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Reasons Why Husbands Sleep With Maids
Dear Women,
Have you ever asked yourself why husbands are sleeping with maids? Well my findings revealed that maids are doing wives’ duties.
Most wives are now full time facebookers, bb users,whatsapp etc chatting 24/7 at the expense of their homes. Even when their husbands return from work, they won’t welcome them with love and husbands that don’t want argument, will go straight to the kitchen to get pure water to cool down.
Unfortunately maids whose ‘oranges’ are intact not floppy like wives will welcome your husbands. At weekends, you don’t stay home to cook special meals, you leave your maids to do the task and where are you? Partying! Don’t you know these maids have needs as well and they have automatic promotion if your husbands should have sex with them so pls dear women stop allowing maids to perform your duties.
Don’t start crying when it happens because you pushed him to do what he never wanted to do.
I know you may be busy, but if the Maid cooks food, be the one to serve that food to ur husband, welcom him always when he’s from work, be the one to give him water to take a shower,and never let ur House Maid enter ur Bed room to clean there! I dont say it is sole cause but i do say that it is one of the causes why Most men use to sleep with maid…
“THANK YOU for Listening!”
By Rafel Oduku
Posted by
man
May 6, 2013 at 12:24 pm
Bonse ndise vipubaaaaaa,
Yes, tell the wives to be more caring. Naine kuti nalya ka maid nga kapwalala.
Fatty boom boom
May 6, 2013 at 12:37 pm
What nonsense !!!! if your husband sleeps with a maid, its simply coz he wanted to, other women go out of their way to do all they have to do for their so called husbands but unfortunately these husbands still sleep around. Truth is, marriage in this day and era, has lost its sanctity .The way marriage life was intended to be is not what it is today. The only way for any marriage to survive thru the storms is if the two parties involved, ask for Gods’ guidance and presence in their marriage…
gloria
May 6, 2013 at 3:11 pm
thank you my sister. you are very right. Men are just serious prostitutes.
DEEPER
May 8, 2013 at 11:20 am
Great!
mimi
May 6, 2013 at 1:15 pm
abaume nimbwa fye, they always find an excuse to cheat!
Jackal
May 6, 2013 at 1:47 pm
Kanshi you now that we are Dogs?The lady is spot on these days you ladies cant cook, make breakfast , wake after 08hrs drink like tigerfish and chat on facebook and badoo until midnite,what time do you cook ? i have about 30 taken women on my badoo list we chat from 18hrs until midnite everyday i even wonder what time you cook and eat……
Jackal
May 6, 2013 at 1:48 pm
Kanshi you know that we are Dogs?The lady is spot on these days you ladies cant cook, make breakfast , wake after 08hrs drink like tigerfish and chat on facebook and badoo until midnite,what time do you cook ? i have about 30 taken women on my badoo list we chat from 18hrs until midnite everyday i even wonder what time you cook and eat……
Kuseli kunvenji
May 6, 2013 at 9:29 pm
Mimi….. you must have had very bad experiences with men..ati nimbwa fye..chikubaba zoona.Not all men are like that,may be you just found wrong ones because of your bad choice. Quick recovery.
TC
May 7, 2013 at 9:51 am
Not all men are like that my dear. There are noble men out there who respect their wives and will not do what you are saying. I think what people should be talking about is what lessons do we get from this and what things can we do differently to avoid such things happening in a marriage.
Mulundu
May 6, 2013 at 1:40 pm
Mimi, even some women are dogs, they cheat. People must just learn to respect the institution of marriage.
MAFUPA YOKO YOKO
May 6, 2013 at 2:01 pm
Where is my comment naimwe ba tumfweko?
abavelevele
May 6, 2013 at 2:05 pm
women of nowadays are not taught props,that’s why they can’t keep marriages.and for the men,there’s this saying of “ubuchende wa mwaume tautoba en’ganda”.this sayin’misleads a lot of men.
Walya
May 6, 2013 at 2:27 pm
What if women start having sex with garden boys coz their husbands can’t satisfy em, how will the husbands feel?
Difficult Muyana
May 6, 2013 at 5:02 pm
They actually do…
Kill
May 7, 2013 at 10:42 am
U can do it with garden boys but ‘Ubucende bwa mwaume tabonaula ng’anda’. as for u hahahahahaah!
DEEPER
May 8, 2013 at 11:31 am
Walya, you just have to be in a stright path with God.That time of thinking is totally bad for yourself.
Wa kwamwanjawanthu
May 6, 2013 at 2:31 pm
@Mimi.dogs sleep with dogs.meaning the people who sleep with the men are also. . .
