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I Have Betrayed My Ex-Husband
We met at high school and married when I was 23 and he was 26. We were very happy for the first two years but after a while I started to lose interest.
I met a man at work and he was so exciting. He made me feel like a queen and I completely lost myself in him. He made promises about a future together and I believed him. I told my husband that I wanted a divorce. He was devastated.
I was so in love that I didn’t care what my husband was going through. I insisted and we divorced.
Shortly afterwards, I found out that my boyfriend was a liar. He was married and had a reputation for messing around with young women.
When I heard this, I knew exactly what I had done to my husband. I felt exactly what he felt when I behaved so cruelly. I had to look for a new job because everyone at work was gossiping.
I was at such a low point that I even considered suicide. I realised that I made the biggest mistake of my life when I divorced my husband.
All I want now is to repair our relationship. I am so ashamed of myself for the way I have behaved and I have hurt so many people, including all his family.
I spoke to my ex-husband recently and I apologised for everything. I also asked him if he thought it would be possible for us to be together again?
He was shocked and said that although he still loved me, he doubted that because he would never be able to trust me. I don’t blame him.
I wish I hadn’t been so stupid and selfish.
Do you think I should try and win him back?
From Ashamed
Posted by Admin
on May 26, 2013. Filed under LATEST NEWS.
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Denmark
May 26, 2013 at 11:47 am
Unfortunately you will still leave him since you seem to be unprincipled. Leave he alone
Akanama
May 26, 2013 at 11:52 am
Na Musonda
Chineke Wamtatakuya
May 26, 2013 at 11:56 am
fyobe efyo
Mr wise
May 26, 2013 at 12:10 pm
The cry of an infidel-Ichabu chakale chilabusha!!!!to assure u few men can accept yo apology,just relocate and try to market yoself someway else.
Sangwapozed
May 26, 2013 at 12:16 pm
Opportunists…ride on babe…that is your lifestyle…waloba ilya uma
kencool
May 26, 2013 at 12:19 pm
sori…….you will nt be ok in that mariage if u get back. u will take more pain. any simple mistakes that will ok will make ex husband regret! start new life alone or find someone else. u can stil manage than lure that innocent man again
Codrick
May 26, 2013 at 12:26 pm
U can’t win him back coz u’ re such a used *****.
Chilu Chinenanyimbili
May 26, 2013 at 12:32 pm
LOVE LOVE…love does not exist….ITS JUST SEX WHICH LASTS FOR A FEW MINUTES AND YOU ARE BACK TO NORMAL…..LOVE MY FOOT PHEW
olma
May 26, 2013 at 12:35 pm
Just leave him alone. Like he said he wouldn’t trust you ever. You didn’t love your husband in the first place coz if u did, you would at least tried to repair. What did your boyfriend have that your husband didn’t have or provide? Was it material or sex satisfaction? Leave HIM ALONE.
pat
May 26, 2013 at 12:48 pm
i feel sorry for the poor man.forgive her and if u can marry her again do it.
Male zee
May 26, 2013 at 12:50 pm
U a scrap metal now.
Abdul
May 26, 2013 at 2:23 pm
lol
mwewa in South Africa
May 26, 2013 at 12:53 pm
Desperation at its best Mrs Ashamed or whatever your name is. You can only fool foolish man.
frank facts
May 26, 2013 at 12:53 pm
u re such an *****. leave the man alone …. u traitor
ING'OMBE ILEDE
May 26, 2013 at 1:08 pm
I am sorry for you, but leave the man alone. u are a disgrace to many. Pray to God for forgiveness.
minoc
May 26, 2013 at 1:09 pm
That is woman, they think with their hearts not brain.
Mbulwe.MC
May 26, 2013 at 1:18 pm
I pray that Almighty God bless the disappointed man abundantly.May you also be blessed with a long Life span so that your lonely desperate life be a lesson to others.And importantly that you see success,peace of mind and happy days of your ex hubby.You have no excuse for what you did,to the many.be claim do not entertain her calls, list you will feel pity for her,and she will do this to you again and to others.
pat
May 26, 2013 at 1:21 pm
it is a lesson to many married women.men ar not fools.pk namusonda.go to streets thats where u belong. u ar not marriege material.
