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My Husband’s Girlfriend is Pregnant for Him; What Should I Do?
Please I need urgent advise. I left my matrimonial home in January after I found out another woman was pregnant for my husband. I was six months pregnant then and the other lady was five.
This woman is my husband’s ex who he kept sleeping with until our wedding in September 2012. He told me he hasn’t touched her since we got married but he got her pregnant a month before our wedding…
I’m eight months pregnant now and I’m very angry and disappointed in myself for choosing a man who has humiliated me so much. My family and friends are begging me to go back home, give my marriage a chance and have my baby there, but I don’t know that I want to do that.
I’m staying at my parents house at the moment and yes my husband is also begging. So on top of being angry, I’m also confused. Please what should I do?
Posted by
bazo
March 21, 2013 at 12:38 pm
if you won’t go back, I will move in!!
melvin
March 24, 2013 at 9:25 am
cum 2 me i marry u…
ANDY
March 28, 2013 at 11:15 am
FIRST U NEED TO FIND OUT WHAT MAKES YOUR HUSBAND GO BACK TO HIS EX. DID U STEAL HIM FROM HER,ASK HIM WHY HE GOES BACK TO HER THEN ASK FOR ADVICE AFTER HIS RESPONSE
CHIKWANDA KAUSENI
April 13, 2013 at 8:15 am
THATS’S TRUE!!
Racastle
April 12, 2013 at 10:00 am
this marriage started wrong and will continue to be wrong, its either u also start cheating or call it quits. cheating has become the order of the day in marriages these days and the weak will continue crying.
kapembwa boyd
April 13, 2013 at 6:03 am
Yes its wrong of him to do such a thing & u aot rights to leave him but madam check is ok for your baby to grow without a father & u know these days men are so much intrested in first hands am sayin think carefully before takin a step.things come & go.
CHIKWANDA KAUSENI
April 13, 2013 at 8:13 am
Go back and be prayerful. some things will come to change. he’s your husband. fight for what is yours. give faith a fighting chance. some say marriage is shipikisha club. it doesnt make sense but in such cases, it gets to make sense because you have to hold on a bit. like someone said, find out what makes him go to the ex. i have friends who are not married because of anger and leaving what is theirs. remember, anger is just a letter away from danger. get what is yours and protect it. FIGHT YOUNG LADY!
Bridget Mukalati
April 15, 2013 at 2:39 pm
You need to pray my dear sister. God loves you very much and he will never fosake you. Pray for your hubby. Give him another chance ad if he continues misbehaving leave him. But first think of your marriage ad your child that you are carring. much love sis
Luiz
April 26, 2013 at 3:16 pm
for better for worse, that is the solution in marriage,the Bible says ” what God puts together will never asunder”. Consult properly and use your mutual understanding to resolve that issue
BAD NEWS
April 30, 2013 at 8:56 pm
NO SENCE
Nyengizo
May 3, 2013 at 9:57 am
yaku yaku icintu ubusuma, Iwe uleposa nshita,just come indekucita. Uku nyenga is my business
Kzwayo
May 10, 2013 at 1:05 pm
Go back home & work your marriage. But mind issues of diseases caused by giving too much room to partners.
uncle D
May 14, 2013 at 2:26 pm
please go back to yr husband you are just waisting your time.
Thrishu
May 14, 2013 at 2:50 pm
uwingila mumushitu tomfwa swaswa. Just go back home mama.
Zimba Ex- minister
May 14, 2013 at 3:24 pm
Yo husband is nt a marriage material. he is nt ready for marriage talakula. a decision should come from u nt even yo mum/dad coz wat u will go thru in yo lfe, should nt put any blame on anyone
Tonga Bull
May 14, 2013 at 4:19 pm
my woman that is very normal,just go back home u are very safe,that is carefull wth his dealings thus why he went back to his ex,its very difficulty to trust new ones,just take him for VCT and if u are both negative then just accept that mistake and advise him to settle u both.bcos nomatter what he wil continue.thats real.
cross
May 17, 2013 at 5:17 pm
Pray about this situation and cry unto him,then listen to what his response is.
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SEAN
May 31, 2013 at 2:47 pm
PRAY
Mimi
June 6, 2013 at 1:13 pm
Mama if you love your husband just go back bcos you will find your friend has moved in. Besides maybe you are the one who stole him from her. How many times are you going to leave bcos yr hubby has impregnated a girlfriend he’s not the first one to do that. Grow up and seek the Lord in prayer..
tito
June 24, 2013 at 4:49 pm
Unfortunately men can not be faithful, statistics say only 10% of African men are faithful and even that 10% if constantly pursued by a woman will also cheat.Your husband unfortunately is taking risks by having sex without a condom which can put you at risk of HIV and AIDS. Leave him and find another man. Most men cheat but always use condoms.
EDGER
June 24, 2013 at 8:02 pm
Its bad just findout from your so called Hasband the reason why He decided to go and have live sex outside marriage mmmmmmmmm…
fred
July 7, 2013 at 9:19 am
jst pray.