By NOMSA NKANA
UNDER fierce rage, a Lusaka police officer has given his wife the ‘boot’ after stumbling on a phone contact of her lover saved as ‘my number one’ in her mobile phone.
Ryan Musonda 39, of Chelstone police camp has vowed never to remain in marriage with a cheating and uncultured woman.
This was heard before Justices Abishine Michelo, Linda Tembo and Pauline Newa in a case in which Rita Chulu, 27, of M’tendere Township sued Musonda for marriage reconciliation.
Judgment was adjourned to a later date.
When Chulu walked to the dock, her athlete’s physique was visible.
This came true when she said she knew Musonda in 2008 when she was a footballer.
Chulu told an attentive gallery that after courting Musonda for a while, she fell pregnant.
“He told me he wasn’t ready to marry me because he already had three children. Your honour, he asked me to abort but I refused to do so,” she lamented.
But chulu later had a change of mind and had the abortion after which Musonda stayed away from her.
She said when she was eight months pregnant, she met Musonda in town who asked her to move in with him and inform her family about their relationship.
They formalised their marriage but problems started after his mother visited them.
She told the court her mother in-law was not the only problem she faced but also tough conditions from Musonda, forbidding her from playing football and from making friends.
As she went on and on narrating her marital woes, sighs and shuffling of feet were heard, a sign that people were tired of waiting for Chulu to come to the main issue.
Justice Michelo later warned her against wasting the court’s time and told her to get to the point.
After the warning, Chulu collected herself and told the court that the main issue was that Musonda does not trust her.
She said when he opened a saloon for her, she one day ran out of water and when she went to draw some, a man stopped her to inquire if she had heard about her brother impregnating someone.
As they were talking, Musonda appeared on the scene and slapped the ‘intruder’ whom he suspected of being a blast from the past for Chulu.
He then dragged her into the saloon and pummeled her with a hair blower.
She said once when Musonda was out of the country, she attended an all- night function after which someone informed him she had spent a night away from home.
Chulu said he subsequently began accusing her of having sex with his young brother who lived with them.
“Your honour, he chased me and after two weeks, I went to visit my children but alas! I found a woman in my bedroom,” she said.
In his statement, Musonda admitted having another woman called Grace.
“I knew her as a fellow congregant who got wind of my turbulent marriage. She used to comfort me a lot and naturally, my problems drove me into her arms,” he said.
Musonda recounted that he married Chulu in 2009 when she was still a footballer, after which he told her to stop playing football and to cut ties with her team mates.
He said when he got her a shop to keep her busy, some people began telling him she was hardly there and that they would see her in the company of some man.
He said he once found her in an awkward position talking to a man who was sitting in a parked Chibuku (opaque beer) truck.
Musonda also said Chulu is a drunkard who nearly caused their death when they were coming from an annual ball.
“She asked my young cousin if he ever feels horny. I wondered how a married woman could say such a thing to a boy. We started fighting in the car and it overturned,” he said.
He said as if that was not enough he found in her phone, a contact saved as ‘my number one’ and in her Airtel sim, she saved it as ‘my friend’.
When he called the number a man someone had told him was his wife’s lover answered.
He told the court he can never reconcile with Chulu.
The soft spoken cop turned and looked in Chulu’s direction and said: “I must be your number two then if there’s your ‘number one’.
Enter
October 13, 2013 at 8:46 am
Me i keep such numbers as “low battery”
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Zendola
October 13, 2013 at 9:17 am
Footballer ine teti bwime
DPIO
October 13, 2013 at 9:24 am
my no. In my wifes 4ni is saved as ‘abroad’ nd i hv seen some men no. Saved as hero shud i ha as wel?
joe punk
October 13, 2013 at 9:29 am
Just get a decent android phone and download the app that allows you to hide numbers and messages. The phone won’t even ring when you “side dish” calls. You can leave the phone in your spouses laps all day.
Pa Zed
October 13, 2013 at 11:06 am
What is the app called?
Damn It
October 13, 2013 at 11:58 am
It’s called VAUT app.
footballers husbands
October 13, 2013 at 9:32 am
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bushpig
October 13, 2013 at 9:35 am
@Enter – you sly devil you! “Low battery”!!
chile1
October 13, 2013 at 9:44 am
Wat reasonable man marries a footballer sure?its lyk marryin a fellow man waziba
clitoris
October 13, 2013 at 10:12 am
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maps
October 13, 2013 at 10:17 am
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Kasenge Richard
October 13, 2013 at 10:25 am
ilyashi lya bucende,bwaca nokuca!
