A Lusaka man has told the high court that his wife boasts to him that there are men with bigger manhood’s than his, who are even circumcised.
According to a petition for dissolution of marriage filed in the Lusaka high court, Mwila Chilakata stated that he was lawfully married to Consolota Miselo a secretary at the ministry of Education in 2004 and that the couple last lived together in May 2009 and had two children together.
He stated that the marriage had broken down irretrievably because his wife behaved in a a way that he could not reasonable be expected to live with her.
Chilakata stated that he was often amazed to see that his wife wore beads on her waist when there was no sexual intercourse between them in the matrimonial home.
He asked the high court to nullify his marriage to Consolota Miselo Chilakata because of the daily physical and verbal abuses among other reasons
Chilakata stated that his wife constantly refused to have sexual intercourse with him for no justifiable reason, adding that she also constantly bragged about her beauty and threatened to leave him for a rich man.
Chilakata added that his wife threatened to bewitch him with a mental illness
He stated that he moved out of his matrimonial home with his personal belongings on account of his wife’s behavior of daily physical and verbal abuse and has been separated ever since living all the matrimonial property.
Jackal
May 21, 2013 at 8:45 am
My friend go and see the masai they will give you some mutti
CALLED WISE
May 21, 2013 at 9:02 am
ONLY IF WE COULD ALL KEEP OUR FIRST
‘I LOVE YOU’s’
WE COULD HAVE AVOIDED ALL THESE SAD HAPPENINGS.
SURE, LOVE FADES IF NOT WATERED.
Mo taim
May 21, 2013 at 9:10 am
Sad
madamy
May 21, 2013 at 9:43 am
she has tested it now, afulungana
Mbombela Stadium
May 21, 2013 at 9:46 am
AVOID FORNICATON AND ADULTERY THEN MARRIAGES WILL BE SAFE. THE PROBLEM IS COMPARISONS AS A RESULT OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE AND SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE.
Supermodel
May 21, 2013 at 9:47 am
Sad indeed
ck
May 21, 2013 at 10:04 am
That woman is a whore!
bo ndate
May 21, 2013 at 10:05 am
Its rily sad
Chief
May 21, 2013 at 10:18 am
She is a disgrace to womanhood,remember life is a journey which needs patient,change your life before you die in prostitution and receive Jesus as your personal Saviour to set you free from this evil spirit.
The mwamba
May 21, 2013 at 10:28 am
Bushe temukashi waka hakainde hichilema!
bad manners
May 21, 2013 at 3:13 pm
go and insult youtr father for bringing yu on earth than ton insult an innocent person in so called insulting language of yours.
ck
May 21, 2013 at 10:28 am
Nonsense
bo ndate
May 21, 2013 at 10:34 am
@chief,I agree with you she is a disgrace
De Lady
May 21, 2013 at 10:47 am
She has tasted something sweet therefore can not go for something sour. my advise lady you are a whore, you are married but you start looking for other men chakana, if your man talekufishapo its better you dialogue and find a solution noti ifi ifyabupuba you are even bragging shame on you!! Ukalwala pofye nobu ule bukashala elo the so called boyfriend will never i mean never married you ukajama pofye lobe!!!
E.M
May 21, 2013 at 10:51 am
people have taken marriages for granted now, shame on that woman
Mwine Mushi
May 21, 2013 at 11:14 am
Itchinyour chaba kwati ni elastic chiladinzimuka, kuti chachita na accomodate umulembe wa nsofu, fi namayo muleke ubuhule!
Girl power
May 21, 2013 at 12:39 pm
Men do this all the time n you blogger advice a women on how to improve in bed. Now, see how the table has turned n you call her all sort of names. Move on sister n never look back on this uncircusied, dirty, good for nothing so called man. Go girl!
mk
May 21, 2013 at 1:04 pm
desparation abakashana are u telling me she didnt see wat she was going for.li hule fye and doesnt just love the guy.chileke she thinks sex is all bushe ngachalwala chikatontokanyapo nechikulu?? limbi akachibutuka guy
badass
May 21, 2013 at 1:39 pm
my brother u need strength
Kulekwamyo Kapyololo
May 21, 2013 at 2:20 pm
For all I can see, the man might as well have a sizeable tool, the problem could be the wife’s bucket p.u.s.s.y that needs a magnum force drilling machine to stimulate it! She can try a certain top Zambian politician whose tool includes a catheters, sperm/urine bug etc that he can jointly insert into her Bangweulu to satisfy it!
Honest
May 21, 2013 at 4:20 pm
Its true size doesnt matter n also how hard u pound a woman.just lyk ther ar swit/not swt women,guys can either have it or not.e.g my ex always made me cum-all da tym,every round quite easily.my bfrnd-once in a blue moon wen im really focusn(on porn i watchd privatly).yet his bigger n hits it.men we only stay by u for love n laziness of findn others.ths woman z jus excitd over her bigger wallet n office market.
Muntu nyoko
May 21, 2013 at 5:01 pm
You commentators; honestly how do you insult somebody advising her to repent and receive Christ for the evil spirit to go. You say he is an *****!!
Then people would ask to say if that one is an *****, then who are you?
Mulundu
May 21, 2013 at 5:21 pm
Pamela please no! you scare me with your outbursts.
