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My Boyfriend Has An Engagement Ring In His Closet, But Yet To Propose To Me! Can I Ask Him Why?
Dear readers,
I’m in a bit of a fix. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years, last month while arranging his closet I saw an engagement ring and up till this moment he is yet to propose to me and recently my relationship has been very boring. Should I walk up to him and ask him about the ring or should I keep pretending that I did not see the ring because every time I go to the house I still meet the ring. And can you give me some hints on how to spicy up my relationship and get my boyfriend’s full attention.
Thanks.
Posted by
icinshikululwa
November 4, 2013 at 9:08 am
Its you who know you boy friend, and for three yrs now.
CALLED WISE
November 4, 2013 at 9:42 am
3 years down the line is quite a while, enough time to know what you are both up to. Just as my paisano icinshukululwa has said that you know each other better and what you always talk about in the closet. Maybe he has fixed a time to reveal it to you as a suprise. If you ask him over it, it might not please him. It’s like you are offered a parcel you already know its content. Seat back, observe and give it a little while.
katwishi mukwai
November 4, 2013 at 10:00 am
just leave him,why are you even asking us?
Inkhosi yama Nkhosi Zwangendaba
November 4, 2013 at 10:07 am
What were you doing in his closet? You are not married to him, are u?
Zimya
November 4, 2013 at 1:59 pm
Vizende va pakisa! Imagine
kay2
November 4, 2013 at 10:18 am
my love this is simple math for you to solve. Next time you go to his house, just get the ring and try it on. If it does not fit you, you will know the answer and if it deos, be patient he is still thinking about it and he waiting for the right time.
yongwe
November 4, 2013 at 11:06 am
good advise kay2
mwamba mutale
November 4, 2013 at 11:34 am
When yu go back,hide it for a week and see the reaction
hachiboloma
November 4, 2013 at 12:12 pm
limbi teyobe, you are just waiting in vain. open your eyes gal.
maps
November 4, 2013 at 12:22 pm
evry man has a lady in mind who he’s gone marry, if its then gud 4u but if its nt u, no trick in the book wil compile him to marry u….. SIMPLE
O chandale
November 4, 2013 at 12:36 pm
You had SEX then you are coming on air talking about a ring.useless girl.u know the problem with girls you give in sex so fast before futher arrangements and after SEX you deeply fall in love with that person. But us men its a bit different when you have SEX with the girl we loose interest for that relationship. We also want to have sex with another girl and onother girl and so on.so if I was a girl then my man asks for sex I will tell him to wait since he has promised marriage to me. Like that a man will respect you more than all the girls he’s sleeping with. Even if he won’t marry u he will still think of your values. Like David in the Bible he was denied what he wanted by that shulamite girl.David kept talking about that till today. So when a man you are not married to pull down your pant and looks at you,just know that you’v lost value and he want to look at a different shape on and on
misplaced comment
November 4, 2013 at 1:11 pm
2016 is for HH who doesn’t know that?
joe
November 4, 2013 at 2:06 pm
INDEED HIS COMMENT IS DAMN MISPLACED TRY FISHING.
WHICH 2016?WHEN BOSS SATA IS TO RULE FOR TWO TERMS
UKOSE
munyengeshe
November 4, 2013 at 2:16 pm
pantu mwatemwa ukunyengesha,elyo talakupa. so he has seen that u re nt good in bed. tawaishiba ukushana, waba nge chimuti. improve my sis
Trixy
November 4, 2013 at 3:22 pm
Lol….no comment!!!
Bungo Bungo man
November 4, 2013 at 3:26 pm
Blow Job works for me.
zalimba jere
November 4, 2013 at 4:15 pm
nayo menso vo ona ona, manje yaku onesani na ve simwenzo funa. Kodi munaikatako ring yamene iyo? mwatanganidwa nayo bwanji? Chikondi ndi anthu awiri, na ine wachitatu munifunilanji? Nanga fiance wanu ali nayo access to internet? advise him to check on this site, may be you can be helped out. MA RUBBISH ATI.
tata fyala (In-law)
November 4, 2013 at 4:35 pm
Ukubilima tekanya, ngayobe ikesa elo ngate yobe ikaya
sankata
November 4, 2013 at 11:49 pm
alabwafya ululwakufwaya ifyupo.bushe ring eikobekela?mwana wesu fimo kuti fya kulwalikafye BP.HOLD YOUR FIRE.
Truthful
November 5, 2013 at 7:45 am
ukose mayo-achili alefwaya uwanakashi-wakupa ringi iyo teyobe iyoo. saala amano wikale bwino we mayo ee.
ngecho upyangila inganda yakwe ni chinshi? walipwa!
patriot
November 5, 2013 at 7:58 am
O Chandale its not David iwe who was denied the shulamite’s love, it was Solomon.mulebelenga bwino,ifi ifyakuchita memorize…
cecil
November 5, 2013 at 9:47 am
Mama 3yrs z 2 much,u date a guy 4 2yrs n nothing z movin jst kno dat tapali.If it was yo ring he was goin 2 b anxious 2 give u than holdin it as if he z doubtin u.Jst 4get abt this guy b4 u c sumthing dat z goin 2 upset u mo.Jst give him a meter first n c his response.O da best my sista
el
November 5, 2013 at 9:53 am
Maybe it’s no yours.
EM
November 5, 2013 at 10:08 am
O Chandale wise words, first time to find such a comment with full of wise words on tumfweko. May God bless you
Raymond
November 5, 2013 at 10:46 am
Relax lady, the man is probably saving up to take you somewhere to propose. I proposed to my wife in Mauritius, it was special.
pj
November 5, 2013 at 11:24 am
why panic. let him be with his ring because it is not yours and never meant for you.maybe be patient with your good self.
Be Good
November 5, 2013 at 4:28 pm
the fact that you think he is capable of such behavior means there’s no trust. He’s the kind of guy who can date one woman for 3 years while buying rings for someone else?
If he is capable of such a thing, save yourself and leave him.
hottie
November 5, 2013 at 5:33 pm
Obviously it’s not yours!
xy
November 6, 2013 at 11:14 am
it becomes vry dark before day break.
edward tembo
November 6, 2013 at 4:40 pm
Try to look for another suitor beforwe you loose more time.Stop rendering free services in bed and else where.If he wants you let him do his part.Amen