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Married Women in Lusaka’s Matero Going Through a “Hard Time” with Their Hubbys Because of Prostitutes
SOME married women in Matero have complained about rampant prostitution in the township, which they say is destroying marriages.
And Tasintha Programme co-ordinator Clotilda Phiri says levels of prostitution during the festive season are always very high because “everybody needs money to socialise”.
Veronica Mbewe, 40, a mother of four in an interview said it was unfortunate that prostitutes had even gone as far as following married men to their homes.
She said some married women in Matero were going through a “hard time” because of the prostitutes, who did not care about anything else but making money.
Women who were found at Matero local court on Tuesday explained that some of them had gone to pay the prostitutes who they had beaten up for having affairs with their husbands and were later on fined for assault by the court.
“We have really suffered…Prostitution in Matero is on the rise.
We don’t even know what to tell our husbands because men are just something else. But whatever happens, we the women are the ones to suffer. We have to take care of the children and we also have to ensure that our children go to school. It is sad I tell you,” said Mbewe.
And Phiri said girls that had completed school were contributing to the high level of prostitution.
“Schools have closed with a chain of school leavers. We have those who have written grade seven, grade nine, and especially those who have written grade twelve and don’t know what the future holds for them in the coming year. This too contributes to the high levels of prostitution. They feel that the easiest way to make money is to go into prostitution,” Phiri said.
She said there was also need to condemn men who buy sex from sex workers.
Phiri said it was evident that sex workers were following men to their homes because there was no business on the streets.
She said a strong man who had values and respected his wife could not be followed by a prostitute at home.
Phiri advised sex workers that there was more to life than prostituting, adding that selling sex comes with repercussions.
Source:Post Zambia
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mature
December 17, 2012 at 12:13 pm
uko.. its now “tula twabane” with these prostitutes. very sad indeed. ba court naimwe please protect married women on this assault thing. if the ***** is assaulted as a result of following a married man to his matrimonial home, how do you expect the wife to behave? look the other way because of your to ma funny courts? change with time..
JJ
December 17, 2012 at 12:14 pm
You prostitutes you are very foolish you are even following men to their homes naimwe mwe fyaoume thats why you are sleeping with snakes and crocdiles whats wrong with you surely you cannot discipline your menhood if it is taking you to hell its better you enter the kingdom of God without your manhood and enter the kingdom of God without it bushe mwaliminwa nangu mwaba shani naimwe mwetumaule mwachila kuleni mwetupuba mwe ala rubish.
red devil
December 17, 2012 at 12:16 pm
if you cnt stop them, better join them
Ndeku ndalya
December 17, 2012 at 12:17 pm
Cant see any sense in the story, why complaining when you are always in chitenge day one to 30th december, women who told you that once married you stop caring for your body?
sexologist
December 17, 2012 at 12:36 pm
Mulangize Ati Ndiwe First Lady,Ngati Ma Mini Yamutenga Muvalile Yamene…Osankala Opwalala.Ladies Wake Up!
keo
December 17, 2012 at 12:38 pm
A Hell of sex maniac selling sex have become so stuborn they are now following their clients to their homes ba muntu abaletulanga kuma bogade ebapuba and you ladies start checking yourselves maybe you are lacking something which hookers are well providing.Anyway this development is unfortunate
barotse diaspora
December 17, 2012 at 1:20 pm
prostitution is a cancer in zambia.no man no law can stop it.hiv/aids is a daily meal.pipo are passing it a football march.
Big Daddy
December 17, 2012 at 1:23 pm
Na imwe bazimai why kuzi manga manga vi masaka every day mwamuna azaonapo ciani. Make a deliberate effort to look attractive to your man. Look at Joyce Mayer the TV evangelist she is more Christian and older than you but looks attractive.
MotherF**s
December 17, 2012 at 1:28 pm
vinzuna vima hule imwe….mmm!!!! wives are boring these days that’s why tutombafye tubaiche utu…one is calling me right now even…let me got get me some head mwe!!!
Mundiya Wakuluna
December 17, 2012 at 1:33 pm
Women, why do you have to worry when you already have a home and kids. It only becomes a problem if the Ka Man chases you and replaces you with a prostitute.
SQUARD
December 17, 2012 at 1:43 pm
how can a normal person show a sex worker were he stays(home) and u are married thats not normal is this a true story?????
CNP-4U
December 17, 2012 at 1:54 pm
let your govt of ukwanites give you the jobs they promised you..!
nikulimba paziko
December 17, 2012 at 2:44 pm
these wives should keep their bamuna nice and stop nagging or they’ll end up complaining every time while the professional caretakers are enjoying. Blah blah blah every time, gimme a break iwe! i also need to enjoy my life down here!
nevin
December 17, 2012 at 3:04 pm
wives are to blame! before women are married,they all look fresh like the prostitute and thats y men chase after them once married,he will go for another fresh chick and not chima woman smelling of onions bcoz of being in da kitchen 24/7
baggio
December 17, 2012 at 3:10 pm
Once’s pain is hard 2 believed!!!
import
December 17, 2012 at 3:14 pm
Wives f**k ur husbands nicely @ home otherwize we ill alwaz do it 4 u
Mr wise
December 17, 2012 at 3:56 pm
If we create jobs for our young men and/or enpower them with some economic enpowerment programmes, they can at least marry some of these girls…The problem is working married men are targeted coz of money not necessarily sex.Also,lets fund NGOs like tasintha so they can recruit more balangizi for teaching these women and help change them.
what.what.what!