Difficult Muyana
May 6, 2013 at 5:03 pm
No, no, some women actually sleep with actual dogs!
De Lady
May 6, 2013 at 2:57 pm
imwe mwebantu a man needs to be cared for obviously it doesn’t mean that if not he shud slip with the maid. if that happens then the man is just a dog real men understand their women.when he knocks off muvule nsapato, ma socks, jacket and make him feel at home, prepare him a bath,after that ninshi tunshaba tuli ready whats hard about that. besides am a working lady
The Intellectual
May 6, 2013 at 4:48 pm
Are you married???
Maina Soko
May 6, 2013 at 5:07 pm
mmmh, I wish I married you! Here is my number; 09771644728. This Serious shit! Most women are out it. Infact if I get out of this marriage, am never marrying again! It is so much torture to live with woman! Now I know how Adam felt!
the good old days
May 6, 2013 at 10:49 pm
To be honest, most women are a disaster. they hardly cook, sweep and do other house jobs. Some even want to be reminded to shake in bed. When it comes to sex, they always want to make you feel as though its a favour that you are given sex. This in most cases is totally different from the way they behave when you are dating or the first days of marriage.
De Lady
May 7, 2013 at 11:35 am
sorry am TAKEN. de Lady chimbusa
gloria
May 6, 2013 at 3:04 pm
men are always waiting to be pampered yet they cant even show a little love to their wives. now ati ba gona naba maid. it is because men think with their P****. women try hard to be their for their husbands, cook good food, give water for bathing, welcome him well, give him good sex but he still cheats with maids.
Beautifu
May 6, 2013 at 3:04 pm
Cheating has no excuse.its true marriage has no value thez days.if u find fault in yo partner tok abt it nt ati u shd find anotha one.truth b tod js as we sy men r dogs.women r snakes wn we in a relatnshp we patient put me in yo home n do nthn ****** i wil strike.o women r da same.js kno hw to treat us.
D.WHITE
May 6, 2013 at 3:31 pm
a man can not marry when he does not want,when he marries meaning he needs the care of a woman.it does not matter weather a lady works or not,for as long as u indulge ur self in marriage somebody must do marriage activities.some of us we want men who can cheat on as because we are cheaters that’s wy we saying men are dogs.stop ur bad behavior and cheater will never meat u.men can sleep with a maid in the sense that lades of today gives to much room for maids.mind u even maids balashindula bamukabene.it’s not all married man who are spiritually strong.u loose nothing by taking care of ur man,and men we should learn to love our wives.thy ar sweeet………….
Firstman Adam
May 6, 2013 at 3:35 pm
Sis gloria respect for all mankind is a vitual for peace..let have respect its nmot all men who re evil just as not all women are evil if u re moraly deciplind thats ok en so are other men please do not categolycally insult men..God bless you.galatians 2:20
NoelKays.
May 6, 2013 at 3:51 pm
I totally agree, especially after witnessing acts in some women.
Justice judge.
May 6, 2013 at 4:02 pm
I didnt know so MIMI you are a dog?
spoilt wife
May 6, 2013 at 4:04 pm
ati, “be the one to give him water to take a shower”
lol….my bathroom has a Jacuzzi® Bathtub and Shower! This article is referring to women married to poor men.
Maina Soko
May 6, 2013 at 5:28 pm
women without Jacuzzis enjoy more loving than the rich ones, I can assure you. They stick to very small needs each day that makes them happy. Most of the Jacuzzis are not earned.
I have heard shit like, “can I run the water for you, honey?” or ” are you taking the shower honey before you eat or after?” Its just Courtesy, dear! It’s like asking someone that, ‘ Do you want to have some tea – coffee?
So shut the hell up if the Jaccuzi has gotten to your head!
Dubai
May 6, 2013 at 10:59 pm
Jealous id!ot! Envy will kill you poor bastárd.
Bazu
May 6, 2013 at 4:27 pm
Marriage that will last longer comes from the backgrouund of give and take; you can either give 50% of love and take 50% though such a ration is rare. NEVER love a lady/man 70% and only get 30%, the marriage can never last. the 30% love you will receive will make you spouse not to care or respect you at all and will eventually lead to mistrust. Therefor ensure you are within the parameters of sustainable love; say 55/45 or 60/40 ratio. Anything extreme is dangerous.
