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SHOCKER! Only 25% Of Zambian Women Are Wife Materials
Money, women and power are three inseparables that form a carnal trinity all over the world. Men of money and power usually end up attracting a flock of the most beautiful women.
In a recent chat with a Lawyer and human rights activist, he spoke extensively on how he cope with Zambian women and why many remain single even at the age of 35.
Below is how he chronicled his view of today’s women:
“75% of Zambian women today, they want successful men. Meanwhile, ask them what their contribution to help that man to greater heights, nothing!
“I resume work 7 o’clock, I close 10, 11pm every day. So, I have no time for those frivolities. So, is it the type of me that one lady will be running after? I’m not saying they don’t come after me, they come after me, but I know that they just want to associate with the name and what they can get.
“Not what they are going to contribute; they have nothing to contribute, they have nothing to offer me and that is typical of 75% of Zambian women out there
“That is why most of them remain single at 35. Because they are looking for ready-made men, not who they can build with. Not even coming in and helping you to develop further.
“That’s why Men use and dump them!”
Posted by
Chilufya
December 10, 2012 at 6:59 am
praise God my, my wife is among the 25 percent. Nowander i love her to the most.
Tom Bar Know Call Cheekalah
December 10, 2012 at 7:51 am
99% OF WOMEN HAVE A HO (*****)MENTALITY IN THEM….
Jey
December 10, 2012 at 7:06 am
Shocking! kind like true mwe
Bauze vazoonadi.
December 10, 2012 at 7:48 am
Foolish women! Most of them have inferiolity complex. They think men are the messiahs who can redeem them from abject poverty.Their understanding is that men are above board,which is very unfortunate.The same kind of altitude which they have is contributing very much to end of marriages by expecting everything from husbands. My geniune advise is that they be positive minded and learn to provide on thir own and in turn help out on our overstreched male zambians who at times with to much pressure from their homes end up stealing to sustain thier livelihoods.Wake all women.
Bauze vazoonadi.
December 10, 2012 at 7:50 am
Foolish women! Most of them have inferiolity complex. They think men are the messiahs who can redeem them from abject poverty.Their understanding is that men are above board,which is very unfortunate.The same kind of atitude which they have is contributing very much to end of marriages by expecting everything from husbands. My geniune advise is that they be positive minded and learn to provide on thir own and in turn help out on our overstreched male zambians who at times with to much pressure from their homes end up stealing to sustain thier livelihoods.Wake up all women!
mujaya ngombe
December 10, 2012 at 8:21 am
i such a wife n i case the day i met her
Yello
December 11, 2012 at 2:16 pm
You’re not the only one. It’s shocking!
DOTCOM
December 10, 2012 at 8:58 am
such kind of women who think lyk that are useless, that y they are used lyk shit and dumped.
Wanu Ngwee
December 10, 2012 at 9:05 am
THERE’S NO WISDOM IN THIS ARTICLE. PEOPLE SHOULDN’T PRESSURISE OTHERS TO MARRY OR NOT TO MARRY – IT’S A STRICTLY PERSONAL CHOICE. THEREFORE THE FACT THAT SOEM PEOPLE REMAIN SINGLE SHOULD NOT BE ATTRIBUTED TO THEIR MORALITY
Frustrated *****
December 10, 2012 at 9:38 am
Very very absolutely correct!Couldnt agree more.
Most of them are voulchers
mujaya ngombe
December 10, 2012 at 9:50 am
its end tym n thoz women are agents of the devil period.
wilfred
December 10, 2012 at 10:41 am
HI EVERYBODY ON THIS SITE IT TRUE ACCORDING TO THE ANALYST EVEN 25% IS JUST TOO MUCH TO GRADE
sheetbed
December 10, 2012 at 11:21 am
Word of advice imwe tu tumfweko. When your report contains statistics report on how such figures were obtained.The man probably does not have luck with women. Ati 75%Ubukopo
Joe Bidden
December 10, 2012 at 11:27 am
You are all ******, how did he carry out the survey or research? This is a single person who utters the word “75% of women” and without questioning the research y’all start mentioning your wives, my woman… bla bla is better. Its just sad you guys jump at such shallow utterances by so called lawyer. we Zambians can be dumb sometimes. Its like me saying 98% of men masturbate… then you all start saying have stopped, am one of the 2% etc. thats just silly, someone with brains should first ask me… Joe Bidden how did you come up with the 98%? Who did you sample for the research? Even 75% came from the president one has to ask!
