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I Hate Men Because They are Liars
Please hide my ID. I have this problem because i have been disappointed alot, i was once married my husband stated having girlfriends so i got frustrated and i divorced him. After that i moved on with my life and after three years i decided to have a man again later to find out that he is married. Please help me what can i do? Can i just remain single for the rest of my life or what?
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ngwema
December 6, 2012 at 7:59 pm
Ubushimbe tabulya.
bangx
December 6, 2012 at 8:00 pm
Ask Ba ” TUNFWEKO” to marry.
Onga
December 6, 2012 at 8:08 pm
My dear, some men are the same, they are like they were all born from the same womb. Im in the same situation like yours. Ive decided to remain single just to lessen my headache. I dot know with u but i would advise that u follow what your heart tells u to do. Think about it and make & make a right decision.
Ba dude
December 6, 2012 at 8:38 pm
My sister just remain single for the rest of your life coz ur a second hand machine (modified gonga) swaini kwikalafwe
kangwa
December 7, 2012 at 12:29 pm
Dude ulekwata amano. Is that the best you can do?hw dare you insult a woman? useless *****!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mantosh
December 6, 2012 at 8:39 pm
Nowadays men and women are jst equal especially in a boy girl relationship.Unlike in the past, today we are all cheating on one another in one way or the other.
Philkase
December 6, 2012 at 8:46 pm
Ba Dude, chamba mupepele. That one is ur sister advise her politely. Bachikala!!!!
Papa G
December 6, 2012 at 8:53 pm
Ubefye i ule coz walipwamo mukashana nd u never get maried again unless limbi ku mu soldier
Neither
December 6, 2012 at 9:08 pm
@ba dude ulimbwa koswe iwe do u mean thts the best u can bring on the fora? wat about u, u re a modified finshi? ***** iwe advs her acodngly an if u cnt just shat tht ass u ko a mouth….u re the sme things turnishn mens name bastard…
Ba game
December 6, 2012 at 9:14 pm
my sister if u can manage 2 b singal 4 the rest of yo lyf then that can b
good all men re like they were born 4rm de same womb lyk wat @Onga hv jst said!! Efyo nabanaine bachilende (amabila) bena nshangasha ukepusheko Iris kaingu na Janet c bakakweba my dear.
pastor t
December 6, 2012 at 9:19 pm
try to examine yo self.u cud hav a problem specialy in bed.how do u serve yo men?do u regulary bath en clean yo vagina?are u excessively wet?a man will never leave u if u satisfy him unless of cos he has demons.but maybe u havent just found th rite man.if ur beautiful ,uv some bums en ur slightly lite in complexn try coling me on 0973945363.we cud toke.i was oso hurt by a woman.am serious.
The ID10T
December 7, 2012 at 4:30 am
There you go. God has answered your prayers. You can marry the Pastor and the two of you can live happily ever after.
Neither
December 6, 2012 at 9:21 pm
Iwe chi sister naiwe ulimfuko hw do u se men re liars iwe koswe ve i cheated u b4 or has dude ever cheated u? c choose wisely an pls next tme ask Gods guidance waumfwa! If not carefull u ll mis kalya ka life ka…kali ibela one of its kind..
Ba kasongo
December 6, 2012 at 9:31 pm
Ba neither why are u supporting that prostitute efyo bamutamfishe ku chupo ni gonga efyo alemushila umulume wakwe ba dude is right 100 %
ba zombie
December 6, 2012 at 9:36 pm
ba dude mwaba pamputi.advise dnt insult her.maka ******
ba zombie
December 6, 2012 at 9:45 pm
Ba neither if u are supportin ba dude naiwewine mwaba pamputi bonse bafikala!
Ba game
December 6, 2012 at 9:49 pm
@Neither na @Pastor t, i know that yo eyez iz on the ball. kapandililenifye ka sister epo naine nshila chinja mano.
Zambian
December 6, 2012 at 10:04 pm
If you think you can do without sex, you can stay single. It’s how you feel about it. Otherwise, it’s not easy to find an angel of a man.
