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I’m in Love With An Older White Man
Dear readers
I need your advice.
I am a 20 year old girl and I am in love with a 61year old white man. I am scared of accepting his marriage proposal because of what people might say.
But I truly love him.
What should I do, should I follow my heart?
Posted by
Chriss
November 19, 2012 at 10:45 am
My daughter you are too young to engage yourself with a man who has live his whole life. Find your own young man who will make you happy with or without the material wealthy you may be attracted to in “your grandfather”. At 61 everything is tired, what are you going to do with this old man? Find a living church for deliverance. The devil is a lier.
muntu
November 19, 2012 at 10:56 am
plse leave da old man with his agemate alone ,u ve yr bright future and acept jesus as lord of yr life
sikufele sipalo
November 19, 2012 at 11:00 am
go hang yourself…why waste our time when you have already decided…
empire
November 19, 2012 at 11:05 am
problem yabaice nowadays nikamane.am sure if the white man was poor you would not look at him twice.in this case dear girl, follow your head not your heart.
Candy
November 19, 2012 at 11:24 am
I agree with @empire,money talks but in the end it ruins for’The Love of Money is the root of all evil.’Love and infatuation are two different things and for you mwaice wandi you are infatuated as no such Love exists in real life,only in movies.By the way you qualify to sue the old hag in the court of law for defilement,that is if you want to make some money…
Pa zed
November 19, 2012 at 11:34 am
It is his money you are in love with, that if he has any dollars/ euros!
John
November 19, 2012 at 11:36 am
Girl,you will regret.Ask yourself,how old is my Father?
Ichashishita
November 19, 2012 at 11:36 am
my dear, you are broke and thats why ka ze kulu muzungu kali attractive!!……you are BROKE!! we chinangwa we!
FJM
November 19, 2012 at 11:43 am
Whatever reason you may give for being madly in love with the old white man cannot hide the fact that money is what has motivated you to fall in love with him. Young girl you have not fallen in love with him. You have fallen in love with his money. That is how I see it.
Bemila-Defender of the gospel
November 19, 2012 at 11:48 am
You havent loved him but loved his money hoping that wen he be dead you can be richer and start insulting us who are poor. You are no in love
MONKU
November 19, 2012 at 11:52 am
get the facts right. she is not in love with him. its very clear even to a blind person, its the money she loves not the guy. you little WHORE get on with life. why do you love money so mush more than your life?
Comrade Bonzo
November 19, 2012 at 11:58 am
Iwe chi KAY FIGO just keep quiet. what love are you talking about. HOUSE, MONEY, CAR.
Angel Gabriel
November 19, 2012 at 12:02 pm
This money, I wonder why people can n’t see!
TI TI
November 19, 2012 at 12:08 pm
YOUNG LADY WHAT WILL YOU GAIN FROM THIS MARRIAGE WHEN YOU HAVE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. THINK SCHOOL FIRST AND BELIEVE ME YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE YOUR AGE NOT THIS GRANDAD. INFATUATION IS POISONOUS
Sparks Chimbwendembwende
November 19, 2012 at 12:26 pm
Is he able to deliver the needul?
Sparks Chimbwendembwende
November 19, 2012 at 12:26 pm
Is he able to deliver the needful?
TimZ
November 19, 2012 at 12:27 pm
My sister if u ‘ve ears hear wat evryone have said. Love betwin 2 pipo of such age difference does not exist. Share yo love feelings 4 dis old man with yo father & seek his advice. Tachepa ise maybe yo father can.
Raspower
November 19, 2012 at 12:29 pm
Go aheard, bcoz u are used to see oldmens sinjonjo….kekekekekekke, me i cant. And u what what young *****..You brave..thats your grand father..how can u fall in love that age..thats not love its madness absolutely!
ANGEL
November 19, 2012 at 12:35 pm
young girl people have said it all if you have ears hear
Zebige
November 19, 2012 at 12:36 pm
I see nothing wrong age is nothing but a number.
Abakonzi
November 19, 2012 at 12:48 pm
You want advice,well it is:You are a very big small little fooll you idiott of a girl embarrassing women folk you little asshole.Ati am in love…you fackin little cocroach,a man that old and how old is your own father.That’s why we are having a lot of young girls becoming MAD,its bcoz of ukulala nabakula,its a curse.And wikabwekeshapo bringing this foolisnes here imbwa iwe!
pipes23
November 19, 2012 at 1:02 pm
wembwa we.****** *****
Barotse diaspora
November 19, 2012 at 1:03 pm
You are alread in love young gal. You have hit a jack pot. Thats an open check .u smell riches sitting on top of the world , tell your relatives to throw and burn away old clothes and house holds.the 61y is yo right size.with skills and experience unlike this poor blogging pimps and hustlers without money..age doe’snt count,but love.enjoy the ride baby gal.
Rizzo
November 19, 2012 at 1:36 pm
KA GOLD DIGGER
Barbed Wire
November 19, 2012 at 2:01 pm
The sad part is that these girls seek advice when they have already made up their minds. Follow your heart, you will learn through actual experience, no matter how any one will talk, you will not listen.
Mulenga Musonda
November 19, 2012 at 2:05 pm
Imagin yoself to be at 40, he will be 81. He will be too old for u wen yo life is just beginning. His interests will be extremely different from yos. At 61, he has oredy lived his life dear. Wat have u seen in him which young ones have potential to have with time. Please my friend, take yo time and wait for wat God has prepared. Balinaka abo bamudala. U may not enjoy anything apart from driving and eating and life goes beyond that. But if u can handle o such short comings and yo heart tells u thats the guy, then go for it
mim
November 19, 2012 at 2:12 pm
my sister, you are jst a love of money. can you stop the nonsence….
