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I hear this is a true life story. It’s very touching. Read and learn from it:
I became addicted to my blackberry and also my social media applications, and since I had constant access, I quickly gained enough followers, and especially guys, mostly because I had a lot of erotic pictures on my timeline, I was popular. Finally I felt I was the main girl, everyone wanted to follow me…
My name is Chinwe, I am 26 years old, I never graduated from the university, simply bcos I was stupid and careless, on my 24th birthday, I received a nice gift, it was a blackberry phone, I always wanted one, it was like a right of passage, my ex-boyfriend got it for me, he was a student like me, didn’t have a job, and I really never cared to ask as he could afford it, my concern at that point was, yes I had finally arrived.
Other girls in my hostel had blackberries and I would always get pissed when I heard sounds of pings and messages coming into their phones at all hours and I would stare at my Nokia phone and wish I could throw it away, but half bread they say is better than none. I hoped and even fasted to get a blackberry phone, but looking back now, if I had the opportunity, I’d have a landline with no internet activity what so ever. Anyway I got the blackberry phone and even got free BIS subscription, at that moment my life was complete, no more going to the cyber cafes to check my emails, my face-book or twitter, I had it all at my finger tips, life indeed was complete, or so I thought.
I didn’t care if it was virtual, it felt good, checking out my profile and having well over 8,000 followers, more than half of which were guys, but one particular guy caught my attention, till this day I don’t know what made him stand out, but we got chatty, he sent me direct messages and I replied, he was quiet a gentleman , and I can’t remember him ever asking for a nudè picture unlike the rest of them, so this made me comfortable with him, his name was James, he said he was a doctor , I didn’t have any cause to doubt him, he had extensive knowledge and even gave me some medical advice from time to time, we eventually moved from twitter to blackberry chat, we chatted all the time, I got so comfortable with him, I gave him my number, and that would come to be the biggest mistake I ever made.
James called me every day, some days he called more than once, at night he would call and I would lay on my bed and have phone s*x with him, his voice was so soothing, he made me do things I never thought possible, he had gained so much access into my head, I realized later I had done some very sick and twisted things just to please him, I would take nudè pictures of myself, I would send him videos of me touching myself in private, and send him voice notes of me making moaning sounds and simulating orgàsms, and all this while we had not met, not face to face at least, eventually I played into his hands, I began pestering to meet him in person, at this point I had lost my mind, I assumed I was in-love with him, and when my boyfriend at the time broke up with me, I really welcomed it, for me it meant no more sneaking around.
James eventually agreed to come to Lusaka to meet me, all this while he had made me to believe he was in The copperbelt, and would take time off work to spend a weekend with me in Lusaka, when I heard this I was excited, he told me to book a reservation for him, stating he would pay me back as soon as he arrived and also he said it would make him more committed to the visit and would convince him of my seriousness, I bought it all, he was smart, he was cunning, and I was stupid, oh how stupid I was.
The funny thing was I had sent him tons of pictures, and all I had was just one picture of him, and whenever I asked he would claim he wanted to be sure I loved him for him, and not for his looks, and sheepishly I would try to convince him of my undying love, and would try to appease him with nudè pictures of my body.
He eventually made it to Lusaka, I met him at the hotel, he was tall, handsome and had a wonderful smile, he made love to me over and over, and convinced me to spend the night with him, I told him I couldn’t, because I had a test the next morning, now at this point I don’t know what triggered his anger, don’t know if it was because I couldn’t spend the night, or maybe I said something else I can’t remember saying, but whatever it was, brought out a very ugly side of him. He called me foul names, and kept going on and on about how he always knew I was cheap, and he knew I was sleeping with other men, the same man whom had swept me away, slammed me on the floor, he told me of how he had shown his friends all my nudè pictures and how they had watched the videos and listened to the voice notes, he told me he had made a bet with his friends, that I would actually pay for him to have sèx with me, just to prove how stupid I was.
Well you can imagine how I felt, I was confused and shocked, but I attempted to regain any little dignity I had left, and so I tried to mouth off at him, suddenly he punched me in the face, and I tripped over, and hit my head on a stool. The next thing I remember was waking up on the bed, I was tied up, and he was staring at me, his eyes were dark and he had a sinister smile on his lips, he stood up and walked towards me ,I tried to scream and realized my mouth was tapped, my head was racing, the unfortunate part was that no one knew where I was, he turned me over, and told me he was going to teach me a lesson, at this point I was unclad, he rapped me from behind, and I mean my anus, the pain was mind blowing, I struggled, and he hit me, when he was done he brought out a small blade, and he looked at me for a minute and said, this scar is going to always serve as a reminder, for girls like you always trying to be more than you are, for stupid fools like you.
