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Alangizi Video a Shame To Women – Sikazwe
WOMEN for Change executive director Emily Sikazwe says the leaked video of a half-naked woman explicitly demonstrating several love-making postures to a bride-to-be is a big embarrassment to women.
And Phaebby Chisenga from Zambia Women Writers Association says it is very sad that there are women who attend kitchen parties just to go and make a fool of someone who is trying her every effort to teach a bride to settle and build her home,.
Commenting on the two minute video shot during a traditional all-female counselling session and posted on social networking sites, Sikazwe said there was need for Zambians to preserve their nudity and not put it out for everybody to see.
“As a country, we have a culture that says that we will preserve our nudity and not put it out there for everybody to see. It is so unfortunate that our young people including boys have had access to that video,”Sikazwe said. “Culture is also dynamic, and knowing that anyone of us can carry a phone and take those videos and pictures, I think traditional leaders should also modify the culture and tradition. What I am saying is that, if you know that anyone with a phone can afford to take such a video or picture, then there is need to modify the way we do things.”
Sikazwe said there was also need for the people that took the video to be serious and not post unnecessary things on social networking sites.
“Those who took the video and decided in their own wisdom to put it on Facebook should understand that their action has affected the public. Let’s get serious about some of the things we post on social networking sites like Facebook because we are Zambians, we are Africans,” Sikazwe said. “And so, I am appealing to them not to think like that because their action has affected society. We apologise to our children, it should not be like that. As a mother, I apologise, that is not what our culture is meant to be… to corrupt the young people’s minds.”
And Chisenga said the people who posted the video were indeed ‘Stupid fools’.
She said the world is turning upside side.
“One would wonder if the person who leaked the video is sane. It is very sad that there are women who attend kitchen parties just to go and make a fool of someone who is trying her every effort to teach a bride to settle and build her home,” she said. “This made me very sad and angry. Mrs Iress Phiri (the founder of Zambia National Traditional Counsellors Association) and any other matured women have every right to be mad with whoever leaked that video. What was the sender trying to achieve? Instead of benefiting from the whole scenario, she decided to insult and disgrace the counsellor to the bride.”
Phiri on Friday described those who leaked the video as “stupid fools”.
The video was taken from what appears to be a hall and posted on social networking sites like WhatsApp and Facebook by unknown people at the traditional counselling session but who could be heard giggling and laughing in the background as the bare-breasted and short-clad middle-aged woman spotting a hairstyle, commonly known as freeze, sensually gyrated her chitenge-wrapped waist in tune with the sound of the drums being beaten by another group of women seated on her left side.
As the video starts, shouts of exclamations and amused giggling could be picked, especially when the woman puts both her hands on the floor before raising her persistently gyrating waist whilst dipping and lifting her projected backside in an up and down circuitous motion.
Shortly, the place that looks like a classroom owing to the desks that could be picked out in the footage was filled with ululations and applause when the woman placed her right knee and hand on the floor but with her left foot slightly touching the floor and took a sideway sensual posture.
Maintaining her squatting and astride position, the woman who at times expertly clasped her hands in front of her chest then changed her waist-gyration tempo from a fast one to slow motion with the bottom of her torso suspended in mid-air amidst more applause and two women; one dressed in a striped dress and another wearing a pair of blue jean trousers, went over to her and threw some money.
Someone in the background could be heard saying one of the women had thrown a K20 and the woman intensified the dipping of her waist while keeping her legs wide apart in a highly seductive and pushy manner until the video that has gone viral on the internet comes to an abrupt end.
But Chisenga said she had of late noticed that kitchen parties were being attended by young single ladies she called girls.
“As long as they’ve bought a present, but that’s not the case. The kitchen parties we attended years back were only meant for married women or someone who fully understands what marriage counselling is all about. When you take a present in front of a bride, you will tell her the use of the present you have presented to her, and contribute a few words of hope to her, but in this case, it is different, they (girls) just go there to disgrace elder people who are trying to help a bride to settle in her marriage,” said Chisenga. “The world is turning upside down. The counselling process has been there from way back in memory, and nothing of such videos could be taken. People are abusing this creature called “new technology”. These social networks were meant for sharing ideas, chatting and for fast communication and not for gossiping and sending stupid materials. Things that are meant to teach. Shame to the person who leaked that video. May he or she repent, because that same traditional session might help him/her in the future.”
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kelly
February 3, 2014 at 6:41 am
**** ALANGIZI COZ THEIR ARE INVITING SOME GEOS, WHO DOSENT EVEN HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THEIR P PART
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February 3, 2014 at 8:54 am
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Jailos
February 4, 2014 at 3:05 pm
The women who have spoken so much about this video have given unwarranted publicity to this video.It is only after so much talk that i came to know about the existence of this highly educative video.There is no need for this commotion when there is so much hard porn on internate which by far surpasses what the lady in the video was demonstrating.
Denkete
February 3, 2014 at 7:31 am
Anyone with contact details of this alangizi ?