jj m
May 6, 2013 at 5:02 pm
ba galu balibwino buchende nipakubala manje uwone muntu olo ali kumwezi mukazi bafaka we cant survive like that i think God cursed human being uwone muvikwati peace mulibe kuyambana nidaily buchende nidaily bakazi sibafuna sex ati nine olema maid awasha,apyanga,apika salema afakilepo nakupasa sex ba boss kansi tiyenda kuti mwabantu
mimi
May 6, 2013 at 5:23 pm
men who go about chasing after anything in a skirt including maids deserve to be called dogs. nefi tradition yalimitumpika ati u can womanise as much as u want the society wont condenm u! women on the other hand do evrything posibo to make their men happy but men pay back with infidelity and HIV in a mariage! thats Y u c alot of couples on ART as compared to the singles.
rebased
May 6, 2013 at 5:34 pm
FO SPOILED WIFE
bath the the hubby and papa him to the bed true love hahaha. Laying maid is bad.
the judge
May 6, 2013 at 5:34 pm
@gloria..u sound bitter honey. However its not in order 4 u to call even honourable men as prostitutes.am sure u wudnt welcum any1 calling yo father as such. Tone down b4 we undress u going down to yo forefathers
Beautifu
May 6, 2013 at 5:35 pm
Do u kno js hz thz maids r cod ba mutoba mbale(plate breakers) its a shortcut for ba mutoba mbale ne nganda(plate n homebreakers)most of thez women r on a mission to bcum da madam.check thr CVs. MBA in actin to b trustd DEGREE in pretendn to b obedient DIPLOMA in evil thinkn n CERTIFICATE in studyn da target. Thez bee cheez r sleek.watchout.
Beautifu
May 6, 2013 at 5:39 pm
Imwe.Do u kno js hz thz maids r cod ba mutoba mbale(plate breakers) its a shortcut for ba mutoba mbale ne nganda(plate n homebreakers)most of thez women r on a mission to bcum da madam.check thr CVs. MBA in actin to b trustd DEGREE in pretendn to b obedient DIPLOMA in evil thinkn n CERTIFICATE in studyn da target. Thez bee cheez r sleek.watchout.
mgm
May 6, 2013 at 7:42 pm
mimi , wat is yr problem! i ur one of those stupt women walitumpa sana and uli mbwa iya na kashi
kakolwe
May 6, 2013 at 7:50 pm
@spoilt wife. Kindly try to spoil yo hubby too. Listen to advise given. I can’t begin to tell you how sweet it feels when this God given woman acompanies me in tab & directs the shower hose!
ck
May 6, 2013 at 8:21 pm
Abomination!
Mutombela kwipaya
May 6, 2013 at 9:03 pm
Iwe ka mimi ulefwaikwa ukukutomba bad! Ifwe tatumona kanyo kamotwaingilapo,nangu kakwa maid kukalya bad! Maninga madam teshibe.
Bufi bwekabweka
May 6, 2013 at 9:17 pm
Husbands go for maids because they are horny Not this crap about a wife driving someone to screw another woman
musole sachipango
May 7, 2013 at 5:55 am
Men are dogs and Women are snakes.
MBM
May 7, 2013 at 10:48 am
God gave self control to both a man and women so use it! These days men want a women to do things in the house;washing, cooking, buy food, pay bills etc its as if we are not married at all. We are supposed to be helpers but its like the man is the helper these days and then am expected to cook and serve him food after i have had a stressful day too. Awe sure it aint fair. If we are to both get our share of respect equally lets do our role and then it wont be hard of the other to do the same.
umwana umwaushi
May 7, 2013 at 12:16 pm
It depends on how a woman has been brought up,some can hardly hold a broom to sweep,they have been brought up in a home where a maid does everything for them,what do u expect from such women,, sometimes we think busungu when we are tearing down our own homes. But again no matter how hard u try to work some maids come with different agendas, pakafye amone ubwamba BWA ba boss elo alaikala. Ine bufi mwandi,I can sweep and do everything,if possible I can get my relatives not maid teti.
Mamba
May 7, 2013 at 12:35 pm
@MBM your senario might be different but am beginning to think it’s a woman thing.my wife behind my back am sure says the same thing you said about you women doing this and this.which we appreciate you very much but the truth be said women can be so self centered and evil.in my home 4instance she claims pays much more of the bills.her family even thinks I do nothing,but if were to do an annual return penny4penny 70% of the bills I it’s these attitudes that make us seek for comfort elsewhere. Love one another like you love yourself..
mk
May 7, 2013 at 1:35 pm
its true bakashana mwachilamo ukuseya thats wer they even find boy friends at BRAii every weekend
Bandawe
May 7, 2013 at 2:14 pm
Problem some people have is they still think of a maid as some grade seven drop out and looking very bony na malnutrition. You should have a look at my maid and you’ll not be arguing like this!
identity
May 7, 2013 at 3:49 pm
I like the ka one my madam has employed now. previously it was a bana Chola(not real name) who was dull, low milage flat breasts and hey dirty. but this ka one, she has one child, not mrried and lives in Bauleni. she looks like soon i will eat…..my wife has a busy job in one of the banks and i work in Govt.
