A man yesterday said he felt cheated by his wife of 30 years after she brought two more children home apart from the three he knew she had before they married.
Gideon Sadomba said when she met Violet, she told him that she had three children and he accepted it, but now accuse her of bringing two more children home a year after, claiming they were hers. The children, Sadomba said, were brought to his house soon after they legally married. Sadomba accused Violet at the Harare Civil Courts where she was seeking a protection order against him, of not appreciating his kindness.
“Some women do not appreciate,” he said.
“I decided to marry this woman when she had three children of her own. A year into the marriage, I got the shock of my life when two more chiIdren surfaced and said they were her children.
“I forgave her and at one time I was forced to sell my stockings such that I could fend for her children. Up to now, those children are residing at the house I inherited from my late parents. We have been married for the past 30 years.
“The first year of our marriage was fine until those two children surfaced after we got legally married. We are in the process of divorcing and I only managed to take the few pots I inherited from a late relative. The problem we have is that she is denying me the chance to see my child who is staying with her at my parents’ house since I moved out.”
But Violet said Gideon was in the habit of chasing her out of the house.
“He took my curtains, pots and plates when he was moving out to stay with another woman,” she said.
“I have nowhere else to go and he insults me every time he comes home.”
Magistrate Ms Vongai Muchuchuti ordered Sadomba to stop taking matrimonial property and verbally abusing Violet until divorce proceedings were finalised – Herald.
kakolwe
February 22, 2013 at 6:12 pm
What shall it take us for you to spare us the Zim Buulushit? We got our own in the backyard plz!
aisha
February 22, 2013 at 6:18 pm
yeah like really…?
tete
February 22, 2013 at 9:59 pm
was zambia once colonised by zimbabwe? it seems to be the only source of info
yaba
February 23, 2013 at 4:22 am
is tumfweko owned by zimbabwans or its where you think u can get lies from.you can change
P1
February 23, 2013 at 7:20 am
How old are the children? She had them b4 they got married, honest are they not old enough 2 tek care of themselves? Story cooked up.
Mulundu
February 23, 2013 at 8:36 am
useless story
DIGGERS
February 23, 2013 at 1:03 pm
Bring something sensible on this site pliz!
Makolelwe
February 23, 2013 at 6:58 pm
I we a bana 30 years ago pa polilo,nifwaka ba tumfweko
Mk
February 24, 2013 at 7:08 am
Batumfweko u are becoming useless, remember u ve competitors
Tribalist
February 24, 2013 at 8:41 am
Not that we where once colonised by zim or tumfweko is owned by the zim no but that is where the nosense is brewed. We have the zim people here in zambia we all know how there behaviuor is. 1 man 20 wives are these women normal? Some of them go to the extent of blood sisters go to the one man, come on guys how.
Tribalist
February 24, 2013 at 8:41 am
Not that we where once colonised by zim or tumfweko is owned by the zim no but that is where the nosense is brewed. We have the zim people here in zambia we all know how there behaviuor is. 1 man 20 wives are these women normal? Some of them go to the extent of blood sisters go to the one man, come on guys how.
mwamba mutale
February 24, 2013 at 11:11 am
Tumfweko this story is cooked. Married for 30 years then children coming in a year after marriage. Which means he only started complaining after 30 years. How old are those children and are they still staying with them becoz they are over 30. Nosense in this story
mcm
February 24, 2013 at 2:36 pm
ubo buufi, maybe the man just wanted to leave. however, there is no sence in the story. Pliz bring up stories that educates and builds not ubuufi.
nawaitwika
February 25, 2013 at 8:47 am
Ifyo ifyabupuba ifya cheating uko kwine ku Zimbabwe useless stories rubbish.
ωoмαภ
February 27, 2013 at 10:22 am
ωhat men can do ωomen can do better ✌