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Ten Reasons Men cheat
So why do some men cheat in relationships? Almost all men know that cheating is wrong, yet many they still do it. Men will blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce. However, aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp? Shouldn’t we be able to control our bodies through our minds and conscious decisions? Apparently not always. Here are the top ten reasons why men cheat:
1. Because they had the option. The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.
2. It boosts their ego. Sometimes men no longer feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There is nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.
3. You grow apart. Maybe the two of you didn’t have as much in common as you thought. He’s met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.
4. You argue a lot. Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something.
5. They have fallen out of love. Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.
6. Your sex life stinks. If a man has a disinterested partner or isn’t getting enough sex to fulfill him, there is a good chance he will have an affair. Just because you have a husband or boyfriend, does not mean you can stop trying. It takes a little bit of effort to keep your sex life from becoming boring and non-existent. Some men cheat because they want to try new sexual things that their current partner will not try.
7. To get revenge. A man will sometimes cheat if he finds out his partner was cheating on him. How else is he supposed to heal those hurt feelings of his but through good old-fashioned sex?
8. It’s new, different and exciting. Some men get tired of having steak for dinner every night and want to try a hamburger. The same goes for sex with a woman. That’s why men don’t necessarily always cheat with women who are more attractive than their partners.
9. To see if they can get away with it. If a man has the attitude of “what she doesn’t know, won’t hurt her,” he may cheat to see if he is sneaky and smart enough to get away with it. However, with all the advancement in surveillance spy ware, getting caught has now become easier than ever.
10. Because you have allowed it in the past. If you have forgiven a cheating man a couple of times, they are more than likely going to cheat again because they already know if they plead enough, you will forgive them. Reasons why men cheat can be more complex than the above list or even be a combination of a few different reasons. Nevertheless, no reason is good enough reason to lie and be dishonest. After all, Karma can be a bitch.
Posted by
muslim
April 19, 2013 at 12:12 am
the simple reason why everyone cheats is because they do not fear GOD.if they do,they would always tell the truth.not these reasons you have given above.
Beautifu
April 19, 2013 at 12:42 am
M tired of u idiots nt postn ma coments
kakolwe
April 19, 2013 at 3:58 am
Title should have been Reasons why people cheat. Coz whats good for the one is good for the other. & when U think u’re f*cking them, they are f*cking YOU! It 50:50 people!!!
IronHide
April 19, 2013 at 12:05 pm
True dat!!
Zebige
April 19, 2013 at 10:48 pm
True
Scotch
April 19, 2013 at 5:29 am
Some men do cheat for revenge of propozing u ladies 4 a long tym accepting them afta long tym.sam ladies lyk treating men as fools wen being proposed,so men take a revenge of cheating later on.The otha reason is many gals r so proud and disrespectiful nwdys,so a man cnt jst hv 1 bt many 4 compensation aftar frustrations
Truth Teller
April 19, 2013 at 6:43 am
Some of us cheat 4 fun..@beautifu cme we cheat
Truck driver
April 19, 2013 at 8:19 am
Women are after me like bees on honey, i try to run but u kno i can’t hide.
NIKITA
April 19, 2013 at 9:25 am
Once a cheater oways a cheater.A cheating man is like sleeping with the enemy!And ofcourse there are some cheating women too!
mimi
April 19, 2013 at 10:18 am
thats Y b1 said that abaume fipuba. too bad we (females) cant exist alone!
PEACE
April 19, 2013 at 10:28 am
FOLLOW THE TEACHINGS OF CHRIST PLIZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
mwebe
April 19, 2013 at 11:59 am
“The fear of God is the begining of wisdom”sex is the same why cheat???
umuntu mutwe
April 19, 2013 at 12:18 pm
WELL THIS TOPIC IS TRICK. BUT CHEATING IS 50-50 BOTH MEN AND WOMEN CHEAT. THE ONLY WAY IS FOR ALL OF US TO ADRESS THE ISSUES WHICH CAUSES US TO CHEAT. BUT DIVIL IS A LIAR.
ck
April 19, 2013 at 12:24 pm
Look,beware of HIV and AIDS!
warder
April 19, 2013 at 2:11 pm
if we stopd cheatin then sum ladies wont b havn sex kaili abt 20000 men ar n prisons.so ladies share us
Truth Teller
April 19, 2013 at 3:04 pm
Warder,nyc point,,
tonga bull
April 19, 2013 at 4:22 pm
with this kind of exposure and these are the same women who are always crying for respect from men.
Pamela W
April 19, 2013 at 9:39 pm
there should never be any reason whatsoever for a married man/woman to cheat. You have to stop giving up such suggestive messages if you a moral and educated human being. People cheat for no reasons mentioned above. Simple, evil
Zebige
April 19, 2013 at 10:51 pm
Fyaba ngobwali bakamba.Takwaba ati mailo nalilya.Kutoba apaisuka.Inkama mupila.Chalofye ichi bane twafisangafye.
zimande
April 20, 2013 at 4:23 pm
SOME MEN ARE FOLLS ONLY CONTROLLED BY SEXUAL APPETITES
zimande
April 20, 2013 at 4:24 pm
SOME OF US MEN HAVE NEVER CHEATED , SO WHY CHEAT YOURSELVES? NO WONDER AIDS WILL NEVER FINISH