December 17, 2012 at 3:58 pm
@baggio,can you just say that in bemba pliz
Umupandapwiti
December 17, 2012 at 4:01 pm
Stop complaining, just try to re-evaluate the way you look, more especially how you dress. Mind you,
prostitutes are women just like you and the also need husbands. There are just victims of circumstances. So, stop complaining and look into areas that need your attention.
dude
December 17, 2012 at 4:14 pm
go zambia go
Me
December 17, 2012 at 4:16 pm
my wife is hot! I always remind her to sexy…shit!
My wife
December 17, 2012 at 4:56 pm
Sorry buddy’s i ve been married for 9yrs but my wife is nice; has more flesh now and so sexy.there’s more men needs to do in this matter.
Ba medza
December 17, 2012 at 5:22 pm
Prostitution is everywhere just last weekend I went to quench my thirst @ vip club kitwe & was aproached by this young beaty who asked for a beer & bought her one,next thing she asked me to go with her @ her boarding house to have sex. I almost gave in but anyway I resisted & after a day I bumped into her in town where I learnt tha she was a student. Ubuule ni konse,,,,kukosafye
Oh No Lord
December 17, 2012 at 5:48 pm
Pray Zambia, pray my beloved country!! The devil is really attacking from all angles.
Mvelani
December 17, 2012 at 6:07 pm
My wife knows how to ****! Ubuchende wachilamo bamuna naiamwe! Muzafa. Mwayamba na blame game! *****, satanyoko!!!!
SANGO
December 17, 2012 at 6:51 pm
God guide mother Zambia. God is with
Us. God shall never leave us alone
Tonga Bull
December 17, 2012 at 7:06 pm
Tumfweko how can you be talking about such issues when the PF are wasting money on By Elections instead of fighting army worms, stopping the mealie meal shortages, stopping fuel shortages etc.
hormones
December 17, 2012 at 7:07 pm
**** you everyone who has contributed so far. **** u all! A man is like bee. A bee will always go for the fresh & bright looking flower. Wives take it for granted. Be attractive and sexy. Foolish women.
Abakonzi
December 17, 2012 at 7:14 pm
Beating up a Hule is not the solution.The problem is that most married women have become dull,lazy and sorry to say dirty.Also most women are no longer creative.Umulume obe ngabwela from work please twapapata try to look nice and let him feel comfortable being home.Make some chips,ask him about work etc.Noti elefikafye ati mwachiba kwisa,you even start searching his phone for sms and dialed numbers.Fwe baume tatwashupa ukutuchita control
Ba game
December 17, 2012 at 8:42 pm
Batumfweko where are my comments i’v been sending since morning?
hello
December 17, 2012 at 9:37 pm
Very few women in Zambia experience love and respect from there husbands. Women just get educated and take care of yourselves! Forget about the so called husbands.
Ba medza
December 17, 2012 at 10:00 pm
@ tongabull life is a variety & the differences are what makes up life so @ times talk something different from politics it will help in getting rid of that hate & nightmares you are having right now. May the good help you.
Ba medza
December 17, 2012 at 10:00 pm
@ tongabull life is a variety & the differences are what makes up life so @ times talk something different from politics it will help in getting rid of that hate & nightmares you are having right now. May the good Lord help you.
Umuntu umo
December 18, 2012 at 5:13 am
Zo-ona ni agony..prostitutes knockin @ da door askin da wife da husband nids her services…..ladiez stop naggin ..lok atractive….mek ur dude fil important….gve him respect..nice food…som good lovin…simply mek him think abt u all da tym…..mek him miss u more….mek him stay @ home…gve a hug wen frm work..cup of cibwantu or juice..jst small things count for a dude…..but not ukulisha ba malinso..auwe…..
yada yada
December 18, 2012 at 9:39 am
ama’hule fye yalilowa
mali
December 18, 2012 at 10:30 am
this debate in happenin gin hell, non christians stay away, God forgive this idiots.
musa
December 18, 2012 at 10:32 am
By the way it is gender, so why compain, do something as well.
PUNJIE PIE
December 18, 2012 at 12:37 pm
@Tonga Bull,so if its you u re thinking of that *****,WABETOLE CHIKALA
Nemwine
December 19, 2012 at 11:25 am
Wifes please give Blow Jobs ,anal and everything to your husbands thats why they are going to those Hules they leave no place unsucked and they let it in everywere he please .
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