Gilbert Chilala
May 21, 2013 at 9:00 pm
Maybe ichinyo chakwe chikulufye.Reminds me of my eX girlfriend.I though ubwamba bwandi bunono kanshi mayo umukashana ewali nobwafya.It took me cheating on her to realize that there are tighter Pussies out there.Four girlfriend down the line i still feel like a champion ngadelasa.I wonder how she ended up with that dam.
Gilbert Chilala
May 21, 2013 at 9:01 pm
Maybe ichinyo chakwe chikulufye.Reminds me of my eX girlfriend.I thought ubwamba bwandi bunono kanshi mayo umukashana ewali nobwafya.It took me cheating on her to realize that there are tighter Pussies out there.Four girlfriend down the line i still feel like a champion ngadelasa.I wonder how she ended up with that dam.
cindy
May 22, 2013 at 2:22 am
@gilbert chilala wansekesha..ulishilu mu mputi..actually u re,right..some women ifinyo fikulu na menshi..mine is so tight im lucky
SHARP SHOOTER
May 22, 2013 at 12:47 pm
@ Cindy are you sure you have a tight puss…can we meet in town so that we try. Pantu naine ubwandi bukulu…
Monkey koo
May 22, 2013 at 1:30 pm
Ba Consolata you are not a beautiful girl. We know your family very well. You do not keep marriages even bana Jose ifiko kulya kuchilenje. Mind you men are scarce you will never find one please leave chilakata alone and learn to have manners. Busumanshi ba conso mwakwata? we kaliwule we.
mjghgdfdfaef
May 23, 2013 at 1:50 pm
Lusaka Wife Tells Court ‘He Inserts His Finger Instead Of Manhood’
By MUNIDE ZULU
A LUSAKA woman says she wants her 14-year-old marriage dissolved because she can not cope with her husband’s weird acts of making love.
Anna Phiri told senior court magistrates Robert Zulu and George Kaoma that her husband, Frederick Mwanza prefers using his fingers than the traditional way of making love with his manhood.
“I get irritated and uncomfortable with my husband’s behaviour of inserting his fingers in my womanhood when making love. This is the reason why I want to divorce him because I can’t take it anymore,” Phiri said.
But Mwanza who, has been on separation with his wife for five years told the court that he enjoyed touching his wife in that despicable manner.
In passing jugement, the court dissolved their marriage saying they have stayed on separation for a long time.
This is in a case in which Phiri sued Mwanza for divorce. They got married in 1999 and have two children together.
Phiri told the court that problems in their marriage started two weeks after they got married in 1999 as a result of her husband’s irrational behavior who she said used to bring his girlfriend in their matrimonial home.
She said Mwanza is also a violent man, who had at one time tied a rope on her neck after a quarrel.
She added that she later unearthed an axe he was hiding under the bed, which she suspects he wanted to use to kill her.
In his defence, Mwanza told the court that problems in their marriage started when his wife discovered that he had a girlfriend who was heavily pregnant at the same time with her.
“I told my wife that I impregnated my former girlfriend at the time I married her. She has never trusted me since then and she accuses me of having extra marital affairs every time I make a move,” he said.
Mwanza said he suspects his wife has a boyfriend she wants to marry her.
He said their endless marital differences have made them separate many times with the latest being, where they stayed apart for two years.
“I know that she wants to leave me because she has a man who wants to marry her,” Mwanza said.
chilenje baby
May 23, 2013 at 3:21 pm
This family is a problem in chilenje, who doesent know them. men are scared to marry from this family. LYONSE KULANDA PA KULOWA. CONSO is not even beautiful. Ala balatukana ukwambila kukaiche panka ku bakulu. their children, nieces and nepwhew etc are all spoiled. its a cursed family. balabatina muchilenje especially pa church St JOSEPH CHILENJE. fATHER MASHILIPA PLEASE DO SOMETHING, THESE PEOPLE NEED PRAYERS. chabulanda sana.
SISTER AGGIE
May 23, 2013 at 3:43 pm
you know what I used to support this family cause i thot that maybe pipo just hate them. I came to know the truth about them a year ago. I wasnt impressed by what they did to our fellow church member. these pipo are very wicked that they even went to an extent of rejoicing when their neigbour lost a child. they even bought beer and I was there watching them and heard them said ati bakulafwa one by one.Ifwe tulapepa sana teti tufwe.
mumbulu
May 23, 2013 at 7:14 pm
Kuntu watobeka ukuseka bane….that portuguese looks like english anyway..awe bwafya!!!!
mike
June 3, 2013 at 8:46 pm
you are a fool
samuel
June 4, 2013 at 3:01 pm
crazy lady..
Once upon a time ku Mansa
May 21, 2013 at 1:10 pm
You seem to lack quite ALOT in terms Sexual Art and Education! Sex(love making) is not all about those rounds my dear friend! It’s all about satisfaction(Fulfilling orgasms)to a woman. You can have 100 rounds a day, but without any skills, all that will amount to nothing. Wasted energy! We men need to learn the art of sex which can help women (wifes etc) experience fulfilling orgasms! In short, managing a million rounds doese’nt make you a better lover!
Luapula Bize
May 21, 2013 at 2:36 pm
Mmmm…. your Portuguese is very difficult to understand. Why not express yourself in Bemba?