Lungowe
December 11, 2012 at 8:07 am
thank you Joe, you took the words right out of my mouth and saved me the trouble of calling out tumfweko on the crap they’ve just written
Zude
December 10, 2012 at 11:33 am
Thats very true even here in Malawi.Woman always look up to ready made men,kuti adziwadyela.anthu awulesi,will keep on using them.
Chibesa
December 10, 2012 at 12:02 pm
Not blame women, most them have been dumped by the men they struggled with, once they become successful. all you successful ask yourselves whether the women you with today are the ones that helped you through your success?? most of you the answer will no? why??? you have dumped the ones that helped you when u were struggling. SO ITS U MEN WHO HAVE MADE THAT 75% OF WOMEN TODAY??
Kay
December 10, 2012 at 12:06 pm
Some men remain single up to 40 as well. Sometimes its just difficult to find your match. Infact I’d rather be alone than be married to a drankard loser.Thats why women remain single we cant just accept any kind of crap ala.
Chibesa
December 10, 2012 at 12:09 pm
Who would continue dating struggling ones when the ones you struggle with dumps you once they become successful???? WHO?????
A.D.S.
December 10, 2012 at 1:26 pm
chibesa i disagree wit u and i think u are just bitter. i think u r a lady who has expirence not all guys are as the are wat you think the are
Chibesa
December 11, 2012 at 9:07 am
U are just one and the same!!!!!!!!!!!
Kabwe
December 10, 2012 at 1:18 pm
whatever u call successfull!!! any man who decided to be a husband should be ready and able to provide even the basics for the family, startimng with the wife. There are no two ways about it. Count it a blessing if your wife can help you to with family basics. The role of a wife is not to provide but help, weather finaniclly or marely keep your clothes and house clean ( as a house wife) My sister was married to a humble man who was marely strugling to provide for the family. She loved him and dd all she could to support her including providinf for the family and paying for his school out of love hopping that one daymy brother-in-law would get a good job and provide for the family. Like most men, immidiately he got a job, he dumped the wife and children…. so, let us stick and consentrate on our gender roles… an leave the rest to God.
kakolwe
December 10, 2012 at 2:16 pm
This lawyer gave us an insight to his life. That is the kind of women he attracts. True, many women hve been trained to be overdependent on man, but a lot more are a blessing to man, depends on which rock you fish them from.
Yello
December 11, 2012 at 2:24 pm
Ummm, come back to reality! It is no longer interesting to marry dut to the influx perpetual parasites.
Sir Melo
December 10, 2012 at 2:35 pm
Thank GOD my sisters are among the 25%.Halelujah Amen!!!Otherwise nga nachimidiba!NO woman on earth wants a failure in her LIFE!Thats what we advise them period!!..DO not even complain if u are a failure!Just do somethin about yo situation~!!!!
MWABA
December 10, 2012 at 2:54 pm
****** COMMENT, what do u mean, u mean every woman should get maried just to please u, some men really depend on women, I know of a man who begs around, he borrows money from women in the name of pay u tomolo, that tomolo never comes, I came to know this man as a very good begger, he has since devorced with his wife because he used to depend on her, where on earth one is married, and expect the women to fend for everything, why should a women be enslaved only to please the unfatifhul husand, My own sister (may her soul rest in peace) was once marriedd and sent the husband to school, through her meagre earbnings, when this (LATE) husand got successfully he ditched her, imagine, what she went through, Let those who think ukunyengwa every night is the reason to stick around with unreasponsible chi man. Backward thinking indeed. Mwandi ladies, u have your own life, men of these days are different to men of these days. ditch fools, constrate on your career
king bucho
December 10, 2012 at 3:01 pm
i think 25% is too much wife material ladies are just in the range of 10% to 15%.
