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Dear Readers: I think I Have Been Molested By A Doctor
Dear readers,
For two days now,I’ve been feeling angry and abused, so I’m sharing my experience with your readers for their opinions.
Two days ago I went to a hospital close to my house to check for breast lumps. It was my first time and I was very uncomfortable when the doctor started touching my breasts. I decided to close my eyes and put my mind on other things.
But then, when I felt he was taking longer time than I anticipated, I opened my eyes only to discover he had an erection! All the while he’s been fondling my breasts! I felt so embarrassed. He didn’t say a word as I dressed up and left his office.
I still feel angry and raped. That’s sexual molestation, right? Shouldn’t I have confronted him right there and then?
From a female reader
Posted by
ok
February 15, 2014 at 11:13 am
muntu naena/he’s human being
Scotch
February 15, 2014 at 12:04 pm
u r a vry stupd foool,jst trying to trap evry1.u trapd Kanene nw u wnt 2 put the doctor in trouble
id!ot!
February 15, 2014 at 12:34 pm
You were just enjoying also ala!
Abaku Canteen
February 15, 2014 at 1:06 pm
Why didn’t you report after the checkup, you were enjoying as well what made you to close your eyes?, mule fwaya mule tubikishafye muma cells, ****** lady.
Jom
February 15, 2014 at 1:09 pm
U were also enjoyn
Toby nkaya mumba
February 15, 2014 at 1:13 pm
Your first time it happend, second time go for a female doctor to avoid your stated feeling. But how did your eyes go to the trousers wen the operation was upper?
AWEMWE
February 15, 2014 at 1:28 pm
I agree with the author that some ( not ALL) Doctors have some weakness when it comes to checking of breast cancer , this is against their ethics.
I wanted to beat one doctor/ male clinic officer when he started behaving like an he-goat.
naimwe
February 15, 2014 at 1:49 pm
she is telling lies, i didn’t have an erection. she hasn’t also mentioned how she dressed.
goodies
February 15, 2014 at 1:57 pm
awe mwandi.
gun smoke
February 15, 2014 at 2:33 pm
who knows u got wet too
Senzo
February 15, 2014 at 2:33 pm
You are a very stttuupif foooooool
Doctors have to squeeze/palpate the breasts in order to feel the breast lumps. Why would you close your eyes you bllloooddy hule??
Besides when doing such examinations theres always a nurse in the room so stop talking shhhiiit
Next time request for a female Doctor you moron
tentemuna itoloshi
February 15, 2014 at 2:35 pm
Uli ule iwe cimayo. Why didnt yu confront him and report to de police that very day. Yu were expecting to be proposed which never happened and now yu want to cook up a story
doctors wife!
February 15, 2014 at 3:20 pm
4 crying out louds sake the man ws jes doing his job had he missed the lump in those yo breasts u wud have said his being negligent now tht he tried to do a thorough job u want 2 accuse him of molestation en rape…plz woman get a life! I thot doctors are human they too can have an erection
kumasi
February 15, 2014 at 3:34 pm
It’s a pity u ar not a man to understand why it happened. Otherwise ibele lyantutu if if u ar in a coma then yo hands accidentally comes in contact with it kwima
kumasi
February 15, 2014 at 3:35 pm
It’s a pity u ar not a man to understand why it happened. Otherwise ibele lyantutu even if u ar in a coma then yo hands accidentally comes in contact with it kwima
UKESE UKANSANGA
February 15, 2014 at 10:02 pm
WAT A NICE JOB.I THINK NALABAFYE DOCTOR KUSUKA WAIKATAKO ILYA NTUTU MALARIA ILETALUKAKO MUMUBILI.
cimbusa
February 15, 2014 at 3:36 pm
ala ba nyina ubo ebu ule coz u a used to who ever touches yo breast to hammer u, the doc waz just doing his job
ChiKA
February 15, 2014 at 3:39 pm
Next time ask for a female doctor or request to have an assistant.
sata
February 15, 2014 at 4:28 pm
Indeed you are ******, I not nothing else to say to this silly ****** fooolish women
wazanga
February 15, 2014 at 7:15 pm
uli chi chende ufwile bali kulya
Accumen
February 15, 2014 at 9:42 pm
This is no sense.Nomba iyine mwale tako blogging naba shikwete ifyakulanda bayamba fye ukusabaila.Idots
S.O.S
February 15, 2014 at 9:50 pm
you women want all men to b jailD,Get out kambwanga iwe!
COMMANDO
February 15, 2014 at 10:08 pm
U were deep into sex iwe to close your eyes. In NAKONDE, there is no rape, defilement or molestation becoz tuma girls get matured and start sex as young as 12 etwakwata skill no kutemwa sana ine. No police case pantu nabena eko bapusukila bafikala. ukese.