He put the blade to my bosom and cut it off, and anytime I think of it, I still feel the pain, it was like nothing I had ever felt before, he was calm, like he had done it a million times, I could feel the warm blood dripping down my mutilated chest, tears of fear and pain running down my face, and suddenly he turned around again, this time all I saw was a flash. I don’t know how I survived it, but I woke up in a hospital days after, well I was awake, but my eyes were swollen shut, It took a couple of days for me to open my one good eye, and realize d damage he had done, he had plucked out my eye, and cut my face, he had cut my breasts up real bad, they had to it out, like I had cancer or something, there was no record of who I was, coz he had taken everything, he had taken my bag, containing everything I had.
I was able to tell the nurses about what I could remember, and also give them my mum’s phone number, the hospital felt so much pity, they actually treated me for free, hard to believe right? Anyway I was taken home after weeks at the hospital to recuperate, it was tough, I was blind in one eye, I had one chest and a hideous scar of my face, talk about your sinage, he did a number on me, how dumb was I, sometimes I wish he had killed me, but there are fates worse than death, and I guess this is one of them, he was gone without a trace, the receipt from the hotel was in my name, so yes he had played me from the start.
I didn’t dare go back to school, I was sure everyone would have heard, and I was not going to become a statistic, so I decided to stay home, and mind my business, besides what do I need an education for, I’d rather stay home, because there is no rising from this, there is no happy ending to this story, this is the simple ending, I was a victim if a sèxual predator, and I let him into my life period. I take full responsibility for that, I was driven by greed and lack of morals, I allowed myself fall into an abyss, but well saying all this doesn’t change anything, it’s a memory I will have to live with for the rest of my life, well not a memory, because I look at myself in the mirror everyday, who would want to see a nudè picture of a woman with one chest, one eye, and a stub.
I have decided to publish my story on you blog, because with the rise of social media atrocities being committed, every story can go a long way in saving a life, so while you read, SHARE and help someone back to the right path, these internet predators are real.
May Almighty God Help us all. “Amen”
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Mwine Mushi
April 25, 2013 at 10:02 am
Shit happens when you party naked!
ziig
April 25, 2013 at 10:03 am
the problem is that its hard to believe Tumfwekos stories. you are full of gossip/ grapevine.
Snr Moderator
April 25, 2013 at 4:03 pm
nice editing… it sounds nigeria-sh.
so which hospital and hotel was she?
when did it happen?
did libongani or beer man Lungu get it?
scott and effie at znbc said nothing?
i usually miss ‘ilyashi lya pano sonde’, am sure it was main news.
ALL IN ALL NICE STORY. IT SHOD SEND A COLD WAVE TO SMALL GIRLS’SPINES TO AVOID SUCH BEHAVOIUR!
gale
April 25, 2013 at 10:30 am
i agree with ziig..but if this is true…aaaah that shit is scary..May God be with you dearest person
mwewa
April 25, 2013 at 10:46 am
this story cud be true and ever since these internet activities came a lot of pipo hav fallen victims but again it is up to each person how you take it,you cannot entirely trust a person you are meeting for the first tym,too bad for you sisy,God wil see you through.
truth
April 25, 2013 at 11:16 am
this is not coz i read the same story on fb that it happend in tanzania, how come today its written lusaka? i think you should find the truth then publish unlike this OR just give us NEWS!
Kasaka
April 25, 2013 at 11:18 am
You have his picture and cell # go to police and trace owner. You a ****** and cheap, how do u sleep with someone first time u meet him? How do u explain those mutilation to your next lover?
Chizay
April 25, 2013 at 11:27 am
Leasson lent especially ths fb toddlers
suzyomark
April 25, 2013 at 11:27 am
thats wat happens wen u lose focus n concerntration on yo dreams lifestyle of fantasy.its not 2 late u can amend but hop uve learnt da lesson not 2 move so fast.one day at a time .u will achieve all yo desires u want in life if u take yo time n concerntrate on buildin yo future.watchout 4 dreamwreckers my dear n keep yo head up dnt look back but forward n 4get wat happnd.
xi-jinping
April 25, 2013 at 11:45 am
this story doesnt seen to be real.did we here of such in the media?NO…but its a gud one for thoz social media addicts.
kelvin daka
April 25, 2013 at 12:41 pm
Thats a Nigerian Movie i once watched it.
Zebige
April 25, 2013 at 1:40 pm
Sad.You surely learnt it the hardway
the 3ye
April 25, 2013 at 2:41 pm
sounds like an imaginative mind if you ask me
MARVIN
April 25, 2013 at 3:32 pm
Sorry my sister I have ready the story, and just believer in God , if you believe in him, all things are possible to him. Ok. So just receiver Jesus Christ as your personal saviour, that so.