Baggs
February 3, 2014 at 7:47 am
Therez nothn wrong in that video..jst that that woman has exposed her nudness,,those styles she was tuiting most women fail to apply those in marriages only the prostitutes on the street can offer sum1 those styles..
Jack SparroW
February 3, 2014 at 2:15 pm
Boyi waupafye ushia ishaba. She as no bedroom skills or Its either you hammer to much prostitute, even your wife can do that if she is skilled, it is only that you like too much ya pasalaula. Stop screwing and take her to balangizi
maketym4me
February 3, 2014 at 7:59 am
any one to share the video so that we can also comment on the posting
man
February 3, 2014 at 8:23 am
Too bad this was leaked.
How can I access the ka clip, anyone with the link please assist.
Keith
February 3, 2014 at 9:02 am
Piliz share the link, mwebantu
BLOGGER
February 3, 2014 at 12:44 pm
GO TO WWW.’SS’YOUTUBE.COM.TYPE ALANGAZI AND THE VIDEO WILL COME.IT HAS AN AGE RESTRICTION.
BLOGGER
February 3, 2014 at 12:55 pm
SORRY THE VIDEO HAS BEEN DELETED
masterwil
February 4, 2014 at 8:25 am
naimwe
February 3, 2014 at 9:22 am
tuposeleniko naifwe ka clip kaili, mulelanda-landafye
Poobooh
February 3, 2014 at 9:26 am
I like the video actually its on repeat
Denkete
February 3, 2014 at 9:36 am
Gentlemen I hv watched it! Its not for the faint hearted. +18 video!
Baggs
February 3, 2014 at 9:38 am
FOR THE LINK::
Just google through Youtube “Alangizi Video”…its a 2 minutes clip,,enjoyselvs
TOMBA
February 3, 2014 at 9:48 am
wea is the video guyz?
maketym4me
February 3, 2014 at 10:04 am
not bad, quiet good moves
Denkete
February 3, 2014 at 10:15 am
This video will boost tourism its a pity this powerful and very skilled alangizi will not be rewarded formaly
ZinCA
February 3, 2014 at 7:31 pm
LOL
Bullu
February 3, 2014 at 10:46 am
@Baggs, no wonder these ladies aint leaving the streets! Are u sure they are able to offer such services as those in the clip?
test@e
February 3, 2014 at 10:48 am
But video was not bad. Its as good as watching Mampi but not Kachanana!!!
Chibote
February 3, 2014 at 11:15 am
Shame on the person who made the video and posted it. Chipuba tachwata amano.
id!ot!
February 3, 2014 at 11:29 am
Okay seriously this should not have been posted! ******!ty at its best!
miss rose
February 3, 2014 at 12:37 pm
let me check it out
Robert Siame
February 3, 2014 at 12:41 pm
One tend to wonder as to why pipo have become to immoral.Where is his World going to.
critics
February 3, 2014 at 1:07 pm
Thats what you get for allowing young girls to attend kichen parties as long they’ve got a present! Please emphasis on age limit and especialy those who are maried to be attending kichen parties. Kitchen parties should be for matured women only. As Africans, our culture is just as important. Its a big shame that such important values of our cuture are being degraded by uncultured, unnatured and ungratfull foolish people.
diamond platinum
February 3, 2014 at 1:53 pm
Mr baggs does your wife perform the way she was doing?????
tutu
February 3, 2014 at 2:17 pm
pipo ka video kashupa ukusanga…anyway ukumfwa efyo alechita disclibu uyu mayo,ine no bukala bwaima,but kuti natemwa ukuimwenena nemwine…
FuManchu
February 3, 2014 at 6:02 pm
Taboo! This should in very normal circumstances be a family affair with selective invitation restrictions which has now been overtaken with commercial overtones among the ‘alangizi’ and down graded to kitchen party showing-off status! Which alangizi would agree to perform in a hall to an audience amidst which are prospecting spinsters and age mates to the initiate? Let’s be serious people! Where is Chasaya with his tooth pick? Okay, why not introduce security measures as those at airports for all invitees? I could provide the service at a fee!
sad
February 4, 2014 at 12:17 am
Zed
ka beans
February 6, 2014 at 12:31 am
Eeww!! yuck!! So gross. Mark my word, you didn’t miss anything If you didn’t see the video. The woman in the video is fat, sweaty and in my opinion, nowhere near attractive. I see nothing attractive about a woman with a pot belly accompanied by three belly rolls trying to wind and grind like Mampi or Shakira. You can criticize my comment as much as you want, however its the truth – Be reminded, the truth hurts and never lies.
Trixy
February 6, 2014 at 5:11 pm
Iwe Ka beans, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder!
ka beans
February 6, 2014 at 9:57 pm
Iwe chi Trixy, learn English before you decide to make illogical and irrelevant responses. My premise clearly states that, “in my opinion, nowhere near attractive” Meaning this is my personal view, nobody else’s. So you are right that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and according to my statement, she is not attractive in my eyes. Hence, when you deduce my statement and factor in your response, you clearly sound nga ichipuba ichi shakwata amano.
Trixy
February 10, 2014 at 11:06 am
Ha ha ha!!!