Bigbuttman
February 15, 2014 at 11:02 pm
Report the pervert.
chile1
February 16, 2014 at 8:39 am
Mmmm hw did u kno he had an erection?ws he naked the tym he ws touchin ur breasts? Moreover yourself u r nat even sure koz the headline says” I think” so get a life and ask us abt sumthin sensible,noti ifyo ifyabupuba ulesabaila kwindi iwe
kayula
February 16, 2014 at 8:57 am
zambians what is wrong with you? your sister has a problem seeking comfort from you and this is how best you can do. I wish you had told him there and there that he was puting his job and patients’ life at risk. Hope you will recover soon my dear sister
ILLITERATE
February 16, 2014 at 10:04 am
The first mistake you made was to seek advice from this platform.. I guess you already know its wrong? From your statement yes I feel you were abused for you said you closed your eyes coz you never wanted to think about what was happening. Yes Some of these guys work unprofessionally. They do abuse clients. A certain Lady also complained of being abused by Gychonologist at Kitwe Central hospital. She said this guy inserted his fore finger in her genitals trying to feel something and he took long and the he called his friend to do the same. May be go and talk to the people in charge at the facility. I’m sorry for you.
pompwe
February 16, 2014 at 10:10 am
did he finger **** you..?kekekeke
nganga
February 16, 2014 at 10:50 am
WHY DID YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES MMMMMMMMMMMMM YOU LIKE SEX KA? YOU ARE TO BLAME.
fox
February 16, 2014 at 10:51 am
Next time go for cervical cancer screening to the same doctor
dnice
February 16, 2014 at 11:18 am
there is a very clear difference between palpating your breasts and fondling. you closed your eyes. you felt uncomfortable, why did you not ask for a female cheparone to be there? why are you people so daft? you are in a room with a man, doesn’t matter if a dr or not, and he is touching your breasts checking for lumps. you need a female cheparone in there with you. you obviously are a fool and daft enough. you either enjoyed the fondling or you are just too dull
revenge
February 16, 2014 at 12:32 pm
Madam, go and molest him back!
Ok Dr’s beware, women will be after your practicing licences soon. Always have a female relative and an assistant in the room. Next you’ll have to do dna tests dr’s.
In the light of the number of lesbians around, lady Dr lesbians also face sexaul harrassment charges too.
Didn’t Oprah show you how to do the test at home? Go for a mamogram if in doubt, at least the x-ray machine won’t fondle you. Maybe the modern x-ray machines have developed awareness and will have an erect knob too.
mulamu
February 16, 2014 at 12:42 pm
Muli hulefye mwali bomba bwangu jst go some more.
club zero
February 16, 2014 at 2:27 pm
Ask tutu,hule.next please
Jeff
February 16, 2014 at 4:25 pm
No, you should do nothing. He was wrong to take longer than necessary. It is natural for a man to develop an erection under that circumstance do not feel abused. Just reading your story gives men an erection. It is how we are made. What action we take after the erection is what matters. If the man does nothing further, it should end there.
THE SYMPATHIZER
February 16, 2014 at 5:30 pm
Its a sad situation u need to under go for counselling for psychological trauma u re going thru. See another Doctor for this.
Zambian
February 16, 2014 at 9:22 pm
That is Not rape you fool!
Papa J
February 17, 2014 at 3:24 am
lol manje u opened your eyes and looked at the doc just below the belt? uyu mukazi.
kupapa!
February 17, 2014 at 5:28 am
was the doc dressed and wearing a clinical coat? if yes, how then did you notice he had an erection? did you see it or feel it? did u go there for breast lamp exam or erection exam? what exactly was your motive? closing your eyes and gesturing with eyeball movements, I think you were also trying to entice the poor man, you had an agenda and got disappointed and now spitting it out!
kakolwe
February 17, 2014 at 6:41 am
From as early early as age 10, I have schooled young girls to refuse unwanted ‘touches’ of men, refuse or bolt. If it all fails, SCREAM! Now this strampet of a grown woman was tought to CLOSE HER EYES! This is BULLSIHT! She she more experienced in noticing ERECTIONS.
pezu
February 17, 2014 at 9:38 am
Mmmmmmmm iwe wilai sebanya,closing of eyes its a sign of enjoin,js kip quiet.wa ishibe shani at bwaima so u touchd it ryt?
Mbovu J
February 17, 2014 at 10:03 am
This makes the third or fourth day after your allerged story, and its one sided. Do u jst wake up and say am going for breast cancer check up? U close yr eyes, open them and see an erection. Apparently u know how long it takes to do the check up, saying he took too long, did he ever came to your work place and told u how fast to work? like the others have said get a life.
mandingo
February 17, 2014 at 1:12 pm
What makes you think it was an erection??? The dude just has a big package like Mandingo!!
Trixy
February 17, 2014 at 3:10 pm
But you guys are crazy…ma!!
Anyway my sister all I can tell you is that you have no case here. It is your word against the doctors. First and foremost why did you close your eyes. That is a sign of enjoyment. Secondly how did you notice that he had an erection? Again that is a sign that you were interested in what he was doing. You should have stopped him right there and then and called for help if you thought he was crossing the line. If you did not want to embarrass him, then you should just let it go because the man didn’t have sex with you…
doc
February 20, 2014 at 7:56 am
I did not have an erection, I just have a big zwambo and she thinks it’s an . . .
lee
February 28, 2014 at 9:19 am
the thing about you closing eyes,about you noticing the erection,doesn’t sound possible,why did you bring this up in the first place,as far as am concerned,your statement is not very convincing dear.am sorry its not convincing.