Am a 30 year old woman married with 2 kids and my hubby is 33years,,we have been married for 5 years now,,I love my hubby so much but I feel he is stressing me so much, but what can I do!
My hubby doesn’t work he says he does not want to work for anybody but wants to have his own company. I work and do everything at home while he sits and watches TV day in day out, and says God’s time is the best.
I once mentioned to him that they wanted some accountants at a certain company since he has done an accounts course but answered me harshly saying “who told u I want to work for somebody”but I feel he is being unfair to me such that when we don’t have food I go to get from mum.
This month I refused to pay for DSTV coz its a month for Rentals,,finishing kids school fees, water and electricity and for that his mood has soured.. My siblings are telling me to stop work for a while saying that’s when he will wake up,,pliz reliable members advise, can that be a solution??? What advise can u give??
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Tell him that even in paying for DSTV, God’s time is the Best!
One kakolwe, never cease to amaze me. Thats a good one.
It is every young man’s dream to be their own boss. Before you reach that level work for somebody.
Your Husband should wake up and smell the coffee. That is silly! How does he expect you to meet all expenses? Is he encouraging you to find another man?
I wish to hear the other side of the story as this is not complete.what made him to stop chasing for work and what was it that hit him so hard that he is unable to get on his feet.he did an accounting course and every student regardless of trade would want to work at some point.there is a lot more missing from this puzzle.
Waliba tumpika! Ur trying mama they are few! Bale fwaya ukaye muku chita ubu hule baka kwipaisha abo abaume! He doesn’t love u he is stressing u instead of loving u. Ule balisha nabaya teka yonse yatatu. Wat tribe is he? He has no shame. Katapa no umulembwe fibekate pakuti basalapuke na rental delay in paying so that bamone kwati balamitamfya ubalipilile na Dstv, wen he says rental or food u point ku DSTV.
How can he be the head of the house? Mama be strong you have assumed that role on a silver platter