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Lusaka Husband Begs Court To Keep Adulterous Wife Despite Catching Her Red Handed In Bed
By SYLVESTER CHISHIMBA
IN a rare show of forgiveness for a wayward spouse, a 44-year-old man of John Laing begged the Matero local court not to divorce him from his adulterous wife despite catching her red-handed having sex with another man in their matrimonial home.
This is a case in which Helen Mukondwa, 32, of Chipata Township, sued Webby Bulaya, 44 for divorce.
Mukondwa told the court that when she got married to Bulaya in 2004 everything was fine until 2008 when he had a lover and started spending nights out. She said started mistreating her each time he came back from the other woman.
“Your Honour, my husband upon coming from his lover would become jealous for no reason and insert his fingers in my private part to find out if I was having sex with another man,” she said
Mukondwa narrated that Bulaya threatened to bewitch her with an endless bleeding from her genital.
She told the court that in 2010, she found out that Bulaya had a child with his lover but when asked about it he refused.
Mukondwa told the court that Bulaya later chased her from their matrimonial home and told her on the phone that this was the only way to bring in his lover because she had his child.
She pleaded with the court to grant them divorce and make them share household goods they suffered to acquire together because Bulaya was already married.
“Your honour, when I got married to Bulaya we had nothing, we were sleeping on the floor and now someone who never suffered with me is using our property,”Mukondwa said.
She asked the court to grant her custody of their son adding that Bulaya’s new wife mistreats the boy and does not give him any food.
“The neighbours have told me that my son goes round town centre carrying sacks and at times begs food from them… ” she said.
Bulaya told the court that he is not married and that he is staying with a friend.
He said he did not want a divorce but to get back his wife if she so wished.
He refused to share the household items with Mukondwa saying “uyu chigololo chake chamu sokoneza, sininga mupase katundu, afunika kutenga katundu kuli mwamuna enze ochita nae chigololo mu nyumba yanga (the adultery she committed has confused her, I can’t give her the household items, she must go and get them from the man she committed adultery with in my house).”
Passing judgment, senior court magistrate Sharon Sichone granted divorce saying that the evidence showed that Bulaya and Mukondwa were not faithful to each other.
Magistrate Sichone ordered the couple to share their household items equally, awarded custody of their son to Mukondwa and ordered Bulaya to pay K150 per month as child maintenance.
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Taliban
October 14, 2013 at 12:23 am
Am the fist to comment, the devil is a liar wooooooooooooooooooh!!
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October 14, 2013 at 1:10 am
Lusaka Husband Begs Court To Keep Adulterous Wife Despite Catching Her Red Handed In Bed
By SYLVESTER CHISHIMBA
IN a rare show of forgiveness for a wayward spouse, a 44-year-old man of John Laing begged the Matero local court not to divorce him from his adulterous wife despite catching her red-handed having sex with another man in their matrimonial home.
This is a case in which Helen Mukondwa, 32, of Chipata Township, sued Webby Bulaya, 44 for divorce.
Mukondwa told the court that when she got married to Bulaya in 2004 everything was fine until 2008 when he had a lover and started spending nights out. She said started mistreating her each time he came back from the other woman.
“Your Honour, my husband upon coming from his lover would become jealous for no reason and insert his fingers in my private part to find out if I was having sex with another man,” she said
Mukondwa narrated that Bulaya threatened to bewitch her with an endless bleeding from her genital.
She told the court that in 2010, she found out that Bulaya had a child with his lover but when asked about it he refused.
Mukondwa told the court that Bulaya later chased her from their matrimonial home and told her on the phone that this was the only way to bring in his lover because she had his child.
She pleaded with the court to grant them divorce and make them share household goods they suffered to acquire together because Bulaya was already married.
“Your honour, when I got married to Bulaya we had nothing, we were sleeping on the floor and now someone who never suffered with me is using our property,”Mukondwa said.
She asked the court to grant her custody of their son adding that Bulaya’s new wife mistreats the boy and does not give him any food.
“The neighbours have told me that my son goes round town centre carrying sacks and at times begs food from them… ” she said.
Bulaya told the court that he is not married and that he is staying with a friend.
He said he did not want a divorce but to get back his wife if she so wished.
