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I Have Betrayed My Ex-Husband
We met at high school and married when I was 23 and he was 26. We were very happy for the first two years but after a while I started to lose interest.
I met a man at work and he was so exciting. He made me feel like a queen and I completely lost myself in him. He made promises about a future together and I believed him. I told my husband that I wanted a divorce. He was devastated.
I was so in love that I didn’t care what my husband was going through. I insisted and we divorced.
Shortly afterwards, I found out that my boyfriend was a liar. He was married and had a reputation for messing around with young women.
When I heard this, I knew exactly what I had done to my husband. I felt exactly what he felt when I behaved so cruelly. I had to look for a new job because everyone at work was gossiping.
I was at such a low point that I even considered suicide. I realised that I made the biggest mistake of my life when I divorced my husband.
All I want now is to repair our relationship. I am so ashamed of myself for the way I have behaved and I have hurt so many people, including all his family.
I spoke to my ex-husband recently and I apologised for everything. I also asked him if he thought it would be possible for us to be together again?
He was shocked and said that although he still loved me, he doubted that because he would never be able to trust me. I don’t blame him.
I wish I hadn’t been so stupid and selfish.
Do you think I should try and win him back?
From Ashamed
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barry
May 26, 2013 at 6:45 pm
Repent en seek Gods forgiveness.
grace
June 2, 2013 at 4:56 pm
Am MRS GRACE BENSON from free town my husband broke up with me last week and i tried deferent types of solutions including love doctors spell casters and nothing good came of out it so i was about to give up then i came across this temple on the internet so i said i should give it a try to my suprise the temple ask me of some information which i give and said it will cast some spell that in four day time my ex husband will be back with me that all i have to do is to wait till four days so i did and i started seeing result in the third day my ex started contacting me and in the forth day he finally came back to me right now am so happy and i thank God for coming across this temple the temple really help me to rescue my relationship i decided to share my experience cause i know it will help some other person wish you the best of luck to contact the temple here is it email address :[email protected] or call him on +2348143988536
ayoba
May 26, 2013 at 7:05 pm
I’ll not insult you my sister pantu changa baseka uwachelwa. What I can say to you is that you did wrong to your innocent husband, just apologize and leave him to decide if you are worth taking back or not. Do not push him, respect fact that you hurt him through your lumkumbwa. Sometimes the grass is never greener on the other side, mistake made, move on and let your ex husband be- he deserves some happiness without you drumming your take-me-back pleas into him. My sister, these men admire even married women but its us as women to know that umulembwe wachipuba upwila mulitumfwe, keep yourself for whoever else God may have kept for you. I am far from my husband but each time a man comes with chikwela, I just compare him with my hubby and laugh because I know and appreciate that God gave me a man I truly honor and respect to cheat on. My sister, ubwamba chimochine, no man has golden one so stick to your own in future. Move on dear, fyalilubana.
Kombwe
May 27, 2013 at 8:29 am
Thanks for wise and kind counsel. I am with you.
Tonga Bull
May 27, 2013 at 10:50 am
@AYOBA Good advice anyone who has hears can get,kudos to you sis.
Cycle Mata
May 27, 2013 at 4:46 pm
ulichimbusa iwe……
mimi
May 26, 2013 at 7:10 pm
men play such games all the time and they r forgiven by their women. now that its a woman entangled in this, u decide to call her names. i wud encourage her to win her hubby back! love is between 2 people. goodluck mama
Andrich
May 26, 2013 at 7:13 pm
U sound born again n i wud like to believe u hv changed for good. Take note that pafupi nipawafika, dnt admire wat does nt belong to u. Men can tel u anything to screw u esp if yo legs r light bt that doea nt mean they luv u!! Watch out next time but let the Angel Man move on wit his clean life. Clean yourself up n soldier on. Its nt the end of life for as long as u genuinely change
ROY MASE
May 26, 2013 at 7:17 pm
U’re very silly ci na Musonda, thats the problem with these cheap material type. Te chakubwesha na mu programme ichi. shame on u chi mayo ewe u r vry stupideeee.
Wamushe
May 26, 2013 at 7:51 pm
Leave him alone beacuse nextime u’l jst kill him instead of divorce.
The Academician
May 28, 2013 at 3:57 pm
i agree
Tikambeko
May 26, 2013 at 8:32 pm
Please leave the poor guy alone. I do not think you have repented. I think you are sorry you lost and want to salvage what is left.Let him find someone else who will stand with him no matter what. For now stay away from men and i think you met your match.
Mutombela kwipaya
May 26, 2013 at 8:59 pm
Iwe cinyo cobe icinyo cobe calibola sana,you know what you want,kukutomba paka wafwa.just leave the inocent guy alone & move on.go & luk 4 mutombela kwipaya i will **** yu til wanya akasushi nokufwa wafwa.
sky news
May 26, 2013 at 9:09 pm
leave him alone iwe musula wakwanoko,dnt play wit pipoz emotions,iwe double stanyoko.ule musula wobe.