Walya
May 7, 2013 at 4:18 pm
De lady u ve a good cv. Counsel mimi 4me b4 I consider ha.if she can change that is
ADIABATIC
May 7, 2013 at 5:16 pm
IN THE DAYS PAST, YOU COULD MARRY SOMEONE UNKNOWN AND JUST ARRANGED FOR YOU AND LIVE HAPPILY LOVING AND EXPLORING EACH OTHER FROM SCRATCH. TODAY, WE SAY WE ARE CIVILIZED AND WANT TO DATE FIRST. HAVE SEX FIRST THEN MARRY.
badass
May 8, 2013 at 8:05 am
it’s called a litmus test.
Clancy
May 8, 2013 at 12:20 am
I have been with my wife for the last 8 years During the first 3 years my wife was the most romantic creature I ever known. As a husband I was happy in the bedroom and outside. Here is an admission I also married her honestly partly because she looked good on my arm..trophy wife…more importantly because she
sweet, natural, loving and romantic (the last two more like she used
to be)…during the first 3 years I used to look forward to coming home after those long business trips abroad and home..I am sure guys would know what I am talking about…she just knew what to do. I have always encouraged my wife to be independent and have friends and which she does… She used to hit the gym with me 4 times a week and at weekends I even used to switch off the phone..it was our quality time…all this changed when I introduced misters RIM(blackberry), Facebook, IPhone, IPad, Android and Broadband at home. It is fair to say that my wife is committed to 100% commitment to
Social networking…to use the pun this has
socially change our lives for worse. I accepted not to be the priority after the kids but to be relegated to 3rd place behind technology especially social networking is a step too far. The problem is she is quick to socialise, go shopping and attend never ending Zambian kitchen parties. get more attention from our maids, her friends than my wife..at this rate I may end up screwing up literally lol.
truthful
May 8, 2013 at 10:29 am
life is very simple-if your wife is too busy-tell her,if she doesnt change, get help from family ,church, if this fails DIVORCE HER, if you screw the maid and you still with the busy madam-means you are just a horny dog!
screwing a dirty maid when you have a respectable wife is pathetic-men lets grow up and respect our selves!
Real man
May 8, 2013 at 10:43 am
Some President in Africa married a maid.
Xhobi man
May 8, 2013 at 10:49 am
were is my comment kashi?
Xhobi man
May 8, 2013 at 10:53 am
FTJ married Vera who was a maid; ba mudala ba RB married a kamwaiche who was plaiting his hair. These guys ended up being our presidents. so what`s wrong here? The thing is women change wen they get married having achieved wht they wanted, not knowing that men are ever looking for fresh meat.
Mubanga kabwe
May 8, 2013 at 10:56 am
@MIMI IWE WULANYA IFISUSHI MU BED KA MAID KALIYICHINDIKA INGA NDEKALYA,,KALENUNKAKO NE CHUSHI,AWE NI MWALILENI
Nsamwa
May 8, 2013 at 11:38 am
People, the truth is that men have a very serious problem, because why should it be the women running around the house when he is just chatting with prostitutes on the same Facebook or whatever you call it, and if a woman does the same he cries fowl. It is the responsibility of both man and woman to take care of the home, unfortunately our men expect too much., no wader things are not working.grow up men work up from your slumber. the world has changed
AK 47
May 8, 2013 at 12:46 pm
MIMI,it takes a dog to sleep with a dog so even u u re a f****k dog!!!. AND WALYA,wat u re talking is out of topic we re talking about maids ur helpers not gardeners,so if u have got nothing to say jst keep quiety!u sleep with ur gardener and ur hubby if he finds out’ll see wat he’ll do to u.
Cherish
May 8, 2013 at 1:10 pm
Atishani comment kabili
Mamba
May 8, 2013 at 8:38 pm
@Clancy wellcome to the club of men who have been suckered!! A piece of advice get yourself a trophy misstress and keep lieing marriage to her! Lol,you’ll get what u not getting at home but 10times sweeter!!
dimbuz
May 10, 2013 at 6:04 am
Nw u spoilt wife, u knw we are aware u jus prostituted ur way into the hse wit a jacuzzi coz jus by the term spoilt which means u hav neva contributed anything to that house hold and wen he shal decide to chase u after cheatin on u ul regret coz u leavin wit nufin.