Kuselikunvenji
November 19, 2012 at 2:17 pm
It’s a kafe story…..
hilary
November 19, 2012 at 2:33 pm
leave her alone
FBI
November 19, 2012 at 2:34 pm
Just think of this; you are 20yrs and the so called white man is 61yrs.. meaning in the next 10yrs the white man would have depreciated and possibly leave the earth..are you going to be looking for another marraige..? what is it that the white man has that a handsome 27yrs man doesnt have..?
GALU
November 19, 2012 at 2:44 pm
Gentlemen, these things happens. Look at me. I am a shibukombe to one nice young man. From the firstday I met his girl when I took insalamu, she fell in love with me. One day she got my phones number from his fiancee.She she wanted to complain to me because they were having some differences which to me were minor difference.I tried to advice her on phone but she insisted that we meet and I agreed. I met the lady with the full blessing of the young man but one thing led to another and we have been f……ng. She enjoys every moment we do it and she claims I am the best. This young man actually has money more than me. The guy is 28, the lady is 22 and I am 41 and I am married with 2 kids. I have asked her we stop because its not right but she insist we continue, She claims she loves this young man very much but she feels she needs me in between sheets and that we should continue even after they marry this coming December
D.K
November 19, 2012 at 2:44 pm
YES DEAR IF U ARE 20, THEN THE QUESTION IS HOW OLD IS YOUR PAPA? IF I AM NOT MISTAKEN YOUR PAPA COULD BE WITHIN THE AGE OF 40S. WHICH CLEARLY INDICATES THAT EVEN YOUR PAPA COULD BE THE SON TO THAT MAN. MY ADVISE IS THAT U ARE TOO YOUNG & IF YOU HAVE THE CAPACITY OF GOING TO SCHOOL MY DEAR SISTER PLIZ DO THAT IMMEDIATELY BCOS THAT OLD MAN WILL DESTROY YOUR FUTURE & ABOVE ALL NOTHNG YOU WILL GET OUT OF HIM. IFISUMA FYONSE BALILYAMO BAMBUYA OBE & OTHER PROSTITUTES.
MICKEY MOUSE
November 19, 2012 at 2:49 pm
Ka swine iwe which heart are you following by sleeping with your great grand father!Fuseki go back and finnish yr studies and not engage yrself with someone who will just finnish yr market.
Sparks Chimbwendembwende
November 19, 2012 at 2:50 pm
But Galu you are really a Galu!!! Yopu have spoiled the marriage. Chapwa the small slut will not enjoy bekuzi with her hubby!!!
Janet c
November 19, 2012 at 2:54 pm
Follow your heart my dear – after all Thandiwe accepted RB’s proposal – it is true love and their marriage is stronger than many zambian marriages
PSYCHOLOGIST
November 19, 2012 at 3:02 pm
GO BACK TO SCHOOL YOUNG LADY.
Bemila-Defender of the gospel
November 19, 2012 at 3:06 pm
An HIV test was conducted on two institution of learning- One was for grade nine and one for college-result showed 75% of grade nines are HIV positive and 60% at college were positive. Young girls have become big in betwin cause of love for elderly man and their
money
musa
November 19, 2012 at 3:10 pm
GET OUT OF OUR WAY *****, WE NEED TO FOCUS ON BETTER AND EDUCATIVE STORIES THAN RUBBISH ISSUES, MWANA WAMUKOMBONI UYO, REASON WE SAY, KOMBONI IS A PLACE WHERE WE SHOULD JUST DELIVER THEM NOT RAISING THEM.
Mushkarano!!
November 19, 2012 at 3:20 pm
Atase… so u will be licking amatole aya fota..ata..ka Id!ot iwe!!
Kay
November 19, 2012 at 3:36 pm
Marry him and hope that he dies in the next two or three years then you can enjoy his riches with your ka young boyfreind!
Voice one
November 19, 2012 at 3:42 pm
Love is something you cannot explain. If you are attracted to things and not the person, your relationship will not last. Who says a 20 year old cannot be in love with a 61 year old? She never said she was attracted to his money! Go for your heart young lady.
XXX
November 19, 2012 at 3:45 pm
BJ is what you will be doing daily!!! that man is very old for you he is finished and you wont have proper sex
nshendi
November 19, 2012 at 3:52 pm
U have a sugar grandpa
JJ
November 19, 2012 at 3:56 pm
you are a foool. That man is old enough to be your grand father. Do you want to remain a widow in the next few years. You are just a golddigger after his wealth. Go and marry someone within your age range you foool
ChaCha
November 19, 2012 at 3:56 pm
Why would you marry an old man? by the time you turn 35yrs that man will be in a nursing home.
Jeffrey
November 19, 2012 at 4:00 pm
LISTEN: What will it profit a man if he/she should OWN the whole world and yet lose his/her SOUL. My dear, your SOUL (mind, will and emotions) are very expensive, you can add all the riches of the world but they cannot add upto the cost of your SOUL. Please, leave tht man alone, u will find peace and love and money elsewhere. God HELP you!
BUT WHY
November 19, 2012 at 4:02 pm
but why?????!!!!!!!!!!!
DAMON MFUNE
November 19, 2012 at 4:03 pm
pliz young girl how can you go out with an oldman when young men are available who can suit you so that u can be proud of it.i think u need delivarance.
JJ
November 19, 2012 at 4:05 pm
Young lady thanks for the mail. I have just received in the address above. I will call you shortly on the number you have just given me. We will arrange to meet over the weekend. Let’s milk money from that old fooool as we enjoy proper seeexxx.
Dr Phil
November 19, 2012 at 4:16 pm
i am sure its Guy Scott.