Comments on: I Hate Men Because They are Liars

By: kiki

kiki — Sat, 08 Dec 2012 13:13:44 +0000

it is not good to remain single no matter what is happening as sex or relationship are God or nature settings where man has no control but to live two of opposite sex. This way life become fulfilled.
Just be honest with yourself and discover why men do that to you.
Probably you put money first, so they come to when they have money.

By: Arizona

Arizona — Sat, 08 Dec 2012 11:40:16 +0000

Ask perfecto.

By: Truth2

Truth2 — Sat, 08 Dec 2012 09:37:41 +0000

Infedility happens to both men and women.The same way you feel now,there is a man out there who is saying the same things about women.The other thing about your problem is that you have not said anything about yourself.When a man goes to the extent of marrying a woman,it means he has seen something about you that he thought would make the married work.But once you prove to be the opposite of the impression you gave at the time you were dating,he might regret his dicision to marry you and make second plans like having girlfriends.You were going to receive the best advise had you said something about the ex husband’s response when you confronted him about his extramarital affairs.As it stands,you might be partly to blame in the sense that may be you did not give him the attention and respect that a man expects from a wife.Maybe you are the kind of girl whose very proud and does not listen to the husband’s needs,maybe you are too outgoing and this did not please your husband,maybe you are into fashion so much that you do’nt care about your home etc…there are alot of things that forces married men to start looking for girlfriends.As for your married boy friend,i would not say anything coz he might be one of those trying to work out something with his wife so just forget about him.The best for you to do now is to stay and look at your life and reflect on things people say you do wrong and to figure out why it is so and make amends.Reflect on everything that your exhusband used to complain about you and try to figure out why he was complaining.Think about what went wrong with your love you shared before you got married and just why all of a sudden did he change his behaviour and think also if you had contributed to his new way of life.I advise the next time you seek advise of this nature,say something about the man and yourself in terms of what you discussed and the responses.You can call on 0975 876655 for further free councelling.

By: ashmail

ashmail — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 18:48:46 +0000

nt all of dem are my dear wen one dissapoints u doesnt neccessarily mean de other will oso do. talkin frm experience. jst move on nokufilabako fye.

By: Umuntu umo

Umuntu umo — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 15:30:52 +0000

Hey lady dnt generaliz there are trustworthy men out there..waumfwa….dnt c da majority in particular….oko tuli mummy…ngakuti wakwanisha akawilo til u die ts ok……bt nt ifyakulanda ati men are liars awe…jst 2 men disapointed u…..

By: afcon phiri

afcon phiri — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 13:26:22 +0000

****** girl, ask your mother why she never divorced your dad.

Why divorce your husband for having a girl friend, that girl friend was just helping you in times when you were not available for your husband.

Men are what they are because thats what women want men to be.Pretenders will tell you otherwise, i have told you the truth.

Just keep on trying, otherwise there are no perfect men on earth. Grow up and find a man you can forgive,when he messes up.

By: Drus

Drus — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 12:18:57 +0000

Firstly your wrong to say men are lairs.
Just like you are complaining there are men out there complaining aswell.my advise is cheak yourself expecially your behaviour the way you treat men and what you belive in.lastly take time to know your man better befor you get married.

By: Timbwi

Timbwi — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 11:27:18 +0000

The problem is not men but yourself. Give your life to christ and ask God to give you a husband period. Some women are funny. How do you ask God to give you a good looking and loving husband when you do not how to maintain his good looks like keeping his clothes clean, cooking good food for him etc. Believe me God will give you only when you are ready. Same applies to some men.

By: lusungu

lusungu — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 11:01:30 +0000

take time to find someone and hope you know your hiv status sisy especialy that both men were players also kind of men you like matters coz men are in different clases depending on up bringing.if all men were the same then all ladies could have been divorced

By: kangwa

kangwa — Fri, 07 Dec 2012 10:29:50 +0000

Dude ulekwata amano. Is that the best you can do?hw dare you insult a woman? useless *****!!!!!!!!!!!!