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Is It Right For A Married Woman To Publicly Buy C0ndoms?
I’m a happily married woman with two lovely boys in my early thirties. My husband and I are recently planning to have another child and this time,we want to try the Pre-sex selection method and see if we can skew the odds to our advantage and get a baby girl.Not that we would mind if it wasn’t a girl but we want to have our last child and try our luck in the process.
The way it works is since I need to monitor my cycle for a couple of months,I’m not on any contraceptive and we’ve agreed to use condoms during intercourse.The only issue is that my husband sometimes forgets to buy them before coming home and then we’ve ended up making love without condoms twice now.My question is “Is it right for a married woman to publicly buy condoms?” Because I’m seriously considering doing that to avoid conceiving before the planned date.
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rees
June 13, 2013 at 1:34 pm
HMmmmmmmm not intrestin
lwilwiz
June 13, 2013 at 1:43 pm
If married men r able 2 get condoms ,wat can stop u frm getting them? U knw wat u want,dnt even b ashamed
kaya
June 13, 2013 at 1:52 pm
Just get em. No nid 2 worry its ur bussiness alone.
Kalungu wa Lubemba
June 13, 2013 at 2:11 pm
Between doing right and doing wrong there is a shadow!
Mr.right
June 13, 2013 at 2:16 pm
It is ok madam.You knw wht u want to achieve.Jst advise him to go to any clinic and get enough for keeping.But if he is able,I suggest withdrawal method.I hav been using withdrawal for quite sometime.
REALIST
June 15, 2013 at 11:23 am
WITHDRAWAL METHOD IS NOT DIFFERENT FROM PONYO PONYO,MASTURBATION AND ITS EFFECTS ARE JUST LIKE THAT OF PONYO PONYO,I WOULD NOT ADVISE PERSONALLY.
Apostle P
June 13, 2013 at 2:23 pm
@ mr right, do not mislead people, the bible is totally against such things, that includes condoms. as for this woman just monitor your cycle instead of all this nonsense
De Lady
June 13, 2013 at 2:55 pm
Apostal P so does it mean that you bonk without muzazuzya chalo mdala ka??… is it a sin to bonk hey!mwebamuna its you who wants it most so, just keep quiet. my lady its not a sin just go and buy its okay.
But Why
June 13, 2013 at 2:47 pm
prostitutes buy,marriage materials get condoms from hospitals and clinics as a couple! Shame on you.
Mundia M
June 13, 2013 at 3:11 pm
Iyoo muli bakumushi! Good quality condoms are sold and the low quality are given by most clinics and hospitals.
Lady, buy your condom requirements and add some flavoured ones with designs on them to keep the moment interesting. Enjoy honey and all the best about your dream of a little female angel.
Jehovah God ordained sex within marriages.
Chama Febie
June 14, 2013 at 9:49 am
@Mundia M i agree with you.Chi but why cakumushisana
SEAN
June 13, 2013 at 2:55 pm
INFORM YOUR HUSBAND ABOUT YOU GETTING THE CONDOMS THEN HE’LL SEE THE IMPORTANCE OF THE CONDOMS. SINCE UR ONE YOU NEED TO BE OPEN WITH YO HUBBY SO IT DOESN’T PROMOTE SUSPISION AND INSECURITY. THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU BUYING JUST INFORM YOUR HUSBAND.
Captain
June 13, 2013 at 3:20 pm
The lady said that they agreed that they use condoms but the problem the guy forgets to buy and so they have ended up doing it twice without at condom. READ chizungu mwana and understand.
As for you lady just go ahead and buy openly.
Abanakahsi benebene
June 13, 2013 at 3:21 pm
NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU BUYING, JUST LET YOUR HUSBAND KNOW IT’S BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND. O DE BEST
mwewa
June 13, 2013 at 3:22 pm
Be open and buy why shd u feel ashamed,condoms are just the same as panadol!!!!
HH
June 13, 2013 at 3:29 pm
Condom ili monga buledi,osachita manyazi,go for it sis
ba zed
June 13, 2013 at 5:01 pm
My sister just buy its you who knows what you want. Besides, even us men do get some looks when buying condoms.
kandolo
June 13, 2013 at 5:04 pm
yes it is rigth
INSHIMBI
June 13, 2013 at 6:16 pm
The best and confidential place can be at a health post. They always issue Condoms free of charge to clients around.