CALLED WISE
May 26, 2013 at 1:23 pm
YOUR SITUATION FORCES ME TO SAY WHAT HAPPENED TO ME:
I HAD THIS GIRL AND ALL SEEMED WELL FOR A YEAR(NEVER WENT TO BED).ALL THE SUDDEN,SHE WENT OFF…ONLY TO HEAR FROM HER SISTER INFORMING ME THAT SHE LEFT THEIR HOME AND WAS STAYING WITH A FLASH BUS CONDUCTOR.
MONTHS LATER SHE GOT A BABY AND AFTER A SHORT WHILE SHE HAD TO GO BACK TO HER PARENTS.ONE DAY I RECEIVED A CALL FROM A NEW #.SHE WAS THE ONE ASKING IF SHE COULD COME OVER AND I ALLOWED IT.THE CHAT WAS TO ASK ME FOR A SECOND CHANCE BECAUSE THE MAN RAN AWAY AND SHE NEEDED A MAN TO RAISE HER BABY.
I COULD NOT SAY YES….
JUST AS SOME BLOGGERS ADVISED YOU TO LEAVE HIM ALONE AND MOVE ON,I WILL ADVISE YOU THE SAME.
doubleble
May 26, 2013 at 1:30 pm
U thought u were a star, now look at u used up and finished.a man does not loose market bt u ar washed up. Just get lost & wallow in yo misery
CHINTU
May 26, 2013 at 1:38 pm
THIS REMINDS ME OF ONE PRISCA MWILA. SHE DID THE SAME, NOW OLD AND USED CAUSE SHE THOUGHT SHE WILL BUY ANY MAN.
SHE HAS BEEN USED AND DUMPED COUNTLESS TIMES AND PEOPLE LAUGH AT HER NOW.
A REAL WHORE.
Munthu
May 26, 2013 at 1:38 pm
Foolish woman. You are a used condom. Leave the man alone. Do you want to give him diseases?
Ken
May 26, 2013 at 1:39 pm
Very few men eat their vomit. Your husband could be an exception.
CALLED WISE
May 26, 2013 at 1:43 pm
MY QUOTE:’TRUST MAKES LOVE GROWS; ONCE TEMPERED WITH,
IT IS NOT EASY TO GET IT BACK’
Drazy
May 26, 2013 at 1:50 pm
I feel for the man having an unexplained divorse.
Kafula
May 26, 2013 at 2:00 pm
Let him move on,****** woman!
muntu
May 26, 2013 at 2:12 pm
U can go back if u know that u ll never never do it again,
ine
May 26, 2013 at 2:12 pm
leave the guy alone.
2201, Kalanga Street
May 26, 2013 at 2:13 pm
Adultery. That’s your problem. The Big Book gives it as ground for divorce. So accept your status. No man, worth his salt, can go back to you. Relocate, as suggested. Sorry, but that’s your reality. Leave the man alone. Cultivate some principles of integrity and hold them dear, in your future life.
Thugnificent
May 26, 2013 at 2:21 pm
Peti issues of d heart,anyway as sum1 who doesnt support cheating,iv only got three words 4u mrs ashamed..”GO TO HELL”.
BOKO HARAM
May 26, 2013 at 2:25 pm
Mukoka wove you want him back so that you subject to the toture of his again after seing another one in yo new job uli tufi mayo kuli ine
Emms
May 26, 2013 at 2:27 pm
U hav reaped wat u sored!Nd u r such an imbarrasment girl to hell u will go?
Leave the innocent man in peace nt in pieces.Leave him alone u r a devil!