BS
May 26, 2013 at 10:00 pm
he is still ur husband since u are not married .as much as u ve apologized and did not sleep with the other man you must prove to him that he can trust you cos love with no trust is no love. do u haave kids together with your former husband? if yes its another advantage to negotiate and be a trustworthy wife to this wonderful hubby.
kalulumpunga
May 27, 2013 at 12:05 pm
mwilabepa abantu. Ihule ili lyalikwata problem
Comfort
May 26, 2013 at 10:28 pm
firstly its imposibl for a lady to not knw wen a man z married..neva trust a guy u cannot reach on phone anytym_his defn nt urs.wer was he stayn? how do u go to da extent of divorcn ur hubby for sumone u barely knw.i mean if u wer realy serious wit da otha guy,one of his frends or relativs wud av tod u da truth.u lyk many “workin class ladies”assumd ur status calld for a bigger baller.u fckd up bigtym.nd marriage aint abt da two of u.its two families nd his my dear wil nt accept ur short comings.jus leav him alone.mourn safely gal.
good
May 27, 2013 at 9:00 am
good advice.
RB
May 27, 2013 at 12:40 am
**** U ALL THOSE THINKING SHE SHOULD BE 4GIVEN
cindy
May 27, 2013 at 2:29 am
what goes around comes around..efyo wachitike umulume obe naiwe fyakubwelela..my dear sister the word of advice ,go and apologise to your x hubby and also ask for forgiveness from God..and everything wik be ok God wil give u another man n u wil be happy again..God loves us all n he is a merciful father..please learn from your mistakes every one deserves a second chance..repent n put God first in everything u do n all will be well…good luck
scone
May 27, 2013 at 2:32 am
ubupuba muchimutwe.
child protector
May 27, 2013 at 7:01 am
WELL,ITS NOT SURPRISING NOWADAYS TO HEAR OF WOMEN GOING ON A RAMPAGE SOON AFTER A DIVORCE.TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE,MOST WOMEN HAVE NOWADAYS BECOME MORE OF PARTICIPANTS THAN SPECTATORS IN THEIR OWN MARRIAGES.THE SAME HAPPENED TO ME,MY EX WIFE DIVORCED ME AFTER SHE COMMITTED ADULTERY,AND THE COURT FOUND HER WITH A CASE TO ANSWER.SHE HAS TRIED TO REMARRY BUT THE MAN WITHDREW AT THE LAST MINUTE OWING TO THE IMMORALITY SHE EXHIBITED.WHAT HAS BECOME OF OUR WOMEN IN SOME MARRIAGES?GOD HAVE MERCY AND MAY THIS WOMAN BE DELIVERED IN JESUS NAME,AMEN.
TC
May 27, 2013 at 8:04 am
Leave the man alone. I am sure he must be in the healing process and it is important that he goes through this stage without further making it complicated by you coming onto the scene. He has too much to think about you and what you did to him. Give him space and time.
kcc
May 27, 2013 at 8:08 am
forget it my friend leave the guy alone he deserves some peace, he who sleeps with a prostitute becomes one with the prostitute, continue with a new boy friend
NASILELE MUTALE YAAULU
May 27, 2013 at 8:10 am
GOD SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN LIGHTLY IN THESE MATTERS. GOD WAS VERY CLEVER TO CREATE A MARRIAGE INSTITUTION WHICH NEEDS PROTECTION ALL THE TIME THROUGH OUR BEHAVIOUR BEFORE AND AFTER MARRIAGE.
GOD CREATED SEX FOR US TO RESPONSIBLY ENJOY AND NOT FOR IT TO DAMAGE OR KILL US OR CAUSE MISERY IN OUR LIVES!
PART OF THE INFIDELITY PROBLEM IS PREMARITAL SEX. THE REASON WHY A WOMAN OR MAN IS NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE SEX UNTIL MARRIAGE IS THAT OTHER THAN DISEASES, ONCE YOU TEST THE SWEETNESS OF GOD’S GLORY WITH MORE THAN ONE PERSON, IT BECOMES CONFUSING AND YOU BEGIN TO MAKE COMPARISONS.
MEN AND WOMEN WERE CREATED DIFFERENTLY JUST LIKE OUR OUTER LOOKS. WE ARE NOT THE SAME. AND FOR SEX, THE MOMENT YOU SLEEP WITH TWO DIFFERENT BEINGS, YOUR MIND GETS DAMAGED! YOU WILL STILL WANT TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER ONE AGAIN!
YOUNG PEOPLE SHOULD TAKE THIS MATTER SERIOUSLY. PREMARITAL SEX IS NOT GOOD. ONCE YOU HAVE IT, THE HABIT CAN EVEN GO INTO MARRIED LIFE!
YOU WILL NOT LEAD A HAPPY LIFE, AND CHANCES OF ACHIEVING AN ORGASM ESPECIALLY FOR THE FEMALE BECOME SLIM.
mimi
May 27, 2013 at 8:31 am
i cnt say bad things abut u,tho u did wrong no one is perfct,jst kip on wetin 4 de ansr he il forgive u,if u ar ment 2 grow old with him he il take u bck
Fraser
May 27, 2013 at 8:41 am
Lady , You have learnt a lesson , and you injured your husband’s feelings and he trusted you all his heart . but find time , sit down with ex hubby discuss your mistakes with him , i think he will take you on ,remembere he will not trust you anymore.Good Luck
EK1
May 27, 2013 at 8:48 am
Live with your mistakes.
