I am a lady aged 23 married with 3 kids. I’m confused I don’t know what to do. I have been dating the pastor who blessed our marriage. He is all I ever wanted in a man. I must also admit that he is good in bed, even much better than my hubby.
He always makes me smile. He is just so sweet, the only the problem is that I know it’s wrong but I can’t let go and if my hubby finds out he will kill me.
Need advice please
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You are a fuc..ked up bitch!
The solution is that you have said it yourself that,”you know its wrong”.So quit and tell your pastor to ask for forgiveness from and stop cheating people.Do’nt let emotion control your mind and why did you get married to your hasband if you knew he was the kind of your realy need in your life?
fuseke-ifyabumpuba-That is not a pastor who commits-detestables
FUCK U BITCH
These ar the stories dat mek it hard 4sum pipo 2beliv certain things on tumfweko.
This was on RL Issues on facebook, ba tumfweko out of staries hire more journalists
tumfweko is always stealing stories from other websites.
wer ar the other responces i thot u said 58 but i cant the rest
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may God have mercy on our souls
Go for deliverance my sister.This is not normal behaviour.It is spiritual possession.Look for a true man of God.If you have money,please book yourself a ticket and go to Nigeria to Synagogue Church of All Nations before your marriage is destroyed.
rubbish!!
You may be dealing with a spiritualist and NOT a pastor.
Just continue untill you are caught so that your husband can blow the shit out of you. Every sweet things come with consequences like u starting dating your so called “pastor” and ending up doing it. I wonder how you guys pray and how u interract with your congegants knowing well that u fack afetr service.
He is not a pastor. Call him something else.
At 23 with three kids. U r a sex addict. U will finish the church.
U need deliverance sisi fear God.
Firstly, that man is not pastor.
Secondly,You are a married woman and the best piece of advice is according to God’s word that you live with your hubby as a couple only. Forget about the so called pastor.
Marriage must be respected by all and the marriage bed be kept clean.
So please for the sake of God, refrain from that sex maniac.
I wonder what this world is turning into”ati hes beta than my hubby in bed” You re a big fool did u eva go through amafunde?
divorce yo chi foolish hubby and marry the so called pastor.but how do u know he is the best.u havent eve tested me yet.u will finish men if u continu comparing.
why bother your soul; divorce your hubby, tell him the truth and live your happy life “forever”
All I can do is smile. I remember as a kid being teeaetrnhd that I would not get any gifts because I did not behave. Love your blog. Blessings.
BAMAYO ABA NABAMPMISHA SANA.
i have been there the best is 2 stop bech………..
@Orca40 You’re full of shit and you know it. False accusations will not help your case. Stubbornly sptoiung the same tired rant that religion makes people evil over and over will not make it true. Anyone with the ability to think critically can see your conclusions are a fallacy.
my advice to you is,hang yourself……and do it fast
u mean a pastor from the pulpit after praying 4 the pipo u go straight mwachita nani is that right!imwe mwalipena ifipubafye so
Tila manzi pastor nyenga chabe iyende, faka mlilo .
‘He is better than my husband in bed’bull-shit , u dirty infidel even the three kids he didn’t father them….just go to hell and hang.
May GOD deliver you and the pastor
my sister repent..look at what your husband has been doing for you, that devil you have been sleeping with God will punish both of you. I pray that fire falls from heaven and consume you. Basket!!!!!!
just go away so that my honest and hardworking brother can find a suitable wife. HUUUULE!!!
23 years old and three kids, does it mean you had the first child at 16 ?
Please ba tumfweko check the facts before publishing article.
Thats why this lady has three kids, she is not focused. she should have concentrated on her education instead of boys.
Is that stupid pastor married or not and is one of your kids his or not.By the way,why did marry somebody you didn’t love,ninshi finshi wakonkeleko kuli wene.Remember,there’s always a stiff punishment for every wrong act and try to put yourself in your husband’s shoes…Otherwise,stop dating that pastor immediately and teach your husband the pastor’s good styles in bed so that you can start enjoying him as well-the way you’ve enjoying that useless Pastor!
ure one of the most idiots i have eva heard nachi pastor ichisula chinobe.ubuchende ure even saying beta in bed than my hubby,wembwawe satanyoko,ifimaule ifibwelakofye na H.O
iyo mune u ar married stop doing dat or mis heaven.ask for forgivenes from God.blali shit
At 23yrs and you have 3 children, ba tumfweko you cant even lie properly. uli hule.
There is no truth in this story. Very hypothetical. But this is happening in many churches – ba praise.
“If my husband finds out he will kill me” and you are asking for our advise. Some of these stories are better written in love novels or strange than fiction or even performed by film stars and not in real situation. I cant even waste my advise on this immoral story. Ba tumfweko you are creative but the story sounds more fiction than real.
you know the answer
THIS LADY IS KAULE KANA BALA MWANA OYAMBA NA 16 YEAR ANSO FUTI MAKOLO AKE NIA MAMBALA, KUPELEKA MWANA MUCIKWATI PA UNDER AGE POLICE WERE ARE YOU?
PASTER NAEVE NI PROBLEM KU MANGISA CIKWATI KU MUNTU MUKULU ANSO FUTI.IS THIS APENNING HERE IN ZAMBIA OR IT’S KUNJA YA ZIKO LINO? NIKUTI NIYANKENI FAST
UHHHHHHHHULLE NA MU CHURCH.YESU KRISTU BWELA NO BWEBYA.WHIIIIIP THIS WOMAN WHO IS A WHORE.HUUULLLLE UYOOOOOO!!!!!
Ba tunfweko grw up.
Hule, in church your eyes are on the pastor’s zip instead of worshiping god,drop dead
Wat advice iwe musata noko,kill urself before ur hubby finds out.iwe shetani iwe with ur satanic pastor.
u r vry stupid to geza wit yr pastor
da pasor is da most idiot pasort of all times
Gentlemen, these things happens. Look at me. I am a shibukombe to one nice young man. From the firstday I met his girl when I took insalamu, she fell in love with me. One day she got my phones number from his fiancee.She she wanted to complain to me because they were having some differences which to me were minor difference.I tried to advice her on phone but she insisted that we meet and I agreed. I met the lady with the full blessing of the young man but one thing led to another and we have been f……ng. She enjoys every moment we do it and she claims I am the best. This young man actually has money more than me. The guy is 28, the lady is 22 and I am 41 and I am married with 2 kids. I have asked her we stop because its not right but she insist we continue, She claims she loves this young man very much but she feels she needs me in between sheets and that we should continue even after they marry in this coming December
wow what a cruzy world we are livin in who does that. you seriously need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
th bible says thou shal nt comit adultery.so u are playng a vry dirty game wth yo pastor in th eyes of God.stop doing tht evil thng nd b faithfu 2 yo husband o else God is going 2 punish u.mind u,there is nothng hiden in th eyes of God.
All we need is Christ to control our lives. we failed from the beginning that’s why Christ died for us.we cannot do without Christ. life without Christ is nothing. remember he is coming again. this time now to judge not to save.
Leave the pastor and come for me you never know I could be better than your pastor who knows
is not a pastor(is fraud pastor,is a job hunter wo jst know the word of god by month…..I pit him and the lady too…shame on you both…I wish I know the man(hubby) I would have helped him tu take the kids aware someway and leave this two animals to enjoy themselves…..jst 23 yers old behaving deviling…..I hope the pastor is a zambian if not?….
dats being weak and evil
dat pastor must be somethn else check yoself b4 its 2 ………
get your brians out of xxxx u wil be able to think properly.