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10 Signs You Are With The Wrong Woman
10 signs you are with the wrong woman:
1. She doesn’t show affection
If you’re in a situation where your woman just sits there and does nothing when you attempt to touch her and caress her or you’re always the one who initiates the hand holding or hugs first, something is definitely wrong. Dating is all about give and take and relationships are a constant compromise
2. She is reluctant to make future plans with you
You try to arrange vacation plans, but are met with a hesitant response. She is not willing to do anything that would require lasting commitment.
3. She destroys your self-confidence
She repeatedly puts you down, constantly corrects your slight mistakes, making you feel “on guard”, unintelligent, and leaving you with the feeling that you are always doing something wrong.
4. She discounts your feelings
She tells you that your feelings and opinions don’t make sense, they’re silly, and that you are emotionally disturbed to even think of such things. Women who behave like this often become extremely hostile toward criticism and often react with anger or even rage when their behavior is questioned.
5. She displays psychotic behaviors
She displays behaviors such as constant temper tantrums, snooping and emotional blackmail. Women like this carry a tremendous amount of emotional baggage and will do things that are completely crazy.
6. She uses sex as a weapon
Some women tend to use sex as a way to coerce their men into getting their way. If they want something to happen then they know that this would be the perfect opportunity to get their man to do it. They figure that if the guy wants it bad enough then he will do exactly what it is they want, and if he doesn’t, they threaten or punish him by depriving him of his sexual needs. Women who display this behavior only give men an excuse to look for alternative sources.
7. She is not trustworthy
She’s dishonest with you and you’re constantly catching her telling you lies and withholding information from you to keep you at a disadvantage.
8. She cuts you off from loved ones
When it’s time to spend quality time with your family, she suddenly becomes sick, stuck in traffic or experiences something major at work. She resents your family for taking up your time and even forbids you from associating with them at all.
9. She’s too insecure
She secretly checks your email, internet history and your cell phone. She feels threatened when you discuss your previous relationships, hates the idea of meeting your female friends and constantly attempts to trap you with questions like, “Do you think I’m pretty?” and gets upset no matter what you answer
10. She’s too controlling
She tells you when you can go out, when you can invite the guys over to watch the game and will even call you 10-15 times per day to keep track on what you’re doing, who you’re with and where you’re going next with each call and you allow these controlling behaviors to “keep the peace” in the relationship.
Posted by Editor
on October 9, 2013. Filed under LIFE & STYLE, STYLE.
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Angoni
October 9, 2013 at 10:42 am
how about if its a man doing the exact same things? I see a bit of sense in it but its two specific coz there are some men who do da same things.
Straight talk
October 9, 2013 at 11:59 am
Maybe the Heading should change to “10 signs you are with wrong partner” becauce these things happen to both men and women.
shimwana
October 9, 2013 at 12:36 pm
U ryt keep posting.
Ambassage
October 9, 2013 at 12:45 pm
True .”LOVE” is the key to real happiness. Laws of zambia, gender equalit implementation & jail (stiff punishement) can not bring love in families, relationships, marriages, churches or work places. Love thru Jesus christ is the only solution. Mathew 22:37-40, Romans 13:8-10
bufi
October 9, 2013 at 12:58 pm
She shoudnt be a pf or upnd cadre. Please include that one.
MundiaM
October 9, 2013 at 4:03 pm
You are crazy, but funny! Kekekekeke, LOL!
zambian
October 9, 2013 at 1:32 pm
No one is perfect except Jesus so we must accommodate one another
Susan
October 9, 2013 at 1:33 pm
LOL
Wam
October 9, 2013 at 2:55 pm
Men watch out you suffer this a lot especially you good guys check that woman you want to spend your life with if you see any of the above communicate to her and make an end to the foolishness or get out of the relationship before you say l do.
Mwana Ndola
October 9, 2013 at 3:01 pm
i will keep a lookout on such signs thanks.
Wam
October 9, 2013 at 3:10 pm
Mwana Ndola l wish you well. am sick and tired of seeing men making bad choices. we need men who will be thinking like men. women be helpers and this world will be a better place. Men be men in your relationships ……heads not the other way round and please women let it be so it doesn t mean you are looked down its the only way you get undeserved favour LOL!
woman
October 9, 2013 at 3:12 pm
Mwana Ndola l wish you well. am sick and tired of seeing men making bad choices. we need men who will be thinking like men. women be helpers and this world will be a better place. Men be men in your relationships ……heads not the other way round and please women let it be so it doesn t mean you are looked down its the only way you get undeserved favour LOL!
MundiaM
October 9, 2013 at 4:09 pm
I have a ‘chufi’sister in marriage who behaves exactly like the above. Everytime we spend time with them as a couple, I am anxious that she will not embarrass the spouse again. The spouse bares all the snooping, temper, tantrums and down talking with long suffering.
This is not acceptable and spouses who go through this should either demand that their partners change, seek counseling or if the 2 fail, get out of these unhealth relationships.
Village Chicken
October 9, 2013 at 6:24 pm
In the title, substitute ‘Woman’ with ‘Partner’. Bungwes, Mojos, Monks, Importers, Towers etc are included.
e k c
October 9, 2013 at 6:46 pm
The Women are the one who drive men to look for girlfriends. Please some of us we are tired feeling like we are just bad men.PUBLISHE THIS EVERYWERE even in local languages
cimbusa
October 9, 2013 at 8:05 pm
usually men a ok,women will never evn tell u how much o what they do 4 their families,they a liars,so brothers b there for your families as well,a woman always realises u should raise a family as husband and wife when she’s 45
ojay
October 11, 2013 at 11:47 am
awe doz are intresting sighs hope alot of pipo av learned samthng xpecialy dos wo fall in love fast.