I’m So Madly in Love With My Pastor

I’m So Madly in Love With My Pastor

I am a lady aged 23 married with 3 kids. I’m confused I don’t know what to do. I have been dating the pastor who blessed our marriage. He is all I ever wanted in a man. I must also admit  that he is good in bed,  even much better than my hubby.

He always  makes me smile. He is just so sweet, the only the problem is that I  know it’s wrong but I can’t let go and if my hubby finds out he will kill me.

Need advice please

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109 Responses to "I’m So Madly in Love With My Pastor"

  1. pastor   November 9, 2012 at 10:07 am

    You are a fuc..ked up bitch!

  2. Truth2   November 9, 2012 at 10:35 am

    The solution is that you have said it yourself that,”you know its wrong”.So quit and tell your pastor to ask for forgiveness from and stop cheating people.Do’nt let emotion control your mind and why did you get married to your hasband if you knew he was the kind of your realy need in your life?

  3. Bemila-Defender of the gospel   November 9, 2012 at 10:36 am

    fuseke-ifyabumpuba-That is not a pastor who commits-detestables

  4. flow   November 9, 2012 at 10:48 am

    FUCK U BITCH

  5. killer kamz   November 9, 2012 at 11:13 am

    These ar the stories dat mek it hard 4sum pipo 2beliv certain things on tumfweko.

  6. Nadino   November 9, 2012 at 11:37 am

    This was on RL Issues on facebook, ba tumfweko out of staries hire more journalists

    • ✈✈✈✈   November 12, 2012 at 1:50 am

      tumfweko is always stealing stories from other websites.

  7. savage rogue   November 9, 2012 at 11:51 am

    wer ar the other responces i thot u said 58 but i cant the rest

    • Stalone   November 11, 2012 at 10:20 am

      click on older posts on top

  8. who   November 9, 2012 at 1:32 pm

    may God have mercy on our souls

  9. Servant of God   November 9, 2012 at 2:41 pm

    Go for deliverance my sister.This is not normal behaviour.It is spiritual possession.Look for a true man of God.If you have money,please book yourself a ticket and go to Nigeria to Synagogue Church of All Nations before your marriage is destroyed.

    • ✈✈✈✈   November 12, 2012 at 1:51 am

      rubbish!!

  10. Servant of God   November 9, 2012 at 2:43 pm

    You may be dealing with a spiritualist and NOT a pastor.

  11. COCO.T   November 9, 2012 at 3:09 pm

    Just continue untill you are caught so that your husband can blow the shit out of you. Every sweet things come with consequences like u starting dating your so called “pastor” and ending up doing it. I wonder how you guys pray and how u interract with your congegants knowing well that u fack afetr service.

  12. EEEEEE   November 9, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    He is not a pastor. Call him something else.

  13. shoko   November 9, 2012 at 4:54 pm

    At 23 with three kids. U r a sex addict. U will finish the church.

  14. champion   November 9, 2012 at 4:57 pm

    U need deliverance sisi fear God.

  15. kachale   November 9, 2012 at 8:40 pm

    Firstly, that man is not pastor.
    Secondly,You are a married woman and the best piece of advice is according to God’s word that you live with your hubby as a couple only. Forget about the so called pastor.
    Marriage must be respected by all and the marriage bed be kept clean.
    So please for the sake of God, refrain from that sex maniac.

  16. RN   November 10, 2012 at 5:27 am

    I wonder what this world is turning into”ati hes beta than my hubby in bed” You re a big fool did u eva go through amafunde?

  17. sweet tony   November 10, 2012 at 6:55 am

    divorce yo chi foolish hubby and marry the so called pastor.but how do u know he is the best.u havent eve tested me yet.u will finish men if u continu comparing.

  18. JUJU   November 10, 2012 at 9:37 am

    why bother your soul; divorce your hubby, tell him the truth and live your happy life “forever”

    • Mona   November 21, 2012 at 8:56 am

      All I can do is smile. I remember as a kid being teeaetrnhd that I would not get any gifts because I did not behave. Love your blog. Blessings.

  19. Prof. GANIZANI   November 10, 2012 at 10:24 am

    BAMAYO ABA NABAMPMISHA SANA.

  20. sam   November 10, 2012 at 10:52 am

    i have been there the best is 2 stop bech………..

    • Tiwi   November 21, 2012 at 8:26 am

      @Orca40 You’re full of shit and you know it. False accusations will not help your case. Stubbornly sptoiung the same tired rant that religion makes people evil over and over will not make it true. Anyone with the ability to think critically can see your conclusions are a fallacy.

  21. imputi   November 10, 2012 at 11:07 am

    my advice to you is,hang yourself……and do it fast

  22. sim spice   November 10, 2012 at 12:51 pm

    u mean a pastor from the pulpit after praying 4 the pipo u go straight mwachita nani is that right!imwe mwalipena ifipubafye so

  23. jolijo   November 10, 2012 at 1:18 pm

    Tila manzi pastor nyenga chabe iyende, faka mlilo .

  24. Mr wise   November 10, 2012 at 2:44 pm

    ‘He is better than my husband in bed’bull-shit , u dirty infidel even the three kids he didn’t father them….just go to hell and hang.

  25. coolj   November 10, 2012 at 3:18 pm

    May GOD deliver you and the pastor

  26. MARXIDOLZ   November 10, 2012 at 10:02 pm

    my sister repent..look at what your husband has been doing for you, that devil you have been sleeping with God will punish both of you. I pray that fire falls from heaven and consume you. Basket!!!!!!
    just go away so that my honest and hardworking brother can find a suitable wife. HUUUULE!!!

  27. vmmm   November 10, 2012 at 10:22 pm

    23 years old and three kids, does it mean you had the first child at 16 ?

