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My wife is very unhygienic
Dear editor,
Please don’t reveal my my name. I am a married man and got married to my wife in 2011.
The problem I have is that my wife does not like to bath. Every-time one has to remind her to take a shower. You can imagine with all the sweating from work she prefers to sleep without bathing. I have been advising her to bath but she doesn’t heed my advice.
What can I do?
Editors Note: Readers remember the person you are given advice to is a real person with a real case so please give positive and helpful advice.
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on November 5, 2012. Filed under LATEST NEWS, STYLE.
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Chosen
November 5, 2012 at 9:25 pm
They say charity begins at home and again you cant teach an old dog new tricks. Mwana uli mubwafya! Just become the dog whisperer and communicate.
Wanu Ngwee
November 5, 2012 at 9:48 pm
Just bathe her yourself one day to show her how best to prepare EVERYTHING FOR YOU. BUT WARNING BAICHE, THAT’S THE PRICE YOU PAY FOR MARRYING “RAW” WOMEN!!
Yanjani Zulu
November 5, 2012 at 10:06 pm
There a lot of ladies who bath but still emit a subtle pungent smell from the back. How does one address an issue like this one
シ мσ¢кιηgвιя∂ ツ
November 6, 2012 at 2:06 am
B.O. is sometimes associated with specific health problems including liver dysfunction, diabetes, digestive problems (parasites, etc) and yeast infections and these conditions require professional attention and advice.
Truth2
November 6, 2012 at 12:27 pm
For that kind of smell,there is a tradition medicine.She can see grandma,bana cimbusa etc.They can easily sort that one out.
Abakonzi
November 5, 2012 at 11:09 pm
Maybe she is allergic to bathing,ukusamba tabapatikisha
Edwin
November 6, 2012 at 1:17 am
Sir your wife is has a spiritual problem,she requires to be helped through serious prayer.Most likely she has a spiritual hasband who make to behave like that.Please take her for prayers she will be fine and you will be happy with her.Stay blessed.
シ мσ¢кιηgвιя∂ ツ
November 6, 2012 at 1:55 am
Oh nooooooo……..another brainwashed ***** that belives in spititual husband/wife bullshit
シ мσ¢кιηgвιя∂ ツ
November 6, 2012 at 1:55 am
Oh nooooooo……..another brainwashed dunderhead that belives in spititual husband/wife bullshit
another Iris
November 6, 2012 at 7:39 am
Come on!!!!! Am sure the devil has started to pray to God as well, complaining why you are blaming for things he is not involved in.
Rastsman
November 6, 2012 at 2:23 am
@ mockingbird, i am made to believe you are a spiri and a very bad spirit and that is why your reasoning is like that, I do not blame you! Your friend has a problem and you want to criticize the advice being given! May God deliver you!
Please if you do not have anything good to say about somebody, “just shut up”!
Hussen Daka
November 6, 2012 at 3:12 am
DEAR BOTHER
I WISH TO THANK YOU FOR THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR BELOVED WIFE IT IS A SADDENING ISSUE BUT I REMIND MYSELF THAT THIS ISSUE IS A MEDICAL ONE HAVE YOU TRIED TO ASK YOUR WIFE TO SEEK MEDICAL ADISE? BECURSE IF YOU SAY SHE DOSE NOT BATH HOW DO YOU MANAGE TO HAVE SEX WITH HER?
BECURSE EVEN WOMEN WHO BATH EVERY DAY IF SHE DOSE NOT BATH THE SENT IS NOT APPLING TO ANY NORMAL MAN.
ASK YOUR WIFE WHAT MAY BE THE PROBLEM.
Tom Bar Know Call Cheekalah
November 6, 2012 at 5:00 am
Is she Tonga? Jst askin….
nshendi
November 6, 2012 at 8:35 am
When choosing a life partner sometimes you win, sometimes you loose.looks like you lost my brother
suker
November 6, 2012 at 9:04 am
I pit u. How do you do oral sex if she is that dirty? Every night ask her to prepare yo water and insist on bathing together
lumphen
November 6, 2012 at 9:24 am
nyc 1….u kan mek a gud policy maker…lol
kangwa
November 6, 2012 at 12:41 pm
Suker you are very wise
Lisa
November 6, 2012 at 2:06 pm
thats th best Advise & so wise @Suker. thumbs up for you!
AWAITING
November 7, 2012 at 12:34 pm
I agree
mari-G
November 6, 2012 at 9:28 am
yeah i agree with suker,bath together,put nice candles,b romantic and bath her,that mighty
help.
jolijo
November 6, 2012 at 9:49 am
bakalamba ask her to bath with you together and c what happens.but remember to tell her not to bath kunyini bcz ifiko e file wama e mavitamin ayoyeni.
Truth2
November 6, 2012 at 12:33 pm
Balakalamba its advisable that mwafipangafye ati ni ka romance akakusamba babili.You try like you are trying to show some kind of romantic moves of which bathing is one such.If she still does not change,then there is a big problem.
kusamba
November 6, 2012 at 2:58 pm
go for a jacuzzi and lead the way. foambath & shower gel wil be handy then report back.
sweet tony
November 6, 2012 at 10:21 pm
divorce the *****.women generally stink wat more with that one wu hates water.
MUSONDA CHIBWE
November 7, 2012 at 1:19 pm
Charity begins at home maybe she had problems even before, but honest speaking she must have a problem which you need to sit her down. because if she doesnt bath how did you see her when you proposed marriage, just speak to her nicely and every even ing when you knock off try to ask her for water to bath then invite her to bath with her, shes gonna chage she will know how bathing is sweet maybe she feels lazy alone, that is just a domestic issue which you need to sort out Brother.
low batry
November 8, 2012 at 9:09 am
the best way to solve a problem is to talk it over with the person you have it with. so sit her down, talk to her making sure you tel her all you are feelig and let her tel you why she is like that… then look at posibo solutionz.. wshing u lak!
BAROTSE SWAGG
November 8, 2012 at 5:47 pm
Amumuleleke munamuhulu au!
MUMBA JAMES
November 12, 2012 at 4:42 pm
ONE DAY BUY HER SOME NICE SOAP AND PERFUME WATER AND ASK HER TO USE IT EVERYTIME WHEN GETTING TO BED…..AND INSIST YOU LOVE THE SCENT WHEN IN BED.THAT MAY HELP.
MUMBA JAMES
November 12, 2012 at 4:46 pm
ONE DAY BUY HER SOME NICE SOAP AND PERFUME BAT WITH EVERY EVENING AND ASK HER TO USE IT EVERYTIME WHEN GETTING INTO BED…..AND INSIST YOU LOVE THE SCENT WHEN IN BED.THAT MAY HELP.