Barotse diaspora
December 6, 2012 at 10:41 pm
All married men have girlfreindsg. Tumfweko stuborn stains why didnt u reseach how old is this old/young beach. Ignorant and arrogant beach .why did u leave your 1st marriege? Why are u a liar? Three yrs sleeping kawilo! Why did u disobey god’s older.you are a cursed monkey ass beach.hung in foolishness. All men have the same soft spot.try test to fac and feel all men in the world.
Barotse diaspora
December 6, 2012 at 10:44 pm
All married men have girlfreindsg. Tumfweko stuborn stains why didnt u reseach how old is this old/young beach. Ignorant and arrogant beach .why did u leave your 1st marriege? Why are u a liar? Three yrs sleeping kawilo! Why did u disobey god’s older.you are a cursed monkey ass beach.hung in foolishness. All men have the same soft spot.try test to fac and feel all men in the world.atase!
Edwin
December 6, 2012 at 11:39 pm
You may blame the man ???, have you checked yourself.How did your relationship start,Was GOD involved in your relationship??If you answer these questions correctly then an answer would come.Jesus has never given a wrong partner for marriage.Let God be the guide you will find Mr right and you should undergo deliverance.
yada yada
December 6, 2012 at 11:56 pm
Am a single responsible virgin man who can take care of u, for more information please contact yada yada@ gmail. com. love u!
The ID10T
December 7, 2012 at 4:34 am
Sorry Yada Yada. Pastor t already got her.
kakolwe
December 7, 2012 at 4:57 am
Imwe, plz, understand that God doesnt run humans like puppets. You involve God in your marriage & one spouse goes careless expecting God to take care of the partner! Do your part! We are still human, In a world devoid of humility, everything has gone helter-skelter!
Democrat
December 7, 2012 at 5:01 am
Ala maayo mukapwa abaume. We men are almost the same. I doubt if you can stay single after mwabelesha ‘tunku’
dyuuu...
December 7, 2012 at 5:55 am
young lady dnt try to stay single,the rest of your life,you will be tempted,sometimes you will be feeling horny,then you will try to find some one who can quench your thirsty,then you will find a wrong person,jst pray to God,He will answer you.
Nakonde Resident
December 7, 2012 at 6:22 am
Kulibe perfecto, bonse ndise ma mental. Even u are not perfect. Just pick icipuba cimo u stay with him. Indurance and maturity since u v got thru issues will help u understand your new man better. A woman who has gone thru disapointments always appreciates a man than the one who just got married paaaaa.
paul chi chi
December 7, 2012 at 7:20 am
How old are you?,age matters,,,coz if u’re old jst keep quiet and remain single!!!
Uncle B'
December 7, 2012 at 8:36 am
Like the pastor said, sister u need to serious check urself b4 you continue calling men liars. Wat if u re the one with the problem? Most men want a woman who can take care of herself (cleanliness is very important) bushe ula samba? I cant share my bed with a woman who is smelling sweat.
Nshinwa bwino
December 7, 2012 at 8:54 am
Bafikala kwena muli ba malumbo!!
Minister Without Portfolio
December 7, 2012 at 9:02 am
Remain single for the rest of your life with no desire for SEX.
Great minds!
December 7, 2012 at 10:44 am
Ba Tumfweko Iam Going to revolke your license if you have any, for allowing some illiterate notorous good for nothing bloggers like barotse diaspora and democrat to continue writing nonsense that is likely to corrupt morals. Block these thugs.
loyola
December 7, 2012 at 11:03 am
I would advise that you try again but this time take your time to find out the background of your man and if he is in a relationship or married. Do not be in a hurry to get married. Study the man first. I am in my second marrige in the last 15 years and I think I am not regretting because I took time to study the man. I was hurt in my first marriage and really hated men until I was somehow convinced that I found a responsible man the second time I decided to get married again. I am happy! I kept myself busy with religious activities to keep off men for almost five years. So my advice is that you involve your God and be patient.
Wish you luck.
Victor
December 7, 2012 at 11:12 am
my lovely sister, am single as well and am ready to be there for u always. just get in touch with me.