Mr wise
May 27, 2013 at 9:03 am
@mimi-out of 73 bloggers u are the only one supporting this infidel!find ways of contacting her and teach her tactics of wining back a frustrated man.
SEKOPONOKE
May 27, 2013 at 9:14 am
Just commit suicide. You did inflict a very big injury on your loving ex hubby’s heart and now you want him back to torment him more. You’re a prostitute and leave him alone. What happens when u reconcile with him and you find another man to hoodwink you… You’re no longer a woman to trust… Imputi isula taibula kubwekeshapo!!!
CNP-4U
May 27, 2013 at 10:37 am
you are silly woman..!
CALLED WISE
May 27, 2013 at 11:12 am
1) 97percent OF LADIES APPLY THIS MIND-LOTION:’TO LOVE ONE MAN IS TO LIE TO ANOTHER ONE’
2) THE PROBLEM WITH SOME LADIES IS THAT THEY SOMETIMES MAKE THE SAME ANSWERED WISH TWICE.
YOU WISH, DREAM AND PRAY TO GET MARRIED BUT ONCE MARRIED, YOU SAY TO YOURSELF:’LET ME WISH AGAIN.’
swanta lorey
May 27, 2013 at 11:37 am
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chiku
May 27, 2013 at 12:14 pm
i smell a rat here. this doctor Lawrence advise.
ceaser mwanza
May 27, 2013 at 11:41 am
if he is not married, go ahead. we all make mistakes in life. never give up.
simwa
Truly Zedian
May 27, 2013 at 12:43 pm
Keep on trying…never lose hope.
isaac
May 27, 2013 at 1:01 pm
You would rather leave the guy a lone cause you are a disgraced woman. You broke his heart only that the guy was born strong otherwise he would hace attempted suicide.If you think its too hard to bear, hang yourself because you ladies somestimes you behave kantercarously and a good example is you.
mk
May 27, 2013 at 1:03 pm
takuli nefwa spell cster naimwe,aifwayilefye im sure even pipo wer telling her but she thot she was that all.when someone leaves you for another man or woman just move on becoz the person doesnt love you either.so iwe chi gelo go your way not nefyama spell.ne ndoshi limo mulashibepesha muilowa fye
swine!
May 27, 2013 at 2:20 pm
the boers say…”the grass looks greener on the other side becasue there is a lot of sh.i.t”!
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all the best but please heed Ayoba’s advice!
KALAX
May 27, 2013 at 2:24 pm
He will be foolish for him to take you back..cause once you find another “entertaining” man you will leave the poor guy.
copala
May 27, 2013 at 4:16 pm
iwe, u are a mad womman. leave ur x- husband alone.you think its that easy to get bac to him. wat if you are in fected with HIV? let him not bear such consequences bcouse of you.
shameless woman.
ayoba
May 27, 2013 at 5:53 pm
@ Tonga Bull, I have my own Tonga Bull whom I appreciate,ukubepwa patali sana pantu. Respecting oneself as a woman is important because you build or destroy your marriage with your own hands.
I just hope my sister learnt a lesson, a bird in hand is worth two in the bush.
stephen
May 28, 2013 at 4:19 pm
let him choose what is best for him.
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observer
May 29, 2013 at 3:35 pm
Awe mukashana leave your ex-hubby alone.
not all what glitter s gold.u are just an opportunist.
buch
May 31, 2013 at 9:46 am
leave him…to decide but try again.
grace
June 2, 2013 at 4:53 pm
Am MRS GRACE BENSON from free town my husband broke up with me last week and i tried deferent types of solutions including love doctors spell casters and nothing good came of out it so i was about to give up then i came across this temple on the internet so i said i should give it a try to my suprise the temple ask me of some information which i give and said it will cast some spell that in four day time my ex husband will be back with me that all i have to do is to wait till four days so i did and i started seeing result in the third day my ex started contacting me and in the forth day he finally came back to me right now am so happy and i thank God for coming across this temple the temple really help me to rescue my relationship i decided to share my experience cause i know it will help some other person wish you the best of luck to contact the temple here is it email address :[email protected]
phone;+2348143988536
the illuminated
June 3, 2013 at 12:28 am
If u knw u haven’t sinned. Be the first to cast a stone on this woman. I hv never exprienced a situation like yours ms ashamed. But frm the looks of it I think its hard. U shud be glad tht this man has forgiven u. But I think u r been a little selfish here. Think about what u put him through, if I were u. I wud make peace wit him n his family n then move on wit my life. What u need nw is inner peace. We all make mistakes, but stayn on them doesn’t help. Move on n worry less about others think. The only person tht can help u through this is Jesus, pray about it. I will pray for u too. God be with u my sister.
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June 10, 2013 at 10:05 pm
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