Dear readers
I need your advice.
I am a 20 year old girl and I am in love with a 61year old white man. I am scared of accepting his marriage proposal because of what people might say.
But I truly love him.
What should I do, should I follow my heart?
hakainde
November 19, 2012 at 4:30 pm
PEOPLE, WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM. i AM 30 AND MY MANFRIEND IS 85. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR THE LAST 12 YEARS, HE IS VERY LOVING, KIND AND UNDERSTANDING. HE IS ONE PERSON I CANT WISH DEAD BECAUSE HE IS JUST GOOD. OKEY I DO ENCOUNTER SOME PROBLEMS HERE AND THERE IN BED BUT I KNOW HOW TO REJUVINATE HIM AND ONCE HE IS UP HE CAN GO ALL THE WAY THOUGH ONE ROUND AND THEN I WOULD BE HOME AND DRY AFTER ALL SOME OF THESE YOUNG GUYS WILL JUST LEAVE A WOMAN NE CHILAKA. I AM VERY HAPPY WITH SUGAR GRANPA
GUY SCOTT
November 19, 2012 at 4:43 pm
Nakana its not me. I have my Rollette
ngwema
November 19, 2012 at 5:06 pm
Iwe mwaiche,i hope u will have a “yanger man” as amai phiri of spit it out would say.ukafwa nechilaka!
MT
November 19, 2012 at 6:53 pm
Got with your heart girl.There is nothing wrong in marrying an old man.
Kings
November 19, 2012 at 6:55 pm
Go for it young woman.It is not a big deal…after all you have to do is lie on your back and open em legs wide and the dude starts dropping the coins.Life could be simple at times
Afrodite81
November 19, 2012 at 8:28 pm
Damn girl wat the hell r u on? Kapena su ziba blood yako ndiye pamene ya yamba kutamanga r u sure ur goin 2 stay wit him even wen he cnt consumate ur marriage? Or imagine this ur kidz (thts if his tadpoles can still swim up stream if u catch my drift!) nt sure wether 2 call him dad or grandpa!
Abakonzi
November 19, 2012 at 8:43 pm
I’ve always thought lozi’s are among the most educated guys around and I’ve respect for these guys but looking at the comment from Barotse Diaspora am disappointed and I wonder the kind of reasoning we should expect in the Republic of Barotseland.You should be encouraging this kid to go back to school and not telling her to enjoy the old man’s money.I enjoy my money because I work hard for it,you and her should also just work hard for your money and enjoy it
koswe1
November 19, 2012 at 8:43 pm
they say beauty or handsomeness lies in the eyes of the beholder but for you it lies in the eyes of the bearholder.you must be one drunck cheap african slut whose trying to waste our time.if you cant choose im an alternative…
Tribalist
November 19, 2012 at 10:08 pm
See the age diferent and when your first born will be 20, how old will he be.You always embarass us ba Chule imwe.
Ba sister
November 19, 2012 at 10:15 pm
Iwe nini yako ili na njota yoipisisa. How u b in lov wth yo greatgrandfather?izajomba mudala akafele na pamwamba pako. Ine teti!
Denmark
November 19, 2012 at 10:20 pm
You are not in love you are after money come to Europe where you will be used
jlo
November 20, 2012 at 8:24 am
Its sad you want that man for money. Think twice
linx
November 20, 2012 at 8:32 am
Abakonzi Boss…lozis used to be the most educated in 1964 due to aid and scholarships from Queen of england….not today.
sheetbed
November 20, 2012 at 11:21 am
Ulefwaya ukulamona amatako yaba shikulu bobe
beautiful
November 20, 2012 at 11:28 am
Ukutemwa money mwaiche! What love are u talking about!
goodson badman
November 20, 2012 at 10:49 pm
if i was i would say hell no. go to school. that old man man needs care home.
Tresford
November 21, 2012 at 9:06 pm
My dear…get urself a life and stop living a lie