C
December 10, 2012 at 4:11 pm
I’ve dated men with nothing,i helped in everyway possible and the moment everything ws ok with thm,they decided to luk elsewhere,no hell with a man without anything,after all i have my mula,monie to keep me going.
Sir-Eva
December 10, 2012 at 6:47 pm
Ya its true 3quaterz are jst golddigerz…bushit!
uncle K.K.K
December 10, 2012 at 6:49 pm
Its true gents,only that some guys are still in darkness they cant see what is happenig in the world,lets open our eyes and see.women have become our enemies,for example how mainy widows and widowers in the world?if you may find the difference you would find that widows are more than widowers,this is all about money they want from men.
Denmark
December 10, 2012 at 9:42 pm
It appears to be true since no lady has written back on this article. Its tough world. Fellow men be careful
afcon phiri
December 11, 2012 at 8:00 am
PIPO It is not just zambian Ladies, but african ladies.
Go to south africa,kenya,Nigeria,zimbabwe it is like these ladies were born from the same mother.
African Ladies are too Lazy, thats why they go for successfull men.when they damp them they say men are liars.they want good life which they never worked for.
mupopo
December 11, 2012 at 9:18 am
Ndeloleshafye.
CROCODILE LOVE
December 11, 2012 at 9:23 am
Thank God my ka swit 16 coloured girlfriend is part of the 25%..shes the cutest girl in the world
Minister Without Portfolio
December 11, 2012 at 10:31 am
I thank God for my wife,who can even make it with 1% or less stastics. My dear sister out there, wakeup! and find a man you can develop with together. Do not go for porsh life before you get married, otherwise you will miss the blessings of it.
ma rubbish
December 11, 2012 at 4:14 pm
Kulafinyengafye,dump,pick,nyenga,dump,pick,nyenga,dumatase!!!
Kasman
December 11, 2012 at 4:25 pm
women are pretentious animals who would show that they love you and yet its not you they love but your monies and property…beware guyz…dats why we use and dump…e.g.KAY FIGO,lusaka pastor(pastor bandas) wife…e.t.c.
Hello
December 11, 2012 at 4:37 pm
I’ve been married to a congolese very hard working man for 6 years now and he is the best man I have ever met.
He treats me with respect and appreciates me so much. I have always worked and brought food to the table just like him.
My previous Zambian Husband was a drunken nightmare who though I only mattered in bed. There was no affection whatsoever in our marriage…and thank God, that man ran away with another woman paving way for my current husband.
Nokuchita tamwaishiba mwebaume ba ku Zambia…mwaba utuntu ubunono…sorry.
Achiver
December 11, 2012 at 4:50 pm
I cannot settle for someone who wants to be the head of the house but has nothing to offer!
cosmas musonda
December 11, 2012 at 7:48 pm
Ithank God for my wife she is among 25 percent
black muntu
December 12, 2012 at 3:49 am
My Agness Is among the 25percent thank God.
NZINYONGA
December 13, 2012 at 2:49 am
I love my wife Musonda at its best, Mwaaaaaaaaaaah!
stardom
December 18, 2012 at 2:28 pm
it could be true but may be some kind of authentication is needed to confirm the data provided by the lawyer.
RealTalk
December 20, 2012 at 6:00 pm
@Hello
Ati shani ba mami…u date one Zambian man and even go the bed route claiming banono! That man might have been useless in bed, but it’s no reason to even assume all Zambian men are small. If I may ask, how old are you? I can tell you that me am 30 years of age and have nailed women much older than I am and they still call me for more but I have distanced myself because they are all just vultures. I dare you to give me a call, am not saying i have a king size pipe, but I can guarantee u bedroom skills that will make u cry…I’m also not a billionaire but am independent. If you are sexy with an ass and splendid curves, I can guarantee u satisfaction. No bullshitting..
ashmail
January 18, 2013 at 3:07 pm
men b careful wit wat u say, u may end up insulting your own wives. nt every woman z like defined.