    Please ba tumfweko check the facts before publishing article.
    Thats why this lady has three kids, she is not focused. she should have concentrated on her education instead of boys.

  28. The Mighty One   November 11, 2012 at 3:48 am

    Is that stupid pastor married or not and is one of your kids his or not.By the way,why did marry somebody you didn’t love,ninshi finshi wakonkeleko kuli wene.Remember,there’s always a stiff punishment for every wrong act and try to put yourself in your husband’s shoes…Otherwise,stop dating that pastor immediately and teach your husband the pastor’s good styles in bed so that you can start enjoying him as well-the way you’ve enjoying that useless Pastor!

  29. advisor   November 11, 2012 at 8:34 am

    ure one of the most idiots i have eva heard nachi pastor ichisula chinobe.ubuchende ure even saying beta in bed than my hubby,wembwawe satanyoko,ifimaule ifibwelakofye na H.O

  30. JAHLANSO   November 11, 2012 at 11:40 am

    iyo mune u ar married stop doing dat or mis heaven.ask for forgivenes from God.blali shit

  31. Peter   November 11, 2012 at 12:43 pm

    At 23yrs and you have 3 children, ba tumfweko you cant even lie properly. uli hule.

  32. John Banda   November 11, 2012 at 12:50 pm

    There is no truth in this story. Very hypothetical. But this is happening in many churches – ba praise.

  33. Ubufi   November 12, 2012 at 8:18 am

    “If my husband finds out he will kill me” and you are asking for our advise. Some of these stories are better written in love novels or strange than fiction or even performed by film stars and not in real situation. I cant even waste my advise on this immoral story. Ba tumfweko you are creative but the story sounds more fiction than real.

  34. mahuwa   November 13, 2012 at 1:24 pm

    you know the answer

  35. chasaya   November 13, 2012 at 3:20 pm

    THIS LADY IS KAULE KANA BALA MWANA OYAMBA NA 16 YEAR ANSO FUTI MAKOLO AKE NIA MAMBALA, KUPELEKA MWANA MUCIKWATI PA UNDER AGE POLICE WERE ARE YOU?
    PASTER NAEVE NI PROBLEM KU MANGISA CIKWATI KU MUNTU MUKULU ANSO FUTI.IS THIS APENNING HERE IN ZAMBIA OR IT’S KUNJA YA ZIKO LINO? NIKUTI NIYANKENI FAST

  36. TRUEMAN   November 15, 2012 at 10:51 am

    UHHHHHHHHULLE NA MU CHURCH.YESU KRISTU BWELA NO BWEBYA.WHIIIIIP THIS WOMAN WHO IS A WHORE.HUUULLLLE UYOOOOOO!!!!!

  37. Acid   November 18, 2012 at 10:16 am

    Ba tunfweko grw up.

  38. Kenzu   November 19, 2012 at 9:51 am

    Hule, in church your eyes are on the pastor’s zip instead of worshiping god,drop dead

  39. MOJO   November 19, 2012 at 2:20 pm

    Wat advice iwe musata noko,kill urself before ur hubby finds out.iwe shetani iwe with ur satanic pastor.

  40. hilary   November 19, 2012 at 2:27 pm

    u r vry stupid to geza wit yr pastor

  41. hilary   November 19, 2012 at 2:29 pm

    da pasor is da most idiot pasort of all times

  42. GALU   November 19, 2012 at 2:42 pm

    Gentlemen, these things happens. Look at me. I am a shibukombe to one nice young man. From the firstday I met his girl when I took insalamu, she fell in love with me. One day she got my phones number from his fiancee.She she wanted to complain to me because they were having some differences which to me were minor difference.I tried to advice her on phone but she insisted that we meet and I agreed. I met the lady with the full blessing of the young man but one thing led to another and we have been f……ng. She enjoys every moment we do it and she claims I am the best. This young man actually has money more than me. The guy is 28, the lady is 22 and I am 41 and I am married with 2 kids. I have asked her we stop because its not right but she insist we continue, She claims she loves this young man very much but she feels she needs me in between sheets and that we should continue even after they marry in this coming December

  43. betty mbangweta mufungulwa   November 19, 2012 at 4:10 pm

    wow what a cruzy world we are livin in who does that. you seriously need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  44. brian   November 19, 2012 at 7:22 pm

    th bible says thou shal nt comit adultery.so u are playng a vry dirty game wth yo pastor in th eyes of God.stop doing tht evil thng nd b faithfu 2 yo husband o else God is going 2 punish u.mind u,there is nothng hiden in th eyes of God.

  45. francis kaoma   November 19, 2012 at 9:55 pm

    All we need is Christ to control our lives. we failed from the beginning that’s why Christ died for us.we cannot do without Christ. life without Christ is nothing. remember he is coming again. this time now to judge not to save.

  46. mpundu   November 27, 2012 at 3:46 pm

    Leave the pastor and come for me you never know I could be better than your pastor who knows

  47. BROUGHTON   November 30, 2012 at 11:42 am

    is not a pastor(is fraud pastor,is a job hunter wo jst know the word of god by month…..I pit him and the lady too…shame on you both…I wish I know the man(hubby) I would have helped him tu take the kids aware someway and leave this two animals to enjoy themselves…..jst 23 yers old behaving deviling…..I hope the pastor is a zambian if not?….

  48. simon   December 5, 2012 at 12:19 pm

    dats being weak and evil

  49. simon   December 5, 2012 at 12:21 pm

    dat pastor must be somethn else check yoself b4 its 2 ………

  50. melvin   December 6, 2012 at 2:39 pm

    get your brians out of xxxx u wil be able to think properly.