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October 13, 2013 at 10:31 am
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LT.ZIGI
October 13, 2013 at 10:35 am
@ she changd her mind and aborted…@ later they met in town when she was 8 months pregnant!! (either confusd woman or confusd tumfweko).
Aaron
October 13, 2013 at 11:29 am
who z confusd here tunfweko or da woman she abortd bt wen they meet in twn she ws 8 month prgnant
Mr wise
October 13, 2013 at 11:41 am
Confusing story -that’s y there’s no verdict by the unknown court.
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October 13, 2013 at 11:55 am
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October 13, 2013 at 11:59 am
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ceci
October 13, 2013 at 12:31 pm
Imwe explain properly on da app thing.Tafwa kukwiliwa.
clement
October 13, 2013 at 12:42 pm
ma rubbish yabantu
mwamba mutale
October 13, 2013 at 12:51 pm
@Enter wandepaula. I will also enter it as low battery
chenda bwamba
October 13, 2013 at 3:16 pm
the lady is from chipata n nobody nobody has blamed the tribe but in the other story involving bembas it was ba bemba ba bemba y do u people accuse us so much.
Danny
October 13, 2013 at 4:23 pm
The two were just in a prolonged cohabit….mixture decisions
thick sperm
October 13, 2013 at 4:54 pm
@ ndine chenda wamba
Chipata girls air displine nowanda sh took ******(musonda) a bemba to court.bembas maule tulatomba even na 5 pin
money makers
October 13, 2013 at 8:37 pm
iwe kumyenu yamahala mubosolamofye no kujata imbwa kumanyoko!!
Mrs Mubita
October 13, 2013 at 8:59 pm
Iam a married woman for four years and I have never had access to my husband’s phone. He doesnt check mine either although sometimes he answers my calls. Should we check each others’ phone data?
Nchilipamushi
October 13, 2013 at 9:46 pm
Bakakutanfya. Wilaumfwila ilyashi lyapa tumfukweko, lyashi lya bufi. Nalekako.
chipuba
October 14, 2013 at 4:19 am
I saved my girlfriends numbers as Hakainde Hichilema and Chanda Chimbwi, my wife can never call those numbers!
Pimp
October 14, 2013 at 5:39 am
I saved mine as Private number.
mwana apeluke!
October 14, 2013 at 6:25 am
But chulu later had a change of mind and had the abortion after which Musonda stayed away from her.
She said when she was eight months pregnant, she met Musonda in town who asked her to move in with him and inform her family about their relationship…..you chaps!!!! Do u edit ur lousy stories? How can an abortion be 8 months???
brainboxer
October 14, 2013 at 6:50 am
the problem here is sex
Mpumba Mikowa
October 14, 2013 at 8:41 am
I served my as “lieutenant general”.
Bandawe
October 14, 2013 at 9:57 am
My ka bemba “mai nini’s” name is Patricia but I saved her as Patrick. We agreed that if she phones and mai guru answers the phone, she should tell her ati mubauze ati banzao ba Patrick badwala kuno and then I’ll rush to go and see “my sick friend Patrick”.
mweemba
October 14, 2013 at 11:03 am
ukafwa na aids kwindi
Truthful
October 14, 2013 at 2:28 pm
ili lyashi -agony is when you are married to an IT specialist, ask me about it!
sharbs
October 14, 2013 at 3:42 pm
kapokola chipuba na ba kahi .usushila boma!!!!!!!!11
AMUNA
October 14, 2013 at 3:58 pm
SAVED MINE AS JOSEPH,INSTEAD OF JOSEPHINE. MUCHALO NI STRATEGY GUYS.NOMBA FOOTBALLER,KASAKO AKALILOFWA FYE.
Mpongo
October 14, 2013 at 5:09 pm
Mrs Mubita pls keep the practice of not checking each other’s phones. Checking just brings unnecessary quarrels. Just continue trusting each other. Its the basis of love.
LAZ
October 14, 2013 at 8:48 pm
Bemba names Musoda & Chulu,??????????????????????????????????