Southern Watchman
May 26, 2013 at 2:29 pm
First repent from being carried away by anything exciting so that you may live a life that is worthy of the Lord.Check your HIV status as well before you crucify your innocent ex
kakolwe
May 26, 2013 at 2:35 pm
There exists NO ‘LOVE SWITCH!’ Once you make your love diminish, you can not turn it back on. Dear, its over. The pain NEVER ends in a jilted man. One D. Phiri girl of Hellen Kaunda Sec. Sch left a car in my heart 30 yrs ago.
kakolwe
May 26, 2013 at 2:44 pm
Correction: I meant “left a scar in my heart 30 yrs ago.” She simply sent her friend to say ‘ati fyapwa”. Mucu as she was a queen of my heart’ I can’t even look at her if she came crawling back to me. So move on!
Mlambia Humphrey
May 26, 2013 at 2:48 pm
U cud have said yo real names so that I cud run away if u came anywhere near me. I pit for the one who will marry U. Anyway leave the Innocent alone. Ur wicked.
Prof: Zick
May 26, 2013 at 3:18 pm
Tell your husband you are a changed person,ask him again to forgive you,he should because we forgive for someone to forgive us some day,he need forgiveness.
I am about to forgive someone and stay with them for life.I am a luck guy because i have chosen to forgive no matter what.
Ask for forgiveness again and again
lumwana barrick
May 26, 2013 at 3:32 pm
story ya boza
radiin pop dopeboy aka gabby
May 26, 2013 at 3:39 pm
kill youself and all will go away,trust me
Peleo
May 26, 2013 at 3:39 pm
Change town and start new life you will not win his trust . You are a disgrace really You are a material woman
kEo
May 26, 2013 at 4:02 pm
This collide with what am facing right now,so all women behave as if they wer born from the same mother.She about to lose it but shes asking 4a second chance which z very difficulty 4me coz we are miles apart n she took advantage of my absence.shes in LSK n am in CHILIZ,so go to hell together with my EX to be
General
May 26, 2013 at 4:25 pm
mmmmmm let me see if I can respond
General
May 26, 2013 at 4:37 pm
The Dynamics of life ! I have met lots of young ladies, single, progressive, learned above all beautiful. One thing they are missing is love life with a stable Lad. You ask why every one tells me, there no men ! LAdy, ‘A BIRD IN HAND IS WORTH TWO IN THE BUSH’ also true, you never appreciate the value of what you have till when you loose it’ In Bemba they say akabwelelela numa kalalya. My advice to you lady, YES just go and ask for forgiveness which you did and ends there, leave him alone to continue with his life. Fortunately the gap you left has probably been filled in by someone else. LEAVE HIM ALONE
FMK
May 26, 2013 at 5:21 pm
It is unfortunately we get excited with the things of the world.After being disappointed we look for solutions in wrong places,may God forgive us.Jesus is the answer of the World today.Seek Christ for your problem my friend.
Amadoda
May 26, 2013 at 5:26 pm
We need more prostitutes around. Just hang around.we wil gve u some gud sex.
Zotaya
May 26, 2013 at 5:29 pm
Leave my innocent man alone, good you left him alive, you *****. Women are fighting to get married, en you are spoiling. Infact you are even HIV+ By now. Hule ya galuu,
Zotaya
May 26, 2013 at 5:42 pm
You can behave like a changed person, bababa but, youR VAGINA WILL NOT CHANGE, IT WILL STIL WANT SOME MORE BIG CIRCUMCISED PENISES TO **** IT SO THAT YOU ARE SUTISFIED, WE CHINANGWE IWEEE!
Popopo
May 26, 2013 at 5:48 pm
Imputi isula taibula kubwekeshapo ukunya. My dear sister there is no guarrantee that you are changed you are still a prostitute who want a title of Mrs. From the look of things your prostitution is at proffessional level chimayo iwe!
kay
May 26, 2013 at 6:05 pm
Win him back?ur such a jerk..ur neva content..bigtym looser..jas sell yoself elsewher.
pat
May 26, 2013 at 6:19 pm
one teacha in isoka divorst her hasband a male nurse married a teacha.few months marriege didnt work out so she went back to her hasband with a 7month pregnant suprising the hasband axcepted and support the ather man pregnance.
zambian
May 26, 2013 at 6:19 pm
You are a fool ****** *****