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What Should I Do. This Girl Only Told Me She’s HIV+ After We got Marrried
People help me with your comments I think I will pick up many good comments and apply them but please don`t insult me.
I’m in a confused state. I’m a graduate from CBU,I spent my five year at school busy studying every day and nightaand after I completed school I decided to look for a girl to marry all along she couldn’t`not tell me that she was HIV+ after I married her that’s when she told me. I don’t know what to do saints,can I forgive her and move on?but whenever I look at her I always get pissed.
Please advise, problem shared problem solved
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Love, Peace and Unity
March 14, 2013 at 6:15 am
The Bible says that love covers multitude of sin. But in this case, an honest answer is stop having sex with your spouse unless you protect yourself. Forgive her, but take precautions. Take a test after being prayed for and if you find that you are negative with can be a possibility, then leave the marriage and seek counsel. One thing is that you will never trust this lady no matter what may come your way with her. Forgive her and move on with your life. Do not live with a knife on your throat, oneday you may chock yourself with it.
Maselino B
March 14, 2013 at 10:33 am
My short advise to you is that find time take your wife for counseling. There could be a lot more other things which you do not know about her at all. Remember been HIV positive is not a death sentence you can still live a normal life as usual. Go for HIV testing and know your status you maybe Negative.
Arm Star Darm The Advisor.
March 14, 2013 at 10:50 am
Boi!! you are the appointing authority who has enough powers to hire and fire!! exercise your powers man.