Elle
June 14, 2013 at 9:55 am
But with low quality. I have been getting from a clinic but the quality is not good. Try to get maximum scented which supebo mama. Just go ahead.
kachale
June 13, 2013 at 6:41 pm
For the reason you have, no need to be ashamed.
dman
June 13, 2013 at 8:12 pm
Nothing to be ashamed of its for your own gud, whats wrong with women buying DOCOMS ND who does not know that married couples do IT?
Harrodsburg
June 13, 2013 at 8:20 pm
If l may ask “Of what use will condoms be in producing a baby girl?”. That they want to have protected sex until the right time comes. How will the woman tell that this ovulation am having its a girl? Mwebantu ngafweni kuli iyi science ya ishi mbushi shibili.
Elle
June 14, 2013 at 9:57 am
You are a coward. Read science and the cycle of a woman.
stick
June 15, 2013 at 2:25 pm
She has not said they will have a baby girl with certainty but that she wants to increase the probability of that event. Muzibelenga bwino chizungu.
mimi
June 13, 2013 at 8:51 pm
some scientists blive that the sex of the child is determined by the ph levels of a woman upon conception. they say baby girls survive in a highly acidic environment while boys in an alkaline environment. i guess this couple belives in this concept.
The ID10T
June 13, 2013 at 11:48 pm
Madam, I buy rubber every time. They never ask about your marital status. Or with whom you want to use them. Feel free.
The ID10T
June 13, 2013 at 11:52 pm
On second thoughts you could drive to a PUMA service station with your husband. You tell him to buy 20 packets while you remain outside. That would last you a while. (About 60 rounds – less a few for possible damages. And repeat the process every time there are 3 packets left at home.
MUBITA NDANISO
June 14, 2013 at 2:13 am
Condoms ar nt only bought but clinics gve dem 4 free.meanwhile,a woman buying condoms is nt a problem. use dem efficiently 2 avoid being a murderer unkowingly by aborting unwanted pregnances. mwandi plan yo family nt feeling 4 someone who will nt help when need will arise.
nkayamailo toby
June 14, 2013 at 3:10 am
Do want is right by buying and achieve positive results
Popopo
June 14, 2013 at 7:02 am
Ha ha ha Tumfweko bloggers you make me laugh at times, sure is it a crime for a woman to buy condoms? What of family planning pills they call safe plan? Woman! Dnt be ashamed just buy and let your husband know the best thing is be together when accessing
samuel
June 14, 2013 at 4:46 pm
buy the all box in a chemest ones and for all.
shik m
June 14, 2013 at 5:01 pm
ITS 100% RIGHT IF ITS INTENDED FOR PROTECTION AGAIST UNWANTED PREGNACY AND CHEATING HUSBAND.
Walya
June 15, 2013 at 9:42 am
Mr right. withdrawal teti
stoga
June 15, 2013 at 1:15 pm
You should be ashamed of yourself!! buying those things as a lady will make you to begin having thoughts and desires to cheat on your husband,and,as much as it is your private business,the public will start suspecting you are cheating on your husband! Just have the children,why do you want the rain but are not prepared for the MUD that comes along with it??
stick
June 15, 2013 at 2:13 pm
@stoga, this is the sort of archaic thinking that should not be encouraged in this day and era. If she wanted to cheat on her husband she doesn’t have to purchase the condoms herself.
stick
June 15, 2013 at 2:20 pm
I see nothing wrong with you doing that. The only problem is that in our country condoms are synonymous with illicit sex. So, when people see someone (male or female) buying condoms the immediate thought is that they want to have illicit sex. My advice to you is do what you think is right and best for you and your husband. Let those who want to speculate on the reason for your purchase waste their time doing so. Instead of buying small packs buy a large box and set a re-order level so you can remind your husband to replenish when the stock drop to that level. Good luck!
bm
June 15, 2013 at 3:36 pm
just buy sister,there is nothing wrong.
ECONOMIST
June 15, 2013 at 10:39 pm
EATING SWEETS TOGETHER WITH THEIR PLASTICS,WHY DID’NT GOD CREATE YOUR HUSBAND WITH A CONDOM.
CONDOMS ARE FOR RUDE PEOPLE, JUST FOLLOW YOUR CYCLE(PERIOD)
Anthony chisanga
June 17, 2013 at 9:59 am
Dear Lady if only you are telling us the truth that you have agreed with your husband to be using condoms i see no reason why you cant buy the condoms unless if those condoms you are buying you are going to use them to sex with other men but if is to your own husband you can buy and you should trust your salve.