And you start a new chapter.
This is not the end of the world, what I can tell now is ask for directions from God in whatever you are doing . God loves you my sister I can assure you.
Thank you.
Muntu nyoko
April 25, 2013 at 3:34 pm
Real or fake, there is some warning in it. If real sorry nothing much to do but hope is only in God. We have so many times offended Him and cannot blame this lady we unfortunately do similar things in bigger or smaller ways.
Please lets not marry or fall in love over internet or cellphones. I met a gentleman in Europe seriously planning to marry an East African based on internet pictures saying her legs are better that a fellow European. Honestly ladies and gentlemen is that a safe method sure? And the gentleman kept on changing his name whenever we met. I found a way not to get so close though am a fellow man.
Audrey
April 25, 2013 at 5:04 pm
sorry it landed on you
marie
April 25, 2013 at 5:40 pm
eish……… that was quite a story. its sad and i hop u will heal from this whole thing one day.
moston
June 12, 2013 at 11:07 am
She just told you that she has one eye now
bm
April 25, 2013 at 7:18 pm
i dnt knw if its a fake story bt all de same it shud b a lesson 2 all gals mwebatemwa ifyabupuba.
Thugnificent
April 26, 2013 at 6:19 am
This is some REAL BULLSHIT!
rsm
April 26, 2013 at 9:20 am
Thanx 4 the leason hop all uve seen dis fear.
ashmail
April 26, 2013 at 9:25 am
nafwebanakshi twalichilamo imagine having sex wit s/one u dnt mnw, bupuba
kunda erasmas
April 26, 2013 at 9:37 am
kashimi
Bridget Mukalati
April 26, 2013 at 9:46 am
iye nayopa mwe, too bad my sister i hop pipo wil learn sumthg frm this.
This facebuk thg is beginning to scare me mwe. OH MY GOD PLS HELP US
kay
April 27, 2013 at 9:23 am
it can happen at any time it doesn’t matter where on the net or any place..
kartel
April 27, 2013 at 9:56 am
wetha real or fake out thr opn ur eyes
pay hay
April 27, 2013 at 5:01 pm
sad as it reads, i boubt just how factual it is. the writer can not even tell us what effort she made to trace the man. you can noty go thru such a horrendous incident and just let yo attacker go scot free. i feel this is story book tale. not real. ba tumfweko, stop this rubbish.
Reveal!
April 27, 2013 at 7:35 pm
Repeat this crap was published some time last year.Apparently,Tumfweko has run out of the stories.
Bring fresh stuff
Lyashifye ili
April 30, 2013 at 11:06 am
Tramped up case.
wabo
May 2, 2013 at 9:25 am
whether zed or tz,movie or fabricated story, the bottom line is, this can happen its a lesson to all take it or leave it.umwana ashumfwa
levison mutobapolala
May 3, 2013 at 11:29 am
\.lAnyway mwayumfwila Ala mwebana muleumfwilako naba fayshi. Ubwafya you think your paretns are old fashined Ala mwandi ati ni old School. Tepapa nomba
j vix
May 3, 2013 at 4:42 pm
ba tumfweko get ur facts straight naimwe dat story is alova fb ala!!!!!!!!lusaka wher?mchewwwwwwwwwww*nigerian style*
frederick
May 26, 2013 at 4:02 pm
I owez Wnder wre dis wrld is goin,,2 bad my dear bt God shall showery c dis ****** fool,,is an Idiotic man,,God panish dat fool.
mimi
May 27, 2013 at 8:57 am
wats de name of de movie?mwelatubepa
casim
May 30, 2013 at 9:46 am
lack you did not die….. next you will meet a person who will kill you.
kapandula
June 3, 2013 at 5:05 pm
you have picture and phone number go to police
Dk
June 11, 2013 at 8:20 pm
Nice message for ladies who r like that but know tactics of getting attention. Who will believe that the eye was removed when the picture has both eyes?
Kabwata MP
June 20, 2013 at 3:19 pm
Your story would make a nice movie, so is that how you lost your blackberry?
Guys let us wake up and face reality, your identity is confidential, keep it private and simple.
lol
June 24, 2013 at 8:35 am
how could u send all that infor to a person u have not met,thats the first mistake u made secondly making love to a person u meet for the first time girl why? anyway it is a lesson to all young girls out there.and please get back to school bcoz yo future depends on that just try and brush all that aside if not try and see a councillor.
xyc
June 28, 2013 at 12:57 pm
great composition. this piece of writing can score the best marks for an examination…true or not it has rushed some adrenaline in me & hopefully those gals inclined to flashy lifestyles may probably learn one or two lessons from thee
Peace