0978 599304.
lusungu
December 7, 2012 at 1:01 pm
take time to find someone and hope you know your hiv status sisy especialy that both men were players also kind of men you like matters coz men are in different clases depending on up bringing.if all men were the same then all ladies could have been divorced
Timbwi
December 7, 2012 at 1:27 pm
The problem is not men but yourself. Give your life to christ and ask God to give you a husband period. Some women are funny. How do you ask God to give you a good looking and loving husband when you do not how to maintain his good looks like keeping his clothes clean, cooking good food for him etc. Believe me God will give you only when you are ready. Same applies to some men.
Drus
December 7, 2012 at 2:18 pm
Firstly your wrong to say men are lairs.
Just like you are complaining there are men out there complaining aswell.my advise is cheak yourself expecially your behaviour the way you treat men and what you belive in.lastly take time to know your man better befor you get married.
afcon phiri
December 7, 2012 at 3:26 pm
****** girl, ask your mother why she never divorced your dad.
Why divorce your husband for having a girl friend, that girl friend was just helping you in times when you were not available for your husband.
Men are what they are because thats what women want men to be.Pretenders will tell you otherwise, i have told you the truth.
Just keep on trying, otherwise there are no perfect men on earth. Grow up and find a man you can forgive,when he messes up.
Umuntu umo
December 7, 2012 at 5:30 pm
Hey lady dnt generaliz there are trustworthy men out there..waumfwa….dnt c da majority in particular….oko tuli mummy…ngakuti wakwanisha akawilo til u die ts ok……bt nt ifyakulanda ati men are liars awe…jst 2 men disapointed u…..
ashmail
December 7, 2012 at 8:48 pm
nt all of dem are my dear wen one dissapoints u doesnt neccessarily mean de other will oso do. talkin frm experience. jst move on nokufilabako fye.
Truth2
December 8, 2012 at 11:37 am
Infedility happens to both men and women.The same way you feel now,there is a man out there who is saying the same things about women.The other thing about your problem is that you have not said anything about yourself.When a man goes to the extent of marrying a woman,it means he has seen something about you that he thought would make the married work.But once you prove to be the opposite of the impression you gave at the time you were dating,he might regret his dicision to marry you and make second plans like having girlfriends.You were going to receive the best advise had you said something about the ex husband’s response when you confronted him about his extramarital affairs.As it stands,you might be partly to blame in the sense that may be you did not give him the attention and respect that a man expects from a wife.Maybe you are the kind of girl whose very proud and does not listen to the husband’s needs,maybe you are too outgoing and this did not please your husband,maybe you are into fashion so much that you do’nt care about your home etc…there are alot of things that forces married men to start looking for girlfriends.As for your married boy friend,i would not say anything coz he might be one of those trying to work out something with his wife so just forget about him.The best for you to do now is to stay and look at your life and reflect on things people say you do wrong and to figure out why it is so and make amends.Reflect on everything that your exhusband used to complain about you and try to figure out why he was complaining.Think about what went wrong with your love you shared before you got married and just why all of a sudden did he change his behaviour and think also if you had contributed to his new way of life.I advise the next time you seek advise of this nature,say something about the man and yourself in terms of what you discussed and the responses.You can call on 0975 876655 for further free councelling.
Arizona
December 8, 2012 at 1:40 pm
Ask perfecto.
kiki
December 8, 2012 at 3:13 pm
it is not good to remain single no matter what is happening as sex or relationship are God or nature settings where man has no control but to live two of opposite sex. This way life become fulfilled.
Just be honest with yourself and discover why men do that to you.
Probably you put money first, so they come to when they have money.
spoilah
December 16, 2012 at 7:57 pm
chikashana upwa elo uletombesha naiwe wine waunfwako efyo baleunfwa balya waletombeshako pakubala. if u cant beat em, join em!!!
ignatius m tembo
December 19, 2012 at 9:14 am
never should you decide 2look 4a man next time,God will give you a man at his own time.thanks
jlo
December 19, 2012 at 1:01 pm
Its sad my sister what u ve gone thru but look critically in your life style maybe you are also to blame. Pray to God to ve a right person. Obviously there are some good people out there.
ama idiots
December 19, 2012 at 10:33 pm
stay single u wil never die.nangu wesheko umusungu
ONE KUCHILENJE
January 21, 2013 at 5:19 pm
yes my sis just do tht..but remeber its kawilo kulibe excitment hahahahahaha..tumfweko you really make my day..atleast i spit out my craziness on your site