He refused to share the household items with Mukondwa saying “uyu chigololo chake chamu sokoneza, sininga mupase katundu, afunika kutenga katundu kuli mwamuna enze ochita nae chigololo mu nyumba yanga (the adultery she committed has confused her, I can’t give her the household items, she must go and get them from the man she committed adultery with in my house).”
Passing judgment, senior court magistrate Sharon Sichone granted divorce saying that the evidence showed that Bulaya and Mukondwa were not faithful to each other.
Magistrate Sichone ordered the couple to share their household items equally, awarded custody of their son to Mukondwa and ordered Bulaya to pay K150 per month as child maintenance.
CALLED WISE
October 14, 2013 at 5:33 am
Divorce was the only way out in this matter.
‘Faithfulness, trust, openess…are the pulse or vital element for a strong and an everlasting marriage/relationship’
My humble regards and sincere respect to all those who have made it in marriage(who are still together years ago till to date)
agogo mbuye
October 14, 2013 at 6:02 am
Just what has gone wrong with our moral values?Most women in today’s marriages are more of participants in extra marital affairs than spectators.God forgive them for they do not know what they are doing.Amen.
joz
October 14, 2013 at 6:10 am
why begging her. leav her iwe chimudala naiwe siuvela ata…..
chile1
October 14, 2013 at 6:53 am
Jus leave her iwe kembo naiwe,r u tellin me u r so ugly dat u cnt find another woman
Truthful
October 14, 2013 at 9:20 am
things have changed! its high time men knew that two can play that game! you cheat on your wife and expect her to lick your feet sha! when there are other men willing to confort her and love her!
careful!
voters card
October 14, 2013 at 10:19 am
No comment!
Lenny
October 14, 2013 at 10:22 am
A woman is the mother of the naton. But Some women have become dogs, I’ salute all loving mothers, wives who are faithful to their husbands and families God will reward you.. Prostitutes soon will harvest rewards even before they perish…
Tana
October 14, 2013 at 10:34 am
Mulesala nabakupa ba guy. Mwefimaule mumfwa shani, umbi asundilamo nokunyelamo naumbi aisa lukilamo, Anyway fima PUBLIC TOILETS, IFIMA SPERM CHAMBER atasee!!!
Flo
October 14, 2013 at 10:45 am
How many times should a normal person marry? UBUPUBA mu calo!!! I’ feel pity for the innocent children, foolish people break their homes with the help of foolish friends and relatives
christian
October 14, 2013 at 12:17 pm
What they need is deliverance.Divorce is bowing down to the devil’s tactics.No one should sink that low.Jesus said “come to me all you who…”
Kombe
October 14, 2013 at 1:05 pm
A true woman respects her body what more her private parts. Elo fimbi kosolola osola fyee ububwa. Bushe umo ngalufyanya naiwe kulifyanya shaaa
tutu
October 14, 2013 at 1:43 pm
Ukupesha lunshi kunya patatu. Its 50 50 men nw days only learn when they r also paid da same. U **** other girls nd u expect me to welcome u wit a smile? Thingz hv changed nw ichipimo wapiminamo umunobe naiwe eche bala kupinamo.
Ezemwa
October 14, 2013 at 2:37 pm
indeed things have changed
Umupandapwiti
October 14, 2013 at 2:49 pm
Ubuchende bamwaume tabutoba ng’anda.
Jin
October 14, 2013 at 3:30 pm
@Tutu 50/50 finshi? One spouse for one person. We are human beings with norms. But if we were dogs that would ok.
gaga
October 14, 2013 at 5:43 pm
divorce is never the solution in any case. When are we going to learn to turn to Godwhen we r faced with tough decisions to make?
Chuka
October 14, 2013 at 5:59 pm
Aaaaa!!!!!
tifi-tifi mukalamba
October 14, 2013 at 7:58 pm
Some women have failed to respect their bodies and homes. What a shame. Even if your. Husband is not faithful remain faithful and God will reward.God has his on way. Of doing and changing things.
Nothing like 50/50.
Harry
October 14, 2013 at 9:40 pm
God hates adulterers, av proven the Devil has a bunch of folowers with no shame ba 50 50
Piss off
October 15, 2013 at 6:55 am
So many f**ckups in marriages i wonda if it is real anymore lke tht of my grandpa and ma