By MUBANGA NONDO
A SEXUALLY-starved housewife forced her husband’s best friend to have sex with her, the Chifubu Local Court has heard.
Chonto Chishala, 38, of house number 18252 in Pamodzi township, told the court that Catherine Nkandu forced him to have sex with her in her husband’s absence because she wanted to quench her burning desire for sex.
Chishala told Senior Local Court Magistrates Agnes Muswema and Rosemary Muke that Catherine forced him to have sex with her while her husband Kaponda Nkandu was admitted to hospital.
This is a matter in which Nkandu, 32, of house number 6275 in Pamodzi township sued Chishala as the first defendant and Catherine, 24, of house number 1653 in the same township, as the second defendant for compensation for adultery.
Chishala admitted having a sexual relationship with Catherine and further told the court that she undressed and forced him to have sex with her on grounds that she had not had sex in a long time since her husband had been sick and was admitted to hospital.
“Your honour, she is the one who started this relationship. She kept on phoning me and pestering me about the need for us to have sex. So when I went to her room, she undressed herself in front of me and forced me to have sex saying that she hadn’t had sex in a long time as her husband was sick,” Chishala said.
He told the court that their relationship began in October 2013 when Catherine went and told him that she had been evicted from the house she and her husband had been renting due to non-payment of rentals and that he (Chishala) offered that Catherine stays in a room at his parent’s house.
Chishala said after Catherine moved in, she asked him if he could help fix a bulb in the room and that was when she undressed after which the two ended up having sex.
When asked by the court whether she knows Chishala, Catherine said he was her boyfriend and admitted having sex with him. She added that the two had sex for the first time in October and she even told her husband about it.
In his testimony, Nkandu told the court that he married Catherine in 2008 and the couple has two children together.
He said his wife only told him about the incident on April 15 this year after the two returned from church.
“Your honour, Chishala is my best friend. My wife only told me about their sexual relationship after I had preached the word of God to her one Sunday afternoon when we returned from church. I confronted both of them and they admitted having committed the sin,” Mr Nkandu added.
He submitted that it is sad that his best friend best could go to an extent of wanting to destroy his marriage and asked the court to help him reconcile with his wife as the two have children they needed to look after together.
Magistrates Muswema and Muke ordered Chishala to pay Nkandu K7, 000 as compensation for adultery in monthly instalments of K500 with effect from June 5 this year.
Drinx
May 25, 2014 at 11:55 am
Mr Nkandu you also fuck you wifes sister if she has because thats what i will do my self.
snr chief
May 25, 2014 at 12:10 pm
A man is allowed to devorce on condition that she commits adultery.be a man
raphael
May 25, 2014 at 1:24 pm
Bemba,s mmmm ha
Real Vs Atletico
May 26, 2014 at 7:02 am
The only thing you see in the story being Bemba. Whats wrong with you atitude?
game meat
May 25, 2014 at 1:58 pm
For how long was in the hospital? Women with sex…
CALOWA
May 25, 2014 at 3:47 pm
Iye uyu mwanakashi imisango ububi. After watombesha then wayamukuzala. Iyee mayo uluse.Women be serious. Stop playing games.
kakolwe
May 25, 2014 at 4:07 pm
C’mon, Chonto, sonkela iyo engine. Its not true that she forced you. Walefwaya naiwe wine. A man can NEVER be forced. Ubwapompoloka teti bwingile. Pay up, am sure you’ll be dwinking when the cat is away!
Stretchable sweet potato!
May 26, 2014 at 1:08 am
@kakolwe, clearly no fully loaded woman has ever thrown herself at you before…forcefully. Ala ukesanjeba!
mcv
May 25, 2014 at 5:31 pm
kumutomba statn mukanwa pa matako and end in ha HIV infected vagina.i ensure sh liks my penis lyk loly pop.she hods both legs xpozn it en i nyenga .naumfwa naumfwa SEX .
ANTI-SEX
May 25, 2014 at 5:58 pm
What is so special about sex any way? I hate it.
Umuntungwa
May 25, 2014 at 7:19 pm
Then you arent a life.
pwele
May 25, 2014 at 7:10 pm
i hope she doesnt have hiv.hw cn a man be in hospital for a long time.what was wrong.
Umuntungwa
May 25, 2014 at 7:18 pm
Chizungu: A sex starved housewife… Not sexually starved
comfused chicken
May 25, 2014 at 7:42 pm
mmmmmhhhh ba mr og mrs perfect,its the same thing,so you think youre a master in a language you picked up from whites,pasopo!
comfused chicken
May 25, 2014 at 7:44 pm
Danny did noit lie,BAKAKWAFWA nga wapweneka!Ngataulemu pela bwino mayo,bakakwafwa and i would be willing to assist any sexually starved wives,ive got a serious anaconda!
IYEE IYEE APOPENE APOPENE
May 25, 2014 at 8:00 pm
Ukutomba bane kwatuletelela. I wish I could stop it completely.Bane kwena bakufulila elyo ninshi kale washaninepo, kuti wapaleka? Awe ninebo fye neka newingabutuka……hahahahahaha
tawakanjishibe
May 26, 2014 at 6:43 am
boko haram
seka uponoke
May 26, 2014 at 6:45 am
Chishala! Nishi naka kunuma walilya?mwati
Akacuni
May 26, 2014 at 6:54 am
hahaha bagelo pali sex nabapena katwishi nganifi ama herble doctors bafulile ,nefikuulwa basangwamo,eco amalwe tayalepwila.mailo ku eagle motel kwali abanakashi babili abafwele ifyansoni nomba teti ubebemo,kabili ama human rites yalisa
Ichi Muzompinki!!!!!!
May 26, 2014 at 7:23 am
Catherine, 24, of house number 1653 in the same township, Ndeisa naine wine!!!!!!!!!!!!!
kakolwe
May 26, 2014 at 7:26 am
@stretchable, believe me dear, they have tried & failed lamentably. Every time a lady throws herself at me, I feel that she is trying to smear another man’s pregnancy, trying to infect me with akaswende or HIV or after my money. Ninshi na interest yapwa. But akakuifwaila, kukwika & I make sure she comes back for more.
kakolwe
May 26, 2014 at 7:35 am
@stretchable sweetpotato, its a matter of principle my love. Three THINGS, I have VOWED, will NEVER eat of my money as long as I live. These are Cigerates, Alcohol & Prostitutes. So any fully loaded woman throwing herself at me qualifies as a prostitute ninshi naumfwa amafi instead of sex.
chile1
May 26, 2014 at 8:21 am
mmmmmm ubuchende bumo?awe kwena
Dyonko
May 26, 2014 at 8:31 am
The wife of the guilty man should sue Catherine as well. Let her also learn a lesson for her sins. Women wake up, in case it was a fundraising venture, sue the woman stealing from your husband. Ati, “I want to reconcile with my wife”, as if it was a planned move. If the woman insisted on condom use then it was a planned move. Watch out men and women! I have told you.
Bana Fimo Fimo
May 26, 2014 at 9:45 am
Ndeloleshafye.I am not surprised at all.Married ladies of our nowadays are chasing for extra marital affairs.I feel so ashamed.Let this man file for divorce.Let him not use children to say taba ka kule bwino without their momm.Thats long gone!Fyabupa ifyo.