly, were is the mistake? be real and Tell the Man You are pregnant for Him.Let the truth come out at once.
Lady! you’re a whore.U’re even casually saying….
“I was really cold and was already wishing I had a man I could visit in Lusaka when the unexpected happened,… first time we agreed he shouldn’t release his sperm inside me,….Am now back to Kafue where I do my business, but unfortunately I’m pregnant. No man friend, no boyfriend, no sex mate…. So who will I give this pregnancy to? ”
Admit you planned it,and it is growing iside you giving you the more Desire for the ‘pin-pong’.I suggest you go into bars or night clubs where confused people like you are found who will help you scratch and sooth your booboo until such a time when you burst open…then take the baby to the orphanage.
degenerate insects!!!! on Cybertron they would would extinguish your all spark! Decepticon Punk!!